Romello Mack has written a dating book on how to to have affairs with married women that is quietly taking the Internet by storm. But what makes him an expert on such a controversial subject?

1. What Makes Romello Mack an Expert?
by Romello Mack
Romello Mack has written a dating book on how to to have affairs with married women that is
quietly taking the Internet by storm. But what makes him an expert on such a controversial
subject?
At least 2­3 times a week I get emails from guys who challenge me, posing one simple question:
Hey, dude, what the hell makes you an expert at seducing married women? Some of these
emails are by guys who have read my book and "don't believe the hype", while other emails
come from guys who haven't even read the book! They all have one thing in common: They send
me nasty emails claiming that I'm a fraud and that I have no business writing a book about
seducing married women because I don't know what the hell I'm talking about!
Well, yes, I do call myself an expert in the field of sleeping with other men's wives but that
doesn't mean that I know everything there is to know on this subject. Still, I'm willing to bet every
penny that I own that I know more than the vast majority of guys out on the street who are
chasing (unsuccessfully) after women every day and night. Speaking of street, allow me to make
a quick case on why I have some street cred on this subject.
I have failed many more times than I have succeeded
If you've ever read promotional materials or books, watched DVDs or attended seminars by
self­proclaimed pick­up artists, you know that they all tend to point to their successes with
women as proof that they are experts at picking up women, seducing them, etc. Well, look, I've
had success bedding married women, otherwise I wouldn't have written the book. But when you
read my book and check out the posts in this blog, you'll see that I also write extensively about
my failures with married women.
The fact is, I have failed much more than I have succeeded with married women. It's my failures
and my ability to learn from those failures ­ and succeed ­ that makes me feel comfortable
calling myself an expert.
When I was younger I was horrible at picking up women regardless of their marital status. I didn't
know how to play the eye contact game. I often misread body language. My "walk and talk game"
was pathetic. It was really quite embarrassing. But I never gave up working on my approach, my
conversation and other elements of my game. Eventually I started to have success with women
and a few of those women were married. But it was only after I failed (over and over again) that I
became successful and I documented much of my failures and lay them out for you in my book
so that you don't make some of the same missteps.

2. I was groomed by nothing but the best
The secret to learning all you can about women is to spend quality time around old school guys.
Since I was in teens I hung out with older guys who were players, professionals, hustlers,
macks...hell, I even got tight with a couple of pimps! I did this so that I could soak up all of the
game of guys who were more experienced than me. They succeeded and failed with all kinds of
women when I was a baby or years before I was born! They knew what I wanted to know so it
made sense to spend time with them; watching and listening, and doing as little talking as
possible!
Things started to click...
Because I hung around older guys, naturally, I found myself spending time with older women.
One of my mentors, a player named Blue, was a ladies' man and through my close relationship
with him I met many older ladies ­ some all of them were married. I developed a thing for older
women and they seem to really dig me too. Yeah, I had the whole cougar thing going on! I got
played quite a few times by older women (again, some of them were married) but those
experiences only made me a better player. It got to the point where I was juggling 4­5 older
women at a time; my life was quite busy!
My success with older women led to relationships with younger sisters, daughters and nieces!
Yep, in some cases I was going through households!
What made me write the book
Look, of course, I wrote the book to make money! You want honesty, right? Because I'm a keep
it real kind of guy. I had been thinking about writing the book for a while but never got around to it.
Then a friend of mine got involved with a married chick, he didn't follow my advice and after the
shit hit the fan (which I told him that would happen), he ended up regretting the day he ever met
that woman. Yeah, it turned out bad ­ really, really bad. How bad? Well, let's just say that my
homie made the local news...
I decided that I had to write the book so that other guys won't end up making potentially
dangerous mistakes like the ones my friend made. Plus, I don't mind making a little money and
gaining a little fame while "educating" guys and having fun!
If you're interested in reading a how­to guide on having affairs ­ for entertainment or educational
purposes, of course, check out How To Sleep With His Wife: A guy's manual to having affairs
with married women.