15. What am I willing to change about myself to get what I want?
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17. One Man’s Life Dropped out of school at 11 Married first cousin Had 13 children Married another cousin after the 1st died She was 43 years younger
18. One Man’s Life First business at 16 Hired Daniel Webster to represent company in Supreme Court Owned large parts of Manhattan & Staten Island Created monopoly on CA steamships Railroad baron Largest University endowment of his time Second richest American ever
33. You can't build a reputation on what you're going to do. Henry Ford
34. Bill Dotson859 361 4464 - mobilebdotson@webmedley.comhttp://facebook.com/billdotson
Editor's Notes
You are who you are because of where you were born, have lived, and who you’ve been around. You are likely Christian b/c you were born in the US. You are likely looking for a job b/c that’s what you are “supposed to do”. Same with college.
eHarmony – millions of members,542 people per day marry – that 436 question document must work. Why?We all have the same destination – death. We all believe the same statistics. We are driven by marketing – which consists of motivating people according to social and emotional desiresShow example of split tests
It can be scary. Question everything – don’t believe every stat you hear.
What have you done today that is uncomfortable?
What have you done today that is uncomfortable?
That it, without drugs
Am I willing to do it?Life is shortManagers willing to keep underperforming people b/c of a fear to fire them. Fire those who are stealing from you (you pay they do not perform).
Do you know what you want? How would you know it if you got it?
Its who knows you – not who you know.
Why? They are so small in the grand scheme of things.What small things take up a lot of your attention and should not?What small things take up a lot of your attention and should?Ever feel lost when you’ve lost your mobile phone? Why panic?
Try not to think of an orangeTime is all you have – that’s it. It’s the one thing you cannot get back.
Possessive and absolute
Inherited behaviors and change – nature vs nurtureDNA – Do you believe in drugs?Ever taken antibiotics? Anyone on anti-depressants?
Find a mentorOffer help – things you’ve learned
Perception
Perception – this is a symbol of death in Japan
Monetize things – what does inaction cost you?
You have over about 11000 working days in a career (age 22-65). During that time, you’ll have 5000 days not working (weekends). Why do this? You become a machine with service time. Outsource things. Keep the time you have. You do not get it back.
Mention professions which have no incentive in their clients’ speedy resolution. Like family court attorneys. Real estate agents with a +/- $20,000 sale price will only have their commission affected by $600. Physicians need to see more patients per hour to make the same money as years ago. They need to order more tests and visits.