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LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM/ LDP 2012




              Leadership Development Program -
              LDP 2012
              Blended Leadership Development Program
              Workbook Days 5 & 6
Day 5




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A recap of the LDP so far




Lets review the;
      Leadership Pipeline
      3Ws
      3C's
      OLA
      Psychology of Leadership
      Thinking preferences
      Coaching




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Our Agenda


       Days 5 & 6

                     Day 5
                     Morning
                     • Review of your application to your projects
                     •Optimising your climate – stakeholder
                     management

                     Afternoon -
                     •The leader as influencer – approaches and
                     skills
                     •Application to your project

                     Day 6
                     Morning
                     •Leading up, down and across – effective
                     stakeholder management
                     Afternoon
                     • My plan to enhance Vietnam’s leadership
                     •Graduation



                       © LIW 2012




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A review of your projects and their progress to date


       Project Presentations




                                       © LIW 2012




What are your main observations and lessons learnt?




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Leading other people's people
Influence - Persuasion - Negotiation - Coercion


                The Ladder of Effect
    Escalation of Consequence




                                                                                   Coercion


                                                                    Negotiation

                                                   Persuasion

                                   Influence

                                Self-motivating   Educated Choice Bargained compromise Imposed compliance

                                Low - Volunteer      Recipient’s Resistance            Hi - Objector




                                           “The power of producing effects by
                                                invisible or insensible means”

                                                                                    “Astrol”

                                                                             (Macquarie)




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Manager, marketer, sales person, trainer, coach or parent, your effectiveness is directly
correlated to your ability to influence. It is a truism that we are paid not so much for what we do
but what we influence others to do.
Influence is when you effectively alter someone else’s perceptions, views, beliefs, attitudes,
decisions thus altering their actions. The expert influencer understands people, how they think,
what makes them tick and how to get on the same wavelength.
Successful leaders, entrepreneurs and agents of change, know and appreciate the power to
influence; they do not leave things to chance and hope they make a good impression they plan
and practice their strategy to ensure success.


     Influencing -Communication Styles
                     BIOLOGICAL                                SOCIAL, LEARNED
                      RESPONSE                                      RESPONSE
        FIGHT                         FLIGHT




    AGGRESSIVE                        PASSIVE                       ASSERTIVE




Qualities of:


Aggressive Communication




Passive Communication




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Assertive Communication




Mixed messaged Exercise




                 Exercise Mixed Messages




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This exercise is carried out in 4's
You will be given a statement to say in three ways ;
       Aggressive
       Passive
       Assertive
How do you change your tone, body language and manner?


How convincing are you?h of your colleagues will give you avote out of 5 to give you feedback?


Which do you find the hardest?


Which stakeholders will you need to practice this most with?




       Influencing:
       Clarifying your relationships up front



                     Social Contract
                                  • Technical
                       Needs




                                 • Emotional


                                 • Behavioural




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A social contract is a way of working with someone where you establish clarity up front about
what your mutual needs are.
In pairs try this exercise




If you were working together on your project - ask each other


what are we both trying to achieve and what will be the metrics of success?


What are key characteristics that I know can upset me when working (for instance timeliness,
accuracy?)


What behaviours so w expect from each other?




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Leading Other People’s People



          Persuasion:

          “to prevail on a person by logic, reasons,
           inducements to do something. To induce
          to believe or convince”

          (Macquarie)




       CREATING PERSUASIVE MESSAGES

                                                       The reason I say this
                                                       is…

      That’s WHY….                                     The impact will be…
                                  Statement /
                                                       You will…
      Hence my                  Recommendation
      recommendation…                                  The benefits will be…
      Therefore…                                       What this means to you
                                                       is…

            Relevance /                            Core Benefit And/Or
            Implications                         Impact For The Receiver


   Because you told me…
                                                           In support of this…
   The implication is that..
                                                           Others have found…
   This is relevant
   because…                    Supporting / Relevant       I’m not just saying
                                    Evidence               so…
   You will
   experience/find…                                        To illustrate…

   You too will benefit..                                  The evidence shows…




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Outcomes of Negotiation
      Lose - Lose. This is when neither
         side gains from the conflict and
         usually results in resentment.

      Lose - Win. This is when one party
         is unassertive and lets the
         other benefit despite the cost.

      Win - Lose. One party imposes a
         solution on the other resulting
         in the loser feeling resentful
         and defeated.

      Win - Win. Both parties will gain
         from the resolution with
         improved interpersonal
         relationships.




     Options in Negotiation




                        Competing          Collaborating



         Level of
         Assertion           Compromising




                        Avoiding       Accommodating


                             Level of Cooperation
Source - Thomas 1976



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Where do you think you're preference is?


      Leading Other People’s People



          Coercion:

          “to force to do something by threat,
          law or authority. To compel by forcible
          action”


          (Macquarie)




      Leading Other People’s People


          Coercion Discussion:

          What constitutes coercion?

          When would you consider ever using it?

          What are the consequences?




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Day 6




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Setting the right climate for stakeholders




                                             © LIW 2011
                                                © LIW 2011




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Stakeholder management and mapping
This graphic represents two levels of stakeholders: primary and secondary and how they are
impacted by you/your project: involved, impacted and influencer.




Managing Stakeholders helps you understand:
• With whom you need to work
• How to work with them
• Priorities for working with them




Strategic Stakeholder Web: Your Situation
Exercise
Consider a project, goal, initiative or challenge from your
environment
• Who are the key cross-organizational stakeholders?
• Where to the sit in the world?
• How are they related to your project?
• How critical are they to your success?
• What is their preferred communication style?
• Who is missing?
7 minutes to prepare
5 minutes to share with neighbour




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Stakeholder Management
 Managing Stakeholders




         Involved                 Impacted                 Managing Stakeholders helps
                                                                  you understand:
                     PRIMARY                                With whom you need to work
                                                               How to work with them
                                                           Priorities for working with them

                     Influencer




                                             © LIW 2011




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Working With Your Different Stakeholders




                                 Involved                        Impacted                   Influencer

 Primary                   Actively invest in              Keep informed            Keep fully informed
                            relationship building           Solicit feedback and     Actively solicit
                           Partner to resolve               input                     opinions and
                            issues and manage               Understand how your       perspectives
                            tradeoffs                        work affects them        Ensure that their
                           Jointly prepare for                                        interests are
                            likely outcomes                                            recognized
 Secondary                 Inform as needed                Inform as needed         Inform as needed
                           Delegate tasks                  Advise of expected       Seek guidance and
                            appropriate with their           outcomes                  advice
                            role                                                      Monitor their positions




                          Where is your time best spent?
                                                    © LIW 2011




My plan to enhance Vietnam's leadership



        Organisational Leadership Architecture                              ®




                             Clarity                      Climate            Competence
                     Your Why                   • the culture you want    • Your Knowledge &
          W1         Your What                  around you                skills
      What are we    Your How                   The resources you need    • Your Behaviour &
       trying to                                                          attitude
      achieve and                                                         • Your Leader’s example
         why?


         W2
       Where are
       we now?




                                                    Top 3 actions
          W3
       What next?



                                             © LIW 2012




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Ldp workbook - eng

  • 1. LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM/ LDP 2012 Leadership Development Program - LDP 2012 Blended Leadership Development Program Workbook Days 5 & 6
  • 2. Day 5 Copyrighted by LIW 2/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 3. A recap of the LDP so far Lets review the;  Leadership Pipeline  3Ws  3C's  OLA  Psychology of Leadership  Thinking preferences  Coaching Copyrighted by LIW 3/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 4. Our Agenda Days 5 & 6 Day 5 Morning • Review of your application to your projects •Optimising your climate – stakeholder management Afternoon - •The leader as influencer – approaches and skills •Application to your project Day 6 Morning •Leading up, down and across – effective stakeholder management Afternoon • My plan to enhance Vietnam’s leadership •Graduation © LIW 2012 Copyrighted by LIW 4/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 5. A review of your projects and their progress to date Project Presentations © LIW 2012 What are your main observations and lessons learnt? Copyrighted by LIW 5/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 6. Leading other people's people Influence - Persuasion - Negotiation - Coercion The Ladder of Effect Escalation of Consequence Coercion Negotiation Persuasion Influence Self-motivating Educated Choice Bargained compromise Imposed compliance Low - Volunteer Recipient’s Resistance Hi - Objector “The power of producing effects by invisible or insensible means” “Astrol” (Macquarie) Copyrighted by LIW 6/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 7. Manager, marketer, sales person, trainer, coach or parent, your effectiveness is directly correlated to your ability to influence. It is a truism that we are paid not so much for what we do but what we influence others to do. Influence is when you effectively alter someone else’s perceptions, views, beliefs, attitudes, decisions thus altering their actions. The expert influencer understands people, how they think, what makes them tick and how to get on the same wavelength. Successful leaders, entrepreneurs and agents of change, know and appreciate the power to influence; they do not leave things to chance and hope they make a good impression they plan and practice their strategy to ensure success. Influencing -Communication Styles BIOLOGICAL SOCIAL, LEARNED RESPONSE RESPONSE FIGHT FLIGHT AGGRESSIVE PASSIVE ASSERTIVE Qualities of: Aggressive Communication Passive Communication Copyrighted by LIW 7/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 8. Assertive Communication Mixed messaged Exercise Exercise Mixed Messages Copyrighted by LIW 8/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 9. This exercise is carried out in 4's You will be given a statement to say in three ways ;  Aggressive  Passive  Assertive How do you change your tone, body language and manner? How convincing are you?h of your colleagues will give you avote out of 5 to give you feedback? Which do you find the hardest? Which stakeholders will you need to practice this most with? Influencing: Clarifying your relationships up front Social Contract • Technical Needs • Emotional • Behavioural Copyrighted by LIW 9/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 10. A social contract is a way of working with someone where you establish clarity up front about what your mutual needs are. In pairs try this exercise If you were working together on your project - ask each other what are we both trying to achieve and what will be the metrics of success? What are key characteristics that I know can upset me when working (for instance timeliness, accuracy?) What behaviours so w expect from each other? Copyrighted by LIW 10/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 11. Leading Other People’s People Persuasion: “to prevail on a person by logic, reasons, inducements to do something. To induce to believe or convince” (Macquarie) CREATING PERSUASIVE MESSAGES The reason I say this is… That’s WHY…. The impact will be… Statement / You will… Hence my Recommendation recommendation… The benefits will be… Therefore… What this means to you is… Relevance / Core Benefit And/Or Implications Impact For The Receiver Because you told me… In support of this… The implication is that.. Others have found… This is relevant because… Supporting / Relevant I’m not just saying Evidence so… You will experience/find… To illustrate… You too will benefit.. The evidence shows… Copyrighted by LIW 11/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 12. Outcomes of Negotiation Lose - Lose. This is when neither side gains from the conflict and usually results in resentment. Lose - Win. This is when one party is unassertive and lets the other benefit despite the cost. Win - Lose. One party imposes a solution on the other resulting in the loser feeling resentful and defeated. Win - Win. Both parties will gain from the resolution with improved interpersonal relationships. Options in Negotiation Competing Collaborating Level of Assertion Compromising Avoiding Accommodating Level of Cooperation Source - Thomas 1976 Copyrighted by LIW 12/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 13. Where do you think you're preference is? Leading Other People’s People Coercion: “to force to do something by threat, law or authority. To compel by forcible action” (Macquarie) Leading Other People’s People Coercion Discussion: What constitutes coercion? When would you consider ever using it? What are the consequences? Copyrighted by LIW 13/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 14. Day 6 Copyrighted by LIW 14/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 15. Setting the right climate for stakeholders © LIW 2011 © LIW 2011 Copyrighted by LIW 15/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 16. Stakeholder management and mapping This graphic represents two levels of stakeholders: primary and secondary and how they are impacted by you/your project: involved, impacted and influencer. Managing Stakeholders helps you understand: • With whom you need to work • How to work with them • Priorities for working with them Strategic Stakeholder Web: Your Situation Exercise Consider a project, goal, initiative or challenge from your environment • Who are the key cross-organizational stakeholders? • Where to the sit in the world? • How are they related to your project? • How critical are they to your success? • What is their preferred communication style? • Who is missing? 7 minutes to prepare 5 minutes to share with neighbour Copyrighted by LIW 16/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 17. Stakeholder Management Managing Stakeholders Involved Impacted Managing Stakeholders helps you understand: PRIMARY  With whom you need to work  How to work with them  Priorities for working with them Influencer © LIW 2011 Copyrighted by LIW 17/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6
  • 18. Working With Your Different Stakeholders Involved Impacted Influencer Primary  Actively invest in  Keep informed  Keep fully informed relationship building  Solicit feedback and  Actively solicit  Partner to resolve input opinions and issues and manage  Understand how your perspectives tradeoffs work affects them  Ensure that their  Jointly prepare for interests are likely outcomes recognized Secondary  Inform as needed  Inform as needed  Inform as needed  Delegate tasks  Advise of expected  Seek guidance and appropriate with their outcomes advice role  Monitor their positions Where is your time best spent? © LIW 2011 My plan to enhance Vietnam's leadership Organisational Leadership Architecture ® Clarity Climate Competence Your Why • the culture you want • Your Knowledge & W1 Your What around you skills What are we Your How The resources you need • Your Behaviour & trying to attitude achieve and • Your Leader’s example why? W2 Where are we now? Top 3 actions W3 What next? © LIW 2012 Copyrighted by LIW 18/18 Workbook Day 5 & 6