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1. Based on a video presented by
T Dub Jackson
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2. TABLE OF CONTENTS
The Magic Traffic Signal …. 3
Masculine Hero Avatar Principle …. 13
The Girl Gets Ring System – What’s Inside …. 19
Frequently Asked Questions …. 25
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3. THE MAGIC TRAFFIC SIGNAL
Hey, hey, hey. I’m T Dub and what we’re looking at together is a magic traffic signal.
Why is it a magic traffic signal? Well, in a few minutes, you will find out how this magic
traffic signal can win virtually any man’s total devotion and not only just commitment but
enthusiastic commitment to you and your future together, whether you’re still looking for
Mr. Right or maybe you found Mr. Right but he’s kicking and screaming along the path
to becoming Mr. and Mrs. Right.
We’re going to talk about the shortest path to a man’s heart and the fastest way to get
him to pop the question without manipulation and definitely without ever having to be
pushy or sacrifice your sense of identity trying to be somebody you’re not just in order to
please him. Read this ebook until the end and you will discover the three supposedly
good pieces of advice you absolutely must avoid to go from “Hello” to “I do” even when
he says confusing stuff like, “I’m not ready.”
Just a wee bit of fair warning, I don’t know how long this ebook will be online because
I’m giving away so much free and hard to find relationship-saving information.
So read this now while it’s still online and it’s still free. Now I know what you may be
thinking. You may think, “T Dub, I’ve seen it and heard it all when it comes to advice on
men and how they think.” Yes, I can guarantee you that you’ve never understood or
seen inside a man as deeply or clearly as you’re about to as I share these little known
secrets about men with you.
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4. This is entirely different. It’s nothing like the popular books on men you may have seen
or even tried. So I will bet you dollars to donuts you will be shocked by what I reveal to
you today and please remember, what I’m sharing will finally allow you to start planning
your life and your family without having to push him when he says things like, “Honey, I
love you but I’m not ready.” And you will get some of my best insights and secrets to
make sure you get a sparkling ring on your finger so you can go out and proudly show it
off to all of your family and friends.
First, I need to tell you a story. It’s a story that’s hard for me to tell because I get choked
up yet it’s one I think you absolutely need to hear because it will reveal more about how
you can avoid wasting years of your life by being able to accurately read what’s going
on in a man’s mind more than anything else that I know. We got a deal?
Now I wasn’t always a relationship expert appearing on radio, thousands of websites
and blogs, helping 65,000 plus people in over 77 countries with their toughest
relationship troubles and I certainly never imagined I would be a best selling author on
the top of fixing a relationship after someone had called it quits like I am today.
In fact, far from it. I remember the day when I decided enough was enough and I’m
going to share the story with you now even though it’s really embarrassing for me to tell.
You need to know just how deep in the rabbit hole I went before I discovered the stuff
I’m going to share with you today, the strategy that allows me to live this amazing life
that I live right now and help so many others find and keep love in their life.
I remember the day so clearly. I remember I drove up the I-5 North from San Diego. It
was a sunny Sunday afternoon in October and I remember the sunshine because it was
the exact opposite of how I was feeling. In a few moments, I was going to absolutely
devastate the woman I loved.
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5. I remember the warm, prickly rays of sun dancing on my arm while inside my soul cried
over what I felt I absolutely had to do. Five miles to go before I reach my girlfriend’s exit.
Heart-Shaped Box by Nirvana starts playing on the radio. “Oh, geez,” I think. Why this
song? The steel knife in my windpipe twists as Kurt sings the first line. I had to change
stations. I can’t take it.
I fiddle back and forth with the knob. It doesn’t matter what’s playing. Music that day
stung like a spritz of antiseptic on a freshly opened cut. I punched the power button.
Turned the radio off. For the first time in years, I’ve driven without the radio.
Now all I hear is my own breathing, the whoosh-whoosh sound of blood pulsing in my
ears. Two miles to go. My heart pounds faster. How hard will she take it? She will want
to know why. Why? Here’s her exit.
Palms sweaty, my hands slip a little bit as I turn off the freeway. The traffic light is red.
There’s a relief for a few more seconds of peace before the storm. As the light turns
green and I proceed, I can see my girlfriend’s tan six-story apartment building. It was
less than half a block now. I can’t turn back now. I cannot turn back now. I’ve been
unfair to her and unfair to me for far too long already.
I pull in. I park and I sit there with the engine off. It’s deadly silent. If digital clocks could
make noise, I would hear a tick. 2:37 PM, I remember that time exactly because I sat
there for so long, starting at those glowing green numbers. They felt etched into my
eyes and head.
As I open the car door to get out, I go numb. Not the pass out numb. It’s a familiar numb
that I feel when I have to do something really hard or when an emergency strikes. I shut
the door and start walking to the elevator.
I’m moving on autopilot now. I sense everything, every small detail, but I move almost
as if I’m being controlled like a puppet on a string. I nudge the button for the elevator.
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6. Swish! As the doors glide open, the smell of a spicy Chinese take-out invades my nose.
I suppose that someone just ordered lunch.
I push the button for the fifth floor as I had hundreds of times before. This time was
massively different though. As I’m running over my mind what I’m going to say and do
one last time, ding goes the bell. I’m here.
I walk over to her door. I’ve got the keys and I usually let myself in but given what’s
going to happen, it doesn’t feel like the right thing to do today. My knuckles make a rap,
rap, rap as they hit the solid wood door. My numbness clears like a morning fog and I
can again feel that cold steel blade of anguish just twist in my throat again.
She opens and then it happened and then I did it. After almost four years of being with
Jessica, after four years of her patiently waiting on me to be ready to go to the next level
in our relationship, I end it. As embarrassing as it is for me to tell you how I let down a
woman who waited on me for four years, it gets worse.
You see about two weeks before I broke up with Jessica, I made the decision to move
from San Diego to Arkansas to be with my family. I had stayed in San Diego after I got
out of the navy but all of my family lived down south. As I was ending it with Jessica, my
bags were already packed to leave. I was set to start driving the very next day.
I started the break-up by telling Jessica I had made a decision to move to Arkansas.
That was a bad move. She thought at first I was asking her to come with me, which
made it even harder when I said, “No, Jess. I’m sorry. I’m breaking up with you.”
Her pace puckered like I had punched her in the stomach with a billy club. It was very
sad. It was sad for Jess. It was sad for me. Even Jessica’s black kitty Penny seemed
upset, almost like she knew what was going on.
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7. And I did cry when I said good bye to Jessica and I remember my tears wetting Penny’s
black fur as I bent over and scratched her under the chin. This would be the last time.
After I left Jessica’s apartment, I remember feeling so disappointed and totally ashamed
with myself. I was angry at how I let it end this way and how I handled it all the last few
years. I was really confused too. I was confused because I could never explain to
myself, let alone Jessica why I could love her but not want to marry her. How could I
love her so much and not want to marry her? I mean isn’t love supposed to be enough?
What was wrong with me? I felt so low. Yet, you know what? That one day caused my
entire life to change. It was that day that I made a vow. I vowed that no matter what it
took, I was going to figure out how my own heart worked. What was holding me back
from making a full commitment to love, to intimacy and to marriage? I promised I would
stop at nothing to figure out why I could feel real love and still not be ready.
I would read every book. If I had to, I would interview and talk with hundreds of men,
men who were having the same experience. I would interview happily married men who
found joy and commitment. I knew I would never find long lasting happiness if I didn’t
keep my vow.
I was going to become a man capable of a fully-committed relationship and marriage or
is going to die trying. The good news for you is this. Not only did I figure out what was
stopping me from becoming fully committed, what I call mental road blocks, I discovered
almost all men have these same mental road blocks. These blocks stop them from
moving relationships to the next level regardless of how much attraction or how much
love they feel.
Now some men have more mental road blocks than others but I’ve never met a man
that didn’t have at least some. What you may find really exciting is once a woman
understands a man’s mental road blocks, removing them is easy once you know what to
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8. look for. Sadly though, most women will never figure this out. I’m going to share my
discovery with you in just a moment so keep watching.
So, as you can clearly see, I’m not some super brainy wiz kid PhD. I’m really a lot like
you. I’m just an average person who just happened to go through hell and because of
my experience and through all of that pain, I discovered a blueprint, a system that finally
allows women from all walks of life to turn the tables and enable their men to want to
fully commit to the relationship and pursue the next level of intimacy all on their own,
without manipulation, being pushy or playing hard to get.
That’s whether your next level is getting him to notice you and ask you out, seeking
more after your first few dates or desiring to be in an exclusive relationship with you, to
him taking you by surprise one evening, dropping on one knee and proposing.
Now I’ve taught my secrets to women in over 77 countries and moved thousands of
relationships to the next level and in many cases, even after the guy had bailed out of
the relationship. Now obviously this new way of approaching your relationship with men
where you get to enjoy him taking initiative and moving to the next level of intimacy
changes lives. And I will cover all the specifics and details in just a few minutes with you
so keep watching.
First, you absolutely must be told the truth. You have to know the real problem, the real
reason you’re struggling with finding the intimacy you deserve today and it will surprise
you because it’s the one thing that has been holding you back from experiencing the
intimacy, support and the joy of a fully-committed relationship and the reason why so
many women feel they invest way more than they receive in a relationship.
You see, the real problem is the fact that you’ve been taught myths and programmed to
believe lies for years and these myths and lies are keeping you from the relationship
that you deserve. One of these lies is enough love is the only requirement to sustain a
relationship. If he loves you, he should be ready to move to the next level and if he’s not
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9. ready, he’s just not “that into you” they say. He doesn’t truly love you enough or he’s
commitment-phobic. I bet you’ve heard that one before.
What’s more damaging about this is after a woman is with so many commitment-phobic
men, she starts to feel like something is wrong with her. I bet you’ve heard or maybe
even believed this at one point in your life yet this is not even close to the truth. If you’re
one of the millions of women who fell victim to this lie, then you must decide now to
believe the truth instead because if you don’t, you will continue down the road of
unfulfilling relationships, stuck in what I call a BTA relationship. That’s a “better than
alone” relationship.
You will always be worrying that if you get too close, he will start pulling away and
eventually, no matter how strong you are, you simply give up on the dream of a close
relationship. You give up on the dream of marriage and a complete family sounds like
some kind of fantasy or you end up clinging to pseudo love and intimacy which end
badly, painfully and hurt a lot of children.
Listen, this is not what I want for you and I know it’s not what you desire for yourself and
this is the reason that you’re going to struggle to find lasting love but I want you to know
something. It’s not your fault. If you really want someone to blame for your struggles
with relationships, don’t blame yourself. Blame the tabloids and the media, reality
television, women’s magazines.
And you know what? Even songs we hear play over and over again. They’re
programming us to believe these lies and myths. You’ve been bombarded for years
almost as long as you’ve been alive with false, misleading and damaging myths and
misinformation and they depend on your confusion and they play on your insecurities to
sell magazines, keep you watching and in short, just to make a buck.
All the misinformation out there that the media loves to exploit is enough to confuse
absolutely anyone. All the proof you need is to remember back to the last time you
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10. waited at the checkout line either at Walmart or your local grocery store. Do you ever
read over those women’s magazines?
Now I don’t want to mention any names but one of the most popular almost always
pictures a celebrity with that perfect body, which we know is airbrushed or digitally-
enhanced, right? Then on the top left of that magazine, usually there’s a sex tip like
Eleven Naughty Sex Tips or 50 Sex Moves Men Crave or the Are You Good In Bed?
quiz. Next you spot the Lose Seven Pounds in Seven Days headline or How to Get a
Great Butt and Thighs.
And then you will get to the men with titles like The Surprising Traits 97 Percent of Men
Find Attractive or How to Touch Him When He’s Naked. Now, do you feel and sense the
same underlying message that I am? That according to these women’s magazines, if
you’re just hot enough, good enough in bed and able to outsmart or outgain your man,
he will love you so much, he won’t ever think of leaving you. Really?
Don’t those qualities seem very surface level to you? I mean a man who only wants a
super hot, good in bed manipulator can find those qualities in a call girl. They don’t
make any man love you or want to commit to a relationship on a deeper level and then
when a woman does find a man to love and appreciate her on a deeper level, movies,
TV and songs program her to believe that love is all you need to keep the relationship
moving forward. All You Need is Love by The Beatles. Love Will Keep Us Together by
Captain and Tennille. OK, I’m probably dating myself a little bit there.
And reality TV shows where couples are supposed to meet, marry and live happily ever
after based on a chemical connection and a few roses. Now, before you start thinking,
“Darn T Dub, you don’t like women’s magazines, The Beatles or reality TV?” No, I love
music. I love The Beatles and I watch my favorite show of reality TV. I’m just saying, as
you’re beginning to see, and about to really discover, believing these myths and lies is
what is holding you back from finding lasting love that you can count on.
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11. The truth is a man does need to feel love for you but he also needs something else to
happen before he truly wants to make you his wife or move on to any kind of more
meaningful level in your relationship. So why don’t we talk about that something else
which must happen before the man becomes self-motivated to move the relationship
forward all on his own.
First, understand – and you may already suspect this but a man does not process his
feelings the same way a woman does. He has feelings, incredibly strong feelings, but
for almost all men, he doesn’t know exactly what his feelings mean or what they’re
trying to tell him. He rarely can discuss them coherently.
If you want to see a man squirm, ask him, “Why do you love me?” Now I’m just kidding.
Don’t really do that. I’m just trying to make a point here. This is really important though.
A man feels his feelings in his gut and in his heart. Love, caring, attraction register in his
heart and at the same time, he gets signals from his gut. So he has got the heart thing
going on but he has got the gut thing going on at the same time.
These signals are more often than not obeyed over what he may be feeling in his heart.
I want to pause here for a second. This is super important. Remember, he’s not
processing his feelings or acting on them the same way that you do. He just gets this
general feeling and he makes his decisions based on these signals. Please pay super
close attention because if you get this, you will understand more about men than you
ever have before and more than most women will ever know.
Remember our magic traffic signal at the start of our presentation? This traffic signal
powerfully represents how a man decides to move forward in a relationship. He feels in
three broad strokes. Good and positive is a green light and that whenever he feels
green, he feels compelled to move forward, compelled to move forward. You know he’s
green when he moves your relationship forward, all on his own. He will do things like
ask for a second date. He wants to meet your family or he wants you to meet his family.
He asks how you feel about kids. In short, he pursues you.
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12. Now the yellow light, the yellow feeling is a caution feeling and it tells him to slow down.
Something might be wrong. Now here are some signs he’s yellow. Your biggest clue is
he reaffirms his love for you but he says things really similar to, “I’m not ready.”
Now a man can also go red and when he’s red, that’s stop, and he feels not necessarily
no in his head but he feels that something is definitely wrong and here are some signs
he’s red. Your biggest clue is that in some way, he draws a line in the sand and he gets
defensive if he feels like it’s being crossed and he may say things like, “I am not
relationship material.”
Now I want you to remember red, yellow or green. The color of his signal has absolutely
nothing to do with how much he’s attracted to you or how much he loves you. Do you
have that? Have you got that? It’s completely separate. Yes, he does need attraction
and the love to move forward but if he’s not moving forward on his own, you can be sure
his signal is yellow or red. In fact I did this little diagram for you. You’ve got to have the
love plus the green light in order to get to the happy marriage or for him to move
forward.
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13. MASCULINE HERO AVATAR PRINCIPLE (MHAP)
Now, that you know the problem that your relationships with men have been held back
due to lies you’ve been told, dive into the specific tips I have for you today. I’m excited.
Are you? These are the same tips that countless thousands of women have used to
successfully achieve the loving and fully committed relationship that they desire and
deserve and the most important of these tips is my Masculine Hero Avatar Principle and
from now on, I will probably just say MHAP to keep it short. I will call it MHAP.
I will go into the specifics on MHAP in just a second. So by all means, keep watching
but first you absolutely need to know about the one trap you must avoid if you want to
gain a man’s total devotion to you. Actually this is going to surprise you because this is
a trap men set all on their own. I call it the Invisible Man Trap. Invisible because he
doesn’t set them deliberately and you can’t see them and if you fall to one of many of
his invisible man traps, his light will turn yellow and he will start to pull away from you.
We need to be aware that when a man first meets you, especially if he really likes you,
he wants to impress you so much so that he may paint himself in the best possible light
and it’s typical for a man to embellish the truth a bit. One prime example is how a man
may exaggerate or show off his financial success, fancy dinners, which he may not be
able to afford, lavish gifts and spending money like it ain’t no thing.
If you accept these things in a wrong way, soon his green light for you turns yellow
because he begins to process this in his gut. Not in his head but he processes this in his
gut as a warning that you may like him only for his financial success.
What the hell, right? I know. Yes, he sets his trap all on his own. So what do you do?
Just not accept anything? No, here’s all you need to do and you will immediately turn
his heart light green. By the way, I give a lot of credit to my wife for teaching me this.
She’s a master at making my heart light go green.
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14. If he takes you to a super fancy restaurant let’s say, it’s fine to tell him that you’re
pleased but make a big deal out of the fact that you would be happy at any restaurant
as long as you’re with him. If he’s buying you lots of gifts and especially if you sense
he’s stretching his budget, just let him know in a fun way that he has already got your
attention without all the gifts. After a couple of dates, offering to pay for dinner, a fun
excursion like a roller coaster ride will go a long way with him even if he doesn’t accept
your offer.
These invisible man traps aren’t all financial in nature. Just be hyper aware of when he
seems to be trying too hard to impress you and just let him know that just spending time
with him is satisfying to you.
Just doing this one tip will allow you to rapidly gain his total devotion because he’s able
to sense deep down that you’re really into the real him. Just picture it. You make this
one small change and without any weirdo manipulation tactics, you actually see him
light up and almost melt in front of your eyes as he realizes deep down that you’re into
the real him. Isn’t that an awesome thing to imagine, all from just one small tip?
Now how do you like to actually enjoy a feeling like you’re the prize without feeling like
you’re the one putting in all the effort into the relationship? Does that sound good? If
you take advantage of this next simple tip, you will and you will also make deep
connections to the man you’re with or the man you want to be with. All you need to do is
ask simple questions during conversations which allow him to reveal his true self to you.
For example, if this is a first date and he mentions that he’s a lawyer, do not ask
questions like where it seems as if you’re trying to size him up. You do not want to ask
him things like, “How long have you been a lawyer? Are you a partner? Are you on track
to be a partner?” Now while I’m being overly brash just to make my point, these surface
level type resume questions that say “I’m sizing you up” are a common mistake women
make without …
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15. They make them cringe inside the same way a question about your age or your weight
may make you recoil like a vampire touched by a crucifix. Now, taking the opposite
approach and just making small talk is also a mistake. Not only is the conversation dull
but you miss the opportunity for him to connect with you on a deep level which is
absolutely vital and crucial if he’s to see you as someone special.
So, he has casually mentioned he’s a lawyer. A great connection-building question
could be, “What is your favorite type of cases? Why? Can you tell me about one?” Now
watch how his eyes light up and his gestures become animated as his invisible traffic
signal turns green because even though he can’t explain it, something about you just
feels right. You feel special to him.
Now if you’re in a relationship already, this can be even more important. If he has had a
challenging day at work and he shares the details of the dilemma he faced with you, you
might answer with, “Wow, that sounds tough. What did you do?” And he shares how he
had to support an unpopular decision. You may want to follow up with, “How did you
find the courage to go against all the opposition?” Do you see how this allows him to
open up and reveal more of his true self?
When you ask questions and have conversations which allow him to reveal his true self,
he automatically will feel himself becoming intensely attracted to you and want to
pursue you. And you know what? He likely won’t even be able to explain why though
you will know why as soon as I explain the MHAP.
This is where it gets even better and here comes the really big, massive, crucial tip. I
want to give you a bit of a warning here. Without understanding this tip, you will be
forever lost trying to ever understand men. This is the tip that will allow you to
understand men’s weird behavior, why men lie, why men pull away, even when things
seem to be going so well and how to turn it all around so he wants to fully commit to you
and take your relationship to the next level without being pushy or issuing all kinds of
weird ultimatums.
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16. This is my patented Masculine Hero Avatar Principle and it’s used by virtually every
woman in a happy fully committed relationship or marriage whether they know it or not
and here’s how it works.
Every man has at least two predominant images of himself. He holds an image of how
he sees himself. He holds an image of how he believes others see him. In other words,
he holds an image of how he believes you see him. Are you with me so far? The image
he holds of himself and the image he feels he must project because of his upbringing
and social programming is called his Masculine Hero Avatar.
Each man’s MHA is different from another man’s but each has common core elements.
Imagine MHA as a super hero. By the way, knowing your man’s favorite super hero is
like being handed a looking glass into his MHA. For now, I just want you to picture the
proverbial knight in shining armor. The knight like most super heroes and your man has
a suit of armor or costume. Everything his suit of armor and his knighthood represents is
the image he wants to project. It’s rare and only with very special people will he remove
his armor and let someone see the real him and he never removes his armor all at
once.
He starts by dropping his shield. Then if he feels safe, he may remove his helmet and if
at any point he feels someone doesn’t approve of the real him or someone is more
interested in his castle or more interested in his position or what favors he can bestow,
the armor goes back on even though he may have just been trying to impress you with
the very thing just moments earlier.
In other words, your knight’s light just turned yellow. That’s MHAP number one. A man
wants to be loved for the real him. OK? This is a deep core need of a man. A man
wants to be loved for the real him.
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17. So let’s move on to MHAP number two. Every man feels deep down like he’s on an
important journey with something important to accomplish in his life. Remember, he only
feels this. This is – and a majority of men can’t verbalize what his important destiny is
supposed to be. So this is super important. I say important a lot. It’s really important. He
does sense and feel deeply if something or someone is going to help him on his journey
or weigh him down. Guess what happens when he senses someone is going to weigh
him down.
Did you guess yellow or red light? Right on. You’re already picking this up and it means
your relationship stalls out and he can’t truly explain why. You want to know how to turn
him green? This is actually the secret behind the saying, “Behind every great man is a
great woman.” A man will want to fully commit and be with a woman he feels will help
him on his journey.
A man will never leave the woman’s side who understands his destiny and journey
better than he does and if you’ve been paying attention to how men process feelings
and thoughts, you may start to realize that this isn’t very hard for a woman to do. Now
I’m not sure if you really understand just how powerful just those two MHAPs are. What
I’ve just taught you short circuits commitment phobia in virtually all healthy men.
You ever wonder why male super heroes never have a wife? I’m thinking of the Lone
Ranger, Superman, Spiderman, Batman, Iron Man. They’re all single, right? It’s
because comic book companies and Hollywood kind of play into this MHA for
entertainment purposes and it’s just more social programming, wiring men’s circuits to
believe a strong man does it all on his own and marriage may slow or weigh him down.
But now you know reality is deep down he longs for someone to love the real him and
help him discover his destiny.
Whoa! Let me catch a breath. That was a lot to cover and you may be feeling a bit
overwhelmed and confused and that’s OK because basically this means that you have
two choices on where you go from here.
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18. Choice one is you could take the information and try to go at it all alone and who knows.
You may see some success if you took some really careful notes or there’s choice two.
It’s the savvy choice. This is the quickest, easiest and smartest way to get the loving,
fully committed relationship you absolutely deserve.
Let me do the work for you. And you know what? I already have. Why start from scratch
and try to reinvent the darn wheel when I’ve laid out your exact step by step blueprint for
going from “Hello” to “I do” as fast as womanly possible.
These principles which have been tested for years, secrets and deep insights
responsible for countless thousands of women finally finding true and lasting love and
having that supportive, connected relationship at last without all the waiting around for
years and without having to resort to manipulation or being pushy.
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19. THE GIRL GETS RING SYSTEM: WHAT’S INSIDE
Here’s what the vast amount of our successful women choose. I’m TW Jackson. Please
call me T Dub and along with world renowned dating coaching Jonathan Green, we are
the creators of the Girl Gets Ring System. The Girl Gets Ring System is the first non-
pushy method ever created that allows you to stop wasting your precious time and gain
virtually any man’s total devotion and not just his commitment, his enthusiastic
commitment to you and your future together.
Now while I’m a happily married man who has helped thousands of couples stay
together, I obviously haven’t been active in the dating scene for 16 years and while
Jonathan is very active and has helped hundreds of couples find each other in today’s
dating scene, he hasn’t been a happily married man like I have been.
So by joining forces, you get the best of both worlds because we can expertly guide and
speed you through any and all stages of your relationship. This radically simple system
will work for you even if you have picked the wrong type of men in the past, trouble
keeping his interest. If you have kids or children, that’s no problem. If you’re with a guy
who keeps saying he’s not ready, we can help you there. If you have a few more
candles on your birthday cake, a super busy schedule, even if you cussed out the darn
needle on your scales a few times, we can help you.
Do you have ex-boyfriends who seem to marry their next girlfriend or a hard to land man
also known as the commitment-phobic fellow or if you think you’ve tried everything?
Now let me tell you what the Girl Gets Ring is not just so you know exactly what you’re
about to experience. This is not yet another play hard to get or the pushy ultimatum type
of plan. This is not some swallow this magic pill solution that promises something really
silly. You know, like he will be begging for your hand in marriage in five minutes or
something totally ridiculous like that. You’ve been lied to long enough. It’s time for a
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20. solution that works without all the gimmicks and this is definitely not a manipulative
approach that can harm your relationship long term.
Rather the Girl Gets Ring System is a result of over 18 years of study analyzing the
most successful long term relationship case studies ever as well as looking at the real
reasons behind relationship failures and creating a non-pushy solution to the age old
problem of women feeling like they put all the work into a relationship. And now starting
today, their success can be your success too.
The success patterns we’ve studied and success we’ve duplicated give you the freedom
to easily meet, attract and gain a man’s enthusiastic commitment to you and your future
together all while your relationship soars to new levels, your connection to each other
grows and you finally claim the love, relationship and life you absolutely deserve.
Now before we go any further, it’s only fair that I be absolutely 100 percent honest with
you. If you’re looking for that magic pill relationship answer or if you want just another
short trick like playing hard to get that seems to be a returning fad, or some other plan
that you already know will never ever work for you, then please go ahead and leave this
page now. This system is for women who are ready to put down the magazine and
tabloid type answers yet still want the most reliable way to achieve a lifetime
relationship success.
In short, there are no easy answers. Yet we’ve made this system as easy as it can get.
So if you’re wanting that real answer to a happy, fully committed relationship which is
moving quickly toward marriage, then here’s what you can expect. If you want to stop
wasting precious time, gain a man’s attention, attraction, total devotion and enthusiastic
commitment, put an end to the emotionally exhausting dating merry-go-round and get
the relationship you deserve without sacrificing your integrity or self-esteem, then the
Girl Gets Ring System isn’t just a system for you. It is the only system for you.
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21. So why don’t we take a look at what you’re going to get inside your copy of Girl Gets
Ring.
On page 10 and in your audio MP3, you will discover the foundations of the Masculine
Hero Avatar Principle. Now we kind of touched on two of those today, two really
important ones. There are actually four MHAPs and I’m going to cover them all in depth
in your audio MP3.
This includes the exact timing and strategy for how you use his own wiring to encourage
rapid attraction, devotion and his enthusiastic commitment. You will love how Girl Gets
Ring is laid out and walks you through relationship stages from your first hello to what to
do on your first date to becoming his girlfriend, to him proposing. All the while he’s
initiating the moves because he truly sees you as the most special woman he has ever
been with or will ever be with.
And if you’re already in a relationship which you feel have stalled, you will finally be able
to see exactly where it all went wrong and how you can turn it around now.
On page 28, you will discover a simple technique to see through facades and deep into
anyone’s character, allowing you to almost become a human lie detector. How much
grief will the ability to see through lies and deception save you?
Then on page 32, you will learn about three men repellants which cause most men to
run for cover, why your looks don’t matter nearly as much as you may think, what
Ghandi who changed the world can teach you about truly changing your man, the
secrets of reflexive attraction no man is wired to resist. You will find that on page 70.
What men today consider to be the new sexy. When should you sleep with him? Finally
you will discover the definitive answer in how to reverse any damage if you got it wrong.
Keeping it hot in the bedroom. Listen, I’ve been with my wife for 16 years. We ran out of
positions and acts years ago but I’ve never felt more passion for her.
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22. On page 77, I spilled my wife’s secret and once you know her secret, keeping a man
happy and faithful becomes worry-free.
The three words I told one woman to whisper in her husband’s ear to save her marriage
and yes, it worked. I put all that down for you on page 79. If you want his total devotion
and commitment, do not play hard to get. You will be like OMG when you finally
understand what’s on page 80 to 83.
Now deep down, men want intimacy and they want commitment. Page 92 shows you
how to draw it up to the surface, how to talk so he will really listen, how becoming his
MVP, his most valuable partner turns his heart light green and short circuits his fears of
commitment. That’s on pages 104 through 112. More on why men cheat and you will
love this, how to inoculate him from the whores, trollops and skanks. That’s on page
137.
Now as you’ve probably noticed by now, Girl Gets Ring is by far the easiest system to
follow as it allows him to enthusiastically pursue you, saving you years waiting for him to
be ready and allow you to have the supportive, intimate relationship you deserve. The
results come pretty fast too.
Unlike other plans where many women report wasting years plotting, pleading and
waiting, when you follow your Girl Gets Ring System, you can start seeing results in
days and that is pretty amazing considering you are seeing these results and
experiencing this transformation without resorting to cheap tricks and tactics like playing
hard to get.
Now you may believe that a system that can do so much for you would cost a pretty
penny and in all honesty, it really should. After all, the principles you’re getting in this
system has helped thousands of women just like you find a lifetime of lasting love and
happiness. I don’t know what could be more important.
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23. I want to share a few other unique benefits this one-of-a-kind system will deliver to you.
You will discover the three man traps you absolutely must avoid at all costs in order to
see the results that you desire. That’s covered in the audio MP3.
You will also discover some really fun ways to make getting to know him and
understand the real him an absolute blast and I’ve proven that dating, commitment and
getting engaged can and it should be enjoyable and I want to share those secrets with
you too. Plus I will be revealing exactly how to keep him happy which makes him want
to keep you happy for the rest of your lives.
I would also like to give you free of charge the following value-add bonuses to help you
get to that special moment when he proposes to you even faster.
So here’s your first free gift. It’s called The Seven Biggest Mistakes Women Make with
Online Dating. Listen, many women put a lot of thought into what pictures they post and
what they say in their profile and most of the time, it attracts the wrong type of men.
Here are the seven mistakes you must avoid or you will end up on date after date with
men who either aren’t interested or they end up treating you badly.
Then your second free gift is called The Clean Slate Method. I’ve helped thousands of
women recover from mistakes they made in their relationships including stuff like
emotional affairs, cheating, lying, giving that ultimatum that backfires. The Clean Slate
Method is about as close to a mistake eraser as you’re ever going to get.
Now if you are in a long distance relationship, more and more relationships turn out as
LDRs. LDR secrets is a 1-hour and 22-minute MP3 interview with two of the United
States leading experts on making LDRs work. If you’re constantly worried, thinking
about your SO and your LDR, you’ve got to listen to this. What they had to say is so
important. I paid them $800 to have this interview done.
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24. You’ve likely been struggling with your relationship with men for far too long and the
pain of continuing in a state of inaction will only lead to more despair and more
frustration and continued disappointment, heartbreak and precious time wasted that you
can never get back. Yet all of this can change the moment you begin applying the quick
start principles and the Girl Gets Ring System. Picture the moment you finally have the
answer you’ve been looking for and begin the path of your new life together. You feel
alive, full of hope and optimism.
One morning you look at yourself in the bathroom mirror bursting with joy because
today is the day you’re going to go pick out your wedding dress. You’re experiencing the
energy, passion and life-renewing results you deserve at long last. Yes, it’s true. Your
relationship problems up until today have largely been no fault of your own. It’s true
you’ve been lied to by the print media and the fashion magazines, romanticized
Hollywood screenplays and the false promises no one stands behind.
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25. FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Here are the most common ones I get and the answers to try to give you a little bit of
help where I can. OK.
1. Is Girl Gets Ring for women already in relationships or women who are dating and
still looking for Mr. Right?
That’s a really good question. It’s for any woman who isn’t engaged or married yet.
Whether you’re having trouble finding Mr. Right or your Mr. Right is afraid of becoming
Mr. and Mrs. Right, Girl Gets Ring teaches you how to get men to pursue more and
more commitment with you and the keywords is all on their own.
2. OK. Here’s another question we get. We’ve been together for years and he gets
upset whenever I bring up the topic of marriage. Will this help?
Now, as you know, you’re in a tough situation. Unfortunately, most of the advice out
there is to either make an ultimatum and stand firm or sometimes they just say just wait
and sometimes that turns into years. What I found is this is exactly the wrong thing to
do. In short, your man has gone red and all you need to do is follow the Girl Gets Ring
and get him back to green. Once he’s green, he’s going to do the rest. So yes, I’m
confident I can really help you.
3. OK. I’ve read every relationship book out there. How is this different?
This is a darn good question. I understand that you don’t want to invest in material
which you already have seen before, right? It makes total sense to me. Girl Gets Ring is
the only system where you will finally understand that men really do desire commitment.
They desire the connection and intimacy at a very deep level but here’s the thing. What
stops him has less to do with you or how much love they feel and everything to do with
not feeling four core feelings. If they feel these four core feelings, they get that green
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26. light in the relationship and feel compelled to move the relationship forward. And you’re
also going to discover why playing games such as hard to get or any ploy like the rules
usually backfires on you.
4. Can Girl Gets Ring help if it has been a while since I’ve been on a date and I’m
nervous?
Yes. If you’re like a lot of women, one of the things you’re nervous about is what you
should say, what you should do and how you should act on a date. You will find we
have very specific advice about exactly how to be yourself and connect with him at the
same time, at a deep level. In fact, women who do put on a front especially – it’s not
that they do it on purpose but if they’ve been out of the dating scene for a while, they
start to put on these fronts and it actually turns men off.
5. OK. I go on one or two dates and feel like I’m doing everything right but then he stops
calling. I’m dying to know why.
Well listen girl, you’re not alone. In short, what’s happening is he’s feeling something
about you which is shutting him down. There are those four core feelings he needs to
experience before he’s going to go out and continue the relationship with you. What’s
happening is he’s not feeling all four of those feelings. So what we’re going to do is
cover this stage extensively for you in GGR.
6. OK. How do I receive Girl Gets Ring?
You receive GGR as an instant download. That way, you don’t have to wait around for a
package to arrive and there are no shipping costs.
Is this Mac-compatible? You bet. The files are in PDF and in MP3 format. Both could be
viewed or listened to on a Mac. You can listen to them on the MP3, on your iPod, iPad
or any device which allows MP3.
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27. Now remember, along with your quick start guide, you’re also going to be receiving the
complete edition of the Girl Gets Ring System at your step by step system that puts an
end to wasting time and makes virtually any man want the closeness, commitment and
yes, that marriage too.
Four MHAP is your map to your man’s mind and heart. If you fail to understand these
four principles, you’re never going to hear the end of him saying, “I’m not ready.” This
book is going to save you a fortune on first dates and it’s going to save you a lot of
heartache because your online profile may be attracting psychos, sickos and other
womanizers.
The Clean Slate Method is your handbook to making apologies and erasing past
mistakes in his mind and if you’re in an LDR and you worry a lot, the Secrets to a
Worry-Free LDR is a bonus I got just for you.
And don’t forget my super bonus From Conflict to Communication so you can start
eliminating petty arguments and enjoying compassionate conversation which leaves
you both feeling a lot closer instead of feeling cut-off from each other.
For more info about the Girl Gets Ring System, CLICK HERE.
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