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15 SECRETS TO THRIVING AS A SINGLE MOM
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SECRETS TO THRIVING AS
A SINGLE MOM 15 © 2014 Emma Johnson wealthysinglemommy.com by
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© 2014 Emma
Johnsonwealthysinglemommy.com THANKS FOR THE DOWNLOAD! In this free guide I hope to share some of what I’ve learned in my own single mom journey. I remember when I realized I would be a single mom—at the time my daughter was just 18 months and I was pregnant with my son. My husband was the sole breadwinner and I could not imagine how I would support my kids and me—even with child support. I was also facing a very real (and come to find out, actual) risk that I would be our sole provider, since my husband was struggling with a recent brain injury, and his employment was precarious. I would stay up nights, numb with fear that my kids and I would be forced to move to a homeless shelter, and they would grow up to resent me for a lousy childhood. And I couldn’t even think of the idea of dating again. Because if I did think about it I teared up with fear I’d be alone forever. But, let me tell you: I did it. I got on my feet professionally and financially. Even more than that, I SOARED. Earned more than ever and still have plenty of time to spend with my kids and take care of myself. My son and daughter, now ages 4 and 6 (!), are thriving, bright, sweet, funny kids. And, eventually, I started dating again! I found love and romance and sex in new ways that I never imagined for this time of my life. I want to share everything I learned with you. But the main thing I want to share is that your fears are so normal. How could you not be a hot mess? Every single part of your life is in upheaval. You’re facing so many unknowns, so many questions about the most important parts of your life. Nothing will be the same again. But that doesn’t mean it will be worse. No—challenge and struggle are a gift that you can choose to use to make yourself, your family and your life better. Things will improve. You will improve. In fact, you’re going to kick ass. Here are a 15 secrets to launching your new life a as a single mom: 1 FIGURE OUT HOW YOU CAN EARN MORE. Not how much more you can get from your ex. Or how much you can save with coupons and garagesaling. No. You have little control over those parts of your life. But you can control how much you earn. How you can MAKE more money. What is the best way for you to get a raise/promotion/new degree? Can you start your own business within the next few months? What about a side gig consulting or freelancing? What are three steps you can take now to make that happen? This week take one step on the first item. 2 CAN YOU REALISTICALLY AFFORD YOUR HOUSE? I’m a big fan of simple living. Smaller quarters means lower rent or mortgage, less to clean and maintain, and less room to hoard crap you don’t need (and/or has bad, old memories). In the short-term you need to downsize every part of your life until you are firmly on your feet. That may mean starting with your biggest expense: Your home.
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© 2014 Emma
Johnsonwealthysinglemommy.com 3 MAKE EXERCISE AND HEALTH YOUR TOP PRIORITY. Everything stems from your physical wellbeing. If you are tired, overweight, unhealthy and feel unattractive, that impacts every part of your life. You are not your best mom or employee or girlfriend or neighbor if you are not in good shape. That comes first. 4 FIND A ROUTINE AND STICK TO IT. This is important for your kids as much as it yourself. Your daily life will look different than it did before. Work towards a rhythm that is right for your family. It gives you structure and order. You need that, and your children need that. 5 DIG INTO YOUR SPIRITUALITY. Whatever your faith, find it. Go there. Nurture it. An atheist? Whatever—figure something out. Look to nature or watch Oprah. But find a quiet, powerful place in this universe where you can turn to for higher strength. 6 GET A BFF. When I was going through my divorce I had a number of very good friends who saw me through, but one in particular became my bestie. Our kids are the same age, she’s also a transplant to New York without much family nearby and she’s an ambitious professional like me. Shortly after my split, her marriage also ended. We were each other’s moral support, practical help in child care and swapping practical information, and then we’d go out for drinks and cruise men. You need one of these. 7 FIND COMMUNITY. My community is my neighborhood—and my apartment in particular. I often feel alone and isolated— especially since I work from my apartment. But it gives me untold comfort and companionship to walk down the street and bump into a friendly face, or chat with the local merchants as I do my errands with the kids. And I have dozens of friends and acquaintances within a few floors of my home on whom I can count on anything from an extra egg, to emergency child care to a friendly ear after a particularly bad day. Your community is where you feel safe and loved. Maybe that is your extended family. Or a group of old girlfriends you see regularly. Your church or temple, your job or the small town where you live may be these places. If you have it, induldge, in it—turn to the people there. They are there for the hard times, and this is yours! If you don’t have a built in community, seek one out. I belive that if you ask for support with a genuine, open heart—even in your own way of praying—you’ll find it.
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© 2014 Emma
Johnsonwealthysinglemommy.com 8 REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE A SEXUAL BEING AND THAT IS WONDERFUL. If you’re like most single moms I know, you haven’t dated in a while. You’re not sure how you appear to the opposite sex, but you suspect not-so-hot. It may be some time before you’re ready to date, and that is totally OK! Take your time! But in the meantime, take steps to rediscover your sexuality. Buy some crazy-sexy panties. Invest in a vibrator. Check out some porn online. Go crazy—stare for an extra few seconds at that cute guy on the train. Keep staring when he looks back. What could possibly happen? And if you are dating and enjoying men and your body? Go for it! 9 HAVE FUN WITH YOUR KIDS. You are so terrified about how everything is affecting them. You worry about their hurt and getting them through divorce in one piece. Meanwhile their mom is a stressed-out mess. No one is having a good time! Eventually you will realize that life goes on. Shit happens. Then it gets better. Until you reach that acceptance, take one tiny step to be silly today. Pictionary always cracks me up. Make dinosaur-shaped pancakes for Saturday breakfast. Or crazier yet—Tuesday breakfast (at my house somehow fancy pancakes always end up with marshmallows attached. Is that legal?). Maybe water balloons or fake poop are involved. Go nuts. 10 CAREFUL WITH THE “TREATS.” When you’re in crisis it is tempting to indulge. In today’s culture women are told they should treat themselves. That we’re all overworked, underappreciated and if we are to feel special and loved it means doing it ourselves. Well, yes—and no. It’s not a treat if you can’t afford it. A cupcake is not a treat if you’re overweight or facing Type 2 diabetes. Nor is a Coach purse a treat if you’re worried about keeping the lights on or having health insurance. And treats can be a slippery slope—one glass of pinto noir between a well-deserved load-off and a drinking problem. 11 CLEAR HIM OUT OF YOUR HOME. No, don’t gather every single thing he ever touched and set it ablaze in your front lawn with an effigy of him in the middle. Gradually, eventually move his things out. Pay attention to the other things and how they make you feel. Did you have a nasty fight sitting on that couch? Consider replacing it first when you get on your financial feet. Did it irritate you that he insisted on organizing the dishes a certain way? Maybe time to get new plates. You must make your living space your own. Things matter.
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© 2014 Emma
Johnsonwealthysinglemommy.com 12 LET YOUR KIDS BE PISSED. I am a big critic of the over-parenting trend. The one that freaks out when a kid is sad, and rushes the kid to a zillion therapists and overtalk every single discomfort. There is certainly a place for all of that during divorce. But then, sometimes, people get angry. Including kids. They must grieve. You can help. Part of that is letting them feel their emotions. Wallow in them. As painful as it is for you must endure that. Permission to feel that pain is a gift you give your children. 13 BE PATIENT WITH YOURSELF. One of the most common things I hear from single moms is that they’re so angry at their exes. Been there myself! But when you spend so much energy on hating on someone else, you are really just projecting your self-anger on someone else. When I divorced I felt like a failure. I felt like a bad mom and a bad wife, and I let all our friends and family down, too. I take responsibility for some of it, and I work towards accepting the rest. 14 DO NOT DEFINE YOURSELF BY YOUR TRAUMA. Divorce is a loss and a crisis. But then you move past it (until the next trauma hits!). Vow to work through this period with grace, and create a new story for yourself and your family. 15 ALLOW HOPE. Women do so many amazing things. You live in a time of unprecedented opportunity for women. You can do whatever you want! I believe that you can, and that you will. Your life will not look like you had hoped. But that is not a bad thing. There is untold love waiting. There is untold success and wealth. You and your kids have access to it all. And you have the strength to show your kids—and the rest of the world—that you can rock this show. Own it!
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