3. ATTITUD
E
THE THINGS INSIDE US THAT MAKES
US GO UP/DOWN IS ‘ATTITUDE’ .
SUCCESS OF AN INDIVIDUAL,
ORGANISATION OR A COUNTRY
DEPENDS ON THE QUALITY OF THE
PEOPLE. AND THE QUALITY COMES
FROM HIS/HER ‘ATTITUDE’ .
INDIVIDUAL WITH BETTER
‘ATTITUDE’ WOULD BE BETTER
PERSON, WHICH WOULD CUT DOWN
NEGATIVITY.
4. ATTITUD
E
HUMAN BEINGS CAN ALTER THEIR
LIVES BY ALTERING THEIR ATTITUDES
OF MIND.
ATTITUDE IS MOST IMPORTANT
WORD. IT APPLIES TO EVERY
SPHERE OF LIFE, INCLUDING ONE’S
PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL
LIFE. CAN AN STUDENT/
? THINK,
PARENT/TEACHER/SALESMAN/
EXECUTIVE/EMPLOYER/
EMPLOYEE BE GOOD IN THEIR
ROLE WITHOUT GOOD ATTITUDE ?
EX. 2
THE CALGARY TOWER.
[190.8 MTRS, TOTAL WT.
10,884 TONS, BELOW GROUND 6,349
TONS (60%) ]
5. ATTITUD
E
JUST LIKE BUILDING STANDS ON A
STRONG FOUNDATION, SO DOES
SUCCESS. AND THE FOUNDATION OF
SUCCESS IS ‘ATTITUDE’.
BE A BETTER PERSON, IT WOULD
AUTOMATICALLY GIVE YOU BETTER
BRAIN. AND BETTER BRAIN MAKES A
MAN SUCCESSFUL.
FOUNDATION OF SUCCESS
REGARDLESS OF YOUR CHOSEN FIELD
IS ‘ATTITUDE’
EX. 3
AFRICAN
FARMER
[ DIAMOND ]
6. MORAL OF THE STORY
OF AN AFRICAN
FARMAR
1. When our Attitude is right, we realize that we are
all walking on acres and acres of diamonds.
2. Opportunity is always under the feet. We don’t
have to go anywhere. All we need is to recognize
it.
3. The grass on the other side always looks greener.
4. People don’t know how to recognise opportunity,
they complain of noise when it knocks.
5. The same opportunity never knocks twice.
Ex. 4
Story of David &
Goliath.
7. FACTORS THAT DETERMINE
OUR ATTITUDE
1.
ENVIRONMENT
2. EXPERIENCE
3. EDUCATION a marginal
In a positive environment,
performer’s output goes up. And in a
negative environment, a good
performer’s output goes down.
8. TYPES OF
ATTITUDE
1. POSTIVE [MENTAL]
ATTITUDE.
Ex. Of young twin brothers.
2. NEGATIVE [MENTAL]
ATTITUDE.
Ex. Of Charismatic Dog walks
on water.
9. FEW BENEFITS OF POSITIVE
ATTITUDE
1. INCREASE PRODUCTIVITY. Example Of Adult
2. FOSTER TEAM WORK. Twin brothers
3. SOLVES PROBLEMS.
4. IMPROVES QUALITY.
5. MAKES A CONGENIAL ATMOSPHERE.
6. BREEDS LOYALTY.
7. INCREASE PROFITS.
9. REDUCES STRESS.
10. HELPS A PERSON BECOME CONTRIBUTING
MEMBER OF A FAMILY & SOCIETY.
BECOMES AN ASSET TO THEIR
COUNTRY.
11. ABOVE ALL, MAKES A PLEASING
PERSONALITY.
10. CONSEQUENCES OF NEGATIVE
ATTITUDE
1. BITTERNESS.
2. RESENTMENT.
3. A PURPOSELESS LIFE.
4. ILL HEALTH.
5. HIGH STRESS LEVEL FOR
HIMSLEF/HERSELF OR
OTHERS.
6. CREATE NEGATIVE ENVIRONMENT
AT HOME AND WORK PLACE AND
BECOME A LIABILITY TO
SOCIETY.
11. STEPS FOR BUILDING
POSITIVE ATTITUDE
IF WE WANT TO BUILD AND MAINTAIN POSITIVE
ATTITUDE, WE NEED TO CONTINUOUSLY
PRACTICE THE FOLLOWING STEPS :
1. CHANGE FOCUS. LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE.
Ex 1 : Looking for the Gold.
2. MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW.
Ex.2 : When I become a Big Boy.
3. DEVELOP AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE.
SELECTIVE LISTENING.
Ex.3 : Doctor for Talk on Alcohol.
12. STEPS FOR BUILDING
POSITIVE ATTITUDE
4. GET INTO CONTINUOUS EDUCATION
PROGRAM.
Ex. 4 : Selling Hot-poori - Recession
in the world market
Persons can be successful if they have 5 Cs :
1. Character
2. Commitment
3. Conviction
4. Courtesy Mental, Emotional, Physical &
5. Courage Spiritual education.
14. STEPS FOR BUILDING
POSITIVE ATTITUDE
7. LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS THAT NEED
TO BE DONE.
[ Ex. 6 : Life of Mother - Do things that may not be of
her choice, but responsibility]
8. START YOUR DAY WITH A POSITIVE.
[ THOUGHT/THING ]
[ Make habit of thinking positive. 21 Days.]
15. BE OPTIMIST
Be so strong that nothing can disturb your
peace of mind.
Talk health, happiness and prosperity to
every person you meet.
Make all your friends feel there is something
in them.
Look at the sunny side of everything.
Think only of the best, work only for the best
and expect only the best.
Be as enthusiastic about the success of
others as you are about your own.
16. BE OPTIMIST
Forget the mistakes of the past and press on
to the greater achievement of the future.
Give everyone a smile.
Spend so much time improving yourself that
you have no time left to criticize others.
Be too big for worry and too noble for anger.
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17. CEASE FROM
NEGATIVITY
1. As soon as we cease from our negative and
destructive thoughts, all the world softens toward
us, and is ready to help us.
2. As soon as we put away our weak and sick
thoughts, opportunities spring up on every hand
to aid our strong resolve.
3. As soon as we encourage good thoughts, no hard
fate shall bind us down to misery and shame.
The world is our kaleidoscope, and the varying
combinations of colours it presents to us at every
succeeding moment are the exquisitely adjusted
pictures of our ever-moving thoughts.
18. HUMAN WILL, MOST POWER
FULL
The human Will, that force unseen,
The offspring of a deathless Soul,
Can hew a way to any goal,
Though walls of granite intervene.
19. WINNERS V/S. LOSERS
THE WINNER IS ALWAYS PART OF THE
ANSWER.
THE LOSER IS ALWAYS PART OF THE
PROBLEM.
THE WINNER ALWAYS HAS A PROGRAM.
THE LOSER ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE.
THE WINNER SAYS, “LET ME DO IT FOR
YOU”.
THE LOSER SAYS, “THAT IS NOT MY
20. WINNERS V/S. LOSERS
A WINNER MAKES COMMITMENTS.
A LOSER MAKES PROMISES.
WINNERS HAVE DREAMS.
LOSERS HAVE SCHEMES.
WINNERS SAY, “ I MUST DO
SOMETHING”.
LOSERS SAY, “SOMETHING MUST BE
DONE”.
21. WINNERS V/S. LOSERS
Winners see the gain.
Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities.
Losers see problems.
Winners make it happen.
Losers let it happen.
WINNERS PLAN & PREPARE TO WIN. THE
KEY WORD IS PREPARATION.
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24. WHAT IS DISCIPLINE ?
DISCIPLINE IS FREEDOM !
DISCIPLINE IS LOVING FIRMNESS !
IT IS DIRECTION !
IT IS PREVENTION BEFORE A PROBLEM
ARISES !
IT IS HARNESSING AND CHANNELING
ENERGY
FOR GREAT PERFORMANCE !
DISCIPLINE IS AN ACT OF LOVE !
DISCIPLINE IS NOT SOMETHING YOU DO TO,
BUT YOU DO FOR THOSE YOU CARE ABOUT.
25. DISCIPLINE IS
FREEDOM
WHAT WE THINK PULLING US DOWN IS REALLY
TAKING US UP. THAT IS WHAT DISCIPLINE IS ALL
ABOUT.
EX. 1 - BOY FLYING A KITE
WITH HIS FATHER
I WANT TO BE FREE.
IS IT FREEDOM ? EX. 2 - TRAIN OFF THE
TRACK.
BY OBSERVING THE RULE, WE ARE ACTUALLY
GAINING FREEDOM. ARE NOT WE ?
