2. Definition
No reliance on words
Any message that conveys meaning without using words
Nonlinguistic way
3. Characteristics
AMBIGUOUS – depends on:
The relationship
The nature of communication
The words
The culture
CONTINUOUS:
Body language (gestures, posture)
Facial expressions
UNPLANNED & UNCONSCIOUS AT TIMES
4. Characteristics (cont.)
LEARNED & INTENTIONAL AT TIMES:
Touching, looking, sitting, distance
MORE BELIEVABLE THAN VERBAL:
When there is a contradiction with the verbal message
Because it’s more spontaneous & less conscious
5. Functions
COMPLEMENT VERBAL MESSAGES:
Clarify, emphasize, add
SUBSTITUTE VERBAL MESSAGES:
Gestures without words
REPEAT VERBAL MESSAGES:
Reinforce & clarify
CONTRADICT VERBAL MESSAGES:
Consciously (sacracsm) & unconsciously (mistake in directions)
REGULATE THE COMMUNICATION FLOW:
Turn-taking, beginning, ending
6. Functions (cont.)
DECEIVE:
Winning a game
Assuring others
Necessary in certain professions
7. Types
KINESICS (body movement):
Emblems – symbolize concepts (shoulder shrugging)
Illustrators – accompany words to clarify meaning (pointing out directions)
Regulators – help with flow, turn-taking and pace
Affect displays – express the type & intensity of emotions (facial expressions,
posture & gestures)
Adaptors – indicate our feelings & condition to others
HAPTICS (touching) depends on:
Relationships
Status
Profession
8. Types (cont.)
PROXEMICS (space):
Personal space – relationships, culture, personal preferences, context:
Distance: intimate, personal, social, public
Territoriality – physical space & items claimed as own:
Primary territory – your very own (clothes, bedroom, car…)
Secondary territory – associated with you (desk at school)
Public territory – claimed only temporarily (space at the beach)
Levels of invasion:
Violation – smth. personal used without permission
Invasion – a claimed public territory used by someone else
Contamination – evidence of territory used is left behind (trash)
9. Types (cont.)
APPEARANCE:
Physical attractiveness
Grooming & hygiene
Clothes
OCCULESICS (eye movement):
Open up to communication
Show concern
Get feedback
Moderate anxiety
11. Types (cont.)
ELECTRONIC PARALANGUAGE:
Emoticons
Acronyms
Flaming – swearing & shouting
CHRONEMICS (use & perception of time):
Monochronic – linear time (“timeliness” is essential)
Polychronic – circular time (“finishing” more important than “timeliness”)
12. Impact on relationships
EXPECTANCY VIOLATIONS THEORY:
Expectations – based on society & culture, personal preferences
Two types: preinteractional & interactional
Violation can be considered with favor (if rewarded) or not
Threat threshold – tolerance of deviation from the norm
Violation valence – the value placed on the violation