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THE FOUR
AGREEMENTS
DON MIGUEL RUIZ
INTRODUCTION
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBielOoXDuE
1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
• Speak with integrity.

• Say only what you mean.
• Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or gossip
about others.
• Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and
love.
• When ‘your word is law’ and you do as
you say, trust is built in self and others.
2. DON’T TAKE
ANYTHING PERSONALLY
• Nothing others do is because of you.

• What others say and do is a projection of their own reality,
their own dream.
• When you are immune to the opinions and actions of
others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
2. THINK PAIR SHARE
Application to PLC’s

Application to Teaching

Be able to communicate without
getting your feelings hurt.

Don’t listen to the negative
students.

Be fair, do what you say and mean
– follow-thru

Be fair, do what you say and mean
– follow-thru
3. DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
• So many challenges arise simply from lack of
communication and false assumptions.
• Find the courage to ask questions and to express what
you really want.
• Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid
misunderstandings, sadness and drama.
• With just this one agreement, you can
completely transform your life.
4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
• Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it
will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick.
• Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will
avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.
4. THINK PAIR SHARE
Application to PLC’s

Application to Teaching

Deal in facts – not emotions or
emotional debates.

Deal in facts – not emotions or
emotional debates.

Don’t assume prior knowledge!

Don’t assume prior knowledge!

Don’t shut down, especially if you
don’t agree. Be open-minded. You
may learn. Let them explain what
they mean.

Don’t shut down, especially if you
don’t agree. Be open-minded. You
may learn. Let them explain what
they mean.
CLOSING VIDEO SUMMARY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahSJKqpTYzg

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The Four Agreements

  • 3. 1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD • Speak with integrity. • Say only what you mean. • Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or gossip about others. • Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. • When ‘your word is law’ and you do as you say, trust is built in self and others.
  • 4. 2. DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY • Nothing others do is because of you. • What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. • When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
  • 5. 2. THINK PAIR SHARE Application to PLC’s Application to Teaching Be able to communicate without getting your feelings hurt. Don’t listen to the negative students. Be fair, do what you say and mean – follow-thru Be fair, do what you say and mean – follow-thru
  • 6. 3. DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS • So many challenges arise simply from lack of communication and false assumptions. • Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. • Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. • With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
  • 7. 4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST • Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. • Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.
  • 8. 4. THINK PAIR SHARE Application to PLC’s Application to Teaching Deal in facts – not emotions or emotional debates. Deal in facts – not emotions or emotional debates. Don’t assume prior knowledge! Don’t assume prior knowledge! Don’t shut down, especially if you don’t agree. Be open-minded. You may learn. Let them explain what they mean. Don’t shut down, especially if you don’t agree. Be open-minded. You may learn. Let them explain what they mean.