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2. Many guys tend to see women as the
"enemy."

3. Meaning if they walk up to a girl, and
don't get what they want, then it's
some kind of female conspiracy. Or if
they go out and get shot down by
every girl they approach, they go
home bitter and angry.

4. To be sure, it can seem like an
adversarial relationship.

5. On a very deep level, women are
programmed to find men to "seem
like" good resource providers.

6. And men are programmed to find
women to "seem" like good baby
makers.

7. It's kind of like we're both, on a VERY
subconscious level, trying to pull one
over on each other. Guys try getting as
much as they can, while giving as little
as they can, so do girls.

8. It's just the way of life.

9. If you walk into any store where the
price is negotiable, it's the same way.

10. The sales clerk, while pretending to be
your long-lost bestest buddy, will
charge you as much as possible.

11. You, on the other hand, while being
ultra friendly, are hoping he gets ZERO
commissions.

12. Friendly on the surface, but adversarial
on a deeper level.

13. But like they say in Ancient Rome,
"Caveat Emptor."

14. Which means it's up to YOU, the
customer, to make sure you're getting
a good deal.

15. It's not up to the store, or the
advertisers, or the sales clerk.

16. That job falls squarely on YOU.

17. Perhaps the reason for so much anger
towards women is that guys EXPECT to
get something.

18. Then when they don't get it, they feel
cheated.

19. Like if your goofball neighbor lied to
you about the price he paid for his car,
telling you he got it for 10K less than
he really did.

20. You go to the shop, asking for the
same price, and they look at you like
you're nuts.

21. This of course, makes you angry, as
you feel like they're trying to pull one
over on you.

22. If you want success with women, it's
up to YOU to make it happen.

23. Nobody's going to give it to you.
Women aren't some magic "reward"
for graduating college, or getting a
good job, or finally getting that
promotion.

24. They aren't a "prize" and neither are
you.

25. You are a negotiator and so is she.

26. And both are you are trying, hoping, to
enter into a long term agreement with
each other that BOTH parties get what
they want, at a reasonable cost.

27. If you want an attractive woman in
your life who spins your propellers in
the right ways, YOU'VE got to be an
attractive man in HER life to spin HER
propellers the right ways.

28. That requires negotiation. Usually a
lot.

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