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SOUTH CENTRAL INDUSTRIAL
ASSOCIATION
January 17, 2017
Courtyard by Marriott
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
What set me over the edge:
GIVE A DAMN!
I GOT FED UP!
– Similar instances every day
– Self serving attitudes
– Winning at all costs (greed)
– Ego “me” driven society
– People not doing the right thing or taking
responsibility
– People not admitting when wrong (justify)
– Tired of excuses
– What happened to common sense?
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
“50 years ago we had
DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES
now people think they have
RIGHTS AND PRIVILEGES”
GIVE A DAMN!
HOW DID THIS
EVOLVE?
9 AREAS
GIVE A DAMN!
– Breeds entitlement
– Channels $ into handouts vs. incentives
– No endpoint
– This is a comprehensive list of everything
you are entitled to in this world:
GIVE A DAMN!
Government’s role?
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
– SIGs – GOOD! – Designed to assist marginalized
groups not given a voice (woman right to vote)
– Become too prevalent/power hungry
• Few outweigh the majority
– Supreme Court - Citizens vs. FEC decision huge
mistake
– Politicians = Money
– SIGs gone to far
GIVE A DAMN!
– Litigious society
– Big pay day
– Millions awarded for frivolous stuff
– Insurance companies don’t fight
– Red Light camera
GIVE A DAMN!
4. Education
– Lack of more formalized character education
• Early age
• Used to get more at home
– Both parents working outside of home
• Rise of single family homes
• Less time at home with kids
– Video games teach opposite
GIVE A DAMN!
– Can’t practice – Viewed as Offensive
– Now it’s a problem
–
– Practice of religion is not being forced
on anyone
– Tim Tebow
GIVE A DAMN!
6. Family Values
– Tough love weaker
– Child abuse vs. child punishment
GIVE A DAMN!
6. Family Values
– Morals/Respect for others waning….
GIVE A DAMN!
7. Wealth/Money
– Sensitive subject
– Rich/Wealth
• $ Empowers them
• Monster.com
– Poor
• Feel entitled or oppressed
• Generally think government should take care
of them
– Exceptions
GIVE A DAMN!
– My background
– Huge problem
– More instant communication /Quality
suffering
– Face to Face
– Social Media (fake news)
GIVE A DAMN!
– Music (Get Your Shine On, Get Lucky, etc.)
– acceptable
– Celebrities – Rude obnoxious behavior and
it’s supposed to be cool
– TV - Naked and Afraid, Here Comes….,
unreality TV)
– Media sensationalizes = Ratings
GIVE A DAMN!
VIOLENCE
• Violent crime has increased
• Violent behavior is now de-sensitized
or accepted
• Terrorism
Will Smith
GIVE A DAMN!
WHAT’S YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE?
WHY WERE YOU BORN?
WHY DID GOD PUT YOU
ON THIS EARTH?
GIVE A DAMN!
Most people
cannot answer
this question
GIVE A DAMN!
My answer
GIVE A DAMN!
God put me on this earth to
serve others and by
serving others I
serve myself!
GIVE A DAMN!
But many people
think the opposite!
Their thinking is……
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
Two issues:
Don’t
Know
How
Don’t
Care
GIVE A DAMN!
So when do we
actually GIVE A DAMN?
GIVE A DAMN!
So how can we begin
to learn how to
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN!
Awareness – Critical
• Take responsibility
– Admit when you make a mistake, own it, fix it
• Consequences
– Understand and accept despite circumstances
• Serve others like you would want to
be served
GIVE A DAMN!
• Do the right thing ALWAYS
– Quit justifying your actions when you know
what is right vs. wrong
• Think on how you can GIVE A DAMN!
(continually)
GIVE A DAMN!
Ultimate question?
GIVE A DAMN!
GIVE A DAMN and BUSINESS
• NEW STRATEGY
• Incorporate into customer service
• Coach the company on how to think
• Result
– People happier, better performance,
sales growth
• It’s a new corporate philosophy/culture
GIVE A DAMN!
Let me back up:
• Businesses need plan, goals etc.
• Can’t please everyone
• What gives me the authority?
•
• Who out there doesn’t believe
business and society need help?
GIVE A DAMN!
The Business and
Personal Success Graph
SUCCESS GRAPH
Positive
Negative
LEVEL OF SUCCESSLittle
A
T
T
I
T
U
D
E
Lots
GIVE A DAMN!
What can you do?
• Belief – GAD is built into your psyche
• ALWAYS do what is right
• Be truthful to yourself and others
• The three “C’s”
• LISTEN - Be aware of
GIVE A DAMN!
My GOAL:
To Create a worldwide
GIVE A DAMN
GIVE A DAMN!
• Constant challenge
• GAD – New business culture
• GAD – New personal reflection
• because………..
GIVE A DAMN!
Individually we
Make a difference,
Collectively we
Change the world!
GIVE A DAMN!
Questions
Mark S. Lewis
Executive Coach
and Consultant
mlewis@giveadamnbook.com
(504) 905-4646
www.giveadamnbook.com

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GIVE A DAMN Presentation - Changing a Mindset

  • 1. SOUTH CENTRAL INDUSTRIAL ASSOCIATION January 17, 2017 Courtyard by Marriott
  • 5. GIVE A DAMN! What set me over the edge:
  • 6. GIVE A DAMN! I GOT FED UP! – Similar instances every day – Self serving attitudes – Winning at all costs (greed) – Ego “me” driven society – People not doing the right thing or taking responsibility – People not admitting when wrong (justify) – Tired of excuses – What happened to common sense?
  • 8. GIVE A DAMN! “50 years ago we had DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES now people think they have RIGHTS AND PRIVILEGES”
  • 9. GIVE A DAMN! HOW DID THIS EVOLVE? 9 AREAS
  • 10. GIVE A DAMN! – Breeds entitlement – Channels $ into handouts vs. incentives – No endpoint – This is a comprehensive list of everything you are entitled to in this world:
  • 13. GIVE A DAMN! – SIGs – GOOD! – Designed to assist marginalized groups not given a voice (woman right to vote) – Become too prevalent/power hungry • Few outweigh the majority – Supreme Court - Citizens vs. FEC decision huge mistake – Politicians = Money – SIGs gone to far
  • 14. GIVE A DAMN! – Litigious society – Big pay day – Millions awarded for frivolous stuff – Insurance companies don’t fight – Red Light camera
  • 15. GIVE A DAMN! 4. Education – Lack of more formalized character education • Early age • Used to get more at home – Both parents working outside of home • Rise of single family homes • Less time at home with kids – Video games teach opposite
  • 16. GIVE A DAMN! – Can’t practice – Viewed as Offensive – Now it’s a problem – – Practice of religion is not being forced on anyone – Tim Tebow
  • 17. GIVE A DAMN! 6. Family Values – Tough love weaker – Child abuse vs. child punishment
  • 18. GIVE A DAMN! 6. Family Values – Morals/Respect for others waning….
  • 19. GIVE A DAMN! 7. Wealth/Money – Sensitive subject – Rich/Wealth • $ Empowers them • Monster.com – Poor • Feel entitled or oppressed • Generally think government should take care of them – Exceptions
  • 20. GIVE A DAMN! – My background – Huge problem – More instant communication /Quality suffering – Face to Face – Social Media (fake news)
  • 21. GIVE A DAMN! – Music (Get Your Shine On, Get Lucky, etc.) – acceptable – Celebrities – Rude obnoxious behavior and it’s supposed to be cool – TV - Naked and Afraid, Here Comes…., unreality TV) – Media sensationalizes = Ratings
  • 22. GIVE A DAMN! VIOLENCE • Violent crime has increased • Violent behavior is now de-sensitized or accepted • Terrorism Will Smith
  • 23. GIVE A DAMN! WHAT’S YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE? WHY WERE YOU BORN? WHY DID GOD PUT YOU ON THIS EARTH?
  • 24. GIVE A DAMN! Most people cannot answer this question
  • 25. GIVE A DAMN! My answer
  • 26. GIVE A DAMN! God put me on this earth to serve others and by serving others I serve myself!
  • 27. GIVE A DAMN! But many people think the opposite! Their thinking is……
  • 29. GIVE A DAMN! Two issues: Don’t Know How Don’t Care
  • 30. GIVE A DAMN! So when do we actually GIVE A DAMN?
  • 31. GIVE A DAMN! So how can we begin to learn how to GIVE A DAMN!
  • 32. GIVE A DAMN! Awareness – Critical • Take responsibility – Admit when you make a mistake, own it, fix it • Consequences – Understand and accept despite circumstances • Serve others like you would want to be served
  • 33. GIVE A DAMN! • Do the right thing ALWAYS – Quit justifying your actions when you know what is right vs. wrong • Think on how you can GIVE A DAMN! (continually)
  • 35. GIVE A DAMN! GIVE A DAMN and BUSINESS • NEW STRATEGY • Incorporate into customer service • Coach the company on how to think • Result – People happier, better performance, sales growth • It’s a new corporate philosophy/culture
  • 36. GIVE A DAMN! Let me back up: • Businesses need plan, goals etc. • Can’t please everyone • What gives me the authority? • • Who out there doesn’t believe business and society need help?
  • 37. GIVE A DAMN! The Business and Personal Success Graph
  • 38. SUCCESS GRAPH Positive Negative LEVEL OF SUCCESSLittle A T T I T U D E Lots
  • 39. GIVE A DAMN! What can you do? • Belief – GAD is built into your psyche • ALWAYS do what is right • Be truthful to yourself and others • The three “C’s” • LISTEN - Be aware of
  • 40. GIVE A DAMN! My GOAL: To Create a worldwide GIVE A DAMN
  • 41. GIVE A DAMN! • Constant challenge • GAD – New business culture • GAD – New personal reflection • because………..
  • 42. GIVE A DAMN! Individually we Make a difference, Collectively we Change the world!
  • 43. GIVE A DAMN! Questions Mark S. Lewis Executive Coach and Consultant mlewis@giveadamnbook.com (504) 905-4646 www.giveadamnbook.com