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Extraordinary
                          Experiences
                         Is it Real, or is it Hallucination?
                         Using Mystery to Aid Mourners




                                J. Worth Kilcrease, LPC, FT



Monday, March 16, 2009
Extraordinary
                          Experiences




Monday, March 16, 2009
Extraordinary
                          Experiences
                   • Overview




Monday, March 16, 2009
Extraordinary
                            Experiences
                   • Overview
                   • What are Extraordinary Experiences (EEs)



Monday, March 16, 2009
Extraordinary
                            Experiences
                   • Overview
                   • What are Extraordinary Experiences (EEs)
                   • Using EEs in Therapy


Monday, March 16, 2009
Extraordinary
                            Experiences
                   • Overview
                   • What are Extraordinary Experiences (EEs)
                   • Using EEs in Therapy
                   • Warnings

Monday, March 16, 2009
Overview




Monday, March 16, 2009
Overview

                   • Introductions




Monday, March 16, 2009
Overview

                   • Introductions
                   • Bereavement vs. Grief vs. Mourning



Monday, March 16, 2009
Overview

                   • Introductions
                   • Bereavement vs. Grief vs. Mourning
                   • Why consider EEs?


Monday, March 16, 2009
Loss




Monday, March 16, 2009
Loss

                   • Bereavement




Monday, March 16, 2009
Loss

                   • Bereavement
                   • Grief



Monday, March 16, 2009
Loss

                   • Bereavement
                   • Grief
                   • Mourning


Monday, March 16, 2009
Why Consider EEs




Monday, March 16, 2009
Why Consider EEs

                   • Promote Mourning Process




Monday, March 16, 2009
Why Consider EEs

                   • Promote Mourning Process
                   • Common




Monday, March 16, 2009
Why Consider EEs

                   • Promote Mourning Process
                   • Common
                   • Real to Observer



Monday, March 16, 2009
Why Consider EEs

                   • Promote Mourning Process
                   • Common
                   • Real to Observer
                   • Need to Share


Monday, March 16, 2009
Why Consider EEs

                   • Promote Mourning Process
                   • Common
                   • Real to Observer
                   • Need to Share
                   • Personal Growth and Affects Identity

Monday, March 16, 2009
Description of EEs




Monday, March 16, 2009
Description of EEs

                   • Categorizations




Monday, March 16, 2009
Description of EEs

                   • Categorizations
                   • Responses



Monday, March 16, 2009
Description of EEs

                   • Categorizations
                   • Responses
                   • Authenticity


Monday, March 16, 2009
Description of EEs

                   • Categorizations
                   • Responses
                   • Authenticity
                   • Universal Message

Monday, March 16, 2009
Definition of EEs




Monday, March 16, 2009
Definition of EEs

                   • Spontaneous




Monday, March 16, 2009
Definition of EEs

                   • Spontaneous
                   • Previous uncommon occurrence



Monday, March 16, 2009
Definition of EEs

                   • Spontaneous
                   • Previous uncommon occurrence
                   • Originates from outside


Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence

                   •     Auditory




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence

                   •     Auditory

                   •     Visual




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence

                   •     Auditory

                   •     Visual

                   •     Olfactory




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence

                   •     Auditory

                   •     Visual

                   •     Olfactory

                   •     Dreams




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence

                   •     Auditory

                   •     Visual

                   •     Olfactory

                   •     Dreams

                   •     Symbolic




Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •     Feeling Presence

                   •     Auditory

                   •     Visual

                   •     Olfactory

                   •     Dreams

                   •     Symbolic

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •     Auditory

                   •     Visual

                   •     Olfactory

                   •     Dreams

                   •     Symbolic

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •                        •
                         Auditory               Out-of-body

                   •     Visual

                   •     Olfactory

                   •     Dreams

                   •     Symbolic

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •                        •
                         Auditory               Out-of-body

                   •                        •
                         Visual                 Animals & Birds

                   •     Olfactory

                   •     Dreams

                   •     Symbolic

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •                        •
                         Auditory               Out-of-body

                   •                        •
                         Visual                 Animals & Birds

                   •                        •
                         Olfactory              Psi Kappa

                   •     Dreams

                   •     Symbolic

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •                        •
                         Auditory               Out-of-body

                   •                        •
                         Visual                 Animals & Birds

                   •                        •
                         Olfactory              Psi Kappa

                   •                        •
                         Dreams                 Synchronicity

                   •     Symbolic

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •                        •
                         Auditory               Out-of-body

                   •                        •
                         Visual                 Animals & Birds

                   •                        •
                         Olfactory              Psi Kappa

                   •                        •
                         Dreams                 Synchronicity

                   •                        •
                         Symbolic               Crisis apparition/Premonition

                   •     3rd Party



Monday, March 16, 2009
Categories of EES
                   •                        •
                         Feeling Presence       4th party

                   •                        •
                         Auditory               Out-of-body

                   •                        •
                         Visual                 Animals & Birds

                   •                        •
                         Olfactory              Psi Kappa

                   •                        •
                         Dreams                 Synchronicity

                   •                        •
                         Symbolic               Crisis apparition/Premonition

                   •                        •
                         3rd Party              Telepathic Thoughts



Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses




Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission




Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission
                   • Relief




Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission
                   • Relief
                   • Strengthened Faith




Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission
                   • Relief
                   • Strengthened Faith
                   • I’m Still Loved


Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission
                   • Relief
                   • Strengthened Faith
                   • I’m Still Loved
                   • The Body Dies,
                         Love Doesn’t


Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission           • Freedom
                   • Relief
                   • Strengthened Faith
                   • I’m Still Loved
                   • The Body Dies,
                         Love Doesn’t


Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission           • Freedom
                   • Relief               • I’m Not Alone
                   • Strengthened Faith
                   • I’m Still Loved
                   • The Body Dies,
                         Love Doesn’t


Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission           • Freedom
                   • Relief               • I’m Not Alone
                   • Strengthened Faith   • Advice
                   • I’m Still Loved
                   • The Body Dies,
                         Love Doesn’t


Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission           • Freedom
                   • Relief               • I’m Not Alone
                   • Strengthened Faith   • Advice
                   • I’m Still Loved      • Hope of Reunion*
                   • The Body Dies,
                         Love Doesn’t


Monday, March 16, 2009
Common Responses
                   • Permission           • Freedom
                   • Relief               • I’m Not Alone
                   • Strengthened Faith   • Advice
                   • I’m Still Loved      • Hope of Reunion*
                   • The Body Dies,       • Reduce Fear of
                         Love Doesn’t       Dying*


Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?

                   •     Pattern?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?

                   •     Pattern?

                   •     Solace?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?

                   •     Pattern?

                   •     Solace?

                   •     Intuitive feeling?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?

                   •     Pattern?

                   •     Solace?

                   •     Intuitive feeling?

                   •     Encouraging?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?

                   •     Pattern?

                   •     Solace?

                   •     Intuitive feeling?

                   •     Encouraging?

                   •     Spiritual Awareness?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Test of Authenticity
                   •     Suggestive of deceased?

                   •     Pattern?

                   •     Solace?

                   •     Intuitive feeling?

                   •     Encouraging?

                   •     Spiritual Awareness?

                   •     DID IT BRING PEACE?


Monday, March 16, 2009
Universal Message




Monday, March 16, 2009
Universal Message

                 I’m okay and you can be okay, too.




Monday, March 16, 2009
Using EEs in Therapy




Monday, March 16, 2009
Using EEs in Therapy
                         Not for every therapist




Monday, March 16, 2009
Using EEs in Therapy
                         Not for every therapist
                         -   Open-minded




Monday, March 16, 2009
Using EEs in Therapy
                         Not for every therapist
                         -   Open-minded
                         -   On-going familiarity




Monday, March 16, 2009
Using EEs in Therapy
                         Not for every therapist
                         -   Open-minded
                         -   On-going familiarity
                         -   Understand various beliefs




Monday, March 16, 2009
Using EEs in Therapy
                         Not for every therapist
                         -   Open-minded
                         -   On-going familiarity
                         -   Understand various beliefs
                         -   Comfortable with criticism from
                             scientific-oriented colleagues


Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function




Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function
                   • Timing of an inquiry




Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function
                   • Timing of an inquiry
                   • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma




Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function
                   • Timing of an inquiry
                   • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma
                   • Relate to beliefs of mourner



Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function
                   • Timing of an inquiry
                   • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma
                   • Relate to beliefs of mourner
                   • Review message received


Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function
                   • Timing of an inquiry
                   • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma
                   • Relate to beliefs of mourner
                   • Review message received
                   • Pose questions

Monday, March 16, 2009
Therapist’s Function
                   • Timing of an inquiry
                   • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma
                   • Relate to beliefs of mourner
                   • Review message received
                   • Pose questions
                   • Explore choices for usage
Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •     What’s different?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •     What’s different?

                   •     Who is it from?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •     What’s different?

                   •     Who is it from?

                   •     What is the message?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •     What’s different?

                   •     Who is it from?

                   •     What is the message?

                   •     How can you use it?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •     What’s different?

                   •     Who is it from?

                   •     What is the message?

                   •     How can you use it?

                   •     Want to respond?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •     What’s different?

                   •     Who is it from?

                   •     What is the message?

                   •     How can you use it?

                   •     Want to respond?

                   •     What do you need?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •                            •
                         What’s different?          Expression of love/
                                                    caring?
                   •     Who is it from?

                   •     What is the message?

                   •     How can you use it?

                   •     Want to respond?

                   •     What do you need?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •                            •
                         What’s different?          Expression of love/
                                                    caring?
                   •     Who is it from?
                                                •   Your expression of love?
                   •     What is the message?

                   •     How can you use it?

                   •     Want to respond?

                   •     What do you need?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •                            •
                         What’s different?          Expression of love/
                                                    caring?
                   •     Who is it from?
                                                •   Your expression of love?
                   •     What is the message?
                                                •   How to honor?
                   •     How can you use it?

                   •     Want to respond?

                   •     What do you need?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •                            •
                         What’s different?          Expression of love/
                                                    caring?
                   •     Who is it from?
                                                •   Your expression of love?
                   •     What is the message?
                                                •   How to honor?
                   •     How can you use it?
                                                •   New goal/dream?
                   •     Want to respond?

                   •     What do you need?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •                            •
                         What’s different?          Expression of love/
                                                    caring?
                   •     Who is it from?
                                                •   Your expression of love?
                   •     What is the message?
                                                •   How to honor?
                   •     How can you use it?
                                                •   New goal/dream?
                   •     Want to respond?
                                                •   What can you do now?
                   •     What do you need?




Monday, March 16, 2009
Key Questions
                   •                            •
                         What’s different?          Expression of love/
                                                    caring?
                   •     Who is it from?
                                                •   Your expression of love?
                   •     What is the message?
                                                •   How to honor?
                   •     How can you use it?
                                                •   New goal/dream?
                   •     Want to respond?
                                                •   What can you do now?
                   •     What do you need?
                                                •   What have you learned?


Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding




Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write




Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write
               • Sing




Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write
               • Sing
               • Chant



Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write
               • Sing
               • Chant
               • Post


Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write
               • Sing
               • Chant
               • Post
               • Speak

Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write             • Ritualize
               • Sing
               • Chant
               • Post
               • Speak

Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write             • Ritualize
               • Sing              • Symbolize
               • Chant
               • Post
               • Speak

Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write             • Ritualize
               • Sing              • Symbolize
               • Chant             • Contemplation
               • Post
               • Speak

Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write             • Ritualize
               • Sing              • Symbolize
               • Chant             • Contemplation
               • Post              • Mindful Action
               • Speak

Monday, March 16, 2009
Affirming/Responding
               • Write             • Ritualize
               • Sing              • Symbolize
               • Chant             • Contemplation
               • Post              • Mindful Action
               • Speak             • LOVE

Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers




Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers
                   • Loss of self-reliance




Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers
                   • Loss of self-reliance
                   • Failure to seek deeper communion




Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers
                   • Loss of self-reliance
                   • Failure to seek deeper communion
                   • Relying on questionable guidance



Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers
                   • Loss of self-reliance
                   • Failure to seek deeper communion
                   • Relying on questionable guidance
                   • False sense of security


Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers
                   • Loss of self-reliance
                   • Failure to seek deeper communion
                   • Relying on questionable guidance
                   • False sense of security
                   • Failing to perform grief work

Monday, March 16, 2009
Dangers
                   • Loss of self-reliance
                   • Failure to seek deeper communion
                   • Relying on questionable guidance
                   • False sense of security
                   • Failing to perform grief work
                   • Universal need for continuing bond
Monday, March 16, 2009
My Heart Will Go On




Monday, March 16, 2009

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Extraordinary Experiences Part 1

  • 1. Extraordinary Experiences Is it Real, or is it Hallucination? Using Mystery to Aid Mourners J. Worth Kilcrease, LPC, FT Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 2. Extraordinary Experiences Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 3. Extraordinary Experiences • Overview Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 4. Extraordinary Experiences • Overview • What are Extraordinary Experiences (EEs) Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 5. Extraordinary Experiences • Overview • What are Extraordinary Experiences (EEs) • Using EEs in Therapy Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 6. Extraordinary Experiences • Overview • What are Extraordinary Experiences (EEs) • Using EEs in Therapy • Warnings Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 8. Overview • Introductions Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 9. Overview • Introductions • Bereavement vs. Grief vs. Mourning Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 10. Overview • Introductions • Bereavement vs. Grief vs. Mourning • Why consider EEs? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 12. Loss • Bereavement Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 13. Loss • Bereavement • Grief Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 14. Loss • Bereavement • Grief • Mourning Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 15. Why Consider EEs Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 16. Why Consider EEs • Promote Mourning Process Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 17. Why Consider EEs • Promote Mourning Process • Common Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 18. Why Consider EEs • Promote Mourning Process • Common • Real to Observer Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 19. Why Consider EEs • Promote Mourning Process • Common • Real to Observer • Need to Share Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 20. Why Consider EEs • Promote Mourning Process • Common • Real to Observer • Need to Share • Personal Growth and Affects Identity Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 21. Description of EEs Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 22. Description of EEs • Categorizations Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 23. Description of EEs • Categorizations • Responses Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 24. Description of EEs • Categorizations • Responses • Authenticity Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 25. Description of EEs • Categorizations • Responses • Authenticity • Universal Message Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 26. Definition of EEs Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 27. Definition of EEs • Spontaneous Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 28. Definition of EEs • Spontaneous • Previous uncommon occurrence Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 29. Definition of EEs • Spontaneous • Previous uncommon occurrence • Originates from outside Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 30. Categories of EES Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 31. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 32. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence • Auditory Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 33. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence • Auditory • Visual Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 34. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence • Auditory • Visual • Olfactory Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 35. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence • Auditory • Visual • Olfactory • Dreams Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 36. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence • Auditory • Visual • Olfactory • Dreams • Symbolic Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 37. Categories of EES • Feeling Presence • Auditory • Visual • Olfactory • Dreams • Symbolic • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 38. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • Auditory • Visual • Olfactory • Dreams • Symbolic • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 39. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • • Auditory Out-of-body • Visual • Olfactory • Dreams • Symbolic • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 40. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • • Auditory Out-of-body • • Visual Animals & Birds • Olfactory • Dreams • Symbolic • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 41. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • • Auditory Out-of-body • • Visual Animals & Birds • • Olfactory Psi Kappa • Dreams • Symbolic • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 42. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • • Auditory Out-of-body • • Visual Animals & Birds • • Olfactory Psi Kappa • • Dreams Synchronicity • Symbolic • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 43. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • • Auditory Out-of-body • • Visual Animals & Birds • • Olfactory Psi Kappa • • Dreams Synchronicity • • Symbolic Crisis apparition/Premonition • 3rd Party Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 44. Categories of EES • • Feeling Presence 4th party • • Auditory Out-of-body • • Visual Animals & Birds • • Olfactory Psi Kappa • • Dreams Synchronicity • • Symbolic Crisis apparition/Premonition • • 3rd Party Telepathic Thoughts Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 46. Common Responses • Permission Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 47. Common Responses • Permission • Relief Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 48. Common Responses • Permission • Relief • Strengthened Faith Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 49. Common Responses • Permission • Relief • Strengthened Faith • I’m Still Loved Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 50. Common Responses • Permission • Relief • Strengthened Faith • I’m Still Loved • The Body Dies, Love Doesn’t Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 51. Common Responses • Permission • Freedom • Relief • Strengthened Faith • I’m Still Loved • The Body Dies, Love Doesn’t Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 52. Common Responses • Permission • Freedom • Relief • I’m Not Alone • Strengthened Faith • I’m Still Loved • The Body Dies, Love Doesn’t Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 53. Common Responses • Permission • Freedom • Relief • I’m Not Alone • Strengthened Faith • Advice • I’m Still Loved • The Body Dies, Love Doesn’t Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 54. Common Responses • Permission • Freedom • Relief • I’m Not Alone • Strengthened Faith • Advice • I’m Still Loved • Hope of Reunion* • The Body Dies, Love Doesn’t Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 55. Common Responses • Permission • Freedom • Relief • I’m Not Alone • Strengthened Faith • Advice • I’m Still Loved • Hope of Reunion* • The Body Dies, • Reduce Fear of Love Doesn’t Dying* Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 57. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 58. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? • Pattern? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 59. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? • Pattern? • Solace? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 60. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? • Pattern? • Solace? • Intuitive feeling? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 61. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? • Pattern? • Solace? • Intuitive feeling? • Encouraging? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 62. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? • Pattern? • Solace? • Intuitive feeling? • Encouraging? • Spiritual Awareness? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 63. Test of Authenticity • Suggestive of deceased? • Pattern? • Solace? • Intuitive feeling? • Encouraging? • Spiritual Awareness? • DID IT BRING PEACE? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 65. Universal Message I’m okay and you can be okay, too. Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 66. Using EEs in Therapy Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 67. Using EEs in Therapy Not for every therapist Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 68. Using EEs in Therapy Not for every therapist - Open-minded Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 69. Using EEs in Therapy Not for every therapist - Open-minded - On-going familiarity Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 70. Using EEs in Therapy Not for every therapist - Open-minded - On-going familiarity - Understand various beliefs Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 71. Using EEs in Therapy Not for every therapist - Open-minded - On-going familiarity - Understand various beliefs - Comfortable with criticism from scientific-oriented colleagues Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 73. Therapist’s Function • Timing of an inquiry Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 74. Therapist’s Function • Timing of an inquiry • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 75. Therapist’s Function • Timing of an inquiry • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma • Relate to beliefs of mourner Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 76. Therapist’s Function • Timing of an inquiry • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma • Relate to beliefs of mourner • Review message received Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 77. Therapist’s Function • Timing of an inquiry • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma • Relate to beliefs of mourner • Review message received • Pose questions Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 78. Therapist’s Function • Timing of an inquiry • Normalizing and neutralizing any stigma • Relate to beliefs of mourner • Review message received • Pose questions • Explore choices for usage Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 80. Key Questions • What’s different? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 81. Key Questions • What’s different? • Who is it from? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 82. Key Questions • What’s different? • Who is it from? • What is the message? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 83. Key Questions • What’s different? • Who is it from? • What is the message? • How can you use it? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 84. Key Questions • What’s different? • Who is it from? • What is the message? • How can you use it? • Want to respond? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 85. Key Questions • What’s different? • Who is it from? • What is the message? • How can you use it? • Want to respond? • What do you need? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 86. Key Questions • • What’s different? Expression of love/ caring? • Who is it from? • What is the message? • How can you use it? • Want to respond? • What do you need? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 87. Key Questions • • What’s different? Expression of love/ caring? • Who is it from? • Your expression of love? • What is the message? • How can you use it? • Want to respond? • What do you need? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 88. Key Questions • • What’s different? Expression of love/ caring? • Who is it from? • Your expression of love? • What is the message? • How to honor? • How can you use it? • Want to respond? • What do you need? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 89. Key Questions • • What’s different? Expression of love/ caring? • Who is it from? • Your expression of love? • What is the message? • How to honor? • How can you use it? • New goal/dream? • Want to respond? • What do you need? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 90. Key Questions • • What’s different? Expression of love/ caring? • Who is it from? • Your expression of love? • What is the message? • How to honor? • How can you use it? • New goal/dream? • Want to respond? • What can you do now? • What do you need? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 91. Key Questions • • What’s different? Expression of love/ caring? • Who is it from? • Your expression of love? • What is the message? • How to honor? • How can you use it? • New goal/dream? • Want to respond? • What can you do now? • What do you need? • What have you learned? Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 93. Affirming/Responding • Write Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 94. Affirming/Responding • Write • Sing Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 95. Affirming/Responding • Write • Sing • Chant Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 96. Affirming/Responding • Write • Sing • Chant • Post Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 97. Affirming/Responding • Write • Sing • Chant • Post • Speak Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 98. Affirming/Responding • Write • Ritualize • Sing • Chant • Post • Speak Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 99. Affirming/Responding • Write • Ritualize • Sing • Symbolize • Chant • Post • Speak Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 100. Affirming/Responding • Write • Ritualize • Sing • Symbolize • Chant • Contemplation • Post • Speak Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 101. Affirming/Responding • Write • Ritualize • Sing • Symbolize • Chant • Contemplation • Post • Mindful Action • Speak Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 102. Affirming/Responding • Write • Ritualize • Sing • Symbolize • Chant • Contemplation • Post • Mindful Action • Speak • LOVE Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 104. Dangers • Loss of self-reliance Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 105. Dangers • Loss of self-reliance • Failure to seek deeper communion Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 106. Dangers • Loss of self-reliance • Failure to seek deeper communion • Relying on questionable guidance Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 107. Dangers • Loss of self-reliance • Failure to seek deeper communion • Relying on questionable guidance • False sense of security Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 108. Dangers • Loss of self-reliance • Failure to seek deeper communion • Relying on questionable guidance • False sense of security • Failing to perform grief work Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 109. Dangers • Loss of self-reliance • Failure to seek deeper communion • Relying on questionable guidance • False sense of security • Failing to perform grief work • Universal need for continuing bond Monday, March 16, 2009
  • 110. My Heart Will Go On Monday, March 16, 2009

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