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The Davinci Life Script:
The Gift and Curse of Attention Deficit
Hyperactivity Disorder
Cheryl Leong, MA, LMFT #52417, ADHD #314.00
THE GIFT-DISORDER OF ATTENTION
DEFICIT?
 A paradoxical diagnosis that is a gift at its best
and a disorder at its worst.
 Doctors, researchers, psychologists, therapists
& counsellors have not come up with a reliable
and consistent way to diagnose, treat or support
the diagnose.
 Current diagnostic criteria for the DSM is vague.
 Professionals vastly defer in opinion around
this diagnosis.
 Not enough literature around how to make a
differential diagnosis.
DAVINCI….
 Attempted countless paintings- completed only 25.
 he was an inventor, scientist, carpenter—— so
much more
 his ideas were endless!
 today- we would say he has ADHD.
 Thomas edison was always in trouble at school, day
dreaming and being talkative, impulsive….
 There are incredible research that find a co-
relationship between creativity and ADHD.
3
“COINCIDENCE OF CREATIVITY & ADHD”
 Shaw, G.A. (1992). Hyperactivity and creativity: The
tacit dimension. Bulletin of the Psychonomic
Society, 30, 152-160.
4
LIMITATIONS OF THE DSM DIAGNOSIS
 Gives an incomplete picture of this neurological type.
 Pathologizes a learning and personality difference.
 Limited understanding of the disorder in adults.
 Does not distinguish genetic/environmental factors that
affect attention span.
 Does not consider other traits of the ADD personality that
go beyond mere “attention” difficulties.
ADHD GIFT IGNORED
 Hyperfocus is an intense form of mental
concentration or visualization that focuses
consciousness on a narrow subject, separate
from objective reality and onto subjective mental
planes, daydreams, concepts, fiction, the
imagination and other objects of the mind. It is a
state that may occur during hypnosis, especially
at theta rhythm brainwave levels
- (wikipedia)
Hartmann, Thom:
-A.D.D.: A Different Perception.
-The Edison Gene
FLIP SIDE OF BEING HYPER-FOCUSED
:OBSESSIVE/ADDICTIVE TRAITS
 Video game addiction
 Intrusive obsessive thoughts
 Process addictions
 Compulsive behaviours
DIFFERENTIAL DIAGNOSIS/
CO-OCURING DISORDERS
•Examples:
•Mood Disorders
•Anxiety Disorders- e.g. OCD
•Sensory Disorders
•Anxiety Disorders
•Personality Traits/Disorders
•Post Trauma Symptoms
•Sleep Disorder
•Substance abuse/dependence
•Process addictions
40, 000 YEARS AGO….
The story of the (7R) & (2R) allele of the human
dopamine receptor D4 (DRD4) gene
• ADHD GENETICS ARE CALLED THE ‘NOVELTY
SEEKING GENE’ THAT EMERGED ONLY 40, 000
YEARS AGO..
SCIENTISTS BELIEVE THAT THIS GENE ENABLED HUMAN
BEINGS TO SURVIVE THE ICE AGE.
THIS GENE ALLOWED FOR ADVENTUROUS TYPES, DAY
DREAMERS, ONES WITH IMAGINATION AND INTUITION,
CREATIVITY TO EXPLORE NEW LANDS TO SURVIVE
THE ICE AGE
HUMAN BEINGS AS A RESULT SURVIVED BY LEAVING
AFRICA.
PAPUA NEW GUINEA HAS THE HIGHEST
CONCENTRATION OF THIS GENETICS- IT IS THE
FURTHEST FROM AFRICA.
THATS THE STORY OF THE DAVINCI ANCESTRY.
10
OUT-OF-AFRICA MIGRATION SELECTED
NOVELTY-SEEKING GENES
 Richard P. Ebstein, Ben-Gurion University in Beersheva (1996)
 http://www.nytimes.com/1996/01/02/science/variant-gene-tied-to-a-love-of-new-
thrills.html?src=pm
 Chen Chuan Sheng, UC Irvine (2001)
 “Evidence of positive selection acting at the human dopamine receptor D4 gene
locus’
 Luke Mathews, Harvard University (2011)
 http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/gnxp/2011/05/how-the-fierce-people-came-
to-be/
BRAIN WAVES
ERIC BERNE’S
PSYCHO-BIOLOGICAL HUNGERS-
 Stimulation: 5 senses
 Time Structure: Calendar marking,
 Incident: news, the latest gossip
 Recognition: sense of identity, belonging
 Contact: touch
 Sexual: sexual needs
13
DAVINCIS ARE THAT MUCH MORE HUNGRY.
 Low dopamine leaves the brain feeling a hunger for
stimulation.
 What early decisions were made when these
hungers were unmet/met? Were these decisions
pre-verbal/verbal?
 How are these Parent introjects like?
 How did the child make sense of his/her being?
14
3rd Degree impasse
Dream & Disappear
Crash and burn
Take drugs to be me
Take drugs to not be me
Death/Imprisonment
P0
A0
C0
Literature/research- parents report
difficulty soothing/ feeding challenges
as well as lack of responses to touch
contact during infancy.
Don’t be hungry
Don’t feel
Don’t be
Don’t exists
Don’t need
I want milk
I feel …
I’m here!
I need you
A2
P2
C2
P1
C1
A1
Don’t be
Don’t Feel
Don’t Be
Don’t Make It
Don’t Belong
I want to be
I want to Feel
I want to to make it
I want to belong
2nd degree impasse
1st Degree Impasse
P2
Follow the rules
Have Patience
Pay attention
Settle down
Behave
Stay out of trouble
I’m bored
I want to do
what I want
I don't care
I want what I
want
A2
C2
EGO-STATE PORTRAIT
Neurology
Low executive functioning
(Adult/Parent)
Low Dopamine levels
A
P
C
Time management,
planning
communicating ideas
in an organized way,
organizational skills
Authority Figures,
Romantic
Partners, Friends,
Helpful
(Or Rescuing)
strangers
Aside from neurological pre-dispositions,
ongoing relational patterns contribute to Adult/Parent Exclusions
Symbiotic Relationships
GIFT AND CURSE
 Hyper-Activity
 Impulsivity
 Obsessive/addictive/inat
tentive
 Bad with details
 Overly Detailed
 Distracted
 Conduct Issues
 Enthusiasm
 Risk-takers/courage
 Hyper-focused
 Big-picture/visionaries
 Imaginative, integrating
various ideas into novel
concepts/stories.
Creativity
Challenges Advantages
CHALLENGING WAYS OF GETTING
HUNGER NEEDS MET
Low Dopamine
Dopamine
Seeking -ve
Strokes
Anticipation of
Consequence
External
Consequences
Guilt, shame,
anger, sadness
RACKETEERING
SOME PROPOSED INTERVENTIONS
 Permission to get hunger needs met in authentic
ways.
 Permit the A1 (LP) to be the creative explorer or
experimenter
 Offering the experience of a nurturing and firm
Parent ego state
 Offering Adult decontamination.
 Re-parenting for deeper impasses
 Holding counter-transference material as clinical
information to facilitate script change.
 A SENSE OF PLAY… SERIOUS PLAY.
22
EARLY CHALLENGING DECISIONS
 WORLD- regular, ordinary world of structure, rules
and boring predictability (You’re Not OK).
 I- different, trouble maker, out of place, a burden,
careless, impulsive, rule breaker, social misfit, black
sheep of the family (I’m Not OK) .
23
EARLY WINNING DECISIONS
 WORLD- appreciates and is accepting of my unique
and special qualities (You’re OK).
 I- am an imaginative wonderer, different, creative,
brave, risk taker, seeker of the extraordinary/novelty
(I’m OK).
24
The Integrated Davinci
(Winner Script)
Thrive, be you, survive, compromise.
If I want to thrive/survive then
this makes sense
I want to survive, I want to be.
LP NC
GAMES THERAPISTS PLAY WITH DAVINCIS
 Con (client is helpless/scattered Victim) + Gimmick
(therapist takes over/Rescues -> Switch -> X Client
feels ‘controlled’ and Persecutes therapist, Therapist
feels like an unappreciated/helpless Victim =>
Payoffs / Racket feelings
 Early decisions are reinforced.
26
(EDUCATORS) FACILITATING
HEALTHY TRANSFORMATIONS
 Affirm/attend to interests, ideas and creativity.
 Improve relationship life through authenticity
training.
 Reinforce natural sensation/thrill seeking/creative
obsessions while discouraging addictive behaviours.
 Affirm students when they seek novelty through
healthy means.
 Manage parents expectations, e.g. getting their child
to stay still for long hours
 Affirm imagination and day dreaming after school
work is done.
ADHD COACHES
 Increase study skills based on their specific learning
style
 Increase organizational skills, time management
 Grounding/mindfulness techniques to increase
attention span.
 Increase their relationship & communication skills-
listening, keeping to commitments.
 Behavioral treatment for oppositional behaviors
 Systemic work with parents and teachers to work on
firm and consistent boundaries
 Couples therapy/professional coaching for adult
ADHD
VIDEO: ADHD MEDICATION

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Davinci Life Script

  • 1. The Davinci Life Script: The Gift and Curse of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Cheryl Leong, MA, LMFT #52417, ADHD #314.00
  • 2. THE GIFT-DISORDER OF ATTENTION DEFICIT?  A paradoxical diagnosis that is a gift at its best and a disorder at its worst.  Doctors, researchers, psychologists, therapists & counsellors have not come up with a reliable and consistent way to diagnose, treat or support the diagnose.  Current diagnostic criteria for the DSM is vague.  Professionals vastly defer in opinion around this diagnosis.  Not enough literature around how to make a differential diagnosis.
  • 3. DAVINCI….  Attempted countless paintings- completed only 25.  he was an inventor, scientist, carpenter—— so much more  his ideas were endless!  today- we would say he has ADHD.  Thomas edison was always in trouble at school, day dreaming and being talkative, impulsive….  There are incredible research that find a co- relationship between creativity and ADHD. 3
  • 4. “COINCIDENCE OF CREATIVITY & ADHD”  Shaw, G.A. (1992). Hyperactivity and creativity: The tacit dimension. Bulletin of the Psychonomic Society, 30, 152-160. 4
  • 5. LIMITATIONS OF THE DSM DIAGNOSIS  Gives an incomplete picture of this neurological type.  Pathologizes a learning and personality difference.  Limited understanding of the disorder in adults.  Does not distinguish genetic/environmental factors that affect attention span.  Does not consider other traits of the ADD personality that go beyond mere “attention” difficulties.
  • 6. ADHD GIFT IGNORED  Hyperfocus is an intense form of mental concentration or visualization that focuses consciousness on a narrow subject, separate from objective reality and onto subjective mental planes, daydreams, concepts, fiction, the imagination and other objects of the mind. It is a state that may occur during hypnosis, especially at theta rhythm brainwave levels - (wikipedia) Hartmann, Thom: -A.D.D.: A Different Perception. -The Edison Gene
  • 7. FLIP SIDE OF BEING HYPER-FOCUSED :OBSESSIVE/ADDICTIVE TRAITS  Video game addiction  Intrusive obsessive thoughts  Process addictions  Compulsive behaviours
  • 8. DIFFERENTIAL DIAGNOSIS/ CO-OCURING DISORDERS •Examples: •Mood Disorders •Anxiety Disorders- e.g. OCD •Sensory Disorders •Anxiety Disorders •Personality Traits/Disorders •Post Trauma Symptoms •Sleep Disorder •Substance abuse/dependence •Process addictions
  • 9. 40, 000 YEARS AGO…. The story of the (7R) & (2R) allele of the human dopamine receptor D4 (DRD4) gene
  • 10. • ADHD GENETICS ARE CALLED THE ‘NOVELTY SEEKING GENE’ THAT EMERGED ONLY 40, 000 YEARS AGO.. SCIENTISTS BELIEVE THAT THIS GENE ENABLED HUMAN BEINGS TO SURVIVE THE ICE AGE. THIS GENE ALLOWED FOR ADVENTUROUS TYPES, DAY DREAMERS, ONES WITH IMAGINATION AND INTUITION, CREATIVITY TO EXPLORE NEW LANDS TO SURVIVE THE ICE AGE HUMAN BEINGS AS A RESULT SURVIVED BY LEAVING AFRICA. PAPUA NEW GUINEA HAS THE HIGHEST CONCENTRATION OF THIS GENETICS- IT IS THE FURTHEST FROM AFRICA. THATS THE STORY OF THE DAVINCI ANCESTRY. 10
  • 11. OUT-OF-AFRICA MIGRATION SELECTED NOVELTY-SEEKING GENES  Richard P. Ebstein, Ben-Gurion University in Beersheva (1996)  http://www.nytimes.com/1996/01/02/science/variant-gene-tied-to-a-love-of-new- thrills.html?src=pm  Chen Chuan Sheng, UC Irvine (2001)  “Evidence of positive selection acting at the human dopamine receptor D4 gene locus’  Luke Mathews, Harvard University (2011)  http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/gnxp/2011/05/how-the-fierce-people-came- to-be/
  • 13. ERIC BERNE’S PSYCHO-BIOLOGICAL HUNGERS-  Stimulation: 5 senses  Time Structure: Calendar marking,  Incident: news, the latest gossip  Recognition: sense of identity, belonging  Contact: touch  Sexual: sexual needs 13
  • 14. DAVINCIS ARE THAT MUCH MORE HUNGRY.  Low dopamine leaves the brain feeling a hunger for stimulation.  What early decisions were made when these hungers were unmet/met? Were these decisions pre-verbal/verbal?  How are these Parent introjects like?  How did the child make sense of his/her being? 14
  • 15. 3rd Degree impasse Dream & Disappear Crash and burn Take drugs to be me Take drugs to not be me Death/Imprisonment P0 A0 C0 Literature/research- parents report difficulty soothing/ feeding challenges as well as lack of responses to touch contact during infancy. Don’t be hungry Don’t feel Don’t be Don’t exists Don’t need I want milk I feel … I’m here! I need you
  • 16. A2 P2 C2 P1 C1 A1 Don’t be Don’t Feel Don’t Be Don’t Make It Don’t Belong I want to be I want to Feel I want to to make it I want to belong 2nd degree impasse
  • 17. 1st Degree Impasse P2 Follow the rules Have Patience Pay attention Settle down Behave Stay out of trouble I’m bored I want to do what I want I don't care I want what I want A2 C2
  • 18. EGO-STATE PORTRAIT Neurology Low executive functioning (Adult/Parent) Low Dopamine levels A P C Time management, planning communicating ideas in an organized way, organizational skills
  • 19. Authority Figures, Romantic Partners, Friends, Helpful (Or Rescuing) strangers Aside from neurological pre-dispositions, ongoing relational patterns contribute to Adult/Parent Exclusions Symbiotic Relationships
  • 20. GIFT AND CURSE  Hyper-Activity  Impulsivity  Obsessive/addictive/inat tentive  Bad with details  Overly Detailed  Distracted  Conduct Issues  Enthusiasm  Risk-takers/courage  Hyper-focused  Big-picture/visionaries  Imaginative, integrating various ideas into novel concepts/stories. Creativity Challenges Advantages
  • 21. CHALLENGING WAYS OF GETTING HUNGER NEEDS MET Low Dopamine Dopamine Seeking -ve Strokes Anticipation of Consequence External Consequences Guilt, shame, anger, sadness RACKETEERING
  • 22. SOME PROPOSED INTERVENTIONS  Permission to get hunger needs met in authentic ways.  Permit the A1 (LP) to be the creative explorer or experimenter  Offering the experience of a nurturing and firm Parent ego state  Offering Adult decontamination.  Re-parenting for deeper impasses  Holding counter-transference material as clinical information to facilitate script change.  A SENSE OF PLAY… SERIOUS PLAY. 22
  • 23. EARLY CHALLENGING DECISIONS  WORLD- regular, ordinary world of structure, rules and boring predictability (You’re Not OK).  I- different, trouble maker, out of place, a burden, careless, impulsive, rule breaker, social misfit, black sheep of the family (I’m Not OK) . 23
  • 24. EARLY WINNING DECISIONS  WORLD- appreciates and is accepting of my unique and special qualities (You’re OK).  I- am an imaginative wonderer, different, creative, brave, risk taker, seeker of the extraordinary/novelty (I’m OK). 24
  • 25. The Integrated Davinci (Winner Script) Thrive, be you, survive, compromise. If I want to thrive/survive then this makes sense I want to survive, I want to be. LP NC
  • 26. GAMES THERAPISTS PLAY WITH DAVINCIS  Con (client is helpless/scattered Victim) + Gimmick (therapist takes over/Rescues -> Switch -> X Client feels ‘controlled’ and Persecutes therapist, Therapist feels like an unappreciated/helpless Victim => Payoffs / Racket feelings  Early decisions are reinforced. 26
  • 27. (EDUCATORS) FACILITATING HEALTHY TRANSFORMATIONS  Affirm/attend to interests, ideas and creativity.  Improve relationship life through authenticity training.  Reinforce natural sensation/thrill seeking/creative obsessions while discouraging addictive behaviours.  Affirm students when they seek novelty through healthy means.  Manage parents expectations, e.g. getting their child to stay still for long hours  Affirm imagination and day dreaming after school work is done.
  • 28. ADHD COACHES  Increase study skills based on their specific learning style  Increase organizational skills, time management  Grounding/mindfulness techniques to increase attention span.  Increase their relationship & communication skills- listening, keeping to commitments.  Behavioral treatment for oppositional behaviors  Systemic work with parents and teachers to work on firm and consistent boundaries  Couples therapy/professional coaching for adult ADHD