HELLO!!!??? Two atrocities hit the news now and then; Someone kills someone else. And someone kills themselves. So much of this is due to the lack of love and affection. It could be the police officer who shoots someone down in cold blood (their lack of mental & physical balance) or it could be someone's pent up anger and want for release. It gets deep, so in this edition of Relentless Daily, I take it there.
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Sexual Repression - A Relentless Report
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SEXUAL
FRUSTRATION
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“I come from a
past life of
sexual
repression
that was
deeply
rooted in
my late
teens and
early 20s,
until my
mid 30;s”
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2. I WONDER IF YOU
(MAN or WOMAN)
HAVE ISSUES WITH
SEXUAL
REPRESSION?
I wonder if you're in
control of it, if you are
being controlled by it, or if
you’re even aware of your
sexual repression. What
are you doing about it?
Are you happily
involved in a committed
relationship? Are you
happily married? Maybe you’re married, but that is merely on paper, and you still
happen to be single and looking? LOL! You might understand what I'm talking
about when I say that “happily involved” and “happily married” is most likely
giving you the necessary physical interaction we need as human beings. My
friends, hugs are important! Many times in our lives we may go through a
drought. It may even be seasonal due to one of you traveling. It may be
coincidental, where your significant other is on duty in the military. It may be none
of that and the two of you are just poor communicators. How many of us know
people who are in relationships where the sex is “labor” and not at all enjoyable?
After all, mastering that relationship takes a professional approach! Women are
COMPLEX BEINGS! But they can also be simple, especially if there are certain
understandings between the two of you. This ain’t hard (once you know your
s t u f f ! Once you’re READY to get it right!)
But let me speak to my single folk out there and remind
you all that even mastering average people skills
takes practice. So if you're not in a position where
you are around people, and you’re not interacting
physically with people all day, you can experience a
drought. Many people who travel know what I'm talking
about. You are in some foreign place where you have no
friends and you find yourself becoming more friendly with
people just to fabricate a connection. If you can't create it
within your work, and if you’re not already working that
body to the point of exhaustion, where that comfortable
pillow is callin for you, then you may find yourself
wandering. You may find yourself searching for social
experiences like movies and nightclubs where that
3. human interaction is almost necessary and anticipated. For instance, in a movie
theater you know you must cope with people, whether directly or indirectly. In a
nightclub, there is an expectation of boy meets girl/most clubs, anyway. Of
course, coffee shops are an amazing environment to meet and connect with
folks. And if you are not interacting with people, then what ARE you doing?
Overdosing on porn, maybe? Oh not you. You, yeah YOU
over there… you’re just busy making use of idle time,
right? You’re the progressive/productive type in the world
who doesn’t squander idle time. Right? ;-)
The other day I watched Beyonce’s concert film that
took us behind the scenes with her traveling, being
homesick, and even crying because she wanted to be at
home where she was comfortable, loved and (I know)
where she could receive intentional, physical affection.
(How do I know that? Uhm, there’s a baby in the equation.
Do the math!) Yet, that home-lovin is an affection that you
just don’t get on stage, and definitely can’t get from tens of
thousands of fans.
For me, it is necessary to make use of my idol time. I
come from a past life of sexual repression that was deeply
rooted in my late teens and early 20s, until my mid 30s.
Even then I had challenges. Sure, I had that on off switch, but I know now I had
issues. Today, friends jokingly say I “still” have issues. In ways I’d hafta agree; I
have been random. Am I over my sexual repression? Its hard to say. Though I do
know that when I have an extreme urge for affection (to be touched and to be
loved) there had better be a way to exhaust that urge, or else there will be
trouble! And I don't mean trouble as in violence mayhem and all things illegal.
sexual
repression
could lead to
arguments,
fights, and
other poor
decision-
making.
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4. Be very intimate with your partner. Make sure that you love
her/him dearly, and make sure that they know you love them,
be very affectionate to each other, kiss heaps, hug, play with
each others' parts (penis, boobs, vagina) in a discrete way and
have fun, this will turn you both on
a n d w a n t t o h a v e s e x .
Some Ways To Curve Sexual Frustration
Talk to your partner. If you're in a relationship, the first
thing you should do is tell her/him about how you're
feeling and what the lack of sex or lack of exciting/
enjoyable sex is causing you to feel.
Increase the amount of sex you and your partner
are having or make sure that it is regular. If you and
your partner are not having sex on a regular basis,
make it more frequent. Regular sex is a thing which
each couple should enjoy, happy couples should be
having sex at least once a week, but daily is even
better
But, sexual repression could lead to arguments, fights, and other poor decision-
making. It can fuel my imagination and my talents; but in what direction? If I’m
sexually repressed, would that lead to a character’s raunchy, tyrannic actions? If I’m
satisfied, would I then be more relaxed, perhaps looking to deliver more motivation
and inspiration through that same character? Perhaps some sort of evolution or
breakthrough he/she is experiencing? INDEED, that psychosomatic balance can
weigh heavily on what a writer writes, how a boxer boxes, and how a police officer
officiates!
I’m thankful for my allegiance with the local chiropractor, for massages, my heavy
workload and my extreme passion and dedication to my talent. And of course
there’s my daily workout routine. Another truth is I get my dose of sexual
intercourse every now and then. Hey, you’re either getting it, or you’re not! Some of
us find release in church. They call it “catching the Holy Spirit,” when in fact
(sometimes) it is merely the want to yell and scream and shout and dance and
release all that pent-up energy or anxiety inside of us. Not that your want for faith
and allegiance to your God is manufactured. I don't mean that in any broad sense,
even though that is the truth in some instances. What I am hoping is that you're
clear about the reality of our needs as human beings; our need for release. And I
hope you satisfy that urge before you do or say something your regret.
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Friends, without these various means of release, whether mentally or
physically, a person could have extreme issues. If you're not already familiar, there is
something known as a psychosomatic balance; that is a balance between your mind
and your body. That balance is necessary in order for you to think clearly, to perform
efficiently and there are those little things known as patience and confidence.
Patience affects all of us when you’re driving along the thruway, considering who has
the right-of-way, who you let pass, who you don't. Someone with a psychosomatic
imbalance could easily create a situation out of a coincidence. And that could lead to
road rage. But road rage is a lot less likely when you have psychosomatic balance.
When you’re feeling loved. Things that may have bothered you in one state of mind
may not bother you in the other—the relaxed state of mind. There is an age-old rule
in boxing that keeps a boxer from sexual involvement in the days leading up to a
prizefight. The idea is for the fighter to maintain his stamina and energy and that
desire to win the fight. That is the same stamina energy and desire that a woman
expects to see and experience when her husband has been gone for a long time, or
when they have not had relations for a while. If she knows her man well, she will be
able to tell if he has been with another woman or if he has somehow "released"
without her presence. And again, release comes in various forms and does not
When is the last time you
relaxed? When is the last time
you had a days worth of water?
When is the last time that you
took a deep breath, not to
survive but to live? When is the
last time you meditated, and
allowed nothingness to wash
away all of your concerns, your
headaches and your worries?
When is the last time that you
allowed your imagination to
wander, to explore, to reach for
the healthiness, the happiness,
the Holiness and the greatness
that you know awaits you?
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6. necessarily mean sex. Jogging can get that “edge” off
of one’s mind. A cold shower has been known to help.
However, every one of you knows exactly what I'm
talking about when I remind you of how relaxed and
how at ease you are following ejaculation. Sex is the
major most activity to handle that urge! And if you don’t
have that satisfaction, you could very well find yourself
looking for it in the wrong places!
So, I will end this as I started it: how are you dealing with your sexual repression?
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