1. Text: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 NIV Version
4 Love is patient,
love is kind. It
does not envy, it
does not boast,
it is not proud. 5
It does not
dishonor others,
it is not self-
seeking,
it is not easily
angered, it keeps
no record of
wrongs. 6 Love
does not delight
in evil but
rejoices with the
truth.

2. 7 It always
protects,
always
trusts,
always
hopes,
always
perseveres.
8 Love never fails.
But where there
are prophecies,
they will cease;
where there are
tongues, they will
be stilled; where
there is
knowledge, it
will pass away.

3. Text: I Korinto 13:4-8 Cebuano Version
 4 Ang tawo
nga
nagahigugm
a,
mapailubon,
maayo sa
iyang isigka-
tawo, dili
masinahon,
dili
hambogiro o
garboso,,
 5 dili bastos,
dili hakog, dili
ulitan, dili
madinumtanon,
6 dili malipay
sa daotan
kondili sa
matarong

4.  7 sa kanunay
mainantuson, sa
kanunay may
pagsalig ug
paglaom, ug sa
kanunay
molahutay. 8 May
kataposan ang
mga
 pagsugilon sa
pulong sa Dios,
ug ang mga
pagsulti sa mga
pinulongan nga
wala matun-i, ug
ang kahibalo,
apan ang gugma
wala gayoy
kataposan.

7.  Who among you here who wants
to be love More by their spouse?
 Do you want to express and
increase your love to your
spouse?
 If your desire is to express your
love to your spouse and
experience the additional love
from them, this message is for
you?

9. It does not envy, it does not
boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not
dishonor others, it is not self-
seeking, it is not easily angered, it
keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love
does not delight in evil but rejoices
with the truth.

10.  A: Acknowledgement of the Holy Spirit in
our lives is necessary to Posses this gift!
Galatians 5:22-23
 B: We can’t control our flesh by our own
might, but we can make it through the help
of the three Person in the trinity (The Holy
Spirit). Zechariah 4:6
 C: Majority of the couples today was
separated/ divorce because they never

11. 4 Love is patient, love is
kind…. 7 It always
protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always
perseveres. 8 Love
never fails.

12.  A: The day that you decided to marry your spouse you have a
vow to him/ her during the wedding ceremony to God to the
Church, to your parents and principal Sponsors. Your spouse was
expecting that you are going to make and keep this vow in season
and out of season.
 I, _________ take you,__________, to be my [lawfully wedded]
(husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my
love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family
and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful
partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in
joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to
support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with
you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both

13. There was a blind girl who hated
herself just because she was blind. She
hated everyone, except her loving
boyfriend. He was always there for her.
She said that if she could only see the
world, she would marry her boyfriend.

14.  One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to
her and then she could see everything,
including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend
asked her, “Now that you can see the
world, will you marry me?”
 The girl was shocked when she saw that her
boyfriend was blind too, and refused to
marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in
tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying:
 “Just take care of my eyes dear.”

15.  A: The girl did not fulfill the expectation
of the guy to marry him after her wish
come into reality.
 B: Doing and completing the expectation
of our spouse is one of the ingredients
that you can make our love ones feels our
love to them.

16. 4 Love is patient, love is kind…
5 It does not dishonor others, it is
not self-seeking, it is not easily
angered, it keeps no record of
wrongs.. 7 It always protects,
always trusts, always hopes,
always perseveres. 8 Love never
fails.

17.  A: In biblical perspective, The couple was obliged to
keep their marriage until the last of their breath. (Till
death do as part)
 B: Since in the beginning until today the message to
the couples was they same!
 Genesis 2:24
 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother
and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one
flesh.
 Mark 10:9
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one
separate."

18. Illustration
Counseling made by George Crane
Newspaper columnist and minister
George Crane tells of a wife who came
into his office full of hatred toward her
husband. "I do not only want to get rid of
him, I want to get even. Before I divorce
him, I want to hurt him as much as he has
me."

19. Dr. Crane suggested an ingenious plan
"Go home and act as if you really love your
husband. Tell him how much he means to
you. Praise him for every decent trait. Go out
of your way to be as kind, considerate, and
generous as possible. Spare no efforts to
please him, to enjoy him. Make him believe
you love him. After you've convinced him of
your undying love and that you cannot live
without him, then drop the bomb.

20. Tell him that you're getting a divorce. That
will really hurt him." With revenge in her
eyes, she smiled and exclaimed,
"Beautiful, beautiful. Will he ever be
surprised!" And she did it with enthusiasm.
Acting "as if." For two months she showed
love, kindness, listening, giving,
reinforcing, sharing. When she didn't
return, Crane called. "Are you ready now
to go through with the divorce?"

21. "Divorce?" she exclaimed.
"Never! I discovered I really
do love him." Her actions had
changed her feelings. Motion
resulted in emotion. The
ability to love is established
not so much by fervent
promise as often repeated

22.  This message was a compilation
of
 Rev. Juanito D. Samillano Jr.
 Resident Minister of Independent
Baptist Church of Gredu Inc.
 Purok Sili, Gredu, Panabo City.
 Email add:
 juanito_samillano@yahoo.com
 Face book acount: Ibcp gredu
and Juanito D. Samillano
 Website: www.ibcgi.org