Families move for many reasons; sometimes out of choice, but in most cases, out of necessity. A change in the family income, promotion, job transfer, and divorce are some of the most common causes of moving for many people.

1. New Home, New Life: Helping
Kids Adjust to a Move

2.  Families move for many reasons; sometimes out
of choice, but in most cases, out of necessity. A
change in the family income, promotion, job
transfer, and divorce are some of the most
common causes of moving for many people.
 Moving into a new place is challenging for the
whole family, but most especially to children.
The experience can be traumatic for kids who
aren’t usually part of the decision. Here’s how
parents can help their child during this tough
time.

3. Discuss the Move with the Kids
 No matter what the reason, the best way to
prepare kids for a move is to discuss it with
them. Experts suggest providing enough
information about the plan and answering
questions truthfully—in a way children will easily
understand. Parents should be receptive to both
positive and negative emotions, as children may
focus on the frightening aspects of a move, like
leaving playmates and friends behind.

4. Discuss the Move with the Kids

5. Involve Them in the Moving
Process
 Involving children in the moving process can
help them focus on the move’s positive aspects.
Parents are advised to include their kids in some
of the activities involved in moving, including
house-hunting, search for a new school, or
packing of house items. Families moving just
across cities can take their kids to the new
house in advance, introduce them to their new
teachers and classmates, and show them the
attractions near their new abode.

6. Involve Them in the Moving
Process

7. After the Move
 After the move, parents are advised to get their child’s
room in order first before turning their attention to the
rest of their house. Creating the same environment—
placing the bed, table, cabinets, and other furniture
similar to the former room—can help kids feel at home.
Parents are advised to maintain a regular schedule of
bedtime, meals, and playtime to give children a sense of
familiarity. Experts also recommend accompanying the
kids on the first few weeks of school to help them adjust
to their new environment. Hosting a small party and
inviting kids around the new neighborhood will help kids
make friends and build new relationships.
 Moving into a new place presents many challenges, but
good things also come from this major change. The right
support and care can help everyone in the family,
including kids, adjust to a move easily.

8. After the Move

9. Resources:
 http://www.apartmentsmakati.com/for-
sale/houses/
 http://www.businessinsider.com/the-stress-of-
moving-2011-5
 http://www.foxnews.com/leisure/2012/12/07/10-
most-stressful-moving-tasks/