2. People's body language reveals that what they say is very often different from what they think
or feel. You can learn the secrets of body language to give you more confidence and control in
any situation. Body language reveals emotions and thoughts.
3. There are always rules
Read gestures in clusters
Look for congruence
Read gesture in context
4. There are always rules
Read gestures in clusters
Look for congruence
Read gesture in context
5. There are always rules
Read gestures in clusters
Look for congruence
Read gesture in context
6. There are always rules
Read gestures in clusters
Look for congruence
Read gesture in context
7. It’s easy to read body language of children. However; by the time we are adult, we learn to hide
our emotions and our body language changes accordingly.
8. They Talk
You believe it or not. Hands talk. Maximum nerve connections of hand
with brain.
9. Open palm: oath, hand shake, crowd hands to performer, hands up, national anthems,
security checks. It shows openness and honesty.
12. This was a frustration gesture, signalling that the person was holding back a
negative attitude. The gesture has three main positions,
The person would be more difficult to handle when the hands are held high,
than he would be with the person whom hands resting on the desk position.
Like all negative gestures, some action needs to be taken to unlock the
person’s fingers to expose the palms and the front of the body, or the hostile
attitude will remain.
13. People who are confident, superior types or who use minimal or
restricted body gestures often use this gesture, and, by doing so,
they signal their confident attitude. It is frequently used in
superior/subordinate interaction and that it can be an isolated
gesture which indicates a confident or 'know-it-all' attitude.
Managers often use this gesture position when giving instructions
or advice to subordinates and it is particularly common among
accountants, lawyers, managers and the like. The gesture has two
versions,
14. The further the hand
is moved up the back,
Superiority/Confidence Signal of frustration the more angry the
Gesture and an attempt at person has become.
self-control. He is showing a
greater attempt at
self-control
18. The standard arm-
cross gesture is a
universal gesture
signifying the same
defensive or negative
attitude almost
everywhere. It is
commonly seen when
a person is among
strangers in public
meetings, queues,
cafeterias, elevators or
anywhere that people
feel uncertain or
insecure.
19. The full arm-cross
gesture the person has
clenched fists, it indicates
a hostile and defensive
attitude.
The person using this
gesture cluster has an
attacking attitude, as
opposed to the person.
20. This gesture is the
defensive version of
both arms being
held horizontally in
front of the body with
both thumbs up to
show that the user is
'cool'.
21. Lack of confidence
The full arm-cross
gesture the person has
clenched fists, it indicates
a hostile and defensive
attitude.
The person using this
gesture cluster has an
attacking attitude, as
opposed to the person.
23. Disguised arm-cross gestures are highly
sophisticated gestures used by people who
are continually exposed to others. This group
includes politicians, sales people, television
personalities and the like who do not want
their audience to detect that they are unsure of
themselves or nervous.
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Editor's Notes
People's body language reveals that what they say is very often different from what they think or feel. You can learn the secrets of body language to give you more confidence and control in any situation. Body language reveals emotions and thoughts.
Give dressing example her
See what they are saying and they are behaving
See the situation
It’s easy to read body language of children. However; by the time we are adult, we learn to hide our emotions and our body language changes accordingly.
You believe it or not. Hands talk. Maximum nerve connections of hand with brain.. They increase the recall. Share story telling examples. Example: Aladin carpet Example: Right hand people use right hand for their favorite point.
Open palm: oath, hand shake, crowd hands to performer, hands up, national anthems, security checks. Act: hands up. Nahin toh goli mar dunga. 2) Ask someone to apologies. “I didn’t do it. I am sorry if I hurt you” It shows openness.
Try to avoid it.
Sign of positive expectstions. Exm: Throwing dice, excitement about the trip. You should use it in sales calls or to create excitement among the audience. Context reminder: winter time. Bus stand.. Guy may be doing it for warmth
