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Emotional Intelligence &
      Leadership
      CPP Asia Pacific

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Session Overview



 What is Emotional Intelligence
 The Bar-On EQ Framework
 EQ Skills in Leadership
 EQ Assessment and
  Discussion Activities
 EQ & MBTI Links
What is Emotional Intelligence?



             A set of emotional and social skills
             that collectively establish how well
             we:
              • Perceive and express ourselves
              • Develop and maintain social
                relationships
              • Cope with challenges
              • Use emotional information in an effective
                and meaningful way
             A predictor of success in life and
             work
Why do emotions matter ?



                     Because
                     emotions
                  influence and
                 change the way
                   we think and
                      perform
MacLean’s Triune Brain Theory


    Executive Functioning (‘Thinking Brain’ )
                               Neo-mammalian




                                        Reptilian
Limbic System                        (‘Regulatory
                                          Brain’)
(‘Emotional Brain’)
What is the EQ-i2.0?

 A way to accurately assess
  strengths and blind spots:
  take the assessment in less
  than 20 minutes
 A predictable way to
  measures current level of
  emotional and social
  functioning: receive
  feedback on your results
 A vehicle for developing
  effectiveness in order to
  improve performance:
  develop a customized action
  plan in order to ensure you
  are focusing on the right
  development needs
How Accurate is it?

 Great amount of rigor
  went into the research
  and development of
  the tool
 4,000 people took the
  assessment in order to
  ensure results are
  accurate: you are
  compared to your
  norm group
 Checks and balances
  built into the tool to
  ensure the most
  accurate results
The EQ-i2.0 Model
What Does it Measure?

The EQ-i2.0 measures five
  distinct aspects of
    emotional and social
    functioning:
   Self-Perception –
    understanding your
    emotions
   Self-Expression –
    expressing your emotions
   Interpersonal – develop
    and maintain relationships
   Decision Making – use
    emotions to make better
    decisions
   Stress Management –
    cope with challenges
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Self-Perception


Consists of the following sub-
  categories:
   • Self-Regard –
     confidence
   • Self-Actualization –
     continuous development
   • Emotional Self-
     Awareness –
     understanding my
     emotions
Self Regard



                       Assets     Vulnerabilities



                     Strengths    Allowable weaknesses



    Life & business experiences   Perceived obstacles or history



                        Values    Limiting beliefs


    your balance sheet
Self - Expression



                    Consists of the following:
                     Emotional Expression –
                      saying how you feel
                     Assertiveness – standing
                      up for yourself effectively
                     Independence – standing
                      on your own two feet
Assertiveness
 Which is the Assertive response?
Shoshanna, 14, enters room where her older sister, Lisa, is
watching TV for past 3 hours. Shoshanna wants to watch
her favourite program which starts in 5 minutes. So she:
A. Knowing Lisa always hogs TV set when she has it, decides
to go upstairs and listen to CDs in her room instead.

B. States emphatically: “You’re always hogging the TV. I
never get to watch it. You’re unfair. I want to watch. It’s my
turn now. Get out or I’ll tell Dad.”

C. Says, “Lisa, I know you want to continue to watch TV, but
my program is starting in 5 minutes and I’d like to watch it. It’s
over in an hour, then you can go back to watching TV again.
Remember when I did the same for you two days ago?”

    Passive                           Assertive                      Aggressive
Assertiveness
 Which is the Assertive response?
Shoshanna, 14, enters room where her older sister, Lisa, is
watching TV for past 3 hours. Shoshanna wants to watch
her favourite program which starts in 5 minutes. So she:
A. Knowing Lisa always hogs TV set when she has it, decides
to go upstairs and listen to CDs in her room instead.

B. States emphatically: “You’re always hogging the TV. I
never get to watch it. You’re unfair. I want to watch. It’s my
turn now. Get out or I’ll tell Dad.”

C. Says, “Lisa, I know you want to continue to watch TV, but
my program is starting in 5 minutes and I’d like to watch it. It’s
over in an hour, then you can go back to watching TV again.
Remember when I did the same for you two days ago?”

    Passive                           Assertive                      Aggressive
Interpersonal



Consists of the following:
 Interpersonal Relationships
  – developing and maintaining
  good relationships
 Empathy – recognizing and
  appreciating how others feel
 Social Responsibility –
  contributing to society
Empathy

 Which is the Empathic response?
Still unable to master the computer program, Dillon turns to you for the third time
that day seeking help and direction. He says, “ I still can’t figure out how to master
this damn program. And you do it so flawlessly!”         You reply:
A. “Are you this slow on the uptake with everything?”

B. “You’ll catch on. I had the same trouble initially, too.”

C. “These programs can feel really frustrating and




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D. “Learning these programs can make you want to
just put your fist through the screen. But it does get
better.”
                                                                        Apathy
E. “I know how it feels not catching on right away. I
was really aggrravated at the beginning too.”
Empathy

 Which is the Empathic response?
Still unable to master the computer program, Dillon turns to you for the third time
that day seeking help and direction. He says, “ I still can’t figure out how to master
this damn program. And you do it so flawlessly!”         You reply:
A. “Are you this slow on the uptake with everything?”

B. “You’ll catch on. I had the same trouble initially, too.”

C. “These programs can feel really frustrating and




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D. “Learning these programs can make you want to just
put your fist through the screen. But it does get better.”

E. “I know how it feels not catching on right away. I was               Apathy
really aggrravated at the beginning too.”
Empathy

             How would you respond with
                              Empathy?


                      Your spouse gets
                   home at 5:30, turns
                    to you and sighs, “I
                           didn’t get the
                      promotion; Ralph
                       got it. I just got a
                     speeding ticket on
                    the way home, and
                  I’ve got a four-alarm
                              headache.”
Empathic?


“
                    “Didn’t get the
                        promotion!
                       We’ve been
                      banking on it.
                       We’ve been
                    counting on the
                         increased
                     income. What
                      went wrong?”
Empathic?


“
                 Don’t worry;
                  you’re smart.
                  I’ve got
                  confidence in
                  you. Another
                  opportunity will
                  show.”
Empathic?


“
                 You should have
                  seen this coming.
                  Ralph is a fine
                  guy; he’s a
                  hotshot, a glad-
                  hander and he
                  does have more
                  experience.”
Empathic?


“
                 Oh, what a day
                  you’ve had.
                  You must
                  wonder if it can
                  get any
                  worse.”
Empathic?


“
                 Geez . . . You
                  must feel like
                  nothing’s
                  going your
                  way.”
Empathic?


“
                 Boy, you must
                  feel like crap.
                  Come here and
                  I’ll give you a
                  back rub.”
Empathic?


“
                 Oh, dear, it
                  sounds awful, but
                  others have it
                  worse. Remember
                  Philly? He lost his
                  job last month,
                  and his wife
                  walked out four
                  days later.”
Empathy

             How would you respond with
                              Empathy?


                      Your spouse gets
                   home at 5:30, turns
                    to you and sighs, “I
                           didn’t get the
                      promotion; Ralph
                       got it. I just got a
                     speeding ticket on
                    the way home, and
                  I’ve got a four-alarm
                              headache.”
Empathy

Possible responses:                       How would you respond with
                                                           Empathy?
“Oh, what a day you’ve had.
You must wonder if it can
get worse.”                                        Your spouse gets
“Geez ... you must feel like                    home at 5:30, turns
nothing’s going your way.”                       to you and sighs, “I
                                                        didn’t get the
“Boy, you must feel like
crap. Come here and I’ll                           promotion; Ralph
give you a back rub.”                               got it. I just got a
                                                  speeding ticket on
                                                 the way home, and
....Any response that captures your
spouse’s internal experience or                I’ve got a four-alarm
perspective: Nothing is going right.                       headache.”
Decision Making


Consists of the following:
 Problem Solving –
  effectively managing
  emotions when solving
  problems
 Reality Testing – seeing
  things as they really are
 Impulse Control – ability to
  resist or delay impulses
Impulse Control

Do the following statements apply to you?
Respond with Never, Rarely, Seldom, Frequently or Always.

1. I tend to leap before I look.
2. I become impatient easily.
3. Others seem too slow in making up their minds.
4. I often regret not giving more thought to
decisions.
5. I often make impulse purchases.
6. Others tell me I tend to be hot-headed.
7. If other drivers cut me off, I pursue and make
obscene gestures at them.

Answer the following with Yes or No.

8. During the past 3 years, I have struck someone in anger.
9. During the past 3 years, I have thrown objects out of a sense of frustration.
10. During the past 3 years, I have made a rash decision that I have regretted.
Impulse Control



                   In pairs, ask
                    one another:
                    “As a
                    manager,
                    what would
                    you find
                    most difficult
                    with impulse
                    control?”
Stress Management

Consists of the following:
 Flexibility – adapting to change effectively
 Stress Tolerance – successfully coping with stressful
  situations
 Optimism – having a positive outlook
Optimism

 In pairs, ask each other these questions:
   Respond with Never, Rarely, Seldom, Frequently or Always.


   1. People say I complain a lot.
   2. Those close to me say I have a positive attitude.
   3. I believe I have a positive attitude.
   4. I wake up on a typical weekday and look forward to what’s about to unfold.
   5. I wake up on a typical weekend morning and look forward to the day.
   6. I have a positive view of the future when it comes to:
       - work
       - career
       - family
       - social life

   Write down what and how you need to lift the optimism in
   your work, self and family. What is your first step?
Happiness


             Feeling satisfied, enjoying life
             An indicator of overall well-
              being
             Not included in overall EQ-i2.0
              results
             Impacts overall EQ-i2.0, closely
              linked to:
               –   Self-Regard
               –   Optimism
               –   Interpersonal Relationships
               –   Self-Actualization
Results

 You get an overall EQ-i2.0 result, plus individual results for each component
 You will receive feedback on your results and what they mean
 Your report includes strategies to further develop your emotional
  intelligence and a development plan template to help you make your
  commitment real
 Improving your Emotional Intelligence will not only help you be more
  successful at work, but outside of work too!
Applying EQ-i2.0


There are many ways the EQ-i2.0
  can be used:
 Selection
 Self-Awareness
 Succession Planning
 Leadership Development
 Executive Coaching
 Team Effectiveness
EQ & MBTI

             Interaction for
              leadership.

             What do you need to
              be more aware of for
              leadership based on
              your knowledge of:
               – Your MBTI
                 personality type?
               – Your understanding
                 of EQ?
Case Studies/ROI

 Specific, measurable
  and scientifically
  validated results that
  link EQ-i to :

   –    Higher sales and profits
   –    Increased performance
   –   Improved customer
       satisfaction
   –   Decreased attrition rates
   –   Reduction in training costs
American Express




ROI Impact:
100% respondents in follow-up stated that knowing their EQ-i
strengths and opportunities helped them in transitioning to a
higher role


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Centre for Creative Leadership (CCL)




ROI Impact:
EQ-i subscales predicted high performance 80% of the time,
particularly self-awareness, stress tolerance and empathy.



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New Zealand Telecom




ROI Impact:
48% of skill set required for successful execution of leadership
competencies comprised of emotional and social skills



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CIBC Sales




ROI Impact:
EQ-i scores of individuals accounted for 32% of salesperson’s
booked sales and 71% of pipeline sales



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Application of EQ & MBTI




 Based on today’s insights:
  What are two
  things you are
  going to do as a
  leader?
Thank You

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EQ Skills for Leadership: Emotional Intelligence and Decision Making

  • 1. Emotional Intelligence & Leadership CPP Asia Pacific Presented by
  • 2. Session Overview  What is Emotional Intelligence  The Bar-On EQ Framework  EQ Skills in Leadership  EQ Assessment and Discussion Activities  EQ & MBTI Links
  • 3. What is Emotional Intelligence? A set of emotional and social skills that collectively establish how well we: • Perceive and express ourselves • Develop and maintain social relationships • Cope with challenges • Use emotional information in an effective and meaningful way A predictor of success in life and work
  • 4. Why do emotions matter ? Because emotions influence and change the way we think and perform
  • 5. MacLean’s Triune Brain Theory Executive Functioning (‘Thinking Brain’ ) Neo-mammalian Reptilian Limbic System (‘Regulatory Brain’) (‘Emotional Brain’)
  • 6. What is the EQ-i2.0?  A way to accurately assess strengths and blind spots: take the assessment in less than 20 minutes  A predictable way to measures current level of emotional and social functioning: receive feedback on your results  A vehicle for developing effectiveness in order to improve performance: develop a customized action plan in order to ensure you are focusing on the right development needs
  • 7. How Accurate is it?  Great amount of rigor went into the research and development of the tool  4,000 people took the assessment in order to ensure results are accurate: you are compared to your norm group  Checks and balances built into the tool to ensure the most accurate results
  • 9. What Does it Measure? The EQ-i2.0 measures five distinct aspects of emotional and social functioning:  Self-Perception – understanding your emotions  Self-Expression – expressing your emotions  Interpersonal – develop and maintain relationships  Decision Making – use emotions to make better decisions  Stress Management – cope with challenges
  • 11. Self-Perception Consists of the following sub- categories: • Self-Regard – confidence • Self-Actualization – continuous development • Emotional Self- Awareness – understanding my emotions
  • 12. Self Regard Assets Vulnerabilities Strengths Allowable weaknesses Life & business experiences Perceived obstacles or history Values Limiting beliefs your balance sheet
  • 13. Self - Expression Consists of the following:  Emotional Expression – saying how you feel  Assertiveness – standing up for yourself effectively  Independence – standing on your own two feet
  • 14. Assertiveness  Which is the Assertive response? Shoshanna, 14, enters room where her older sister, Lisa, is watching TV for past 3 hours. Shoshanna wants to watch her favourite program which starts in 5 minutes. So she: A. Knowing Lisa always hogs TV set when she has it, decides to go upstairs and listen to CDs in her room instead. B. States emphatically: “You’re always hogging the TV. I never get to watch it. You’re unfair. I want to watch. It’s my turn now. Get out or I’ll tell Dad.” C. Says, “Lisa, I know you want to continue to watch TV, but my program is starting in 5 minutes and I’d like to watch it. It’s over in an hour, then you can go back to watching TV again. Remember when I did the same for you two days ago?” Passive Assertive Aggressive
  • 15. Assertiveness  Which is the Assertive response? Shoshanna, 14, enters room where her older sister, Lisa, is watching TV for past 3 hours. Shoshanna wants to watch her favourite program which starts in 5 minutes. So she: A. Knowing Lisa always hogs TV set when she has it, decides to go upstairs and listen to CDs in her room instead. B. States emphatically: “You’re always hogging the TV. I never get to watch it. You’re unfair. I want to watch. It’s my turn now. Get out or I’ll tell Dad.” C. Says, “Lisa, I know you want to continue to watch TV, but my program is starting in 5 minutes and I’d like to watch it. It’s over in an hour, then you can go back to watching TV again. Remember when I did the same for you two days ago?” Passive Assertive Aggressive
  • 16. Interpersonal Consists of the following:  Interpersonal Relationships – developing and maintaining good relationships  Empathy – recognizing and appreciating how others feel  Social Responsibility – contributing to society
  • 17. Empathy  Which is the Empathic response? Still unable to master the computer program, Dillon turns to you for the third time that day seeking help and direction. He says, “ I still can’t figure out how to master this damn program. And you do it so flawlessly!” You reply: A. “Are you this slow on the uptake with everything?” B. “You’ll catch on. I had the same trouble initially, too.” C. “These programs can feel really frustrating and Sy y th make you think you’ll never catch on. But it gets mp pa easier.” ath Em y D. “Learning these programs can make you want to just put your fist through the screen. But it does get better.” Apathy E. “I know how it feels not catching on right away. I was really aggrravated at the beginning too.”
  • 18. Empathy  Which is the Empathic response? Still unable to master the computer program, Dillon turns to you for the third time that day seeking help and direction. He says, “ I still can’t figure out how to master this damn program. And you do it so flawlessly!” You reply: A. “Are you this slow on the uptake with everything?” B. “You’ll catch on. I had the same trouble initially, too.” C. “These programs can feel really frustrating and Sy y th make you think you’ll never catch on. But it gets mp pa easier.” ath Em y D. “Learning these programs can make you want to just put your fist through the screen. But it does get better.” E. “I know how it feels not catching on right away. I was Apathy really aggrravated at the beginning too.”
  • 19. Empathy  How would you respond with Empathy? Your spouse gets home at 5:30, turns to you and sighs, “I didn’t get the promotion; Ralph got it. I just got a speeding ticket on the way home, and I’ve got a four-alarm headache.”
  • 20. Empathic? “  “Didn’t get the promotion! We’ve been banking on it. We’ve been counting on the increased income. What went wrong?”
  • 21. Empathic? “  Don’t worry; you’re smart. I’ve got confidence in you. Another opportunity will show.”
  • 22. Empathic? “  You should have seen this coming. Ralph is a fine guy; he’s a hotshot, a glad- hander and he does have more experience.”
  • 23. Empathic? “  Oh, what a day you’ve had. You must wonder if it can get any worse.”
  • 24. Empathic? “  Geez . . . You must feel like nothing’s going your way.”
  • 25. Empathic? “  Boy, you must feel like crap. Come here and I’ll give you a back rub.”
  • 26. Empathic? “  Oh, dear, it sounds awful, but others have it worse. Remember Philly? He lost his job last month, and his wife walked out four days later.”
  • 27. Empathy  How would you respond with Empathy? Your spouse gets home at 5:30, turns to you and sighs, “I didn’t get the promotion; Ralph got it. I just got a speeding ticket on the way home, and I’ve got a four-alarm headache.”
  • 28. Empathy Possible responses:  How would you respond with Empathy? “Oh, what a day you’ve had. You must wonder if it can get worse.” Your spouse gets “Geez ... you must feel like home at 5:30, turns nothing’s going your way.” to you and sighs, “I didn’t get the “Boy, you must feel like crap. Come here and I’ll promotion; Ralph give you a back rub.” got it. I just got a speeding ticket on the way home, and ....Any response that captures your spouse’s internal experience or I’ve got a four-alarm perspective: Nothing is going right. headache.”
  • 29. Decision Making Consists of the following:  Problem Solving – effectively managing emotions when solving problems  Reality Testing – seeing things as they really are  Impulse Control – ability to resist or delay impulses
  • 30. Impulse Control Do the following statements apply to you? Respond with Never, Rarely, Seldom, Frequently or Always. 1. I tend to leap before I look. 2. I become impatient easily. 3. Others seem too slow in making up their minds. 4. I often regret not giving more thought to decisions. 5. I often make impulse purchases. 6. Others tell me I tend to be hot-headed. 7. If other drivers cut me off, I pursue and make obscene gestures at them. Answer the following with Yes or No. 8. During the past 3 years, I have struck someone in anger. 9. During the past 3 years, I have thrown objects out of a sense of frustration. 10. During the past 3 years, I have made a rash decision that I have regretted.
  • 31. Impulse Control  In pairs, ask one another: “As a manager, what would you find most difficult with impulse control?”
  • 32. Stress Management Consists of the following:  Flexibility – adapting to change effectively  Stress Tolerance – successfully coping with stressful situations  Optimism – having a positive outlook
  • 33. Optimism  In pairs, ask each other these questions: Respond with Never, Rarely, Seldom, Frequently or Always. 1. People say I complain a lot. 2. Those close to me say I have a positive attitude. 3. I believe I have a positive attitude. 4. I wake up on a typical weekday and look forward to what’s about to unfold. 5. I wake up on a typical weekend morning and look forward to the day. 6. I have a positive view of the future when it comes to: - work - career - family - social life Write down what and how you need to lift the optimism in your work, self and family. What is your first step?
  • 34. Happiness  Feeling satisfied, enjoying life  An indicator of overall well- being  Not included in overall EQ-i2.0 results  Impacts overall EQ-i2.0, closely linked to: – Self-Regard – Optimism – Interpersonal Relationships – Self-Actualization
  • 35. Results  You get an overall EQ-i2.0 result, plus individual results for each component  You will receive feedback on your results and what they mean  Your report includes strategies to further develop your emotional intelligence and a development plan template to help you make your commitment real  Improving your Emotional Intelligence will not only help you be more successful at work, but outside of work too!
  • 36. Applying EQ-i2.0 There are many ways the EQ-i2.0 can be used:  Selection  Self-Awareness  Succession Planning  Leadership Development  Executive Coaching  Team Effectiveness
  • 37. EQ & MBTI  Interaction for leadership.  What do you need to be more aware of for leadership based on your knowledge of: – Your MBTI personality type? – Your understanding of EQ?
  • 38. Case Studies/ROI  Specific, measurable and scientifically validated results that link EQ-i to : – Higher sales and profits – Increased performance – Improved customer satisfaction – Decreased attrition rates – Reduction in training costs
  • 39. American Express ROI Impact: 100% respondents in follow-up stated that knowing their EQ-i strengths and opportunities helped them in transitioning to a higher role 39
  • 40. Centre for Creative Leadership (CCL) ROI Impact: EQ-i subscales predicted high performance 80% of the time, particularly self-awareness, stress tolerance and empathy. 40
  • 41. New Zealand Telecom ROI Impact: 48% of skill set required for successful execution of leadership competencies comprised of emotional and social skills 41
  • 42. CIBC Sales ROI Impact: EQ-i scores of individuals accounted for 32% of salesperson’s booked sales and 71% of pipeline sales 42
  • 43. Application of EQ & MBTI  Based on today’s insights: What are two things you are going to do as a leader?
  • 44. Thank You For more information: www.cpp.com MBTI, Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, Myers-Briggs, the MBTI logo and Introduction to Type are registered trademarks of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Trust. SkillsOne and the CPP logo are registered trademarks of CPP, Inc. © 2011, CPP, Inc. All rights reserved 44