1. How To Get Him To Ask You Out
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Mandy asks…
How to get this guy to talk to me/ask me out(Pics included!!) ?
Okay, so I’m 14 and he’s 16. He’s super hot and he messaged my big sister (she’s 17) on
facebook last night at like one o’clock A.M asking if I had a face book because he saw a picture
my big sister posted of me and her so he must have thought I was cute. So he added me today
and I accepted, but he hasn’t been online since last night when he messaged my sister about
me. I don’t know him, and he goes to a different school then me. He’s a Hollister model
(According to his facebook and there are pics so I know he’s not lying about it) and has about
1700 facebook friends, 70 percent of them is really pretty girls, so I’m wondering if he just
added me cause he likes having attractive girls on his facebook. He’s from what I can tell reallly
popular and frankly a little out of my league. I’ve never even had a real boyfriend before:/ This
is what he looks like: http://www.flickr.com/x/t/0096009/photos/76663460%40N04/7533524760/
This is what I look like:
http://www.flickr.com/x/t/0096009/photos/76663460%40N04/7533526876/ . Do you think he’d
even go for me? I’m kinda second guessing it now. But yeah, how do I get his attention and let
him know I wanna talk to him? I don’t want to message him first cause I don’t even know if he
saw that I accepted his friend request yet so that would look SO desperate, but I don’t know
what to do:( >> Here are some more pics for you to get a better idea of what’s goin’ on! Him:
http://www.flickr.com/x/t/0097009/photos/76663460%40N04/7533673612/ Me:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/76663460@N04/7533674524/
Seriously, he works there and you‘re so missing the point!!
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2. Blissful Relationship answers:
You are so pretty I think that you two would make a cute couple. I suggest fb messaging him (if
he has THAT many friends, hes bound to go online at some point!) and trying to get his number.
Or try to find ways that might lead to an encounter (dont stalk him! That same out funny) by
talking to friends of yours who are close to him. Any way of interacting at this point would be
good good luck!
Jenny asks…
How do i get over this? Im so depressed from how he treated me?
A guy hit on me on the subway,and tried to get me to come home with him.
I texted my close friend mike. Mike and i were across the hall this summer and for the rest of the
school year. We had been in contact for 5 months. We’d hung out since we got here. So i
texted mike since i tell him everything and i said “some creepy guy hit on me and tried to get
me to come home with him”
Mike answered instantly. “oh no! Thats so scary! I will come and get you tonight when ur
orientation ends”
So he came 20 min by subway and then some just to pick me up at 11 at night. It was so sweet.
I told him he didnt have to but he said “i had nothing to do anyway”
Then we hung out til like 2am watching funny youtube videos and laughing our a$$es off.
Also i was sick, He was like “oh no! Well im right here if u need anything!”
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3. And we would see eachother like every second of the day and eat all our meals together and
tell eachother everything. He also “likes” every single one of my fb statuses even ten secs after
i post them!
He was also playfully flirty and remembered every little thing about me and every single thing
ive ever said to him. Lol.
He also was just so genuinely happy for me, and when i was down he always wants to comfort
me and makes me tell him whats wrong. He was like “always feel free to come to me when
theres a problem. Im always here to talk to. You can come to me about anything”
And we’d text eachother all the time about where we are and what we are doing, if we are not
with eachother. Its like we are tied to eachother
We also would go out to dinner just us frequently (pay separately tho which is no problem) and
we spent 3 hours at a bakery weeks ago just the two of us talking and looking deep into
eachothers eyes.
Also once i told him i almost didnt apply to this college. He replied “NO! Then i NEVER would
have met you! Thats sad…”
Mike was shy about this stuff. Hes never dated before.
He reminds me so much of my father. I felt so compatible to him. We have same exact
interests, fave movies, tv shows, same morals and values, personality, exact sense of humor,
birthdays are exactly a week apart.
Mike accepted me for who i am. I felt so comfortable and secure around him. Very at ease. I
could just be myself and he loves that.
Also mike and i even had said good night to eachother every single night for the past like 3
months, since we would skype all the time and stuff before we came here.
We were eachothers top priority
We started making out a lot sweetly and passionately three weeks ago. We were cuddling on
the couch tonight, and he had this sexy angry look on his face and started kissing me when we
were laying down. Then after like ten min, he just grabbed me forcefully (which i was suprised
he had that force haha) and he picked me up so i was straddling him sitting down. He had this
sexy angry agressive face and kissed me really fast. I tried laying back down, but he instantly
grabbed me and pulled me back up. 5 min later i troed laying back down again, but he grabbed
me up again.
And we fell asleep spooning together everynight for two weeks.
But he never told anyone we r dating. When they asked he gave no answer. we mutually said
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4. we had feelings for eachother. But he still never asked me out…
When i tried talking to him about us dating, he plays dumb! Then one night he messaged me
on fb chat. I told him he was giving me mixed messages. He was confused and played
dumb.Then he instantly changed. He started making uo stuff and degrading me as a person.
Saying he wanted to have feelings for a “genuine nice girl”, and that we had nothing in
common. I asked him why he even kissed me then 30 times. He said cuz he wanted to see if
he had feelings but he wasnt sure.
Btw we r both virgins
He blocked me on facebook and never talked to me again.
Last night i found out he stayed the night at my bff’s dorm Laura. (even tho he doesnt like her!)
and hes said a lot of **** about me and makes fun of me . I tried to text him, but he was very
rude in a tone like “what do YOU want?”
Blissful Relationship answers:
Girl, don’t get depressed over some poohead like him. Guys like him do not deserve your being
all sad. Expose him to your friend. Moreover, if he blocked on you facebook, maybe that’s a
hint that you should delete his number and stop texting him. There is a great chance that all of
those in common interests you guys shared were just him lying.
Throw away whatever he gave you, delete any texts and start over new.
Susan asks…
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5. He says he’s not in love with her, what’s your opinion and what
should I do to get over him?
Doesn’t this sound like love to you? My bf (at the time who is now my ex) who lives in another
state met a female at a club. One day he added her to his fb page, the things she was saying
made me believe that something was going on. I asked him and he denied her. Come to find
out months later they wasn’t friends on fb but I could still go to her page which was private but I
could view her main profile pic and she had posted a pic of him with his arms around her. I was
shocked, and I cried for days. I couldn’t believe he lied to me about that. So that was the last
time I been with him. It was almost 2 years ago. He is still with her. He spends every holiday
with her and take pics with her. When I was upset and said something against her he jumped to
her defense quickly and I found out she has brain cancer, what person will stick around a
person who is sick if they didn’t love them. He swore to God on his life that he did not love her.
He said he started off for sex, then he started caring about her. Like that was suppose to make
me feel any better. He can lie all day long but what fool could believe something like that?
Makes no sense for him to say that he sound sooooo stupid! What’s your opinion and I’m still
in love with him, how to get over him asap?
Blissful Relationship answers:
Its been two years man.
Get some help and move on already.
Donna asks…
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6. So confused D: Should I ask him out?
I have a crush on this guy, I’ve liked him for quite some time. I don’t like him because he is hot
or whatever, I like him and his personalty. My best friends already know I like him, because I
told them. Now more of my friends are asking me who I like. I trust them, they are my best
friends/friends so I tell them lol. My friends are always like, “aww you should ask him out, you
two would be so cute together.” I even told this one girl (I was pressured a bit lol) who I don’t
like so much (she is such a drama queen -_-) and she even admitted that she could easily see
me and my crush together. The thing is, if I ask him out, I don’t wanna ruin our friendship :/
He doesn’t know I like him yet. My friends keep trying to get me to tell him, what should I do? I
really don’t wanna make things awkward, ad idk how my parents would respond to me after I
tell them that I’m dating.
Blissful Relationship answers:
Awe v. Cute question !! Flirt with him when you can but be very suttle while flirting with him talk
to your parents about how they’d feel about you in a relathionship .. Ask him questions like who
you loving? Because you don’t want to ask him out and get a no because he may be crushing
on another girl ! Be sure that he has feelings for you before asking him out !!
Good luck all the best
Sandy asks…
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7. How do you get over an ex boyfriend quickly?
We hadn’t dated all that long, maybe 10 weeks. He was standing right next to me and just
started talking to me one night in the park. At first I wasn’t interested in him in that way at all but
as our relationship progressed, things started getting intense. I
just couldn’t help myself, I fell for him even though I knew better. He
was 7 yrs younger than me, and still lived at home with his mother (at 30!) Even worse she was
always calling him late at night and asking him when he would be home. Two weeks before we
broke up, he started acting distant and weird so i finally confronted him and he said that he just
wanted to be friends and continue hanging out with me but no romance because he wasn’t
planning on marrying me (and he’s ugly!) I was so irrate because he made it sound like i was
only there for his
convenience. We basically never spoke again after that…
Blissful Relationship answers:
A lot of people may act like their with over someone, but the feelings and emotions will stay for
awhile. It will take time.
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