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Suzanne Hazelton
working with leaders and teams to
THRIVE!
Success Mentality: 3 tips
“… you can be sure of …
"The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and
the rational mind is a faithful servant.
We have created a society that
honours the servant and has forgotten
the gift."
~ Albert Einstein
Psychotherapy
… referring to therapeutic
interaction between a trained
professional and a
client, (patient, family, couple,
or group).
Psychology
is an academic and applied
discipline that involves the
scientific study of mental
functions and behaviours.
Positive
psychology
seeks "to find and nurture
genius and talent", and "to
make normal life more
fulfilling", rather than merely
treating mental illness.
Happiness
Great Days
Framework
x 2
Levers to thrive …
• Emotions
• Time perspectives
EMOTIONS
When you lead
or inspire
others with
your energy …
Where do you
get your fuel …
All authentic emotions have use
the labels of + and – may not be useful
It takes sunshine and rain to make
a rainbow
Seven benefits of Positive
Emotions
• Health
• Broaden thinking – noticing
opportunities
• Opportunity magnet
• Builds resilience
• Create positive memories
• Moods go viral
• Build high performing teams
Balance of
negative and
positive
3 positive
for every
negative
Negative has more impact than positive
Positive Emotion
Balanced
time
perspectives
Acts of
Kindness
Gratitude
Savouring
Strengths
23
Positive
Emotions
11.6346
TIME
“In order to say
‘no’, you need a
burning ‘yes’”
~ Stephen Covey
STRENGTHS
The effect of shifting the mean of the mental health spectrum
Huppert (2009)
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by
its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life
believing it is stupid. “ ~ Albert Einstein
Creatively apply
your strengths
to problems
Success Mentality
Positive emotions
• build resilience, see opportunities
Time:
• More past positive focus
Strengths
• Be creative in use of strengths
Backup
Where to get more
info.
www.actionforhappiness.org/
10-keys-to-happier-living
http://positivityratio.com/
The How of Happiness
References
Positivity Ratio: http://positivityratio.com/
Time Perspectives: http://www.thetimeparadox.com/
Berne, E. (1971). A layman's guide to psychiatry and psychoanalysis (Extensively revised and
enlarged ed. ed.). Harmondsworth: Penguin.
Boniwell, I., Osin, E., Linley, P. A., & Ivanchenko, G. V. (2010). A question of balance: Time
perspective and well-being in British and Russian samples. The Journal of Positive
Psychology, 5(1), 24-40. doi: 10.1080/17439760903271181
Bono, J. E., & Ilies, R. (2006). Charisma, positive emotions and mood contagion. The Leadership
Quarterly, 17(4), 317-334. doi: 10.1016/j.leaqua.2006.04.008
Ekman, P. (1992). An argument for basic emotions. Cognition and Emotion, 6(3-4), 169-200. doi:
10.1080/02699939208411068
Fredrickson, B. (2009a). Positivity : groundbreaking research reveals how to embrace the hidden
strength of positive emotions, overcome negativity, and thrive (1st ed.). New York: Crown
Publishers.
Fredrickson, B. (2009b). The Positivity Ratio. Retrieved 12th March, 2011, from
https://www.positivityratio.com/
Fredrickson, B. L. (2001). The role of positive emotions in positive psychology: The broaden-and-
build theory of positive emotions. American Psychologist, 56(3), 218-226. doi:
10.1037/0003-066x.56.3.218
References (continued)
Fredrickson, B. L., & Losada, M. F. (2005). Positive Affect and the Complex Dynamics of Human
Flourishing. American Psychologist, 60(7), 678-686. doi: 10.1037/0003-066x.60.7.678
Huppert, F. A. 2009. Psychological Well-being: Evidence Regarding its Causes and Consequences.
Applied Psychology: Health and Well-being, (2), 137–164.
Losada, M. (1999). The complex dynamics of high performance teams. Mathematical and
Computer Modelling, 30(9-10), 179-192. doi: 10.1016/s0895-7177(99)00189-2
Lyubomirsky, S. (2010). The how of happiness : a practical approach to getting the life you want.
London: Piatkus.
Lyubomirsky, S., King, L., & Diener, E. (2005). The Benefits of Frequent Positive Affect: Does
Happiness Lead to Success? Psychological Bulletin, 131(6), 803-855. doi: 10.1037/0033-
2909.131.6.803
Moiso, C. (1984). TA: The State of the Art: Dordrecht: Foris Publications.
Rowe, D. (1988). The successful self. London: Fontana.
Schwartz, T., Gomes, J., & McCarthy, C. (2010). The way we're working isn't working : the four
forgotten needs that energize great performance. London: Simon & Schuster.
Sheldon Cohen, P., Cuneyt M. Alper, M., William J. Doyle, P., John J. Treanor, M. a., & Ronald B.
Turner, M. (2006). Positive Emotional Style Predicts Resistance to Illness After Experimental
Exposure to Rhinovirus or Influenza A Virus. Psychosomatic Medicine, 68(6). doi: doi:
10.1097/​01.psy.0000245867.92364.3c
Zimbardo, P. G., & Boyd, J. (2008). The time paradox : the new psychology of time. London: Rider.
Contact Details
• Suzanne [at] thebusinessofchange
• Blog: www.suzannehazelton.com
• Web: www.thebusinessofchange.co.uk
• Twitter: @SuzanneHazelton
Suzanne is a leadership coach, working with individuals and teams to Thrive. A
positive psychologist, coach and trainer – she’s worked with thousands of people.
She’s the author of not just one, but two books: Raise Your Game, and soon to be
released Great Days at Work (in press, Kogan Page). She’s a contributing author to a
third: Entrepreneurs Succeed With Us (in press, Troubador)

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3 tips for success

  • 1. Suzanne Hazelton working with leaders and teams to THRIVE! Success Mentality: 3 tips
  • 2. “… you can be sure of …
  • 3.
  • 4.
  • 5.
  • 6. "The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift." ~ Albert Einstein
  • 7.
  • 8. Psychotherapy … referring to therapeutic interaction between a trained professional and a client, (patient, family, couple, or group). Psychology is an academic and applied discipline that involves the scientific study of mental functions and behaviours. Positive psychology seeks "to find and nurture genius and talent", and "to make normal life more fulfilling", rather than merely treating mental illness.
  • 11. x 2
  • 12. Levers to thrive … • Emotions • Time perspectives
  • 14. When you lead or inspire others with your energy …
  • 15. Where do you get your fuel …
  • 16. All authentic emotions have use the labels of + and – may not be useful
  • 17. It takes sunshine and rain to make a rainbow
  • 18. Seven benefits of Positive Emotions • Health • Broaden thinking – noticing opportunities • Opportunity magnet • Builds resilience • Create positive memories • Moods go viral • Build high performing teams
  • 19.
  • 20.
  • 21. Balance of negative and positive 3 positive for every negative
  • 22. Negative has more impact than positive
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  • 27. TIME
  • 28. “In order to say ‘no’, you need a burning ‘yes’” ~ Stephen Covey
  • 29.
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  • 32. The effect of shifting the mean of the mental health spectrum Huppert (2009)
  • 33. “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid. “ ~ Albert Einstein
  • 35. Success Mentality Positive emotions • build resilience, see opportunities Time: • More past positive focus Strengths • Be creative in use of strengths
  • 37. Where to get more info. www.actionforhappiness.org/ 10-keys-to-happier-living http://positivityratio.com/ The How of Happiness
  • 38. References Positivity Ratio: http://positivityratio.com/ Time Perspectives: http://www.thetimeparadox.com/ Berne, E. (1971). A layman's guide to psychiatry and psychoanalysis (Extensively revised and enlarged ed. ed.). Harmondsworth: Penguin. Boniwell, I., Osin, E., Linley, P. A., & Ivanchenko, G. V. (2010). A question of balance: Time perspective and well-being in British and Russian samples. The Journal of Positive Psychology, 5(1), 24-40. doi: 10.1080/17439760903271181 Bono, J. E., & Ilies, R. (2006). Charisma, positive emotions and mood contagion. The Leadership Quarterly, 17(4), 317-334. doi: 10.1016/j.leaqua.2006.04.008 Ekman, P. (1992). An argument for basic emotions. Cognition and Emotion, 6(3-4), 169-200. doi: 10.1080/02699939208411068 Fredrickson, B. (2009a). Positivity : groundbreaking research reveals how to embrace the hidden strength of positive emotions, overcome negativity, and thrive (1st ed.). New York: Crown Publishers. Fredrickson, B. (2009b). The Positivity Ratio. Retrieved 12th March, 2011, from https://www.positivityratio.com/ Fredrickson, B. L. (2001). The role of positive emotions in positive psychology: The broaden-and- build theory of positive emotions. American Psychologist, 56(3), 218-226. doi: 10.1037/0003-066x.56.3.218
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  • 40. Contact Details • Suzanne [at] thebusinessofchange • Blog: www.suzannehazelton.com • Web: www.thebusinessofchange.co.uk • Twitter: @SuzanneHazelton Suzanne is a leadership coach, working with individuals and teams to Thrive. A positive psychologist, coach and trainer – she’s worked with thousands of people. She’s the author of not just one, but two books: Raise Your Game, and soon to be released Great Days at Work (in press, Kogan Page). She’s a contributing author to a third: Entrepreneurs Succeed With Us (in press, Troubador)

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  1. I’m Suzanne Hazelton. I’m a coach, trainer and author. I work with individuals and businesses helping them to thrive.
  2. Hand draw the mental health spectrum
  3. … and this comes with the caution that discussion about emotions can be
  4. Why these two …. Why emotions and time perspectives ….I sometimes use the analogy of the office chair …Some people don’t know there are levers there to adjust their comfortSome know they’re there and don’t use them ….And of course there are people who know how to use them.As TA practitioners often we’re interested in emotions which cause blocks, and less attention is paid to emotions of joy, happiness and well being. I’m also going to talk about time perspectives as it’s a framework for using emotions. But I’m going to start with EMOTIONS
  5. … and this comes with the caution that discussion about emotions can be
  6. I’m going to talk about positive and negative emotions. I don’t like this labelling – but it is convenient shorthand.(For the purpose of this seminar is it OK to use these terms – I realise it misses the difference between authentic & racket emotions)
  7. Health: Positive emotions are good for your health, they increase the number of antibodies - essential for fighting infection and keeping fit. It’s easier to do your best work when you’re feeling healthy. Broaden thinking – noticing opportunities: Some emotions protect us from danger, but narrow the range of immediate options for action: “fight or flight”. Conversely positive emotions broadens our outlook, and we notice more opportunities. Don’t “doom and gloom” about the economy – experience positive emotions and start to see new opportunities! Opportunity magnet: In addition to noticing opportunities, you will also become a magnet for others giving you opportunities. Be the person that radiates good emotions – you will attract other like-minded people and you will more likely be the person they think of when there’s an opportunity.Builds resilience: Resilience is the ability to “power through” tougher times without experiencing detrimental effects on mental or physical health. It gives you staying power when the going gets tough. Create positive memories: when you experience positive emotions, be sure to remember them, take time to savour them. Research has shown that people who actively take time to remember good times, are mindful in the moment and who have goals enjoy life more.Moods go viral: The feel good factor is contagious – spread it within your team. ‘Catch people doing something well’, and offer a word of praise, a smile, or a genuine compliment. Your team members will experience all the benefits of positive emotions – and don’t be surprised if they go the extra distance to help someone on the team, or your prospects or customers.Build high performing teams: Encourage positive emotions on your team. It takes between three and eleven positive emotions to counter each negative emotion. A positive team is more creative, sees more opportunities and is more successful.
  8. (THIS IS HALF WAY 8:15pm)You might wonder WHY it’s necessary to have AT LEAST 3 positive emotions for every negative …..
  9. First imagine a bowl of cherries … not hard as there’s a visual. The cherries represent the positive. Next imagine JUST one COCHROACH … would it make the cherries less appealing?NEXT imagine a bowl of cockroaches. Would the addition of A cherry make it any more appealing?Negative emotions have more impact than positive … therefore you need AT LEAST 3 X as many!Some of it is about CHOICE … what we choose to focus on ….
  10. disintegration of the complex dynamics of flourishing first becomes evident at a positivity ratio of 11.6346.
  11. … and this comes with the caution that discussion about emotions can be
  12. “You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying about the future”
  13. … and this comes with the caution that discussion about emotions can be
  14. … and this comes with the caution that discussion about emotions can be
  15. … and this comes with the caution that discussion about emotions can be
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