1. MINISTRY TEAM:
Pastor: Rob Renberg - 738-7840 (pastorrobjr@sbcglobal.net)
Youth Pastor: Matt Amundsen - 786-2699 (pmparkside@sbcglobal.net)
Worship Arts Director: Chad Lippincott - 251-554-9955 (parksidechad@sbcglobal.net)
Church Secretary: Judy Timmer - 399-4410 (parksidejudy@sbcglobal.net)
Elder of the Week: Ryan VanderHaar - 772-1869
Deacon of the Week: John Preikszas - 399-5906
14461 James Street, Holland, MI 49424
616-399-4410
parksidebible@sbcglobal.net (e-mail)
www.parksidebiblechurch.com (website)
Our Mission: Learning from God’s Word…
Growing in God’s Grace…Reaching with God’s Love!
October 6, 2013
10:45 a.m.
Dr. Rob Renberg, Pastor
All In the Family #2
Building a Healthy Marriage
SERMON NOTESSERMON NOTES
Pastor Rob RenbergPastor Rob Renberg
October 6, 2013October 6, 2013
Questions from Ephesians 5:21-33
For the Wife: “Do I love my husband enough to _______ for him?”
For the Husband: “Do I love my wife enough to _______ for her?”
Building Blocks for a Healthy Marriage (1Peter 3:1-7)
For the Wife:
1. ______________________ (vv.1-2)
2. ______________________ (v.3)
Make your outward appearance a neat & attractive
complement to your inner spirit of godliness!
3. ______________________ (v.4)
What would your husband say about you if he really could?!
4. ______________________ (vv.5-6)
For the Husband:
1. ______________________ (v.7)
It’s your job to promote harmony and intimacy!
2. ______________________ (v.7)
3. ______________________ (v.7)
God has called you to honor your wife, to respect
and value her above all others and all else!
4. ______________________ (v.7)
Cementing it all together (1Peter 3:8-9)
Unity & harmony. Sympathy. Non-sexual (brotherly) love.
Compassion. Humility. Blessing One Another.
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Building A Healthy MarriageBuilding A Healthy Marriage

2. This Week
Today Noon Parent/Youth Meeting
Tonight 5:00 pm B.I.G. Class
Tonight 6:30 pm Senior High Youth Group
Tues. 6:00 pm Parkside Runners/Walkers
Tues. 6:30 pm Women’s Board Meeting
Wed. 6:30 am Men’s Morning Group
Wed. 6:00 pm Pioneer Clubs Family Dinner Night
Wed. 6:30 pm Junior High Youth Group
Wed. 6:30 pm Pioneer Clubs
Information For Your First Time At
Parkside Bible…
1. WE ARE HAPPY TO HAVE YOU WITH US TODAY. PLEASE FILL OUT A WELCOME
CARD LOCATED IN THE PEW. RETURN YOUR COMPLETED CARD TO THE
WELCOME CENTER TO RECEIVE YOUR GIFT & WELCOME PACKET.
For prayer requests or decisions, please check the appropriate box on the back.
2. WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO USE OUR NURSERY & CHILDREN’S MINISTRIES.
Our children’s programs provide a warm, nurturing & well-supervised program for your
child. Your child will be much happier with our trained volunteers than in the worship
service and sermon presentation. Lessons are taught at an age appropriate level utilizing
music, games, drama & multimedia & other methods.
3. PLEASE DO NOT FEEL OBLIGATED TO PARTICIPATE IN THE OFFERING.
The offering is for regular attendees who consider Parkside Bible their church home.
As our guest, we only ask that you turn in your welcome card, or bring it to the
Welcome Center behind the fireplace for a gift.
ASSISTING IN WORSHIP THIS MORNING
USHERS GREETERS
Larry Rees Chris Koning Tom & Vicki Strobel (Front Door)
Daniel Furbush A.J. VanKampen Al & Ginny Tennant (Welcome Center)
Sub Keith Welch
SUNDAY SCHOOL NURSERY INFANT NURSERY
Linda Furbush (10:00 am Age birth– Age 2)
Linda & Jessica Furbush
Sharon Amundsen
CHILDREN’S CHURCH LIBRARY
(Dismissed from Service-Age 3-Kindergarten) Linn Bradfield
Angi Fogerty
Lieza Klemm, Regan Zandstra
FINANCIAL TEAM PRAYER PARTNERS
Ryan VanderHaar-Elder Tom Foulkes
John Preikszas-Deacon Don Lawton
Vaughn VandenBrink Angel Alcala
Craig Dykstra
ASSISTING IN WORSHIP NEXT SUNDAY
USHERS GREETERS
Larry Rees Chris Koning Claudio & Marilu Burgos (Front Door)
Daniel Furbush A.J. VanKampen A.J. & Elise VanKampen (Welcome Center)
Sub Keith Welch
SUNDAY SCHOOL NURSERY INFANT NURSERY
Linda Furbush (10:00 am Age birth– Age 2)
MaryAnn & Sarah Dykstra
Holly Renberg
CHILDREN’S CHURCH LIBRARY
(Dismissed from Service-Age 3-Kindergarten) Fay Griffin
Laura & Sophie Coppersmith
Vicki Strobel
FINANCIAL TEAM PRAYER PARTNERS
Kevin Mason-Elder Barry Dekker
Doug Poynter-Deacon Craig Dykstra
Brian Hodgson Kevin Mason
Scott Miles10/6 Jim & Kelly DeFrell
10/10 Owen & Nancee Smith
Coming Up
Oct. 13 9:30 am Sunday School (all ages)
Oct. 14 7:00 pm Annual Church Meeting
Oct. 17 6:30 pm Ladies Bible Study
Oct. 18 5:30 pm BRIDGE @ Beechwood Inn
Oct. 20 10:00 am Building Dedication Service
Oct. 20 6:00 pm Family Night Out
Oct. 21 7:00 pm Church Board Meeting
Oct. 27 6:00 pm Hymn Sing with VanHouten’s
Oct. 28 6:30 pm CE Coordinator’s Meeting
Oct. 30 5:30 pm Harvest of Generosity Outreach
Nov. 1–Nov. 3 Sr. High Trip Avalanche Bay
Nov. 23 9:00 am PBC Holiday Arts/Crafts Fair10/6 Dawn VandenBrink
10/6 Kamea Amundsen
10/7 Jim Crane
10/7 Matt Preikszas
10/7 Chad Lippincott
10/8 Bella Anderson
10/9 Bob Heller
10/11 Jenn Van Dyke
10/11 Chloe Easley
10/12 Kevin Mason
10/12 Kyle Mason

3. New Prayer Requests:
t Pray for continued healing for Cassandra Tooke’s
parents who were both severely injured in a semi accident
in Alabama on 9/24.
t Pray for successful therapy for Al & Shirley Jacobs
so they will be able to go home soon.
Continued Prayer Requests:
t For all who have had recent illnesses or surgeries including
Paul Russcher, Sommer Lentz, and Eric Stone;
t For a safe pregnancy for Kari (Poynter) Reen who is due in March;
t For the homebound: Mary Carmichael, Judy Blauwkamp,
Kay Everett, and Nelvie VanKampen;
t For all marriages in the church - that those that are strained may
be restored and that the healthy marriages may grow even stronger;
t For our children of all ages to lead Godly lives and make wise
choices;
t For our country and that we as a nation will turn to Christ for
guidance.
Church Families of the Week:
♥ Laurie Luke Tim & Phyllis Mars ♥ Scott Miles and Kasey
♥ Kevin & Marcia Mason, Michael, Paige, Hailey and Kyle
♥ Minnema and Patrick
GGF Sister Church of the Week:
† Rush Creek Bible Church in Byron Center, Pastor John Spooner
Missionaries of the Week:
♦ Andrew & Jeneane Hollier, Missionaries to Australia
P. O. Box 411, Kingswood, NSW 2747, Australia
Email: jenandy1@optusnet.com.au
upcoming events!
MEN’S MORNING GROUP
Come to the Men’s Group every Wednesday morning at 6:30 a.m. Come when you
can...leave when you must! Enjoy devotions, fellowship and a great cup of coffee.
LADIES EVENING BIBLE STUDY
A verse by verse study of the Book of James is being held the 1st & 3rd Thursdays
of the month from 6:30-8:00 p.m. at the church. If you missed the first class, that’s
ok - join us for the next session on Thursday, October 17! Get deep into the Word
and get to know other church women more personally! Study questions can be
picked up at the Women’s Ministry Counter. No childcare is provided. Questions,
contact Amy Renberg.
B.R.I.D.G.E.
Join the ladies for an evening out starting with supper at Beechwood Inn at 5:30 p.m.
on Friday, October 18. Then we’ll be returning to the church for simple games and
snacks. It’s a great way to meet other church women! Sign up at the Women’s
Ministry Counter.
ANNUAL CONGREGATIONAL MEETING
Monday, October 14 @ 7:00 p.m.
Our joyful duty calls and it’s important for all members to be at our Annual
Meeting next Monday, October 14, at 7:00 p.m. at the church. There will be
reports from all our ministries and our proposed budget will be introduced
along with our proposed new board members. You can pick up an Annual
Ministry Report today in the Fellowship Hall. Everyone is invited to attend the
meeting to learn what’s happening in our church, but only members can vote,
and members, we need you in order to have a quorum! Please mark this on
your calendar now and make every effort to be in attendance. If for some
reason, you will not able to attend, please obtain an absentee ballot from
any of the deacons (John Preikszas, Doug Poynter, Jim DeFrell, Barry Dekker
or A.J. VanKampen) or from Judy Timmer.
PIONEER CLUBS FAMILY DINNER NIGHT
Pioneer Clubs families:
Be sure to sign up for Family Dinner Night this Wednesday at
6:00 p.m. so we know how many to plan for. Complete the sign-up
form in the bulletin today and put it in the offering plate!

4. JR. HIGH YOUTH GROUP WEDNESDAY AT 6:30 P.M.
“Where Do We Go?”
Games, Food, Small Groups - Invite a friend!
SR. HIGH YOUTH GROUP TONIGHT 6:30 PM
“In the Beginning” Part 3 taught by Ken Kruis
Games, Food - Invite a friend!
OUTSIDE OPPORTUNITIES
HAPPY TOWN CHRISTIAN TRAVELERS The next trip will be on 10/8 called “Tasty Treats
& Treasures” for a fall color tour, scavenger hunt and mystery trip. Want to go to Mackinac
Island with the group on 10/17-10/18, Frankenmuth/Birch Run on 10/26 or Shipshewana and
Essenhaus on 10/29? Pick up flyers with more information at the Women’s Ministry Counter
or talk to Gwen Lawton (298-8674.)
GANG TRAINING Are you interested in learning about gang culture, reasons why youth join
gangs and how we can best reach out to youth who are affiliated with gangs? Barnabas
Ministries is hosting a training session with speaker Detective Drew Torres of the Holland
Police Department at Community Reformed Church in Zeeland on Thursday, October 17, from
6-8 p.m. Sign up for this free training by calling 748-8435 or email ben@barnabasmin.org.
LAKESHORE PREGNANCY CENTER Come enjoy the delicious taste of Orange Leaf Frozen
Yogurt while supporting the ministry of LPC. Stop by Orange Leaf, 184 S. River in Holland
between 11 a.m. and 11 p.m. on Thursday, October 24. Orange Leaf will designate 10%
of the day’s profit to the ministry where they are loving people to life.
FALL RETREAT FOR SR. HIGH NOVEMBER 1-3
AT AVALANCHE BAY WATER PARK!
We’ll be teaming up with all West Michigan Grace
Churches for fun at the water park, bowling, powerful
worship with the GBC Praise Team and a challenging
message from Andrew Clark of GBF. The cost is $65 which
covers all expenses. Pick up a flyer at the youth counter.
ATTENTION ALL PARENTS!
There will be an informational meeting after church TODAY! It is
important that all parents attend to find out the plans for the school year
and next summer! Lunch will be provided.
SR. HIGH PARENTS: Can you help out with the Sr. High Small Group Dinner
Nights by signing up to bring a dish for their meal? A sign-up is available at the
youth counter. Thanks!
PARKSIDE’S ADOPT A LAWN PROGRAM
Rather than Rake ‘N Run this year, we are asking families to sign up at the youth
counter to rake a lawn. (This is not a youth fundraiser.) Families in need can sign
up to have their lawn raked and a couple families per yard are needed to do that.
Al & Sandy Anderson have moved!
Their new address is:
10676 West Stockbridge Ct.
Zeeland, MI 49464
New Phone: 616-741-9341
October 20 - Family Night Out hosted by Sr. High!
October 27 - Sr. High Dinner Night and “Harvest in the
Woods” at DeJong’s.
November 10 - Sr. High Karaoke Night with special guest
speaker Kelly DeBoer.
Sermon SeriesSermon Series
Plan to join us & invite a friend!Plan to join us & invite a friend!

5. DATE GENERAL FUND BUDGET +/-
OFFERING
Month of August $23,264.51 $21,432.04 $1,832.47
Year to Date Thru 8/31 $163,549.46 $182,172.34 -$18,622.88
A note from the deacons: Thank you for your generosity and consistency in giving to
the Lord! Please consider how you can help us meet our budget shortfall to date.
October is Pastor Appreciation Month!
Let them know how much you appreciate them.
Tom Foulkes, on behalf of the
Pastor Appreciation Committee
FAMILY NIGHT OUT
Sunday, October 20
6:00-7:00 p.m.
“Burgers-Brats-Bibles”
Sponsored by Parkside’s Sr. High Youth Group
Plan to join us for a fun family event!
There will be a short devotional, food, fun &
fellowship. No charge for this event.
Nursery will be provided along with a Kid’s Program.
SIGN UP NOW SO WE KNOW HOW MUCH FOOD TO PREPARE!
TEAR OFF AND PUT IN THE OFFERING PLATE TODAY!
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YES I/WE PLAN TO ATTEND FAMILY NIGHT OUT ON 10/20!
ADULT NAME(S) ____________________________
TOTAL NUMBER ATTENDING: ______________
HOW MANY OF THESE WILL NEED NURSERY? (UP TO AGE 3) ___________
Pioneer Clubs will be hosting “Family Dinner Night” this
Wednesday in the Family Life Center before Pioneer Clubs from
6:00 - 6:30 p.m. The menu is beef BBQ sandwiches, chips, pickles,
drinks and apple wraps for dessert. In order to know how much food
to prepare, please complete the form below and put it in the
offering plate today. The cost is $5.00 per family.
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PIONEER CLUBS FAMILY DINNER RESERVATION
FOR 10/9
NAME: __________________________________________________
NUMBER ATTENDING: __________
ADULTS____________________ CHILDREN _____________________
This Wednesday,
October 9
HARVEST OF GENEROSITY
OUTREACH EVENT!
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 30
5:30 - 7:30 P.M.
AT THE CHURCH
PUMPKIN CARVING WITH THE GOSPEL STORY-
GAMES-CANDY-FOOD-MUSIC-FUN
If you would be willing to donate bags of candy or small prizes
for games, there is a signup form at the youth counter.
More details coming soon!

6.  Mixed Adult Class - Christianity, Cults and Religions --
Meeting in the far “North Room.”
Women’s Class -- Gideon -- Meeting in the Board Room.
“ADOPT A LAWN PROGRAM”
If you or someone you know is
unable to maintain their lawn and
really needs some help with raking,
sign them up at the Youth Counter.
We will not being doing “Rake ‘N
Run” this year as a youth project;
however, we will be asking church
families to “adopt a lawn” for
someone in need.
Parkside’s 5th Annual Holiday Arts
& Crafts Fair will be held on Saturday,
November 23, from 9:00-3:00 at the
church! If you would be willing to help,
please contact Judy Timmer or
Jane Tiffany. The Parkside Youth will
be helping but we could use adults willing
to help with the luncheon, the bake sale,
advertising, decorations, setup, cleanup, and helping the
vendors carry in and take out their items. This is a big event
with 65 vendors of hand-crafted items and about 1500 people
attending last year.
WE’RE IN NEED OF ONE PERSON TO HELP IN THE LIBRARY
ON THE 2ND SUNDAY OF THE MONTH FROM OCT. 13 - MAY 5.
SEE ELLA TEN HARMSEL OR JUDY TIMMER IF INTERESTED!
It’s nearly finished! After months of construction, our new Christian
Education and Youth Ministry wing is a reality. To God be the glory
for the thing He has done! We want to celebrate together for our
new facility with a special morning of prayer, praise and dedication
on October 20th. An adjusted schedule for the morning is planned:
Sunday School: 9:30 a.m. - 9:50 a.m.
Worship Service: 10:00 a.m. - 10:30 a.m.
All Church Brunch: 10:35 a.m. - 11:20 a.m.
Dedication & Ribbon Cutting : 11:30 a.m.
“First Look” tours of the new facility: 11:45 a.m.