5. One Definition of Success “ To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; … to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child or a garden patch … to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is success.” Ralph Waldo Emerson www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

6. Definition of Success #2 “ Be honest and work hard to get what you want. Don’t take shortcuts; you are only cheating yourself in the long run. Success is not measured by money or fame, but by how you feel about your own goals and accomplishments and the time and effort you put into them.” Willie Stargell, Baseball Hall of Fame www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

10. Goal Setting 101 Clearly define the challenge facing you. What issue, problem or desire are you trying to change or achieve? Example of misguided challenge definitions: Problem: You are passed over for a promotion. You think it is because your manager doesn’t like you. Questions to Ponder: a) Is that REALLY true? b) Have you put in more effort, more training, and done the extras to get promoted? c) Was the other person more qualified? d) What could you have done differently? www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

12. Stretching Your Abilities There is a big difference between stretching past your “comfort zone” and setting unrealistic goals. ___________ Start with goals that stretch your capabilities and then build on your successes. www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

14. Dreams vs. Goals Goal Setting is like shooting an arrow. You may want to hit the target, but if you don’t take action – shooting the arrow – you only have a dream. The difference between a dream and a goal is ACTION . www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

21. You are a Winner!! This is YOUR Life – YOUR Goals – YOUR Success! ----- Dream + Action Steps + Target Date = GOAL ----- The next several slides will review potential roadblocks, how to invest in yourself, the “Bummer Words”, how to get started, etc. www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

23. THE QUESTION ------Ask Yourself Daily Am I giving my best efforts to today’s activities? If you answer yes – congratulations. ------ If you answered no , what changes can you make? ------ www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

25. YES! Count On Me Words Be positive and enthusiastic when you use these pro-active, I can do it words. Yes ….. I can ….. I will ….. These five words are sometimes called the five scariest words in the English Why? Because they tell people you are willing to be accountable for your actions. www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

27. Bummer Words These six words can hold you back from reaching your full potential. No Never Maybe Can’t Won’t If There are many times that you need to use these words. However, they become a Bummer Words when you use them as an excuse for not doing something. www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

29. Find a Mentor A mentor is ….part cheerleader, part coach, part teacher, part student, part guide, and part listener. A mentor guides, inspires, encourages, counsels, advises, questions, and answers. from MentorPlace.com www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

36. Quote to Ponder Do you agree with this quote? “ What matters in today’s world is not the difference between those who believe and those who do not believe, but the difference is between those who care and those who don't.” Abbe Pire www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

49. Review – Top 10 Points (con’t) 2. Start by setting and achieving smaller, reachable goals. Build on your success es. 3. Write down your Goals, Action Steps, and Target Date on a piece of paper. Read them everyday. 4. Develop an YES! Count on Me attitude . www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

52. Review – Top 10 Points (con’t) 10. If you have reached your goal, congratulate yourself for a job well done. If you missed the goal, explore the reasons why. Make some adjustments and try again. Don’t ever give up on your dreams . www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved

54. This is Your life! Your goals! Your success ! You are a Winner!! Dream + Action Steps + Target Date = Goal ---------- The last slide includes our mission statement and some additional information about us. www.OurChangingWorld.net Copyright Reserved