Do you avoid difficult conversations? There is no need to avoid them if you focus on the constructive possibilities. Start by asking yourself these 9 critical questions.
29. yes, difficult conversations can
involve bloody bits of gladiation
conflict and
confrontation
don’t have to
be ugly
30. or it can can be a form of
Or they be ritualized playfighting just like
in thefighting
play animal kingdom
just like in the
animal kingdom
31. difficult conversations
Or it can be ritualized playfighting just like
are both inevitable and
in the animal kingdom
temporary
32. Or it can be ritualized playfighting just like
in the animal kingdom
they can provide an
energizing creative force,
and no one has to feel
vanquished
33. conflict
happens
as a natural
part of life
drama may
ensue and it
may be harsh
difficult
conversations we can negotiate
through the
drama and move
on
we can learn
something
34. true dialogue requires negotiation
conflict and
confrontation
don’t have to
be ugly
not gladiation
35. so, go ahead. dive in. even if you are
dangerously close to the edge.
36. keep in mind:
opposing views
are nothing more than
dots of information
that need to be
connected
37. if you want to
connect the dots
creatively
ask yourself 9
critical questions
98. #9
do i have the courage to
match my actions to my
words?
99. “any momentary triumph
you think you have gained
through argument is really
a pyrrhic victory.
“the resentment and ill-will
you stir up is stronger and
lasts longer than any
demonstrate, momentary change of
opinion.
don’t explicate “it is much more powerful
to get people to agree
through your actions,
without saying a word.”
law 9, the 48 laws of
power
robert greene
100. conflict and
confrontation
don’t have to
stop.the.madness.
be ugly
101. asking the
critical questions
is just the
beginning
managing
conflict and
confrontation
is a process
next steps
strive for mastery
through
continuous
negotiation
experience
brings insight
and refinement
102. smooth seas do not
make skillful sailors
~ african proverb