The first thing you need to do if you've lost the love of your life is
communicate – with yourself. You need to get clear in your own head on
what is really going on by ignoring all the noise. Forget the arguments, forget
the fights and just get to the heart of the matter.
You'll have to be brutally honest with yourself here because what you're
searching for is the truth. You want to dig past the clutter and the excuses
and pinpoint the true reason or reasons your relationship began to go south.
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1. First Step Toward A Second
Chance
The first thing you need to do if you've lost the love of your life is
communicate – with yourself. You need to get clear in your own head on
what is really going on by ignoring all the noise. Forget the arguments, forget
the fights and just get to the heart of the matter.
You'll have to be brutally honest with yourself here because what you're
searching for is the truth. You want to dig past the clutter and the excuses
and pinpoint the true reason or reasons your relationship began to go south.
2. Don't gloss over the little things, because often it is simply a combination of
so many little things piled one on top of the other with no one ever going
back to apologize and make things right that add up to one seemingly
unmovable Big Thing.
Many times these small mountains of little things, too long ignored, make a
relationship start to sour. If they keep adding up, things go bad a lot faster.
So really think about the life of your relationship, and be honest with
yourself about what really happened. What were the core events or words
that put a hitch in the smooth turn of the wheel?
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3. Once you've pinpointed all the things you feel are the likely culprits for
pushing your relationship to take a turn for the worst, your next step is to
communicate with your ex. Let him or her know that you want to sort out all
the problems, get them out in the open and talk about them so you can
figure out, together, what went wrong in your relationship because you
never want to repeat these mistakes again.
Here's a valuable hint to remember during these communications: Discuss
does not mean argue. If you can't act like a mature, responsible adult for the
duration of a simple, single conversation to help make your relationship
better now, how can you possibly expect to have a meaningful, long-term
relationship?
So the next step is to find out what he or she thinks started the damage to
your relationship. The point is for each of you to know what the other feels
caused the relationship to go bad so you both will know exactly what needs
working on – by both parties – to fix the relationship.
Next, ask if your partner feels your relationship has a chance, if they are
interested (like you) in trying to change things for the better, working
together to build a better life together, and then decide if you're both willing
and able to do what you now know it will take to make the necessary
changes and put the relationship back on track.
Communication is one of the cornerstones of all meaningful relationships.
If you haven't been communicating with your partner, that could be one part
of the problem. Make sure he or she knows you now understand this and
that from here on out, you will definitely want to discuss your problems with
each other, as well as possible solutions.
4. Why? Because by doing this, by communicating openly and honestly with
each other about your hopes, fears, expectations and whatnot, both of you
will be better equipped to make your relationship much better than it has
ever been, to make your relationship the kind that lasts forever.
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Of course, we cannot guarantee you will get an ex back who truly has
moved on, but, if the flame still burns, these tips will fan that flame
into a bonfire of love between you and your ex love.
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