This document discusses the pitfalls and possibilities of social media for faith communities. It begins with an introduction by Bruce Reyes-Chow and provides an overview of assumptions about social media. It then explores both the potential pitfalls of social media like it becoming an idol or distraction, and the possibilities like building community and modeling faith. The document reviews popular social media platforms and terms, recommends six major networks, and suggests four healthy parental postures around social media use. It concludes with inviting questions and responses.
Parenting -- The Pitfalls and Possibilities of Social Media in the Life of Faith
1. The Pitfalls and Possibilities of
Social Media in the Life of Faith
Burlingame Presbyterian Church
Bruce Reyes-Chow
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4. @BREYESCHOW
Why Bother?
Genesis 18 -- Will a son be
born to a man 100 years old
and a woman the age of 90?
God asks that we give the best
of what we have in order to
participate in the unfolding of
God’s realities in the world.
GOD IS NOT DONE WITH US!
Gladys Burrill, 92
2011 Honolulu Marathon
Photo: AP
9. @BREYESCHOW
SM Assumptions
Social Media is only another medium of
communication and expression;
Social Media is generational air and
gives insight into a particular worldview;
Social Media is highly contextually and
it will be embraced at various degrees;
Social Media demands a high sense of
self-worth as it has a flattening effect on
community and leadership;
Social Media will not save [insert org]
10. @BREYESCHOW
Social Media Pitfalls
SM as idol, savior or quick fix
SM as distraction
SM as careless expression
SM as overestimated ROI
SM as echo chamber
SM as over-and-above F2F
SM as an entry to bullying and
unwanted contact
Photo by amagill
11. @BREYESCHOW
Social Media
PossibilitiesSM can build up and
strengthen the Body of Christ
SM allows the church to model
a different way of living
SM compels the church to see
the world beyond its bubble
SM liberates faithful expression
of creativity and creation
SM provides accountability
SM offers a place of communal
care and spiritual renewalPhoto by Kalexanderson
12. @BREYESCHOW
Social Media
Posturesbe with people: tinker with the betas,
but join in where folks are already
be you: appropriate, honest,
consistent just as you would be in
real life (IRL)
be interactive: engage, comment,
respond, inquire, link and like
be mindful: Most people lurk and
observe without ever interacting.
be humble/bold: don’t underestimate
the influence of your thinking, but
avoid delusions of grandeur
be npr: earn the right to be heard.PHOTO by jackheart
14. @BREYESCHOW
Smarty Pants Terms
apps, smart phones, tablets, oh my
Traditional Media v. Social Media
Web 1.0 v. Web 2.0
Social Networking
Open Source Software
Cloud Technology
weB+logs = Blogs, vLogs
feeds, aggregators and readers
tagging and #hashtags
Checking In
QRCode
18. @BREYESCHOW
Four Household
Postures
RESTRAINT
honor the networks in which they
have given you access to be present
OPENNESS
screen time in public spaces
SABBATH
unplugging in the evening
MENTORS
trusted adult in networks
Healthy parental social media postures must be built on an
overall relationship of trust, encouragement and boundaries.
20. THANKS FOR
COMING
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