Hast Du schon mal von diesen "Architekten im Elfenbeinturm", dem "allwissenden Backend-Guru" oder jenen Exoten gehört, die "nur Frontend machen"?
Warst Du jemals Teil einer (größeren) Organisation, in welcher "diese Manager" irgendwelche Prozesse ausrollten, die dann ein Eigenleben entwickelten und wie Unkraut wucherten? Oder kennst Du gar Gedanken wie "argh, noch so ein Meeting, wie zur Hölle soll ich eigentlich meine Arbeit machen?!" oder "Man sollte diese Komponente wirklich testen|refactoren... wenn wir doch bloß Zeit dafür bekämen!"?
Du findest Dich irgendwo wieder? Perfekt!
Dann komm' mit auf die Expedition in den (dunklen) Dschungel professioneller Software-Entwicklung. Wir legen uns auf die Lauer um verschiedene Kreaturen in freier Wildbahn zu beobachten, um gemeinsam ein bisschen "im Schmutz zu wühlen" und um hilfreiche “Gewächse” zu entdecken. Diese Gewächse zusammen mit einem wissenschaftlichen Modell als Kompass werden uns helfen, unsere Architektur- und Leadership-Skills zu erweitern.
5. Perfection Game Protocol
1. Performer indicates start and end of performance
2. Perfectors rate the performance [0..10]
3. Perfectors say what they liked
4. Perfectors offer their improvements to get the 10
● performer: DON’T argue
● perfectors: DON’T be negative
● perfectors: be honest and as precise as possible
See also https://liveingreatness.com/core-protocols/perfection-game/
6. Perfection Game
heute Abend “Ich gebe Dir n von 10
Punkten”
● “Was ich gut fand, ist …”
● “Um von n zu 10 zu
kommen,
○ wünsche ich mir…”
○ probier’ mal…”
○ ...
8. https://unsplash.com/photos/z55CR_d0ayg
Once upon a time there was a brave crowd
of Explorers...
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
… and a tribe practising a
forgotten “black magic art”:
collaborating meaningfully
and delighting the customer
29. Servant
Leadership ● coined by Robert Greenleaf
(already 1970)
● “shared, relational, global
perspective” (Avolio et al.)
in a (real tiny) nutshell
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
32. Servant Leadership
Menschen befähigen
& weiterentwickeln
Gegenseitige
Akzeptanz
Vorbild sein &
Verantwortung übernehmen
Demut
(EN: Humility)
Authentizität
Richtung und
Orientierung geben
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
33. https://unsplash.com/photos/jyMTzkGK-qc
Wozu?
Gemeinsam mehr erreichen
● Vertrauen
● Fairness
● Zufriedenheit
● Nachhaltigkeit
● Leistung
Kerngedanken
1. ICH
○ Service-Denken
2. DU & ICH
○ wechselseitige Beziehung
(Leader ←→ Follower)
3. WIR
○ System-Sicht
(vor Individual-Interessen)
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
34. BeLong
(Verbindung)
Be Open
(Offenheit / Neugier)
Be You
(Authentizität / Mut)
https://unsplash.com/photos/NXt5PrOb_7U
Be Here
(Präsenz / Achtsamkeit)
Perfection Game
(→ Core Protocols)Wie?
35. the tribe team had a new mission...
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
46. Be Herethe key to change
(presence part of) mindfulness
regular exercising is essential
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
47. BeLong
(Verbindung)
Be Open
(Offenheit / Neugier)
Be You
(Authentizität / Mut)
https://unsplash.com/photos/NXt5PrOb_7U
Be Here
(Präsenz / Achtsamkeit)
Perfection Game
(→ Core Protocols)
Three breaths
50. “The Devs”
● awesome new tech stack
(growth, appreciation)
● greenfield project so no
s**cking legacy monolith
(ease, security)
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
51. Earl Executive
● reference client on
the other end of the world
(appreciation)
● make much money
(security)
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
https://unsplash.com/photos/V9VDd-2s3aE
52. Sally Seller
● exciting business domain
(growth)
● work with another culture
(connection)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Kadalan_Sulawesi.JPG
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
53. “The Clients”
● delighting product (joy)
● in time & budget (security)
https://purepng.com/photo/26839/render-madagascar-penguins
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
57. The Want List Get pen and paper
(Do it physically! It matters!)
Write as many sentences in the
pattern “I want…” within 5 minutes
Don’t stop writing! Don’t judge!
Don’t question your wants now!
Pro-Tipp: Commit to a timeframe (one week is a good
start) and set yourself a daily reminder.
Writing Exercise
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
58. Know your wants/needs and emotions
● overview of needs and emotions
(yes, there are actually A LOT we might not be aware of):
○ DE http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/Gef%C3%BChlBed%C3%BCrfnisListe.pdf
○ EN: on request (cosima.laube@agileliving.com)
● one way to practise in pairs:
○ needs dyad: http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/NVC-Dyade-A4-EN-50y.png
● take a training, e.g. http://agile-living.com/trainings/living-communication/
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
59. Be Youthe key to success
helps to clarify your intentions
needs courage
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
60. BeLong
(Verbindung)
Be Open
(Offenheit / Neugier)
Be You
(Authentizität / Mut)
https://unsplash.com/photos/NXt5PrOb_7U
Want-List
writing
Be Here
(Präsenz / Achtsamkeit)
raise awareness
for wants & needs
Perfection Game
(→ Core Protocols)
Three breaths
71. “Just another
meeting! How
on earth should
we do our real
work?!”
Do you know that?
https://unsplash.com/photos/YOML-Wm_eFU
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
72. “If management
only did…
then I could...”
Do you know that?
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
https://unsplash.com/photos/jJfreew6A84
74. “If I only
contributed
more to the
team’s
success…”
Do you know that?
https://unsplash.com/photos/ewUAtdqQ4wA
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
75. “I am fraud. One
day they find
out that I cannot
properly...”
Do you know that?
https://unsplash.com/photos/8zdEgWg5JAA
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
76. Sash Shame
“I AM the problem”
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
https://unsplash.com/photos/xfYiIpHnvhs
77. “We really
should
(test | refactor)
this…”
Do you know that?
https://unsplash.com/photos/VcRbMldAFU8
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
78. [mumbled with grumpy face]
“So if nobody is
going to do this,
I will do it”
Do you know that?
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
https://unsplash.com/photos/DziZIYOGAHc
79. O. Obligation
“Someone just needs
to act responsibly...”
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
https://unsplash.com/photos/YwnF1Sfsagw
86. patterns are layered
NO layer is “better”
than others
it’s all HUMAN behaviour
http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ResponsibilityProcess-EN.png
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
87. you pass ALL the layers
EVERY time
process allows us
to deal with
RESPONSIBILITY
as human beings
http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ResponsibilityProcess-EN.png
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
91. “Catch Sooner”
Game
0. Identify a behaviour to change
1. Catch the behaviour
2. Change the behaviour
3. Forgive yourself
4. Aim at catching sooner next time
The Responsibility Process®
gamified
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c see https://www.mindsettlers.com/guide/2MTajnczDiWmSKAQA4gym8
92. Sources: Responsibility Process
● “cheatsheet”: http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ResponsibilityProcess-EN.png
● poster: https://christopheravery.com/responsibility-process-poster
● The book from C. Avery (in EN) or the (really recommendable!) DE translation
(https://www.dpunkt.de/buecher/13227/9783864905773-the-responsibility-process.html)
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
93. Be Openthe key to change
the curiosity part of mindfulness
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
94. BeLong
(Verbindung)
Be Open
(Offenheit / Neugier)
Be You
(Authentizität / Mut)
learn about & share the
ResponsibilityProcess
https://unsplash.com/photos/NXt5PrOb_7U
Want-List
writing
Be Here
(Präsenz / Achtsamkeit)
“Catch sooner”
game
raise awareness
for wants & needs
Perfection Game
(→ Core Protocols)
Three breaths
99. Exercise: Human Mirror
❏ Finde Dein Gegenüber
❏ Spiegel - Gespiegelter
für 1. Runde festlegen
❏ los gehts...
Herausforderung: von außen ist
NICHT erkennbar, wer Spiegel
bzw. wer Gespiegelte ist!
https://unsplash.com/photos/GBEHjsPQbEQ
101. Keep asking
Open questions to explore & learn:
● “What is … good for?”
● “What is in it for YOU?”
● ….
Other powerful stuff:
● EN: [“Why?”]{5,*}
● DE: [“Wozu?”]{5,*}
● “What else?”
● The Spice Girl Question
… and listen well!
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
103. Practise
Listening
It can be fr**king hard
to TRULY listen
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
● listen - and stay present
● listen to friends
● listen to “easy” people
● listen to “hard” people
● listen to your self :)
1. join a Coaching Dojo
2. do Walk & Talk exercises
3. dive into mindfulness
4. ....
104. Sources: Powerful Questions & Listening
● Book: The Coaching Habit (https://boxofcrayons.com/the-coaching-habit-book/)
● Book: The Listening Space (https://www.thelisteningspace.co.uk/)
● Great article and free resource collection on powerful questions:
https://abiggergame.today/powerfulquestions/
● Educate yourself on Clean Language and try experimenting with Clean
Questions:
○ EN: http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/CleanLanguage-EN-A7.pdf
○ DE: http://agile-living.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/CleanLanguage-DE-A7.pdf
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
105. BeLongthe key to growth
connection with YOU - and with others
practise asking questions & true listening
Cosima Laube / @gazebo_c
106. Impro
theatre
exercises
BeLong
Be Open Be You
Keep
asking
learn about & share the
ResponsibilityProcess
https://unsplash.com/photos/NXt5PrOb_7U
Perfection Game
(→ Core Protocols)
Three breaths
Practise
listening
Want-List
writing
Be Here
“Catch sooner”
game
raise awareness
for wants & needs
107. Impro
theatre
exercises
BeLong
Be Open Be You
Keep
asking
learn about & share the
ResponsibilityProcess
https://unsplash.com/photos/NXt5PrOb_7U
Perfection Game
(→ Core Protocols)
Three breaths
Practise
listening
Want-List
writing
Be Here
“Catch sooner”
game
raise awareness
for wants & needs
Rating: 0-10
Good: ….
Suggestions:
…
...
108. Stay Connected
Be You
Be Here
Be Open
Belong
Cosima Laube
Developer, Coach & Trainer
★ https://cosima-laube.de
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