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Improving
Communication Skills

     Rahul Jain
     Roll No. 211
    CSE, Batch - C
A Thought


A man is seldom better than his conversation
                                  - German Proverb




Sunday, October 30, 2011                    Rahul Jain
Communication Skills Overview

                            Effective communication skills are
                            a critical element in your career
                            and personal lives.



                            We all must use a variety of
                            communication techniques to both
                            understand and be understood.



 Sunday, October 30, 2011                                 Rahul Jain
What is Communication?
Communication is the process of sending and receiving
           information among people…
                                     Feedback



            receiver                                 sender

                                      Medium
                            Encode              Decode
             SENDER                                RECEIVER




 Sunday, October 30, 2011                                     Rahul Jain
Most common ways to communicate

                                           es
                                    lI mag
                g              isua
         Speakin             V




                            Bod
                               y   La n
              Writing                     gua
                                             ge




 Sunday, October 30, 2011                         Rahul Jain
Communication Goals
                           To change behavior



  To get and give
                                                To get action
  Information




             To persuade             To ensure understanding


Sunday, October 30, 2011                                        Rahul Jain
Distortions in Communication




Sunday, October 30, 2011       Rahul Jain
We need to improve communication... as

 70 % of our communication efforts are:
  misunderstood
  misinterpreted
  rejected
  distorted or
  not heard


 6 people talking in a 2 people conversation!!


 Sunday, October 30, 2011                        Rahul Jain
Critical success factor
The majority of your perceived ability comes from how
you communicate
                                         55% Tonal


                  38% Visual

                                  7% Verbal

 93% of all Communication is non verbal - SKILL

 Sunday, October 30, 2011                          Rahul Jain
Listening and Speaking are used a lot…
              50%
                                                             45%
              45%
              40%
              35%
                                                  30%
              30%
              25%
              20%
                                       16%
              15%
                             9%
              10%
               5%
               0%
                            Writing   Reading   Speaking   Listening


 Sunday, October 30, 2011                                              Rahul Jain
… But not taught enough
              50%
                                                                45%
              45%
              40%                     Am
                                         ou
              35%                          nt
                                                tau 30%
              30%                                  gh
                                                     t
              25%
              20%
                                          16%
              15%
                             9%
              10%
               5%
               0%
                            Writing     Reading    Speaking   Listening


 Sunday, October 30, 2011                                                 Rahul Jain
Common Communication Errors:
   Finishing others’ sentences
   Preparing our response before someone has
    completed speaking
   Multitasking while ‘listening’
   Filtering content or meaning based on the
    speaker
   Speaking for others (we…)



 Sunday, October 30, 2011                   Rahul Jain
A Good Algorithm
  Communication is a two way process!
In order to have good communication:
 Listen to Understand
 Understand before speaking
 Speak to be understood
 Seek understanding before proceeding
 Repeat

Sunday, October 30, 2011                 Rahul Jain
How can it be improved
 Recognition
 Pavlov study
 Not being judgmental
 Stop egocentric communication




Sunday, October 30, 2011          Rahul Jain
What today’s workshop can achieve
  Provide ‘knowledge’ about communication
  Give insight on ‘skills’ needed
  Suggest ways of going about it


 What you need to do:
  Learn the tools
  Take up every opportunity
  Practice, Practice, Practice!

 Sunday, October 30, 2011                Rahul Jain
Observe

                           GOD IS NOWHERE




                                PARIS
                                IN THE
                              THE SPRING


Sunday, October 30, 2011                    Rahul Jain
Why is communication important
  Inspires confidence
  Builds respect in business and social life
  Helps make friends
  Develops a distinct personality
  Reveals your ability to others




 Sunday, October 30, 2011                       Rahul Jain
Essentials of good communication
   Knowledge
     Spontaneity in conversation
     Level of conversation
   Organising your thoughts
   Participating in discussions
   Body Language
           Show v Tell
   Being a good listener
     Listening v hearing


 Sunday, October 30, 2011           Rahul Jain
How to be an active listener
    Set the stage
    Ensure mutual understanding
    Understand body language
    Suspend judgment
    Behaviors that hinder effective listening
          Act distracted (look at your watch!)
          Tell your own story without acknowledging theirs
          Give no response
          Invalidate response, be negative
          Interrupt
          Criticize


 Sunday, October 30, 2011                                     Rahul Jain
Techniques to improve listening skills

                                              SUMMARIZE
                                              SUMMARIZE
        PARAPHRASE
        PARAPHRASE
                                             Pull together the
                                             Pull together the
      Restate what was
      Restate what was                       main points of a
      said in your own                        main points of a
       said in your own                           speaker
                                                   speaker
            words
             words


                               QUESTION
                               QUESTION
                            Challenge speaker to
                            Challenge speaker to
                                 think further,
                                  think further,
                             clarifying both your
                              clarifying both your
                                    and their
                                     and their
                                understanding
                                 understanding
 Sunday, October 30, 2011                                        Rahul Jain
Two basic types of questions
1. Closed questions:
    Get a one-word response and inhibit thought.
        Questions begin with who, when and which
2. Open-ended questions:
        Invite unique thought, reflection or an explanation.
        Questions begin with how, what and how come (not
         why!).




Sunday, October 30, 2011                                   Rahul Jain
Practice Questioning
       Rephrase the following closed questions to
        make them open-ended:

 1.     Are you feeling tired?
 2.     Isn’t it a nice day?
 3.     Was the last activity useful?
 4.     Is there anything bothering you?
 5.     So everything is fine, then?

 Sunday, October 30, 2011                      Rahul Jain
Adding colour to communication
 Images – Describe,
  relive
 Show, don’t tell
 Use audience’s
  senses
      Sight
      Sound
      Touch
      Taste
      Smell

Sunday, October 30, 2011    Rahul Jain
Improving communication
 Don’t use cliches
 Brevity
 Sincerity
 Don’t praise yourself
 Avoid argument
 Be tactful
 Silence
 Enunciation
    Clear, loud, syllables. Flexibility of tone



Sunday, October 30, 2011                           Rahul Jain
Practice
 For distinct enunciation, every word, every syllable,
    every sound, must be given it proper form and value.
   Think of the mouth chamber as a mold, in which the
    correct form is given to every sound.
   Will you please move your lips more noticeably?
   The teeth should never be kept closed in speech.
   Through practices, we can learn to speak more
    rapidly, but still with perfect distinctness




 Sunday, October 30, 2011                            Rahul Jain
Ways to gain effective conversation
  Good use of English – avoid errors
  Improved vocabulary – overlook v oversee
  Avoid old phrases
  Use humour
  Add interesting story
  Improve clarity of voice – practice




 Sunday, October 30, 2011                 Rahul Jain
Public Speaking
What does the graphic tell you about this speaker?




  Sunday, October 30, 2011                  Rahul Jain
The 5-P‘s
   Prior
   Preparation
   Prevents
   Poor
   Performance




Sunday, October 30, 2011   Rahul Jain
From effective conversation to speech
  Overcoming Fear
         #1 fear
  Idea of speech
         Know your subject
  Know the audience
         Target their interest
  Organising the speech
         Tell them…

 Sunday, October 30, 2011               Rahul Jain
Developing Your Presentation

 What is your goal?
 Research your topic
 Develop an outline
 Create or locate learning aids




 Sunday, October 30, 2011          Rahul Jain
AIDA
                                 POWERFUL opener
                      ttention


                                 CLEAR connector
                     nterest


                                 MAIN BODY
                       esire


                                 POWERFUL close
                      ction
Sunday, October 30, 2011                           Rahul Jain
AIDA
                                  Establish credentials
                      ttention    (Me, You, What)
                                  Key point
                                 Create +ve expectations
                     nterest     Paint the future benefits
                                 WIFM
                                    The facts
                       esire         3
                                     advantages
                                     benefits
                                    Me, You, What
                      ction         is required
Sunday, October 30, 2011                                  Rahul Jain
Developing Your Presentation
Making the Presentation Interesting


  Informative
  Fun
  Variety
  Energy
  Audience Interaction




 Sunday, October 30, 2011             Rahul Jain
Practicing Your Presentation
  Simulate the
      presentation setting
           Practice aloud
           Practice standing up
  Time your presentation
  Memorize your opening
   few sentences
  Watch yourself in a
   mirror

 Sunday, October 30, 2011          Rahul Jain
Presenting
 Stage fright
        Feelings follow action
 Talk ‘to’, not ‘at’
 Eye contact
 Don’t judge your audience
 Pause
 Volume
 Pace

 Sunday, October 30, 2011         Rahul Jain
Summary

He who fails to prepare, prepares to fail!




Sunday, October 30, 2011                     Rahul Jain
Thank You
  Rahul Jain
  Roll No. 211
 CSE, Batch - C

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Communication Skills

  • 1. Improving Communication Skills Rahul Jain Roll No. 211 CSE, Batch - C
  • 2. A Thought A man is seldom better than his conversation - German Proverb Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 3. Communication Skills Overview Effective communication skills are a critical element in your career and personal lives. We all must use a variety of communication techniques to both understand and be understood. Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 4. What is Communication? Communication is the process of sending and receiving information among people… Feedback receiver sender Medium Encode Decode SENDER RECEIVER Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 5. Most common ways to communicate es lI mag g isua Speakin V Bod y La n Writing gua ge Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 6. Communication Goals To change behavior To get and give To get action Information To persuade To ensure understanding Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 7. Distortions in Communication Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 8. We need to improve communication... as 70 % of our communication efforts are:  misunderstood  misinterpreted  rejected  distorted or  not heard 6 people talking in a 2 people conversation!! Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 9. Critical success factor The majority of your perceived ability comes from how you communicate 55% Tonal 38% Visual 7% Verbal 93% of all Communication is non verbal - SKILL Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 10. Listening and Speaking are used a lot… 50% 45% 45% 40% 35% 30% 30% 25% 20% 16% 15% 9% 10% 5% 0% Writing Reading Speaking Listening Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 11. … But not taught enough 50% 45% 45% 40% Am ou 35% nt tau 30% 30% gh t 25% 20% 16% 15% 9% 10% 5% 0% Writing Reading Speaking Listening Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 12. Common Communication Errors:  Finishing others’ sentences  Preparing our response before someone has completed speaking  Multitasking while ‘listening’  Filtering content or meaning based on the speaker  Speaking for others (we…) Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 13. A Good Algorithm Communication is a two way process! In order to have good communication:  Listen to Understand  Understand before speaking  Speak to be understood  Seek understanding before proceeding  Repeat Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 14. How can it be improved  Recognition  Pavlov study  Not being judgmental  Stop egocentric communication Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 15. What today’s workshop can achieve  Provide ‘knowledge’ about communication  Give insight on ‘skills’ needed  Suggest ways of going about it What you need to do:  Learn the tools  Take up every opportunity  Practice, Practice, Practice! Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 16. Observe GOD IS NOWHERE PARIS IN THE THE SPRING Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 17. Why is communication important  Inspires confidence  Builds respect in business and social life  Helps make friends  Develops a distinct personality  Reveals your ability to others Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 18. Essentials of good communication  Knowledge  Spontaneity in conversation  Level of conversation  Organising your thoughts  Participating in discussions  Body Language  Show v Tell  Being a good listener  Listening v hearing Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 19. How to be an active listener  Set the stage  Ensure mutual understanding  Understand body language  Suspend judgment  Behaviors that hinder effective listening  Act distracted (look at your watch!)  Tell your own story without acknowledging theirs  Give no response  Invalidate response, be negative  Interrupt  Criticize Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 20. Techniques to improve listening skills SUMMARIZE SUMMARIZE PARAPHRASE PARAPHRASE Pull together the Pull together the Restate what was Restate what was main points of a said in your own main points of a said in your own speaker speaker words words QUESTION QUESTION Challenge speaker to Challenge speaker to think further, think further, clarifying both your clarifying both your and their and their understanding understanding Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 21. Two basic types of questions 1. Closed questions:  Get a one-word response and inhibit thought.  Questions begin with who, when and which 2. Open-ended questions:  Invite unique thought, reflection or an explanation.  Questions begin with how, what and how come (not why!). Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 22. Practice Questioning  Rephrase the following closed questions to make them open-ended: 1. Are you feeling tired? 2. Isn’t it a nice day? 3. Was the last activity useful? 4. Is there anything bothering you? 5. So everything is fine, then? Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 23. Adding colour to communication  Images – Describe, relive  Show, don’t tell  Use audience’s senses  Sight  Sound  Touch  Taste  Smell Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 24. Improving communication  Don’t use cliches  Brevity  Sincerity  Don’t praise yourself  Avoid argument  Be tactful  Silence  Enunciation  Clear, loud, syllables. Flexibility of tone Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 25. Practice  For distinct enunciation, every word, every syllable, every sound, must be given it proper form and value.  Think of the mouth chamber as a mold, in which the correct form is given to every sound.  Will you please move your lips more noticeably?  The teeth should never be kept closed in speech.  Through practices, we can learn to speak more rapidly, but still with perfect distinctness Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 26. Ways to gain effective conversation  Good use of English – avoid errors  Improved vocabulary – overlook v oversee  Avoid old phrases  Use humour  Add interesting story  Improve clarity of voice – practice Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 28. What does the graphic tell you about this speaker? Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 29. The 5-P‘s  Prior  Preparation  Prevents  Poor  Performance Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 30. From effective conversation to speech  Overcoming Fear  #1 fear  Idea of speech  Know your subject  Know the audience  Target their interest  Organising the speech  Tell them… Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 31. Developing Your Presentation  What is your goal?  Research your topic  Develop an outline  Create or locate learning aids Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 32. AIDA POWERFUL opener ttention CLEAR connector nterest MAIN BODY esire POWERFUL close ction Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 33. AIDA Establish credentials ttention (Me, You, What) Key point Create +ve expectations nterest Paint the future benefits WIFM The facts esire  3  advantages  benefits Me, You, What ction is required Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 34. Developing Your Presentation Making the Presentation Interesting  Informative  Fun  Variety  Energy  Audience Interaction Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 35. Practicing Your Presentation  Simulate the presentation setting  Practice aloud  Practice standing up  Time your presentation  Memorize your opening few sentences  Watch yourself in a mirror Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 36. Presenting  Stage fright  Feelings follow action  Talk ‘to’, not ‘at’  Eye contact  Don’t judge your audience  Pause  Volume  Pace Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 37. Summary He who fails to prepare, prepares to fail! Sunday, October 30, 2011 Rahul Jain
  • 38. Thank You Rahul Jain Roll No. 211 CSE, Batch - C