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Everyone is in a position to lead. even you man
- 1. Personal Branding
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Everyone is in a position to lead. Even you
I am not a leader. Period.
I'm a follower ... and a good one, at that. I'm quiet, unassuming, timid, cautious, and decidedly unadventurous. I
avoid the limelight and disdain any kind of attention. I dislike parties. I have the personality of a stapler. Heck, I
don't even vote. In short, I just mind my own business.
Sound like you?
Well, I have some important news for you.
YOU'RE WRONG!
Sorry for yelling, but I'm trying to make sure I get my message through to you.
Oh, you may indeed be quiet, timid, and restrained. I don't doubt that. You may even hide when the mailman
comes. But, believe it or not, that doesn't mean you are not a leader.
You probably think leadership is genetic and if your last name isn't Feinstein, Kanievsky - Bonaparte or Giuliani for
that matter -- you just don't have what it takes. "These are born leaders," you say. And here, you are quite right;
they probably are, in a sense. But that doesn't mean that leaders are crowned with that title only in utero.
Leaders happen to come in all shapes and sizes and wrappings. Put it this way, if you are a teacher (and who
isn't?), you lead. If you are a boss or a supervisor, or in charge of any work operation, you lead. If you are a parent,
you lead. If you have friends who admire you, you lead. If you have siblings, you lead. The list is truly endless.
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- 2. But there seems to be a reluctance, almost a resistance to think of ourselves as leaders. First of all, we often
associate leadership with charisma. This is unfortunate. When we do that we automatically exclude the
overwhelming majority of people, because how many of us are truly charismatic?
And then there is the fear factor. Fear is probably the sharpest double-edged sword in the universe. On the one
hand, nothing can motivate a person to do something more than fear can. Just ask the petite mother who
witnesses the horror of her little baby stuck under a car. She still cannot explain how she was able to actually lift
the car and extricate her treasure. Nor could she do it again, if asked. Answer? Fear.
But, seemingly contradictory, nothing carries the capacity to cripple and "freeze" someone like fear can. Just ask
your neighborhood deer, who can often outrun a Honda when its life depends on it. But more frequently it stands
frozen at 11 p.m. on Route 42 when the headlights of an oncoming Camry bear down on it. Yes, fear. And it's the
same way with humans.
Fact is, we fear leadership. We see it as a burden we can well do without. We picture ourselves crashing down
from the overwhelming responsibility that it carries.
"How am I supposed to guide others when I can't get my own life together?"
"I'll be exposed as incompetent, unqualified, and uncaring."
"Decision-maker? I have trouble deciding which shoes to wear to the office!"
"The pressure would be too much to bear."
"I will fail."
And the fear is compounded when we picture ourselves on the hot seat, alone at the top, comparing ourselves to
World Leaders and CEO's of major corporations, as if all leaders are rich, famous, or powerful.
The essential trait to great leadership is compassion.
Well, the good news is that you need not be Moses or Queen Esther to qualify. You can just be ... well ... yourself.
Yes, with all your insecurities, imperfections, anxieties, and stapler personality. You are still not ineligible.
The one and possible only trait that is essential to great leadership is compassion. It is very hard to affect anyone
else without feeling a certain measure of caring for another person. It is, I believe, the single indispensable
characteristic that truly unites all leaders. (Notice, if you will, that I am not including the Hitlers, Stalins, and
Husseins of the world, whose "leadership skills" were channeled exclusively in forming oppressive and tyrannical
regimes.)
All truly great leaders throughout history felt a compelling desire to better the lives of others: globally, communally,
or personally. And that desire was an expression of the sense of compassion that resonated within them, no matter
where life's circumstances took them or how turbulent the storms they weathered seemed to be.
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- 3. Biblical Joseph best exemplifies this phenomenon. After having been sold into slavery by his brothers, he finds
himself incarcerated in Egypt: bereft and alone. But as the narrative so brilliantly relates, the events that lead to his
eventual release from prison and ultimate rise to power and reunion, all begin with Joseph's startling
compassionate initiative.
He had already been in jail for nine arduous years. The despair and resignation that swells in intolerable conditions
such as those is, undoubtedly, unimaginable. And yet, Joseph meets up with two fellow prisoners and asks them a
seemingly odd question.
"Why do your faces seem depressed today?" (Genesis. 40:7)
What does he expect to see on their faces, glee? Who inquires of inmates the reason for their foul mood? Only
someone with unusual capacity for compassion. And his subsequent reward is a shocking promotion to a position
of unparalleled leadership.
No leader really sets out to be a leader. People just set out to lead their lives, expressing themselves fully.
When that expression is of care and value, they become leaders.
No, it is not as simple as I am stating it. Compassion is indispensable, but you also need desire too. And that
usually comes only after you have actually tasted the rush that leadership brings.
The special characteristics that define leadership are perhaps best summed up by Warren Benis, a world-
renowned expert on organizational development. He has authored 27 books on leadership. He cites 12 distinctions
between managers and leaders:
MANAGERS LEADERS
Administer Innovate.
Ask how and when Ask what and why
Focus on systems Focus on people
Do things right Do the right things
Maintain Develop
Rely on control Inspire trust
Have a short-term perspective Have a longer-term perspective
Accept the status quo Challenge the status quo
Have an eye on the bottom line Have an eye on the horizon.
Imitate Originate
Emulate the classic good soldier Are their own person
Copy Show originality
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- 4. So remember, you don't have to be Napoleon, King David, or especially great at anything at all.
Just be yourself and feel a little compassion.
It happens every day.
Source: Yaakov Salomon Author of Salomon Says: 50 Stirring and Stimulating Stories .
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