A week end presentation for love , happy marriage and healthier life

1. Love and Marriage
Created By : Raghunathan Janarthanan

2. Ways to make anyone fall in love
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1 First impression, last impression
Start working the eyes
Be open to making the first move
Let your body do the talking
Use the word ‗we‘ prematurely
Confess a little secret
Don‘t play hard to get
No first date dinners
Establish similarity
Try an ego massage

3. Make a Girl Fall in Love With You
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Make sure you have a good appearance, good hygiene, and some manners.
A proper girl is going to be the one that will treat you right.
Don't be scared because if the girl you like talks to people she will talk to you.
If you see this girl walk somewhere and you haven't yet talked to her, then what you
might want to do is introduce yourself.
• Look her in her eyes and ask her what her name is.
• If that doesn't work then just stop trying and move on because she probably isn't the
one for you.
• Never call her fat or ugly, even if its a joke.

4. Get a Good Looking Girl to Like You
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Make sure you actually want her before you attempt this.
Throw a nice smile in her direction. If she doesn't smile back then she's not interested.
If you have long hair, throw it back away from your eyes, so she can see them.
Don't stare, look away from her and continue with what you were doing.
Ask her if she's okay 10 minutes later. If she asks you how you are, say "I'm fine
thanks", and smile again.
• Laugh at everything she laughs at. If she says "that's not funny", you better not laugh.
• Ask her out.

5. Win Over a Shy Girl's Heart
• Get to know her.
• Introduce yourself to her
• Talk to her.
• Get closer to her.
• Try to figure out if she is beginning to be interested in you.

6. Makes Men Fall in Love
• To Protect
Give him a job., Ask his Opinion, Wear Soft Materials, Don his Clothes
 Freedom
Blow him off, Share You own fears, Reinvent Yourself, Respect his privacy
 To shine
Make him happier, Be a Social Butterfly, Play mind games, Act like the grand prize
 Comfort
Let him see you primp, Cook together, stock your pad
 What Yanks Him Back from the Brink
1) They Get a New Opportunity
2) You Never Fight
3) Pure Panic

7. Drive your man wild in bed
Give some subtle suggestions
For men a woman's libidinous longings are not always easy to decipher . If you drop some
hints about what all you want and guide him along, he will love you for it.
 Bowl him over with a wild move
 Offer the spice of variety
 Turn it on yourself
 Spring a surprise
 Don't be scared to be naughty
 Give him an eyeful
 Get rough
 Take over
 Wear his fav lingerie

8. Things girls look for in a great guy to fall for him
• #1 Good grooming
• #2 Be assertive in your
behavior
• #3 Charming personality.
• #4 A good physique.
• #5 Have a good sense of humor
• #6 A man who‘s not a
pushover.
• #7 A good job and a nice
salary.
• #8 A man who‘s respected by
others.
• #9 A confident man.
• #10 A man who looks good
• #11 A good
conversationalist
• #12 Respectful behavior.
• #13 An alpha male.
• #14 Make her feel
comfortable in her skin
• #15 A compatible
personality.

9. Make him fall in love in 90 minutes
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0-5 mins First impressions
5-10 mins The approach first
10-30 mins The set-up
30-60 mins Make chemistry
60-70 Mins get flirty
70-90 mins Create intimacy
Low-risk disclosure includes your likes and dislikes, and facts like where you‘re from.
Medium-risk—where you should aim— involves sharing opinions and dreams. And
high-risk sharing is telling him your deepest feeling, insecurities and fears. Going this
far can lead to getting super-close super-quickly, but there is such a thing as too much
information. Avoid talking about past relationships and don‘t spill all your secrets at
once—confide in him, then wait for him to give something back.

10. Get Girls to Notice and Like You
• Pay attention to them.
Make sure the girl knows that you are there for her and not just randomly talking to her.
Most girls hate it when a guy avoids them!
• Flirt mildly
However, do not try to go overboard. It will make you seem like a player.
• Make sure you just touch her every once in a while!
Read Touch a Girl for more details.
• Try not to flirt with other girls.
This will make you seem like a player.

11. Know if a Girl Likes You
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Be bold and initiate a short chat
Watch for signs of flirting.
Check for random hugs, reserved mostly for you
Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you more often than what you'd consider
the usual.
Observe the way in which she looks at you.
Look at her friends.
Look out for moments where you can play "rescuing the damsel in distress".
Smile at her.
Watch her body language
Notice the little things she does for you.
If you decide that she does appear to like you, confirm it by having the courage to go
and talk to her.
Finally, but importantly, avoid over-analyzing her behavior.

12. Be Romantic with Your Girlfriend
• Make it a surprise.
It is important for a girl to relate your face and name to a smile - it's positive
reinforcement.
• Get to know her.
Know your girlfriend's favorite color, flower, animal or any other information. If you give
her flowers in her favorite color, or you get her favorite flowers, she will be ecstatic!
• Take her out on creative dates.
• Tell her she's beautiful.
• Kiss her and show affection.
• Have fun! Most likely, if you are having fun with her she's having fun too!
• Let her be in charge. Remember, you're a man and a gentlemen
• Be there for her. When she needs love, care or protection

13. Romantic Needs of a Woman
A great lover must be committed to satisfying his wife‘s unique needs.
• #1: To be spiritually ministered to by her man
• #2: To feel safe and secure with her husband
• #3: To share intimate conversation
• #4: To receive a tender touch and hear gentle words
• #5: To be pursued and set apart by her man
A great lover
To build a strong marriage where you and your wife are experiencing oneness, you
must be committed to satisfying her physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. I hope
you both enjoy a lifetime of satisfaction!

14. How to Make Your Marriage Stronger
• Research has long shown that married people are generally healthier and live longer
than unmarried people. Married people are less likely to get cancer and heart
attacks, and have even been shown to be at lower risk for dementia. One study found
married people to be much less likely to suffer from headaches, back pain, and
psychological distress. They are also more active and less likely to smoke.
• But while marriage is distinctively connected to health and wellbeing on paper, recent
research has shown that this doesn‘t extend to troubled couples. In fact, unhealthy
relationships can have negative effects that far outweigh those faced by unmarried
people. A 2005 study published in ―The Archives of General Psychiatry‖ found that
couples who experienced high levels of hostility were more susceptible to illness than
happier couples. It has also been shown that unhappily married couples are more likely
to experience chronic illness, heart attacks and high cholesterol.

15. Ways to strengthen your marriage.
• While it‘s normal to experience some tension and emotional distress within a
marriage, you don‘t want to let the scale tip too far the wrong way, or you‘re at risk
for more than just stress – psychologically as well as physically. Here are seven ways
to strengthen your marriage:
• Reintroduce Dating
• Show Your Appreciation
• Do Small Things for Each Other
• Learn to Edit Yourself
• Respect Each Other
• Be Positive
• Seek Help

16. Things no one tells you about marriage
Love Secrets Revealed
Take a look at the surprising, enlightening, and sometimes hard truths we all face after we
walk down the aisle - and how they teach us about what love really means.
• Marriage truth #1
You will look at the person lying next to you and wonder, Is this it? Forever?
Your relationship mettle is, in fact, most tested on a daily basis, when the utter sameness
of day-in/day-out togetherness can sometimes make you want to run for the hills.
• Marriage truth #2
You'll work harder than you ever imagined,
As two people grow and evolve, the real work of marriage is finding a way to relate to and
nurture each other in the process.
• Marriage truth #3
You will sometimes go to bed mad (and maybe even wake up madder)
• Marriage truth #4
You will go without sex — sometimes for a long time — and that's okay

17. • Marriage truth #5
Getting your way is usually not as important as finding a way to work together
After I sincerely acknowledge his view, it seems to become easier for him to hear mine.
• Marriage truth #6
A great marriage doesn't mean no conflict; it simply means a couple keeps trying to get it
right
• Marriage truth #7
You'll realize that you can only change yourself
Whatever our motives, the effort is exhausting. Transforming a full-grown man —
stripping him of decades-old habits, beliefs, and idiosyncrasies — is truly an
impossible task.
• Marriage truth #8
As you face your fears and insecurities, you will find out what you're really made of
Many of the deepest frustrations in your relationship are an opportunity for you to
confront yourself.

18. Romance On The Road
• I owe much thanks to Montauk, New York, where my boyfriend and I had our first
long weekend away. We spent our days at the beach, ordered in chocolate chip
pancakes for breakfast, and drove around town on a rented, cherry-red, motorized
scooter, having more fun than either of us had expected. Below are three tips that
helped make our holiday à deux a smash success.
• Planning your first vacation as a couple
1. Keep Your Plans Simple
2. Discuss Your Expectations Before You Go
3. Be Spontaneous!

19. Newlywed Stress
• The first year of marriage is when the haze of romance and lust lifts, and reality begins
to set in. Instead of spending time together doing fun things, couples start facing the
reality of life. Newlyweds are often confronted with differences that seemed
unimportant or non-existent when they were dating, but become front and center after
marriage. Scott Haltzman, MD, author of The Secrets of Happily Married Women:
How to get more out of your relationship by doing less, gives long-term fixes for some
of the most common problems newlyweds face.
• DEFINING ROLES
• MONEY MATTERS
• IN-LAWS
• RECREATION TIME

20. Marriage Problems
• Just as we all know, life is not a bed of roses. Things do not work as
smoothly as we expect them to. In such circumstances, we often change
ways, make compromises, negotiate with the proceedings or
sometimes, just stand stubbornly and let things fall apart. Marriage is
the most beautiful relationship that happens to everyone at some point
of time. However, because of our immature attitude and
impatience, most of us fail to keep the sparkle of married life alive.
Remember, life is the way we make it to be. Though things might be
very rosy and glowing in the initial stages, you would soon realize that
there is an undercurrent of negativity, which needs to be adhered to.
Continue in next slide ………

21. • You need to realize that problems in marriage are bound to
come, because two individuals having different personalities meet.
In such conditions, clashes are bound to take place. Keep in mind;
times are not the same always. When a person gets married, there
are lots of added responsibilities that one has to bear. Amidst the
day-to-day tensions, sometimes the person is not able to keep up
the expectations of his/her partner. However, this does not mean
that he/she does not love his/her partner. Communication
problems, in laws tantrums, financial issues or sexual problems are
some of the most popular troubles that couples go through. In case
you are facing one of the above mentioned fixes and are looking for
ways to cope with it, this section would be of utmost help. - See
more at: http://weddings.iloveindia.com/features/marriageproblems/#sthash.8SHswUcs.dpuf

22. • Communication Problem In Marriage
Wedding marks a blissful union of two individuals into oneness.
However, this idyllic union is also susceptible to stumble upon tints of
dilemma and difficulty. There are a number of problems that a couple
might face, right from sexual problem to in-law to even financial
troubles. However, the most common and general problem that couples
face is communication gap.
In Laws Marriage Problem
Just like a coin, marriage also has two sides. While it may seem
extremely blissful and ecstatic on one end, in the other end, it might
turn out be extremely challenging and problematic. Talking about the
not-so-good side of marriage, conflict with in-laws is one of the major
problems that the couple faces. In laws can either be extremely
supportive and close or turn out to be just the opposite. - See more at:
http://weddings.iloveindia.com/features/marriage-problems/#sthash.8SHswUcs.dpuf
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23. • Financial Problems In Marriage
Financial problems in marriage are becoming one of the apparent causes
for strained relationship of married couples. After tying the wedding
knot, many couples in the present time are facing problems related to
money. They then start the blame game for the lack of financial
stability. In fact, the financial problems in marriage need to be tackled
wisely, rather than aggressively.
Sexual Problem In Marriage
Although many experts say, marital relationships reach the dead end
largely due to financial problems, infidelity and lack of trust, problems
with sex and sexuality also rank high. Sexual problem in a marriage can
even lead to unfavorable consequences like divorce, if not paid attention
to it at the right time. - See more at:
http://weddings.iloveindia.com/features/marriage-problems/#sthash.8SHswUcs.dpuf

24. A Week End Presentation
Have a Happy marriage and Healthier Life