Teenagers like every human want to love and be loved. They jump in the innocence of their emotional ignorance into relationships that end up destroying further what they were seeking to build. This open conversation though bible based helps teens become objective with their decisions to date.

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5. SHOULD I DATE?
…is love be this?
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6. WHAT ON EARTH DOES
IT MEAN TO DATE?

7. Oh! That
magic
moment…
Down the
beach with
prince
charming,
No wahala
whatsoever…
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8. Who told
you?
What you’re
open to can
infuse you with
knowledge or
confuse your
reality. Don’t just
believe all you
read, hear of
feel out there.
“Who ever feeds your mind
influences your life”

9. “Dating” means you’re going on
dates. You are actively getting out
there and meeting people and
spending time with them.
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10. Hanging out with friends is going on a date
too. What do you do with your friends?
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11. Why Shouldn’t I date?
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12. Dating is a stage of romantic relationships
in humans whereby two people meet
socially with the aim of each assessing
the other's suitability as a prospective
partner in an intimate relationship.
“It is a form of
courtship, consisting
of social activities
done by the couple,
either alone or with
others.”
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13. Errrhh…
Question!
• Are you ready
for a romantic
relationship?
• Are you
planning for
marriage
soon? @mytofnation

14. When a
teenager
decides to
date, he or she
immediately
puts him or
herself under
pressure.
* Unwanted Pregnancy, STDs, distractions,
Loss in personal goals @mytofnation

15. What does the bible
say about this?
S.O.S 8:4
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16. …Imagine! His left hand
cradling my head, his right arm
around my waist! Oh, let me
warn you, sisters in Jerusalem:
Don’t excite love, don’t stir it
up, until the time is ripe - and
you’re ready. (AMP)
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17. When will it ever be time? How
do I know I am are ready?
What to do? @mytofnation

18. Talk
with
GOD!
John 14:14,16
If you ask Me anything in My
name [as My representative], I
will do it. And I will ask the
Father, and He will give you
another [c]Helper (Comforter,
Advocate, Intercessor -
Counselor, Strengthener,
Standby), to be with you
forever
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19. Seek
godly
counsel
Prov. 4:20-23& Psalm 1:1-3
How well God must like you -
you don’t hang out at Sin Saloon,
you don’t slink along Dead-End
Road, you don’t go to Smart-
Mouth College. Instead you thrill
to GOD’s Word, you chew on
Scripture day and night. You’re a
tree replanted in Eden, bearing
fresh fruit every month, Never
dropping a leaf, always in
blossom.
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20. S.T.U.D.Y
Seeking Truth
Uniquely
Defines You
2 Tim. 2:15 Study to shew
thyself approved
Psalm 119:105 Truth’s shining
light guides me in my choices
and decisions; the revelation of
your word makes my pathway
clear.
Develop Yourself!
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21. Focus
on your
dream
2 Matt. 6:22 Your eye is like
a lamp that provides light for
your body. When your eye is
healthy, your whole body is
filled with light
• Do you know what you
want to achieve?
• What are you doing
now to achieve it?
• How confident are
you?
If it is not aligning with your vision it is lying to you
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22. Stay with friends who share same
values & inspire you to your
dreams and your best.
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23. Are you
controlling
self or is self
controlling
you?
GAIN SELF
CONTROL
Emotions are not constant, so
don’t allow variables give you
a constant reaction.
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24. • Know why or prepare to
cry. Seek Clarity.
• Chose further nor faster.
Involve others.
• Wait so you don’t waste.
• Don’t play superman.
Check it.
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day’s job; it is a
daily job. It is not
a destination; it is
a journey.
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