This is a talk we gave at Clark Middle School where Social Responsibility should be shared between the parents and the teachers. However this needs to start in the home! As a parent, I am very close and passionate to this discussion. It's time to protect our children starting in Middle School. This is beyond Cyber Bullying, it's also about their education and career from this point forward. For more discussions and materials please see our other websites. ANNOUNCEMENT: CLARK MIDDLE SCHOOL PTO Meeting Wed. November 16, 2011 6:30pm Guest Speaker: Dean DeLisle Subject: How to protect your children on Facebook Dean DeLisle founder and CEO of Forward Progress, a company who has trained over 40,000 on the proper use of Social Networks and Online Reputation, will give a talk targeting parental awareness in the fast growing arena of Social Networks. It costs nothing to create and use an account; however the cost in our child's safety, privacy, college career and employment can cost them everything. This is a must, so that as parents we know how to address this issue.

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How to Protect Your
Children on
Facebook
Creating a Healthy
and Productive Online
World

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Dean DeLisle – Social Media Coach
• Founder and CEO of Forward Progress
• Founder of MYeReputation.com
• Over 30 years in Business Coaching and Training
• Campaign Development in Social Media
• Call Center, Internet, eMarketing, Event Management,
• Lead Generation, Web Seminars, eSelling
• Trained over 40,000 People in 35 Countries
• Over Two Billion Dollars Sales, 50 Million Leads, Coach and Trained
Thousands of People using Internet Based Lead Generation
• Financial Services, Real Estate, Professional Services, Legal, Accounting,
Manufacturing, Coaching, Educational, Insurance, Agencies, Auto,
Retail, Banking and Channel Sales…..

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Growing Numbers
Interesting Facebook Stats
• More than 800 million active users
• 50% of all active users log on to Facebook in any given day
• More than 35 million users update their status each day
• More than 60 million status updates posted each day
• More than 3 billion photos uploaded to the site each month
• More than 5 billion pieces of content (web links, news stories,
blog posts, notes, photo albums, etc.) shared each week
• More than 3.5 million events created each month
• More than 3 million active Pages on Facebook
• More than 1.5 million local businesses have active Pages on
Facebook
• More than 20 million people become fans of Pages each day
• Pages have created more than 5.3 billion fans

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ASK!

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• Trusted Colleagues
• Like-minded People hanging out
• Similar Friends and Associations
• You have more “Things” in common
• Similar “Beliefs”
• Recommended “IN”

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STUDENTS
• School Clubs
• Health Club
• Sports
• Theater
• Alumni
PARENTS
• CityCountry Clubs
• Chambers
• Organizations
• Charities
• Religious
• Network Groups

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Think about how this works!

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• That Know Them?
• That Don’t Know Them?
• That They Know?
• That They Don’t Know?
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• Personal Challenge?
• Academic
• Career

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Their ONLINE eReputation is
Permanent!

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Their ONLINE eReputation is
Permanent!

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Their ONLINE eReputation
is Permanent!
The Do’s For Children:
• Create a complete honest Profile
• Only connect to people you know
• Constantly build a career minded network
• Talk about your skills and hobbies
• Post positive pictures and content
• Google yourself (ongoing)
• Lock down your profile to known close
friends

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Their ONLINE eReputation
is Permanent!
The Don’ts For Children:
• Accept Friend Requests from strangers (false profiles)
• Publish anything you would not show your parent’s or
employer
• Stay connected to inappropriate friends
• Post questionable photos of yourself or anyone else
• Post anything false about yourself or anyone else
• Get caught up in drama or negative dialogue (Cyber-
bully)
• Join groups who do not serve your career path

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Know their Friends

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Coach them on Posting

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Know their Profile Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Lock Down Settings

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Worried – they can remove friends!

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Protect Your Children
3 Things that will get your Children
in the right direction…..
1. Friend Them
2. Coach Them to Lock Down Their Profiles
3. Spot Check Their Posts and Friends

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Questions?
Contact Us
Connect with Us
dean@forwardprogress.net
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FACEBOOK: www.Facebook/deandelisle/
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