11. So you feel strange, withdrawn, a little
nervous lately.
12. But if you walked into the same party,
and saw maybe three or four familiar
faces spread out amongst a crowd of
strangers, you'd feel totally different.
14. Most of us think that we need to take
time to "get used to" our environment.
15. To wait until we get the lay of the land,
so to speak, until we feel comfortable.
16. But what if you could feel comfortable
right away, even in strange situations?
17. One of the hallmarks of charismatic
and magnetic people is that they show
up anywhere, any time, and feel totally
comfortable and at home.
18. They walk into a party, and even
though they don't know ANYBODY,
they have enough experience meeting
and talking to strangers, AND a strong
enough belief in themselves, that they
KNOW that they are going to have a
good time.
19. They KNOW they are going to meet
some interesting people, find out
some interesting stories and share
some interesting experiences.
20. All within that first glance across a
room filled with strangers.