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things communicators don’t
know about experts
(& vice versa)
Insights for the PAN-NACCDO Conference, Denver 2013
Denise Graveline
@dontgetcaught communications consulting
Let’s make a list
What’s a word you would use
to describe the experts you
work with?
What’s a word those experts
would use to describe you?
(I like “you people.”)
1. Know how to explain the
expert’s default style of
communications, & how to flip it
2. Know the expert’s common
personality type: ISTJ
 Your experts may vary
 Most common type for
researchers and SMEs
 Introverted
 Sensing
 Thinking
 Judging
 Shapes their default
behaviors & communications
3. Their stress looks like non-
cooperation—or worse--to you.
 Myers-Briggs personality
preferences include useful
section on how types
behave in times of great
stress
 So what can
communicators do to
reduce the expert’s stress
and improve cooperation?
…and it looks like this:
Negative, pessimistic
Withdraw or resist
Blame/accuse others
Obsess about
problems
Talk too much or
clam up
Lose control of facts
and details
Can’t come to
conclusions
Get impulsive
Catastrophize
…all bad things for
an expert in public
4. “Busy” is the excuse, but it’s
about control of the schedule.
 You’ll hear “I’m too busy”
less often if you think about
how to help your expert
prepare, train and
anticipate what’s going to
happen
 Acknowledge
communicating is “outside
the box”
 Stems from the sensing
traits of personality
5. Last minute=disorganized &
interruptions=bad
 How experts see
communicators
 Something as simple as
advance notice, time to
prep, discussion about
when last-minute requests
happen can work wonders
6. Expertise is important to them,
but they don’t know about yours
Expert: Connie, I prefer to be
called Dr.
Connie: Oh, sorry. Guess you
should call me "Ms.," then.
Expert: Yes, except I earned
the "Dr."
Silence.
Expert: You aren't taping this,
are you?
7. Experts want preparation—more
than communicators ever imagine,
less than they will admit.
8. Your process is invisible to
them, leading to impossible
requests.
 I need to see reporter’s story
before it runs
 I only have 5 minutes for the
interview on my complex
topic
 Let’s tell them to fire the
headline writer
Impossible requests are a cry
for help. Give them
alternatives that work better
than these suggestions.
9. Women experts, introverts = so
misunderstood by most of us
 Women who type as
“thinking” vs. “feeling” and
introverts in general are
both minorities in the U.S.
 Acknowledging and working
with their preferences will
make them powerful and
loyal communications allies
10. No matter how much they
resist practice, experts don’t like to
wing it.
11. Bonus: Consider the “no-
asshole rule”
 The No Asshole Rule:
Building a Civilized
Workplace and Surviving
One That Isn't
 Quantifies the cost to
organizations for tolerating
jerks
 Consider a corporate culture
that discourages bad
behavior in experts
“This was actually useful to me, and I don’t mean
that to sound as condescending as it’s going to
sound.”
--A high compliment from a
recently coached scientist speaker
Be an Expert
on Working with Experts
for communicators who work with smart people
 June 13 in Washington, DC
 Discount: Register by 5/16,
all registration closes 5/31
 Or, can I bring the workshop
to you?
“If you ever have the
opportunity to take a workshop
with @dontgetcaught, do it!
Best training I've ever had.
Informative and eye-opening.”
Denise Graveline
The don’t get caught blog on
communications & social
media strategies
The Eloquent Woman blog
public speaking
Media training & speaker
coaching
Communications strategies
Experts a specialty

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10 things communicators don’t know about experts (& vice versa)

  • 1. things communicators don’t know about experts (& vice versa) Insights for the PAN-NACCDO Conference, Denver 2013 Denise Graveline @dontgetcaught communications consulting
  • 2. Let’s make a list What’s a word you would use to describe the experts you work with? What’s a word those experts would use to describe you? (I like “you people.”)
  • 3. 1. Know how to explain the expert’s default style of communications, & how to flip it
  • 4. 2. Know the expert’s common personality type: ISTJ  Your experts may vary  Most common type for researchers and SMEs  Introverted  Sensing  Thinking  Judging  Shapes their default behaviors & communications
  • 5. 3. Their stress looks like non- cooperation—or worse--to you.  Myers-Briggs personality preferences include useful section on how types behave in times of great stress  So what can communicators do to reduce the expert’s stress and improve cooperation?
  • 6. …and it looks like this: Negative, pessimistic Withdraw or resist Blame/accuse others Obsess about problems Talk too much or clam up Lose control of facts and details Can’t come to conclusions Get impulsive Catastrophize …all bad things for an expert in public
  • 7. 4. “Busy” is the excuse, but it’s about control of the schedule.  You’ll hear “I’m too busy” less often if you think about how to help your expert prepare, train and anticipate what’s going to happen  Acknowledge communicating is “outside the box”  Stems from the sensing traits of personality
  • 8. 5. Last minute=disorganized & interruptions=bad  How experts see communicators  Something as simple as advance notice, time to prep, discussion about when last-minute requests happen can work wonders
  • 9. 6. Expertise is important to them, but they don’t know about yours Expert: Connie, I prefer to be called Dr. Connie: Oh, sorry. Guess you should call me "Ms.," then. Expert: Yes, except I earned the "Dr." Silence. Expert: You aren't taping this, are you?
  • 10. 7. Experts want preparation—more than communicators ever imagine, less than they will admit.
  • 11. 8. Your process is invisible to them, leading to impossible requests.  I need to see reporter’s story before it runs  I only have 5 minutes for the interview on my complex topic  Let’s tell them to fire the headline writer Impossible requests are a cry for help. Give them alternatives that work better than these suggestions.
  • 12. 9. Women experts, introverts = so misunderstood by most of us  Women who type as “thinking” vs. “feeling” and introverts in general are both minorities in the U.S.  Acknowledging and working with their preferences will make them powerful and loyal communications allies
  • 13. 10. No matter how much they resist practice, experts don’t like to wing it.
  • 14. 11. Bonus: Consider the “no- asshole rule”  The No Asshole Rule: Building a Civilized Workplace and Surviving One That Isn't  Quantifies the cost to organizations for tolerating jerks  Consider a corporate culture that discourages bad behavior in experts
  • 15. “This was actually useful to me, and I don’t mean that to sound as condescending as it’s going to sound.” --A high compliment from a recently coached scientist speaker
  • 16. Be an Expert on Working with Experts for communicators who work with smart people  June 13 in Washington, DC  Discount: Register by 5/16, all registration closes 5/31  Or, can I bring the workshop to you? “If you ever have the opportunity to take a workshop with @dontgetcaught, do it! Best training I've ever had. Informative and eye-opening.”
  • 17. Denise Graveline The don’t get caught blog on communications & social media strategies The Eloquent Woman blog public speaking Media training & speaker coaching Communications strategies Experts a specialty