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"Whether you are near the top of the ladder or still have a way a head to climb, you must learn
   to eliminate barriers and move to where you want to go"
Whenever someone experiences success in the workplace, they usually get a very positive feeling
   out of it. Their self-esteem goes up and they begin to have more confidence in their abilities.
   However, this only goes so far: often, when a person has a string of successes, they begin to
   adopt a handful of beliefs that aren’t necessarily true. They begin to believe that they are
   more responsible than they actually are for the success of projects and they begin to believe
   that their value is much higher than reality actually shows.
This is a human failing, one that anyone with some measure of success can fall prey to. It alters
    your own behavior in a lot of ways and sets you up for failure, not for success.
“What Got You Here Won’t Get You There" holds the basic premise that there are a handful of
   workplace habits that often keep successful people from making the next big leap forward in
   their career. The author, Marshall Goldsmith, seeks to identify those habits and help you to
   overcome them so you can make that next big leap in whatever you’re planning to do with
   your life.
“What Got You Here, Won’t Get you there” is dedicated to all successful leaders who want to
   “take it to the next level” and get even better.
Happy Reading................
Thanks,
K V Chakrapani( "Chakri")
What got you here…. Won’t get you there!




    How Successful People, Become Even More Successful!


Customised summary on “What got you here Won’t get you there” by
Chakrapani K V for M3@The Magnificent Motivation Mantra.
More about the Book

• "What Got You Here Won’t Get You There"
  holds the basic premise that there are a handful
  of workplace habits that often keep successful
  people from making the next big leap forward in
  their career. The author, Marshall Goldsmith,
  seeks to identify those habits and help you to
  overcome them so you can make that next big
  leap in whatever you’re planning to do with your
  life. While this book has a heavy skew towards
  management, there is a lot of meat here that
  applies no matter what you’re doing.
THE BIGGEST MISTAKE!
• One of the greatest mistakes of successful
  people is the assumption, ‘I am successful. I
  behave this way. Therefore, I must be
  successful because I behave this way!’

• Then how do we deal with it?.......
Any success in leadership manifest some bad habits that hinder their progress…
Identify those and pave the road to change……….
HABIT 1
“Winning too much” – The most common
 behavioral problem among successful people
 is the all-consuming need to win, even when
 winning doesn’t matter. This need is often the
 root of many other bad leadership habits.
HABIT 2
• “Adding too much value” – When someone comes
  to you with an idea and you immediately feel the
  need to improve it, you are guilty of adding too much
  value. This fault is common among experienced,
  successful people who feel that they are being told
  something they know or who believe that they
  already know a better way.
HABIT 3
• Passing judgment – Offering an opinion in a
  business setting is okay. But asking people for
  their opinion and then making a comment
  about it is not okay. Nobody likes to be
  judged. The next time you get a suggestion,
  remain neutral and simply say, ‘Thank you’.
HABIT 4
• Making destructive comments – Many successful
  people believe they are straight-shooters and pride
  themselves on their candor. But making critical
  comments or sarcastic remarks is never constructive.
  If you speak carelessly and thoughtlessly, the
  recipient will be hurt and will remember, even after
  you apologize. Comments that undermine someone
  are never instructive or funny; they only cause pain
  and humiliation.
HABIT 5
• Starting with ‘no,’ ‘but’ or ‘however’ – No
  matter how well intentioned you are, when you
  listen to an idea, suggestion or comment, and
  begin your reply with ‘no’ ‘but’ or however,
  you are communicating that you know better.
HABIT 6
• Telling the world how smart you are – Many
  leaders can’t resist letting everyone know just
  how smart they are. If you use phrases such as,
  ‘I already knew that,’ you insult and alienate
  people, which is not very smart. Before you
  speak, ask yourself, Is anything I might say
  worth saying? If the answer is ‘no,’ simply
  say, ‘Thank you.’
HABIT 7
• ‘Speaking when angry – The problem with
  losing your temper at work is that you also
  lose control. If you get angry, you’ll gain a
  reputation for being volatile and unbalanced.
HABIT 8
• Negativity, or ‘Let me explain why that won’t
  work’ – Some people’s first response to any input is
  to point out that it won’t work and why. Such
  negativity may disguise itself as being helpful, but it
  is criticism wrapped in an ‘I know better attitude. If
  your first response is always negative, people will
  become reluctant to present you with new ideas.
HABIT 9
• ‘Withholding information’ – In the chess
  game of power, withholding information is a
  favorite, albeit devious, gambit. Rather than
  giving you an advantage, however, this power
  play only breeds mistrust.
HABIT 10
• ‘Failing to give proper recognition’ – If you
  want to foster resentment among your
  coworkers, this failing will do just that. People
  need to experience the emotional payoff of
  having their hard work, contribution and
  success acknowledged and appreciated.
HABIT 11
• ‘Claiming credit that you don’t deserve’ –
  Even worse than withholding recognition is
  claiming credit for someone else’s work. To
  avoid this leadership crime, just decide that the
  group’s achievement matters more than your
  individual achievement.
HABIT 12
• ‘Making excuses’ – Excuses are not acceptable.
  They come in two categories: ‘blunt and subtle.’ A
  blunt excuse is, ‘Sorry I’m late; I got caught in
  traffic.’ A subtle excuse is when you blame some
  inherent failing like, ‘I’m bad at returning phone
  calls.’ Ask yourself why you have such failings, and
  then do something about them.
HABIT 13
• ‘Clinging to the past’ – This is an offshoot of
  the general tendency to place blame, and it
  stems from assigning the fault for mistakes to
  someone or some event that happened years
  ago. It reflects a lack of accountability.
HABIT 14
• ‘Playing favorites’ – Leaders often say that
  they want to be challenged, but in reality, it is
  often the yes-men and -women who get in the
  boss’s good graces. When a person gets the
  boss’s approval based on something other than
  performance, favoritism is often the cause.
HABIT 15
• ‘Refusing to express regret’ – Apologizing is
  very painful for many successful people,
  because they hate admitting that they were
  wrong. However, when you do apologize, you
  enable people to release ill feelings from the
  past and forge a new relationship in the future.
HABIT 16
• ‘Not listening’ – Not listening is a common problem.
  This rude habit sends many negative messages such
  as, ‘I don’t care enough to pay attention’ or, ‘Stop
  wasting my valuable time.’ Leaders are often guilty
  of this tendency because they feel they already know
  what someone is about to say or they are two steps
  ahead of the other person.
HABIT 17
• ‘Failing to express gratitude’ – Your automatic
  response to any suggestion should be, ‘Thank you.’
  Yet many successful people have difficulty uttering
  these two simple words. Many people wait for the
  perfect moment to express gratitude, or feel that
  showing gratitude will make them appear weak.
  However, ‘gratitude is a skill that we can never
  display too often.’
HABIT 18
• ‘Punishing the messenger’ – This is several
  bad habits rolled into one. Specifically, it is the
  fault of responding with anger when someone
  tells you something you don’t want to hear
  even if it might be very constructive. Again,
  the best response is, ‘Thank you.’
HABIT 19
• ‘Passing the buck’ – Exceptional leaders take
  responsibility, not only for themselves, but for
  the people who work for them. Not accepting
  blame is the flip side of taking credit for other
  people’s accomplishments. And, it is just as
  destructive.
HABIT 20
• ‘An excessive need to be ‘me’’ –
  Transforming a failing into a virtue is the
  result of feeling that the flaw is an essential
  part of your make-up. When you excuse
  negative or destructive behavior with this
  attitude, it keeps you from deciding to change.
THE ROAD TO CHANGE
• 7 STEPS TO CHANGE THE HABITS YOU
  FIND ARE WRONG IN YOUR OWN
  LEADERSHIP APPROACH.
STEP 1
FEEDBACK:
When you are requesting
feedback, ask the person
you are interviewing to ‘Let
go of the past, tell the truth,
and be supportive and
helpful.’ Ask your friends,
family members, co-workers
and clients to participate. If
you are interviewing a
person to learn about
someone else, pose such
questions as, ‘Does this
leader clearly communicate a
vision, treat people with
respect and solicit contrary
opinions?’
D




    STEP 2
    Apologize
• APOLOGISE: An apology serves three
  purposes. First, it claims responsibility for past
  mistakes. Second, it announces your
  commitment to change and, third, it works as
  an agreement between both parties. When you
  apologize, say the words, ‘I’m sorry. I’ll try to
  do better.’ Then say nothing else. Do not
  qualify your behavior or make excuses for
  your actions
STEP 3
STEP 3
• ADVERTISE: Just saying you’re sorry for
  past behavior is not enough. You must
  announce loudly and clearly, again and again,
  that you are committed to making a change.
  This personal advertising helps you change
  other people’s perceptions of your behavior
  and it holds you accountable. It also gives
  people permission to monitor your progress
  and offer suggestions
STEP 4
STEP 4
• LISTEN ATTENTIVELY: Truly great leaders
  have the ability to listen attentively and make the
  person you are listening to feel like the most
  important person in the room. Good listeners
  ‘think before they speak’ and ‘listen with respect.’
  To employ exceptional listening skills, don’t
  interrupt or complete the other person’s sentence.
  Don’t respond with phrases such as ‘I knew that’
  or with phrases that include ‘no,’ ‘but’ and
  ‘however.’ Ask intelligent, relevant questions
STEP 5
• EXPRESS GRATITUDE: Begin by simply saying,
  ‘Thank you.’ Conveying sincere gratitude is a talent
  and an asset. It also helps diffuse potentially volatile
  situations. Go beyond good manners by performing
  this exercise: List the 25 people who have helped you
  the most in your life. Now, write a thank-you note to
  each of them.
STEP 6
• FOLLOW UP: Real, lasting change cannot occur
  without follow-up, which allows you to measure your
  improvement and reminds people that you’re working
  on changing. It shows you are serious about the
  process: and holds you accountable; it demonstrates
  that you care, and that other people’s perceptions and
  opinions matter to you. If you are undergoing a
  change, you also can ask someone supportive to
  coach you as you progress.
STEP 7




  • FEED FORWARD: Seeking feed forward is a four-
    step process.
  • First, choose a behavior you would like to change.
  • Second, have a one-on-one conversation with
    someone to explain your desire for making this
    change.
  • Third, ask that person for two suggestions about how
    you can make the change.
• Then, accept these suggestions as feed forward
  ideas you will implement.
• Repeat this process over and over with
  different people. Unlike feedback, feed
  forward is not about your past behavior. You
  can’t change the past. But, you can use sincere,
  feed forward suggestions to shape a better
  future.
Possess Global leadership inventory

1.Think Globally
2.Appreciate Diversity
3.Developing Technical Savvy
4.Building Partnerships
5.Sharing Leadership
6.Creating a Shared Vision
7.Developing People
8.Empowering People
9.Achieving Personal Mastery
10.Encouraging Constructive Dialog
11.Demonstrated Integrity
12.Leading Change
13.Anticipating Opportunities
14.Ensuring Customer Satisfaction
15.Maintaining a Competitive Advantage
Follow the road to change & possess global leadership
   Inventory ……….

                •Evaluate your life
                •Identify the problems
                •Work on change
                •Have more success…….
                                    Go there…………..




Thank you……….

chakrikurella@gmail.com

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Go there..customised summary by chakri of what got you here won't get you there

  • 1. "Whether you are near the top of the ladder or still have a way a head to climb, you must learn to eliminate barriers and move to where you want to go" Whenever someone experiences success in the workplace, they usually get a very positive feeling out of it. Their self-esteem goes up and they begin to have more confidence in their abilities. However, this only goes so far: often, when a person has a string of successes, they begin to adopt a handful of beliefs that aren’t necessarily true. They begin to believe that they are more responsible than they actually are for the success of projects and they begin to believe that their value is much higher than reality actually shows. This is a human failing, one that anyone with some measure of success can fall prey to. It alters your own behavior in a lot of ways and sets you up for failure, not for success. “What Got You Here Won’t Get You There" holds the basic premise that there are a handful of workplace habits that often keep successful people from making the next big leap forward in their career. The author, Marshall Goldsmith, seeks to identify those habits and help you to overcome them so you can make that next big leap in whatever you’re planning to do with your life. “What Got You Here, Won’t Get you there” is dedicated to all successful leaders who want to “take it to the next level” and get even better. Happy Reading................ Thanks, K V Chakrapani( "Chakri")
  • 2. What got you here…. Won’t get you there! How Successful People, Become Even More Successful! Customised summary on “What got you here Won’t get you there” by Chakrapani K V for M3@The Magnificent Motivation Mantra.
  • 3. More about the Book • "What Got You Here Won’t Get You There" holds the basic premise that there are a handful of workplace habits that often keep successful people from making the next big leap forward in their career. The author, Marshall Goldsmith, seeks to identify those habits and help you to overcome them so you can make that next big leap in whatever you’re planning to do with your life. While this book has a heavy skew towards management, there is a lot of meat here that applies no matter what you’re doing.
  • 4. THE BIGGEST MISTAKE! • One of the greatest mistakes of successful people is the assumption, ‘I am successful. I behave this way. Therefore, I must be successful because I behave this way!’ • Then how do we deal with it?.......
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  • 6. Any success in leadership manifest some bad habits that hinder their progress… Identify those and pave the road to change……….
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  • 8. HABIT 1 “Winning too much” – The most common behavioral problem among successful people is the all-consuming need to win, even when winning doesn’t matter. This need is often the root of many other bad leadership habits.
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  • 10. HABIT 2 • “Adding too much value” – When someone comes to you with an idea and you immediately feel the need to improve it, you are guilty of adding too much value. This fault is common among experienced, successful people who feel that they are being told something they know or who believe that they already know a better way.
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  • 12. HABIT 3 • Passing judgment – Offering an opinion in a business setting is okay. But asking people for their opinion and then making a comment about it is not okay. Nobody likes to be judged. The next time you get a suggestion, remain neutral and simply say, ‘Thank you’.
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  • 14. HABIT 4 • Making destructive comments – Many successful people believe they are straight-shooters and pride themselves on their candor. But making critical comments or sarcastic remarks is never constructive. If you speak carelessly and thoughtlessly, the recipient will be hurt and will remember, even after you apologize. Comments that undermine someone are never instructive or funny; they only cause pain and humiliation.
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  • 16. HABIT 5 • Starting with ‘no,’ ‘but’ or ‘however’ – No matter how well intentioned you are, when you listen to an idea, suggestion or comment, and begin your reply with ‘no’ ‘but’ or however, you are communicating that you know better.
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  • 18. HABIT 6 • Telling the world how smart you are – Many leaders can’t resist letting everyone know just how smart they are. If you use phrases such as, ‘I already knew that,’ you insult and alienate people, which is not very smart. Before you speak, ask yourself, Is anything I might say worth saying? If the answer is ‘no,’ simply say, ‘Thank you.’
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  • 20. HABIT 7 • ‘Speaking when angry – The problem with losing your temper at work is that you also lose control. If you get angry, you’ll gain a reputation for being volatile and unbalanced.
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  • 22. HABIT 8 • Negativity, or ‘Let me explain why that won’t work’ – Some people’s first response to any input is to point out that it won’t work and why. Such negativity may disguise itself as being helpful, but it is criticism wrapped in an ‘I know better attitude. If your first response is always negative, people will become reluctant to present you with new ideas.
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  • 24. HABIT 9 • ‘Withholding information’ – In the chess game of power, withholding information is a favorite, albeit devious, gambit. Rather than giving you an advantage, however, this power play only breeds mistrust.
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  • 26. HABIT 10 • ‘Failing to give proper recognition’ – If you want to foster resentment among your coworkers, this failing will do just that. People need to experience the emotional payoff of having their hard work, contribution and success acknowledged and appreciated.
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  • 28. HABIT 11 • ‘Claiming credit that you don’t deserve’ – Even worse than withholding recognition is claiming credit for someone else’s work. To avoid this leadership crime, just decide that the group’s achievement matters more than your individual achievement.
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  • 30. HABIT 12 • ‘Making excuses’ – Excuses are not acceptable. They come in two categories: ‘blunt and subtle.’ A blunt excuse is, ‘Sorry I’m late; I got caught in traffic.’ A subtle excuse is when you blame some inherent failing like, ‘I’m bad at returning phone calls.’ Ask yourself why you have such failings, and then do something about them.
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  • 32. HABIT 13 • ‘Clinging to the past’ – This is an offshoot of the general tendency to place blame, and it stems from assigning the fault for mistakes to someone or some event that happened years ago. It reflects a lack of accountability.
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  • 34. HABIT 14 • ‘Playing favorites’ – Leaders often say that they want to be challenged, but in reality, it is often the yes-men and -women who get in the boss’s good graces. When a person gets the boss’s approval based on something other than performance, favoritism is often the cause.
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  • 36. HABIT 15 • ‘Refusing to express regret’ – Apologizing is very painful for many successful people, because they hate admitting that they were wrong. However, when you do apologize, you enable people to release ill feelings from the past and forge a new relationship in the future.
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  • 38. HABIT 16 • ‘Not listening’ – Not listening is a common problem. This rude habit sends many negative messages such as, ‘I don’t care enough to pay attention’ or, ‘Stop wasting my valuable time.’ Leaders are often guilty of this tendency because they feel they already know what someone is about to say or they are two steps ahead of the other person.
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  • 40. HABIT 17 • ‘Failing to express gratitude’ – Your automatic response to any suggestion should be, ‘Thank you.’ Yet many successful people have difficulty uttering these two simple words. Many people wait for the perfect moment to express gratitude, or feel that showing gratitude will make them appear weak. However, ‘gratitude is a skill that we can never display too often.’
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  • 42. HABIT 18 • ‘Punishing the messenger’ – This is several bad habits rolled into one. Specifically, it is the fault of responding with anger when someone tells you something you don’t want to hear even if it might be very constructive. Again, the best response is, ‘Thank you.’
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  • 44. HABIT 19 • ‘Passing the buck’ – Exceptional leaders take responsibility, not only for themselves, but for the people who work for them. Not accepting blame is the flip side of taking credit for other people’s accomplishments. And, it is just as destructive.
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  • 46. HABIT 20 • ‘An excessive need to be ‘me’’ – Transforming a failing into a virtue is the result of feeling that the flaw is an essential part of your make-up. When you excuse negative or destructive behavior with this attitude, it keeps you from deciding to change.
  • 47. THE ROAD TO CHANGE • 7 STEPS TO CHANGE THE HABITS YOU FIND ARE WRONG IN YOUR OWN LEADERSHIP APPROACH.
  • 48. STEP 1 FEEDBACK: When you are requesting feedback, ask the person you are interviewing to ‘Let go of the past, tell the truth, and be supportive and helpful.’ Ask your friends, family members, co-workers and clients to participate. If you are interviewing a person to learn about someone else, pose such questions as, ‘Does this leader clearly communicate a vision, treat people with respect and solicit contrary opinions?’
  • 49. D STEP 2 Apologize
  • 50. • APOLOGISE: An apology serves three purposes. First, it claims responsibility for past mistakes. Second, it announces your commitment to change and, third, it works as an agreement between both parties. When you apologize, say the words, ‘I’m sorry. I’ll try to do better.’ Then say nothing else. Do not qualify your behavior or make excuses for your actions
  • 52. STEP 3 • ADVERTISE: Just saying you’re sorry for past behavior is not enough. You must announce loudly and clearly, again and again, that you are committed to making a change. This personal advertising helps you change other people’s perceptions of your behavior and it holds you accountable. It also gives people permission to monitor your progress and offer suggestions
  • 54. STEP 4 • LISTEN ATTENTIVELY: Truly great leaders have the ability to listen attentively and make the person you are listening to feel like the most important person in the room. Good listeners ‘think before they speak’ and ‘listen with respect.’ To employ exceptional listening skills, don’t interrupt or complete the other person’s sentence. Don’t respond with phrases such as ‘I knew that’ or with phrases that include ‘no,’ ‘but’ and ‘however.’ Ask intelligent, relevant questions
  • 55. STEP 5 • EXPRESS GRATITUDE: Begin by simply saying, ‘Thank you.’ Conveying sincere gratitude is a talent and an asset. It also helps diffuse potentially volatile situations. Go beyond good manners by performing this exercise: List the 25 people who have helped you the most in your life. Now, write a thank-you note to each of them.
  • 56. STEP 6 • FOLLOW UP: Real, lasting change cannot occur without follow-up, which allows you to measure your improvement and reminds people that you’re working on changing. It shows you are serious about the process: and holds you accountable; it demonstrates that you care, and that other people’s perceptions and opinions matter to you. If you are undergoing a change, you also can ask someone supportive to coach you as you progress.
  • 57. STEP 7 • FEED FORWARD: Seeking feed forward is a four- step process. • First, choose a behavior you would like to change. • Second, have a one-on-one conversation with someone to explain your desire for making this change. • Third, ask that person for two suggestions about how you can make the change.
  • 58. • Then, accept these suggestions as feed forward ideas you will implement. • Repeat this process over and over with different people. Unlike feedback, feed forward is not about your past behavior. You can’t change the past. But, you can use sincere, feed forward suggestions to shape a better future.
  • 59. Possess Global leadership inventory 1.Think Globally 2.Appreciate Diversity 3.Developing Technical Savvy 4.Building Partnerships 5.Sharing Leadership 6.Creating a Shared Vision 7.Developing People 8.Empowering People 9.Achieving Personal Mastery 10.Encouraging Constructive Dialog 11.Demonstrated Integrity 12.Leading Change 13.Anticipating Opportunities 14.Ensuring Customer Satisfaction 15.Maintaining a Competitive Advantage
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  • 61. Follow the road to change & possess global leadership Inventory ………. •Evaluate your life •Identify the problems •Work on change •Have more success……. Go there………….. Thank you………. chakrikurella@gmail.com