The document discusses how to properly address unresolved relationship issues and conflicts at Red Oak church in order to promote unity. It emphasizes having the right attitude of humility and concern for others. The right approach is to speak the truth in love through grace rather than law, listening more than speaking, and with God's wisdom. This should lead to the right outcome of restoring sinners and resolving conflicts, with the right determination and response from all involved to have caring confrontations driven by genuine love and concern.