Getting the Blokes on Board

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Getting the
Blokes on Board
Involving fathers and male carers
in reading with their children
Real life stories
Schools that get
dads reading
Prison: books
behind bars
TOP TIPS
for engaging dads
How to read a
bedtime story
Patrick Augustus:
what reading
means for me
Dads have pester power too
Foreword
As	a	father	myself,	I	have	seen	how	important	it	is	to	read	to	my	
son	–	both	for	his	development	and	for	our	relationship.	Education	
happens	not	just	in	school,	but	in	the	home	too,	and	the	Government	
understands	that	parents	are	their	child’s	fi	rst	and	most	important	
educators.	It	is	therefore	vital	that	schools	work	together	with	families	
–	and	that	means	dads	as	well	as	mums.	Fathers,	grandfathers,	
uncles,	brothers	and	other	male	carers	are	role	models	for	children	
and	young	people,	particularly	boys.	As	we	seek	to	close	the	gap	
between	boys’	and	girls’	educational	attainment,	these	men	and	
older	boys	have	an	even	more	important	role	in	demonstrating	
that	they	value	reading.	And	as	we	seek	to	reach	out	to	families,	
particularly	those	most	in	need,	it	is	not	only	schools	that	can	take	
the	reading	message	to	fathers.	Every Child Matters	is	helping	
different	agencies	work	together	to	ensure	that	all	children	enjoy	
and	achieve	so	that	they	make	a	positive	contribution	and	attain	
economic	well-being,	as	well	as	staying	safe	and	being	healthy.	This	
magazine	shows	how	libraries,	museums,	children’s	centres,	sports	
clubs	and	prisons,	as	well	as	schools,	have	engaged	dads	in	reading	
to	and	with	their	children.	I	hope	it	will	inspire	you	to	do	the	same.
Parmjit Dhanda	
Parliamentary	Under	-Secretary	of	State	for	Children,	
Young	People	and	Families
Thanks
The title of this magazine was inspired
by Blokes on Board, a partnership project
of the Derbyshire community literacy
initiative Read On – Write Away! (ROWA!)
and the National Reading Campaign.
The project works in primary schools to
encourage dads and men to help children
with their reading, using the ROWA!
double-decker bus and the Reading
Champions framework from the National
Reading Campaign. To find out more
about ROWA! visit www.rowa.org.uk
Christina Clark (National Literacy Trust),
Janet Cooper (Stoke Speaks Out), Tom
Palmer, Claire Glenn (Sure Start North
Huyton), Eilis Field (St Edward’s Catholic
Primary School), Tonia Pancucci and
Steve Davies (Coopers Lane Primary
School), Rob Kemp and Fathers Quarterly
magazine, Glynis Wiles (Holne Chase
Primary School), Derek Grimley (Coventry
City Council), Beryl Bateson (Birmingham
City Council), Beverley Taylor (Reading
School), Kerry Baker (East Cowes Family
Learning Centre), Sonia Knight (Croydon
Libraries), Lis Ricketts, Vicky Fisher and
Jane Selby (Hampshire Library Service),
Sharon Berry (Storybook Dads),
Sam Hart (HMP Blantyre House),
Sue Wilkinson (HMP Birmingham),
Jo Emmerson and Chris Barrett
(Hounslow Study Support Service),
David James, David Kendall, John
Bird, Patrick Augustus, Daniell Phillips
(Imperial War Museum), Sharon
Hawkins (ROWA!) and Alexandra Strick.
Thanks also to Peter Silva of PEEP and
Kathy Jones of Fathers Direct for their
advice, and to Eliza Buckley, Maura
Canavan, Katy Mahood and Julia Strong
at the National Literacy Trust.
Editor: Rodie Akerman
First published by the National
Literacy Trust in 2007.
Many thanks to all who contributed to this magazine:
This magazine has been produced
with support from
The terms ‘fathers’ and ‘dads’ are used in this magazine to signify fathers,
stepfathers, grandfathers, uncles, brothers, male carers and any male who
plays a significant role in a child or young person’s life.
Contents
Image: Alexandra Strick
Introduction
The National Literacy Trust’s vision is of a society
where all are empowered to fulfil their potential by being
equipped with the literacy skills they need. Our focus is
therefore on those who are at risk of exclusion because
of their low levels of literacy.
Concerns about boys’ reading have been the focus
of much media attention. Government initiatives have
been launched to support schools in closing the gap
between boys’ and girls’ literacy levels and there is
speculation that the wider attainment gap between
boys and girls is underpinned by the literacy gap. This
magazine focuses on a key strategy to promote literacy
to boys: the promotion of fathers as positive reading
role models.
This is a huge challenge. Fathers are spending more
time with their children – the average time a dad spends
with his children has increased by 800 per cent since the
1970s. However, the Reading Connects survey by the
National Literacy Trust in 2005 suggests that 25 per cent
of children have never seen their dad reading.
No one agency can address this challenge on its
own. Extended schools need to work with libraries,
workplaces and a range of
organisations at community
level to analyse and meet the
reading needs of dads locally.
This magazine is a
resource for all professionals who want to address this
challenge. We believe that the case studies will inspire
a wealth of new initiatives to get fathers into reading.
The ideas featured here are a starting point – we
know there’s lots more happening. Programmes like
the National Literacy Trust’s Reading Champions and
Reading The Game initiatives are providing diverse
ways of promoting activity and gathering examples
of approaches that work. We want to spread these
approaches. The best way of doing this is through
networks and clusters. Engaging with initiatives such
as Reading Connects, Reading Champions and the
Family Reading Campaign locks an organisation into
a community of practice that inspires and informs.
Our hope is that this magazine, backed up by
networks and groups of organisations committed to
promoting dads’ reading, will stimulate a real cultural
change in families and homes across the nation.
Jonathan Douglas, Director, National Literacy Trust
4 What’s the point? Evidence from research
6 Top tips for engaging dads
8 Early years
	 Dads	speak	out	in	Stoke
	 Creepy-crawlies	for	crawlers
	 Don’t	let	go
12 Primary schools
	 Holne	Chase	dads’	club
	 Fathers	go	wild	
	 The	difference	a	day	makes
	 Dads	Matter
	 Count	men	in
	 How	to	read	a	bedtime	story...
16 Secondary schools
	 ‘Dads	and	Lads,	Mums	and	Sons’	reading	club	
	 Fathers,	football	and	fun
18 Libraries
	 Dads	in	the	library
	 Dads	have	pester	power	too
20 Prisons
	 Dads	on	disc
	 Reading	dads	at	HMP	Blantyre	House	
	 Exploring	new	territory
24 Football
	 Brentford	‘Til	I	Die	
	 Make	reading	your	goal
	 Kick	into	Reading
26 Features
	 Read	with	care
	 Make	men	the	issue
	 Patrick	Augustus:	what	reading	means	for	me	 	
	 Make	talk,	not	war
30 Resources
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Does	it	really	matter	whether	or	not	dads	read	
with	their	children?	Research	says	that	it	does.	
Christina Clark	from	the	National	Literacy	Trust	
sets	out	the	evidence.
What’s
the
point ?of the possible causes for the declining rates of school
achievement for boys.
So, what is known about fathers’ level of engagement
with their children’s literacy activities? Surveys have
shown that there are high social expectations for fathers
to spend time with their children, as evidenced by
recent provisions of paternal leave and flexitime in the
workplace. Not only are there greater expectations on
men to become involved fathers who are active in their
child’s upbringing, but young men today also endorse
less traditional gender roles and wish to participate
more fully in family life.
This shift in perceptions of fatherhood is borne
out by time-use surveys, which indicate that although
mothers continue to devote more time to caring for
children, fathers’ involvement in child-related activities
has increased substantially in the past few decades.
As part of these activities, fathers are involved with their
children’s literacy. Research shows that fathers who share
in childcare duties, such as feeding and bathing the child,
tend to be more involved in their children’s reading
and writing than fathers who do not participate in
childcare duties.
When asked who read most with their children
in a UK study, 37 per cent of fathers reported that they
and their partners both read to their children in equal
amounts, while 40 per cent conceded that their partners
were more likely to read with their children than they
were. Interviewing 26 fathers regarding their literacy
involvement with their children, a US study found that
the majority of fathers reported engaging in weekly
school-related literacy practices with their children,
Research in the last three decades has established a
clear link between parental involvement and children’s
educational attainment. Although most of this research
has taken ‘parental involvement’ to be the same as
mother’s involvement, increasing attention has been paid
to the specific influences fathers and other male carers
have on their children’s development.
Much of the research on father involvement and child
outcomes, both in the UK and internationally, has focused
on educational achievement. This research has shown
that when fathers take an active role in their children’s
education by volunteering at school, helping children with
their homework or attending school meetings, children
are more likely to do better academically, to participate
in extra-curricular activities and to enjoy school. Children
also benefit in numerous other ways from having involved
fathers, including increased cognitive abilities, higher
self-esteem and greater social competence. Overall,
children are more likely to reap these benefits the earlier
fathers become involved with their children’s learning.
However, with the exception of studies into the
facilitators of or barriers to father involvement in family
literacy programmes, the relationship between fathers’
engagement and children’s literacy outcomes has rarely
been explored in detail. This is surprising since fathers’
reading habits can have a substantial influence on their
children’s ability to read, their levels of interest and
their reading choices. Shared literacy activities can
also strengthen the bond between fathers and their
children. Indeed, it has been suggested that the lack of
male role models involved in reading and other literacy-
related activities during children’s early years is one
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involvement. In a separate study, this research also
highlighted that engagement by both the father and
the mother contributed significantly and independently
to children’s attitudes towards school.
The literature reviewed here indicates that
fathers have an important role to play in their children’s
literacy development. However, involving fathers in
their children’s literacy activities not only benefits their
children. There are also numerous benefits that have been
reported for the fathers themselves, including greater
skill acquisition, greater confidence and self-esteem,
a better father-child relationship, and increased
engagement with learning.
Finally, a finding by US researchers is worth
keeping in mind when studying father involvement.
They found that actual changes in the quality of paternal
behaviour are necessary for significant outcomes to come
about, suggesting that an emphasis on increased father
involvement alone may not be sufficient for bringing
about change or beneficial impact.
Reading, if it can be seen as something that is fun,
can be one way of ensuring that quality time together.
You can read a version of this article with full research
references at www.literacytrust.org.uk/Research/
Fatherindex.html
while almost two-thirds of fathers also read with their
children for recreational purposes. Common to these
studies is the finding that fathers view reading as a way
to maintain a relationship with their children, and believe
that having books in the home and being seen reading
by their children are important.
“37 per cent of fathers reported that
they and their partners both read
to their children in equal amounts,
while 40 per cent conceded that
their partners were more likely to
read with their children.”
While fathers might want to increase the amount of
time spent with their children, there are family, personal,
structural and cultural barriers that may hinder increased
involvement in family life. Fathers may also not see that
they have a role to play: one study found that they tended
to give the child’s mother the main responsibility for
reading with children, usually because they viewed her
as the main teacher and caregiver. This perception might
be accurate. Children in a National Literacy Trust survey
reported that their mothers were more engaged with their
reading than their fathers were. Not only were fathers
less likely than mothers to encourage children to read
more, but fathers were also seen to be reading less than
mothers. Similarly, when asked who had taught them
to read, children reported that it had been their mother,
followed by their teacher, and then their father who had
taught them.
Overall, studies show that fathers are generally
less likely to take part in traditional reading and writing
activities than mothers. Several researchers have argued
that the current emphasis on literacy has included a
narrow view of book-based literacy practices, thereby
neglecting media with which fathers are more comfortable
– for example, using technology, activities involving pop
culture or, in some cases, languages other than English.
A US study lists various activities in which fathers report
they have participated, including: reading environmental
print such as road signs, logos, billboards and television
adverts; reading newspapers, magazines, dictionaries,
maps, telephone directories, manuals and bedtime stories;
spelling and defining words; spelling names; colouring
and tracing letters, and making use of the computer for
spelling or writing activities.
UK researchers have explored the extent to which
mothers’ and fathers’ involvement independently
affected their children’s schooling, and whether levels
of father involvement were dependent on the degree to
which mothers are involved. This research was based on
longitudinal data from the National Child Development
Study, a study of 17,000 children born in one week in
March 1958. It was found that both father’s and mother’s
involvement at age seven predicted the child’s educational
attainment by age 20, irrespective of the other parent’s
involvement. It was also found that the impact of father
involvement on children’s later educational outcomes
did not depend significantly on the degree of mother
Image: Alexandra Strick
If dads don’t believe that they can have an influence over their
child’s education and how well they perform, they’re unlikely to
get involved, especially if they’re not confident with their own
skills. Try these ideas when working with families to show how easy
it can be for dads to offer support to children and how much of a
difference they can make.
Children are often the biggest motivator – give
dads the opportunity to do something with or for their
children. It can help to spell out what the benefits will 	
be for their children, such as boosting their brainpower.
Use the mums – many mums act as gatekeepers for
their child’s education, so involve them in encouraging
the dads to get on board. Separated mums may still 	
be happy for dads to be contacted, if you just ask.
Timing – as dads may be more likely to be at work
during the day, think about when they might be available
– early mornings, evenings or weekends perhaps.
Know your background – be persistent, creative,
patient and sensitive in the recruitment of fathers, as 	
it can be challenging and time-consuming.
They like to do something, not talk about it – 	
use activities as part of the sessions: quizzes, interactive
games, workshops, the internet, puzzles, and visits from
celebrity authors, poets, dramatists and storytellers
– anything that mixes reading with doing something.
Look at the whole organisation’s attitude – there
may be mistrust on both sides of the fence and any good
work you do can be undone in a moment if you do not
have everybody on board or at least aware of what you
are doing. Allow time for staff training and discussion of
the issues.
Plan for long-term commitment – don’t get hung up
on numbers: word of mouth will help if you are successful.
Speak to them directly – events labelled for ‘parents’
tend to attract mothers. Address letters to fathers, and try
other media too: text messages, emails or a website. Are
there other organisations that can help you reach dads
– libraries, schools, sports clubs, community groups or
even a local employer?
Consult them – ask fathers for their advice on factors
such as content, design, publicity, recruitment, themes,
timing and venue.
Use a dad-friendly hook – sport is a great place to
start, particularly (although not exclusively) football, and
even more so if there is a reward like a ground tour at the
end of it. Your local club may be able to help. ICT is also
very popular.
Not all dads are the same – their life histories,
experiences, situations and expectations will be varied 	
so try not to lump them all under the same label. Value
the reading that is part of different families’ cultures.
It’s not just books – consider what reading materials
fathers will enjoy, including subjects such as sports,
travel and sci-fi, as well as other non-fiction, magazines,
manuals, websites and newspapers. Find some that
feature dads in a positive light.
TOP TIPS
for engaging dads
Activities
Turn one of your events into a longer course, giving
dads a clear purpose and offering them the chance
to walk away with something.
Practical courses – organise a healthy food campaign
where dads prepare food and sell it to parents and staff
or learn to cook a special dinner with the help of sons for
Mothers’ Day.
Storytelling workshops – offer advice on how to 	
read with children at home.
Ambassador dads – nurture one or two enthusiastic
dads and build up their confidence so they can help
develop a larger group. Have a dad monitor: someone
alert to regional or national opportunities for reaching
out to male parents, such as Fathers’ Day or sporting
tournaments.
Radiowaves – involve dads through making radio
programmes that can be podcasted in and between
organisations. www.radiowaves.co.uk
Digital-Blues – lend out Digital-Blues cameras and get
children to make videos with their dads. Have an award
evening for the videos. www.digiblue.com
Building something – provide practical sessions, be it
a robot, a computer, a remote-controlled car or a go-kart.
These tips are adapted from those devised by a range
of professionals with expertise in engaging fathers in
reading. They first appeared in the Reading Champions
Toolkit. Visit www.readingchampions.org.uk
Events
Holding a one-off event to grab attention can work
well, but you need to have a retention strategy in
place or numbers will fall off dramatically. Use the
event to give dads the opportunity to spend some
time with their children, have some fun and feel
useful, and to show them that they can get more
involved. Have an informal chat as part of the session
to find out what they would like to do in the future.
Most of the suggestions below will involve some form
of reading.
Dads into school day – if you work in a school, 	
ask dads to come in and find out about what their
children are up to all day. See page 13.
Beer and books – organise a reading group in 	
the local pub for dads. See page 14.
Business breakfasts – provide a resident speaker 	
and networking opportunities.
Weekend clubs – organise clubs and trips so dads 	
can play a nurturing role that empowers them and 	
offers support beyond mum.
Football match evenings – have a quick session 	
of quizzes etc before settling down to watch a game. 	
See pages 24-25.
An auction of promises – ask dads to donate time
such as five hours of bedtime reading; offer them free
classes or taster sessions in return for jobs done.
A man who can – ask dads for help around your
organisation: BBQs at a book fair, or providing help with 	
a building or maintenance project.
Skill swap – offer dads the services of their children to
design business cards, posters, flyers on the computer 	
etc, in return for time in school.
The surveys
said…
Dads want to spend more time with their
families, and many are spending more time
with their children than in years gone by.
What they may not know is that when they
do manage to grab time together, reading is
a great thing to do.
It is estimated that on average only
of family literacy, language and
numeracy provision reaches fathers.
8%
82%
74%
25%
of men working full time
said they would like to spend
more time with their family.
of fathers said that
spending time
with the family or
finding time for key
relationships is their biggest concern in
daily life.
of children surveyed said
their father never spends
time reading.
Early
years
Fathers	can	make	a	great	contribution	to	their	
children’s	development	from	the	earliest	age	by	
talking,	singing	and	reading	with	them.	Children’s	
centres	and	other	early	years	settings	have	a	vital	
role	to	play	in	getting	this	message	to	both	mums	
and	dads.	In	fact,	reaching	and	engaging	fathers	
is	part	of	the	core	aims	of	a	children’s	centre,	and	
the	Sure Start Children’s Centres Practice Guidance
Toolkit
for Reaching Priority and Excluded Families
	
a	partnership	between	parents	and	professionals	–	all	
aims	of	the	Early	Years	Foundation	Stage.	Ultimately,	
involving	the	dads	is	a	great	way	to	help	children	
meet	the	outcomes	aspired	to	by	Every Child Matters:	
be	healthy,	stay	safe,	enjoy	and	achieve,	make	a	
positive	contribution	and	attain	economic	well-being.
Early years
In	Stoke-on-Trent,	a	city-wide	project	is	helping	parents,	including	
many	fathers,	to	understand	their	important	role	in	developing	
their	children’s	early	communication	skills.	Janet Cooper,	
the	project	leader,	and	Jo Hobbins Diana Hemmings,	
community	play	workers,	offer	an	explanation	for	the	popularity	
of	the	project’s	toddler	groups	among	dads.
The role of fathers is increasingly
being recognised as important in
children’s development. In Stoke-
on-Trent, the Stoke Speaks Out
project is highlighting the crucial
role of parents and their influence
on children’s communication and
learning development through
positive secure attachments and
positive parenting. Stoke Speaks Out
is a city-wide, multi-agency project
aimed at tackling the high incidence
of speech and language difficulties
identified in the area. Part of its remit
is to support toddler groups across
the city, in order for parents to have
access to good quality stimulation
and receive crucial messages about
children’s development. Most of the
groups are already in existence but
have inconsistent quality, so they are
offered support to develop a structure
that will maximise children’s language
learning. In some areas no groups are
available and Stoke Speaks Out has
identified practitioners and parents
to establish new groups in these areas.
Groups receive mentoring over
a 12-week period, in which a structure
is demonstrated and implemented.
The group leaders spend time with the
mentors planning the next sessions,
and before the mentor leaves they
will make long-term plans. A typical
session includes: a welcome song,
a ‘time line’ to introduce the idea of
sequences, rhymes (choosing the
rhyme is a key part of this activity),
a ‘treasure basket’ to introduce
vocabulary, puzzles, snack time, a
craft activity, bubbles, ‘large action’
rhymes, a story and a goodbye song.
Each session is topic-based, and
parents take home an activity pack
to reinforce the topic at home.
their children in the daytime. Dads
locally seem to be accepting the role of
child carer and do not seem to feel any
stigma attached to attending groups.
The structure and format certainly
help. The good news is that once they
have attended they generally keep
coming back.
For more information visit
www.stokespeaksout.org
The groups have been successful
at recruiting fathers in what has
previously been seen as a ‘mother and
toddler’ arena. One dad said that the
structure of the groups has provided
a common ground, encouraging the
mums in the group to include him
more in conversation and activities.
Another dad reported that he felt the
structure and format of the groups
helped his child to learn and that he
much prefers the group to how it
was before.
When asked about reading, the
majority of dads said that they read
regularly with their children and that
their children have ‘favourite’ stories
that they like to repeat over and over
again. One dad admitted that he could
not read but that hadn’t stopped
him sharing books with his son and
has made him more determined
that his son will read. Books are an
integral part of the sessions and the
mentors observe that often the book
demonstrated in the session is the
book the parents choose to take home
as they feel more confident about how
to share the story.
Recruitment to the groups is
generally by word of mouth, although
some groups have advertised via their
home-school link workers. Average
attendance at a group is between 18
and 20 children with 15 parents, and
one group has a granddad attending.
There has been no specific marketing
at dads – so why are we successful at
recruiting them?
Our theory is that in many of
our areas there are more employment
opportunities for the mothers,
so more fathers are carrying out
the childcare or are working shift
patterns that allow them to be with
Dads speak
out in Stoke
Talk To Your Baby, the National
Literacy Trust’s early language
campaign, provides information,
advice and downloadable resources
on communication and sharing
books to support early years
professionals and inform parents.
Visit www.talktoyourbaby.org.uk
10 Early years
“
Family	literacy	coordinator	Claire Glenn
The aim of this scheme was to
encourage dads and male carers to
make use of the local library and
share books with their children.
North Huyton Sure Start’s fathers’
worker Jason McTigue and I
coordinated the scheme, which saw
dads working hard to boost children’s
literacy skills through the Reading
Champions initiative (see ‘Dads
Matter’ on page 14).
A creepy-crawly promotion
event launched the scheme, when
male carers could come along to
the library with their children and
see real live owls, spiders, lizards
and snakes brought in by local park
ranger Kevin Bushall. Both Liverpool
and Everton Football Clubs donated
signed photographs for any dads who
signed up. A weekly drop-in session
was then arranged in the library for
dads and male carers to come in with
their children and choose books to
share together. Jason and I were also
available each week to offer support
and advice to the dads.
Bookstart’s ‘Baby Book Crawl’
was used as the format for the
sessions, and money was provided by
North Huyton Sure Start to purchase
books to give to the children. The
books decided on were My Dad
by Anthony Browne and My Mum
and Dad Make Me Laugh by Nick
Sharratt. When the dads had shared
four books with their children they
received a certificate and soft toy, and
after eight books, another certificate
and one of the book titles. It was
hoped that this would instil an early
love of books in children, developing
their literacy skills as preparation for
their lifelong learning.
To read interviews with two of the
dads involved in this project visit
www.literacytrust.org.uk/campaign/
Champions/knowsleycasestudy.html.
For more information on Book Crawl
visit www.bookstart co.uk/Parents-
and-carers/Parents-Book-Crawl
It was hoped
that this would
instil an early
love of books
in children.
”
Creepy-crawlies
for crawlers
Image courtesy of Pen Green Children’s Centre
11Early years
For	dads	who	don’t	see	the	point	in	reading	with	their	very	
young	children,	or	don’t	have	the	time,	author	Tom Palmer
Sometimes I am too tired to read with my three-year-
old daughter at bedtime. Sometimes I am too busy.
Sometimes I am simply not at home. But sometimes
I make the effort and do the most rewarding thing
of the day: I read with her. I wish I did it every night.
But I don’t.
In theory, the best way to make myself overcome
work pressures and general exhaustion is to remind
myself that reading to my daughter will help make her
a stronger reader herself; that she’ll do better at school;
be happier and more interested in the world. But the
thing that really motivates me is when I remember that
reading with her is one of the foundation stones of our
relationship, one I must not let go of.
When she was a year old, we were sitting in the
front room together. She was playing with some plastic
animals and she saw that I wasn’t doing anything, just
watching her play. So she picked up a book off the floor,
brought it over, put it on my knee, then sat expectantly
next to me. I knew what she wanted. Me. It remains one
of my happiest memories.
There are lots of statistics and suggestions about
why dads should read with their children. If all dads read
to their kids the country would be happier, have greater
national wealth, have fewer suicides, murders, heart
attacks and less mental illness. That might be true of
the UK as a whole, but I can only really tell you what
happens in my front room.
One thing that annoys me about children’s books is
that dads are often absent. It’s mummy this and mummy
that: granny, aunty, sister, teacher. And sometimes books
or TV portray dads as buffoons or lazy – take Homer
Simpson, or Peppa Pig’s dad. But there are some good
books out there if you look. My top tip is Don’t Let Go
by Jeanne Willis and Tony Ross, where a dad teaches his
daughter to ride a bike. A dad letting go of his daughter,
so she can go off on her own – to fall or not to fall. The
Angelina Ballerina books are also good: the dad is a solid
character who does loving things for his daughter.
Tonight I am writing this on a train, so I can’t be
with my daughter to read stories. There are millions of
dads doing the same right now. And mums. And tomorrow,
because I’ve been out today, I will be under pressure to
catch up with work, not read with my daughter.
But I will try to do the thing I love most. I will make
time to read with her. I can work later. I’ll never have this
time with her again.
Tom Palmer is the author of Shaking Hands with Michael
Rooney, a football story for six to nine-year-olds. For
more information visit www.tompalmer.co.uk
This is what I’d suggest to
a new father wanting to read
with his child:
•	Read	from	day	one	–	make	it	a	habit,	even	if	it	
seems	your	child	is	just	a	pair	of	eyes	peering	
at	you
•	Start	with	plastic	bath	books	or	cloth	books	
and	just	point	to	and	talk	about	things	like	
faces	or	animals	
•	Read	in	a	regular	place	that	is	secure,	warm	
and	quiet	without	the	distractions	of	lots	of	toys	
–	and	maybe	under	a	cosy	blanket
•	Read	at	a	regular	time	–	bedtime	is	ideal,	but	
over	breakfast	also	works	well	in	our	house
•	Use	silly	voices	–	ham	it	up	
•	Once	she’s	older,	let	her	choose	the	books
•	Find	books	about	things	he	likes;	or	about	
things	coming	up	like	a	beach	holiday	or	a	
trip	to	the	dentist
•	Ask	him	questions	about	the	cover,	the	story,	
the	pictures;	what	he	thinks	might	happen	next
•	Be	comfortable	to	laugh	(or	even	cry)	if	the	
book	is	funny	(or	sad)
•	If	you’re	away,	try	taping	or	videoing	yourself	
reading	a	favourite	book	–	apparently,	in	my	
absence,	my	daughter	talks	back	to	my	face	
on	the	screen,	telling	me	about	her	day	and	
then	reading	along	with	me
Don’t let go
12
Primary schools
Schools now receive a lot of encouragement to work with families, but in reality this often means
working with mums and female carers, unless a specific effort is made to involve dads. The following
pages contain some successful examples of this, both through targeting fathers exclusively and
through making sure that they are included. Since dads in schools are still something of a rarity, some
of the examples have appeared in previous National Literacy Trust publications.
Under Every Child Matters, all schools will need to provide access to a ‘core offer’ of services that
include parenting and family support, adult and family learning, and extra clubs.The Five Year Strategy
for Children and Learners aims for a closer relationship between parents and schools, and we know
that involvement by parents, including fathers, is key to children’s success. Aiming High: Raising the
Achievement of Minority Ethnic Pupils identified parental involvement as a characteristic of schools that
are successful in helping ethnic minority pupils achieve. Reading and writing need to be a part of that
involvement.The Primary National Strategy recognises this, providing a rich curriculum based on literacy
and numeracy, and setting out a wider approach to education, in which families and communities
support children to get the best out of learning.This includes support for parenting skills and family
learning projects, providing more opportunities to bring the dads in.
Top ten kids’ books from
Holne Chase dads’ club
We’re Going on a Bear Hunt –
Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury
Holes – Louis Sachar
The Amazing Story of Adolphus
Tips – Michael Morpurgo and
Michael Foreman
The Captain Underpants books –
Dav Pilkey
The Series of Unfortunate Events
books – Lemony Snicket
The Rainbow Magic books –
Daisy Meadows and Georgie Ripper
Stormbreaker – Anthony Horowitz
Wolf Brother – Michelle Paver
Groosham Grange – Anthony Horowitz
The Cat in the Hat – Dr. Seuss
Top dads’ books from
Holne Chase dads’ club
Sunset at Blandings – PG Wodehouse
His Dark Materials trilogy – 	
Philip Pullman
Deception Point – Dan Brown
Angels and Demons – Dan Brown
The Da Vinci Code – Dan Brown
Digital Fortress – Dan Brown
Anything by Dick Francis
The Sharpe books – Bernard Cornwell
Holne Chase
dads’ club
Glynis Wiles, literacy coordinator at Holne Chase Primary School
in Milton Keynes, describes a simple way of getting dads involved
in reading at school.
The idea for our dads’ club came from the headteacher, who
wanted to encourage men to be seen reading. The club was launched
at a parents’ literacy workshop. To keep things inclusive, it is advertised
as a “Dads’ club, but mums are welcome”, and, as it is still in the
fledgling stages,we are always looking for ways to encourage more
parents to come along.
“It’s good for the children to see us reading.”
The dads, and a few mums, meet together in our library first
thing on Friday mornings to read for 20 minutes. We provide tea, coffee,
water and fruit, as well as newspapers to read – although most dads
bring along their own book, and some prefer to read to or with their
child. One of our regular dads is also a school governor, so the club
is a good way for him to be in the school on a weekly basis. And as the
headteacher is also a dad, he attends every week and shows that he is
a reader too.
“My son looks forward to coming now on Fridays.”
1Primary
“This is the third Fun for
Fathers I have attended
and they get better and
more involved every
time. When I get home,
my wife feels left out
and wonders why there
isn’t a mums’ one.”
Events targeted at fathers need to
be held at a time that is convenient
for them. Derek Grimley from
Coventry City Council’s Children
and Family Education Service
describes an after-school programme
especially for dads.
We have been running a
programme called Fun for Fathers in
primary schools around Coventry for
five years. Its aims are to encourage
fathers, and any other male carers,
to come into school and take part
in some fun activities with their
children, and to promote the value of
reading and sharing books and stories
with their children.
The sessions take place in the
school hall from 5 to 7pm, making
them accessible to working dads, and
are on a drop-in basis, although we
stress that if you want to hear the
story and do all the activities, you
have to be early. We base the sessions
around a well-known children’s story
or book, such as Where the Wild
Things Are, Jim and the Beanstalk,
The Gruffalo, Harry and His Bucket
Full of Dinosaurs, and The Three Billy
Goats Gruff.
Dads at a Where the Wild Things
Are session can make a Wild Thing
mask, a boat out of balsa wood for
Max to sail in, a jigsaw, and other
characters from the story. They end
up with enough props to retell the
story when they get home. They also
hear me (usually) read or tell the
story, because part of our idea was
that it would be good to have a man
modelling reading. The other sessions
follow a similar pattern, always with
a storytime and some craft activities
that are a bit unusual: the woodwork
and clay are always popular.
We chose Where the Wild Things
Are because we happened to have (like
you do) a full-sized Wild Thing figure,
which had previously been made for
a children’s festival. He has proved
to be a tremendous asset, because we
take him into school a week before
the event and he spends a day in each
class. The children are urged to ‘come
and meet the Wild Thing’ – and pester
power usually does the rest. When we
return to a school, we advertise with
a picture of the Wild Thing, saying:
“Do you remember me? Now come
and meet my friend the giant/the
Gruffalo/Harry…”
Fathers go wild
Image: Alexandra Strick
The difference
a day makes
World Book Day is an ideal excuse for dads to spend
the day having fun at St Edward’s Catholic Primary
School in Swadlincote, Derbyshire. Headteacher Eilis
Field explains how one day can make a big difference.
Each year we invite dads only to spend the day with
us at school on World Book Day (the first Thursday in
March). They can come for the whole day or just for part
– whatever suits. Throughout the day dads can spend
time in the classrooms and in the playground; naturally
they visit their own child’s class first, but we encourage
them to visit all the classes. They can even book a
school dinner.
The day’s activities vary, but are always on a book
theme. We usually start with an assembly to launch the
day. The first time we ran the day, I read a Big Book and
involved the dads in the questions, but since then our
literacy coordinator has taken on the role and gets them
involved in drama. After that, the teachers organise
activities around books in such a way that dads can join
in as and when they please. At the end of the day we
come together and share some of what we have done.
We first tried running the day two years ago and
did not expect a big response, but to our surprise it was
very popular. We now get dads asking us to confirm
that we are still running it so that they can book a
day off work. Many of our children have parents who
are separated, and this day seems to be very special to
these dads. We publicise it in our newsletter, which also
appears on our website. I stress to separated dads to
check the website, which is run by a kind dad and has
proved a real bonus to separated families.
We also encourage dads to donate a book if they
can, but make it clear that it is not obligatory. Many
welcome the chance to do something positive for their
child’s school, and they like being able to see the school
from an inside perspective, which most of them do not
get a chance to do in the normal run of things.
14 Primary
The Dads Matter project at Coopers Lane Primary School
in Lewisham was born out of a concern in the school about
the lack of positive male role models in the lives of many
children, especially boys. Headteacher Steve Davies and
family learning coordinator Tonia Pancucci describe some
of the project’s current activities, integrating the motivational
framework designed by Reading Champions, an initiative
that uses the power of male reading role models to
encourage boys and men to become lifelong readers.
Dads
Matter
The Dads Matter project at Coopers
Lane Primary School in Lewisham
has now been running for just over
two years. We felt we needed to target
dads specifically as some excellent
family learning groups had been
running for some time in school,
but inevitably it was the mums who
were attending. The presence of dads
and other significant males in the
playground at dropping-off times was
minimal and there was a real lack
of male input on homework tasks.
A significant number of children
in school had no positive male role
models at home and there were only
two male teachers in a staff of 24.
The Dads Matter group is crucial
in engaging dads in their children’s
lives and learning and in the life of
the school. We have a core group of
dads who meet once a month in the
upstairs room of the local pub to
discuss relevant issues, plan events,
and feedback on homework activities.
This year has seen the introduction
of special workshop evenings for all
dads, which have focused on specific
areas of the curriculum, how we teach
in school and how this work can be
supported at home by dads and other
male carers.
The impact of our work can be
seen around school, where dads and
male carers are now more visible
dropping off and picking up their
children. Dads have also been actively
involved in regular weekly football
training and running PE sessions.
Displays of Dads Matter work and
events are regular features around
school, including a recent display in
our new library where the dads have
written about their favourite books.
Some members of the Dads
Matter group were fortunate enough
to visit the De Levensboom school
in Belgium, where dads play a huge
role in the life of the school. This trip
proved a great stimulus to our work,
and our early years unit has benefited
in the shape of a wooden playhouse
designed and built by our dads and
modelled on those structures seen
in the classrooms in Belgium. This
play area offers a rich resource for
our Reception children’s language
development: a great foundation
for future literacy attainment.
It has not always been easy
to link the Dads Matter group with
our Reading Champions in school due
to inevitable work commitments and
time constraints; however, we have
navigated our way around this
problem with our ‘Bring a Dad to
School Week’. This very special week
is currently an annual event where
dads come and spend as much time
as they can spare in school. Some
dads opt to give special presentations
based on their jobs and their hobbies
– we have had interactive talks on
printing, graphic design, cooking
and diving to name but a few. Other
dads, uncles and granddads opt to
come and spend time with us in the
classroom, to work with teachers
and support the children’s learning.
This has given many children the
opportunity to read and write with
some very positive male role models
who were keen to talk about their
own experiences at school and what
they have gone on to achieve in their
lives since.
The Dads Matter group
has developed beyond all our
expectations; yet we know there is
still so much more to do. The group
continues to evolve and grow and
we are sure that the years to come
will prove fascinating.
This article is an update to the case
study that appeared in the Reading
Champions Toolkit, and the Reading
Connects Family Engagement Toolkit.
These publications both feature
sections on involving fathers in
school. For more information and
to download the publications visit
www.readingchampions.org.uk and
www.readingconnects.org.uk
ImagecourtesyofAdrianPancucci,
JohnsonPancucciLimited
15Primary
How to read a bedtime story…
Bedtime stories aren’t just for tiny tots: older children enjoy 	
them too. Rob Kemp, journalist, passes on some tips for dads.
Want to perfect your storytelling
skills? Well, if you’re sitting
comfortably, then we’ll begin…
Research shows that when dads read
bedtime stories their kids do better
at school. Bedtime stories encourage
speech and language development and
help children learn literacy skills in an
enjoyable way. If nothing else, a story
at snooze time helps set down healthy
sleep patterns.
Time then to tell some tall tales.
Get into character…
Bedtime stories should be told in a
relaxed atmosphere – so let’s begin
by switching off the TV. And, where
possible, add some dramatisation to
the stories. Try reading in different
voices or carry out some of the actions
being performed by the characters
in the book. Anything that makes it
a more stimulating story will make
storytime more fun.
Have a regular read…
When your child’s just learning
to talk, regularly read the same
story. This will help their language
development and enhance their
memory. The first time a child
hears a story they won’t catch
everything – but hearing it over and
over again helps them to become
familiar with words and to establish
speech patterns.
Don’t test, do tell…
Avoid turning storytime into an
academic exercise by using it to test
your child’s reading skills. Instead,
just ask open questions about the
stories that help them build a link
between the story and their everyday
life. For example: “What would you
do?” or “Do you know any other black
cats?” or “This was due back at the
library last August – I hope they take
credit card payments for fines!”
Book a boys’ night in…
It’s even more important for dads
to actively encourage their sons to
read. Reading is often thought of by
boys as a ‘girly’ thing to do – which
may explain why lads do so badly
in literacy tests – but if young boys
see their main role model enjoying
reading it’ll encourage them too.
In fact, it doesn’t always have to be
the Mr Men stories. Reeling off your
favourite line or two from a newspaper
story, magazine, comic or match day
football programme will help them
build an association between reading
and fun.
Find the age level…
Spend some quality time with your
children at the library. Look for books
aimed at their age level and stories
you enjoyed as a child. Let them
choose books too – even if they pick
one that’s too complex for them but
they like the pictures. Encourage
them to browse and find stories they
like the look of. Children who have
favourite books when they are young
tend to do better in school.
This article is reproduced by kind
permission of Fathers Quarterly
magazine. For more information visit
www.fqmagazine.co.uk
Beryl Bateson, head of family
learning at Birmingham City
Council, considers why there are
so many men involved in family
learning in the city, despite the
fact that there is no provision
just for dads.
Family literacy provision in
Birmingham local authority ranges
from an approach in most primary
schools called INSPiRE (Involving
School Parents in Reading), with a
family workshop in each class run by
the child’s teacher, to Learning and
Skills Council-funded family literacy
and numeracy, with 85 long courses
and over 150 introductory courses.
Twenty per cent of participants
are men, although there are no
discrete programmes for dads. This
is a high proportion when compared
with the national average, which
seems to be around eight per cent. A
few elements inherent in our inclusive
approach might help to explain why.
These are factors that are frequently
discussed when trying to engage non-
traditional learners. Other providers
will recognise them, and they are not
rocket science, but they are regularly
and effectively applied.
A very personal approach is
taken to engaging parents in these
programmes, with an emphasis on
the need for a parent’s support for
the child. This initial emphasis on
the child, and the gradual increase
in expectation for greater equality
of input from the male parent, gives
‘permission’ for the dad’s involvement.
It also creates special time for the
child and father without the other
parent present. These programmes
are part of a framework of activities
that all reflect this basic value of
building and establishing dad as an
equal parent.
The second essential element
of our approach that appeals to men
is the application of an active, fun,
fast-paced curriculum, with learning
activities based in real life and
materials that bridge home-school
learning – such as newspapers,
comics, quizzes, timetables, maps and
catalogues. There is also a strong
emphasis on interesting outside visits.
Men here seem to respond more
to shorter programmes, rather than
the longer, intensive courses. Finally,
a characteristic of Birmingham that
influences the number of fathers
involved is the high percentage
of Pakistani and Somali families,
who make up 34 and 10 per cent,
respectively, of learners. This reflects
a culture of male involvement in both
these communities.
At the core of this success is
the important principle of flexible
thinking, based on the real lives
and interests of the learners, and a
commitment to adapt the provision
in whatever ways are necessary to
suit the learners rather than the
organisation.
Count men in
1
Secondary
schools
Parents’	involvement	in	their	children’s	education	has	a	significant	
effect	throughout	school	–	but	it	tends	to	decline	as	children	get	
older,	and	many	secondary	schools	find	it	particularly	difficult	
to	engage	with	fathers.	Nevertheless,	dads	need	to	know	that	
they	can	make	a	difference	to	the	achievement	of	their	older	
children.	If	schools	can	help	them	see	what	they	can	do	at	home	
to	work	with	the	school,	including	basic	things	like	talking	to	young	
people	about	their	day	and	their	homework,	they	will	be	helping	
fulfil	the	aims	of	Every Child Matters.	Dads	can	also	play	a	role	in	
raising	children’s	expectations	about	what	they	can	achieve.	As	
schools	seek	to	develop	personalised	learning	and	to	capture	
the	interests	of	14	to	19-year-olds,	fathers	can	help	young	people	
formulate	their	aspirations	and	begin	to	work	out	how	to	reach	
them.	Becoming	an	avid	reader	is	key	to	fulfilling	potential,	and	
dads	can	both	demonstrate	by	example	that	they	value	the	skill	
of	reading,	and	encourage	their	children	to	read	widely:	not	just	
books,	but	newspapers,	magazines	and	the	internet	too.	Finally,	the	
extended	schools	agenda	provides	new	opportunities	to	engage	
with	parents,	and	practical	activities	can	provide	a	way	of	making	
contact	with	dads	who	might	be	wary	of	educational	settings.
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Saturday 19
th
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1.30 pm. - 4.00pm.
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1Secondary
Involving dads doesn’t necessarily
mean they have to come into the
school. Beverley Taylor, learning
resource centre manager at Reading
School, Berkshire, recounts how a
‘Dads and Lads, Mums and Sons’
reading club has motivated pupils
at this boys’ school to read more
at home.
‘Dads and Lads, Mums and
Sons’ was set up to encourage our
boys to widen their choice of reading
materials. Getting the parents on
board was an essential element of the
project, as encouraging reading at
home is the key to sustaining pupil
interest in the books and the scheme.
The club is open to students
in any year and the idea is that the
pupil and their parent agree to read
six books a year together. They
agree on a title, read the book and
then both email a book review to the
school. By taking the time to write
the review together, families have the
opportunity to discuss their opinions
on the chosen title, even if they read
the book at different times.
Initial family recruitment was
made via a letter home, in which
the importance of a role model,
particularly a male, to encourage boys
to read for pleasure was emphasised.
It was also very important to stress
in this letter that families had the
freedom to choose titles and materials
that they felt comfortable with.
The club has been a great
success, with 68 families taking part
in the first year. To raise the profile of
the great work that we received, we
made a display of every book review,
together with illustrations of the book
cover. We also created a new ‘library’
of recommended reads and a booklet
of the reviews. The next step is to hold
an event for all those who took part to
discuss their chosen books.
One way of encouraging men to
get involved is to find a ‘hook’ that
really interests both them and their
children, and to tailor activities
around it. Kerry Baker, family
learning development officer at
East Cowes Family Learning Centre
in the Isle of Wight, describes
how the centre has used football
to target men and boys, giving
them the incentive of improving
their practical skills alongside fun
literacy-related activities. While
some of the activities described
below were aimed at boys in Years
3 and 4, others were aimed at older
middle-school children.
The Isle of Wight family
learning service offers a wide range
of engagement activities. Many of
these activities have had men in
attendance in the past but never
in large numbers. It was decided
that introducing activities aimed
specifically at men and boys would be
a good first step to engaging them
Fathers, football
and fun
in family learning activities, and so
we devised Football Days, open to
men and boys only. To recruit the
men we sent letters out via schools,
inviting them to a football session
with their child. All children needed to
be accompanied by a dad, granddad,
uncle or male carer, and we also
expected a teacher from each school
to be in attendance.
The morning session was
led by a local author who writes
football books. There was a series of
fun ‘warm-up’ activities, including
readings from the author’s books.
The men and boys then practised
interview techniques using recording
equipment. They would pretend to be
either an interviewer or a footballer
who had perhaps scored the winning
goal, or let in the penalty. Then in
either pairs or small groups they
watched a video of a football match
with the sound muted and made up
their own commentary. The afternoon
session was taken by a qualified
football coach who taught a variety of
football skills, followed by a men and
boys’ football match.
These sessions were very
successful and men took time off work
to attend. All received a certificate
and a signed copy of the local author’s
football book. Since then we have
developed several different themed
sessions, such as robotic dinosaur
building. We have also developed men
and children’s sessions that take place
fortnightly, running from 6 to 7.30pm
to allow men who are working to
attend. These are aimed at supporting
the children’s literacy and numeracy
through creative activities based
around a theme, with each theme
lasting for a term. Again these have
been popular and many of the men
have attended all the themed sessions.
‘Dads and Lads, Mums
and Sons’ reading club
The families’ feedback is
testament to the achievements of
the project.
“This is a really good way for
my son and his father, who doesn’t
live with him, to take part in a joint
project and to share something.”
“I was pleasantly surprised by
the range of titles and the quality of
writing available to teenage boys.”
In addition, the scheme’s success
can be demonstrated by the number
of requests for new titles, which has
increased by 100 per cent on the
previous year.
This article has also appeared in the
Reading Connects Family Engagement
Toolkit. For more information and to
download the toolkit visit 	
www.readingconnects.org.uk
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LibrariesLibraries	provide	a	welcoming	space	for	dads	to	share	books	
with	their	children,	look	at	websites	and	find	music	and	films,	as	
well	as	additional	family	activities.	Libraries	also	run	promotions	
highlighting	good	books	that	are	suitable	for	new	or	reluctant	
adult	readers,	including	those	ideal	for	sharing	with	children.	
‘Five	Minutes’	books	are	especially	for	dads,	and	‘First	Choice	
Books’	(www.firstchoicebooks.org.uk)	and	‘Got	kids?	Get	
reading!’	(see	page	30)	both	have	collections	for	parents.	
Public	libraries	support	families	to	develop	children’s	language	
and	reading	skills	through	national	initiatives	such	as	Bookstart,	
the	book-gifting	programme	that	works	in	conjunction	with	
health	services.	Framework for the Future
DOsfor Dads
Speak	to	dads	coming	into		
the	library	with	their	children
Ask	children,	mums	and	other	
carers	to	bring	dad	to	the	activity
Lots	of	dads	are	out	with	their	
children	on	a	Saturday,	so	it’s		
the	ideal	day	for	an	activity
Promote	events	as	widely	as	
possible	at	other	dads’	groups	
and	places	dads	visit
Avoid	clashing	with	major	
sporting	events
Pictures	taken	to	show	dad-
focused	activities	happening		
in	the	library	are	evidence	that	
dads	attend	and,	in	time,	will	
attract	other	dads
Image: Alexandra Strick
19Libraries
Dads in the library
out whole families including older
children who had previously attended
pre-school activities at the library,
such as Rhyme Time and Arty Crafty.
The flier to advertise our most
recent Saturday event, Wiggle and
Jiggle, specifically invited dads to
attend. It was put up everywhere
including local shops, schools,
nurseries, doctors’ surgeries and
the pub and betting shop opposite
the library.
The Saturday was also promoted
at all the weekday sessions and
to anyone coming into the library
with children. Dads can be a bit of a
sensitive area as not every child has
one at home. However, when dad is
sandwiched between big brothers,
grandparents and mum’s special
friend, the message gets through.
There is a ‘Dads’ Time’ every
Saturday at the nearby Soft Play Zone
in Croydon. Dads’ Time is run by men,
If you’re reaching out to dads,
it helps to be able to step back
and consider what else is going
on in their lives and in the local
area. Timing is everything, as
Sonia Knight, Sure Start literacy
development officer at Broad Green
Library in Croydon, explains.
England is playing in the World
Cup final; it’s the last day of the
Ashes; it’s the Six Nations rugby
tournament; there is shopping to be
done; the stairs need vacuuming; and
then there is the library.
It’s a tough choice for a dad.
Make it easy. Domesticity will wait
but a major sporting event will
always take precedence over what’s
happening at the library.
At Broad Green Library there
are two children’s activities a week,
plus additional after-school and
Saturday activities. It is the Saturdays
that attract the most dads and bring
Hampshire Library Service was
trying to increase its audience of
teenage readers and, interestingly,
found that involving the dads was
a successful way of getting to the
boys. Lis Ricketts, Vicky Fisher
and Jane Selby report.
Persuading teenage boys to use
libraries and to read for pleasure can
be something of a challenge. To try
to meet this, Hampshire libraries
developed ‘dads and lads’ reading
groups for teenage boys and their
fathers. ‘B:male’ at Winchester Library
is one of four such groups, and meets
for one evening every month, with an
average membership of 20, including
an honorary mum.
The group has been meeting
since 2001 and is still growing. At
each session library staff are there
to help both fathers and sons find
books that might interest them. The
two-hour sessions involve a wide
range of activities, often suggested
by the group themselves, including
discussions on different genres of
books, talks, storytellers, poets and
drumming workshops. There is
also the occasional outing to places
as diverse as the Theatre Royal,
Winchester and the Hampshire Record
Office. One recent evening resulted
in some lively short stories, written
as part of a consequences game by
fathers and sons together. However,
the activity that the group enjoys
most is simply sharing what they have
been reading, and this often results in
enthusiastic discussion and an eager
swapping of books.
One young member recently said:
“Since starting B:male I have read
so many more books than I would
normally read, and also different
kinds of books. I now really enjoy
reading and my reading speed has
increased. Going to the group once a
month means I have met new people
and it is interesting to hear other
views on books from a similar age
group. Without B:male I would only
read about four books a year, instead
of four books a month.”
A dad commented: “There is a
really good, easy atmosphere between
the lads and dads. I enjoy hearing
about the sorts of books I’d never
normally think of reading.”
We are now entering our sixth
year and considering whether B:male
has met the challenge of getting
boys reading.
This dad might have the answer:
“My son had a very low interest in
reading books, which is why I was
particularly pleased to find out that B:
male existed. Getting him to go to his
first session was difficult but the fact
that one of his friends, who is not a
‘bookie’ person, already attended, plus
a lot of parental pressure, resulted in
our first meeting.
“Since then, he has looked
forward to every session and reminds
me early in the week to be home
in time from work so that we can
both go. His interest in books hasn’t
noticeably improved – the motivation
for him is the social side and access to
multimedia items on long-term loan!
However, B:male has undoubtedly
resulted in him reading more, reading
books that he wouldn’t otherwise have
discovered and maturing to listen to
others’ views of the books that they
have read, and contributing his own.”
Dads have pester power too
for men with children up to the age
of seven years. Obviously this is the
perfect place to target dads: ideally,
a week before the event at the library
and then again on the day. Just as
dads are loyal to their sport, they are
loyal to Dads’ Time, and so anything
that goes on at the library has to be
at a different time. In this way we
complement what Dads’ Time and any
other children’s organisations are
doing locally, rather than trying to
compete. Since Dads’ Time meets on
a Saturday morning, Wiggle and
Jiggle took place in the afternoon.
The last Saturday Wiggle and
Jiggle attracted 17 families, four of
those with dad. Four dads. Out of
seventeen families there must be more
than four dads – but perhaps they
were watching Johnny Wilkinson in
the Six Nations rugby. Next time…
20
Prisons
Many	offenders	have	had	a	very	poor	experience	of	education,	
but	there	are	inspiring	projects	going	on	in	prisons	to	help	turn	that	
around.	The	informal	approach	of	helping	prisoners	to	help	their	
children	is	used	to	engage	their	interest	in	learning.	Reading	with	
or	for	their	children	can	both	increase	prisoners’	skills	and	deepen	
family	relationships	–	leading	not	only	to	a	transformation	in	the	
prisoner’s	life,	but	also	in	the	lives	of	their	family.	This	approach	
fi	ts	two	of	the	National	Offender	Management	Service	(NOMS)’s	
‘pathways’	to	reducing	re-offending:	education,	training	and	
employment;	and	children	and	families.	NOMS	is	also	concerned	
with	providing	life	skills	for	offenders,	including	parenting	and	
relationship	skills,	and	with	ensuring	that	the	needs	of	their	children	
are	met	as	Every Child Matters	is	implemented.	Becoming	a	reader	
has	incalculable	benefi	ts	for	any	child,	and	being	‘inside’	need	
not	be	a	complete	barrier	to	a	dad’s	involvement	in	the	process,	
as	these	stories	show.
Storybook Dads is a groundbreaking scheme that allows
prisoners to be recorded reading a story especially for
their children. This can be a story that they have written
themselves, or one from a book. The story is downloaded
onto a computer where staff and trained prisoners edit
and enhance the story by deleting mistakes and adding
sound effects and music. These very special stories are
then burnt onto a CD and sent to children, allowing them
to hear their parent’s voice whenever they want to.
Not only does this maintain the bond between parent
and child, but many imprisoned dads who have not read
to their children before are committed to doing so upon
release. Participation in the project supports literacy
among prisoners and their children, and at the heart
of the experience is the shared time between parent
and child through the magic of storytelling.
Storybook Dads became a registered charity in 2004
and has disseminated the project into 50 other prisons
(and growing), now including women’s jails and Young
Offender Institutions. Over 3,000 imprisoned parents
have participated.
Dads on disc
Storybook	Dads	is	a	registered	charity	based	at	HMP	Dartmoor,	which	
maintains	family	ties	between	imprisoned	parents	and	their	children	
through	the	production	of	story	CDs.	Project	manager	Sharon Berry	
explains	how	the	scheme	works.
The value of Storybook Dads is illustrated by
Mark’s situation: a married man with a five-year-old
daughter and a second child on the way, Mark was finding
imprisonment very difficult. This was not helped by the
knowledge that his family was finding his absence very
hard to cope with, in particular his young daughter, who
was having trouble getting to sleep at night because she
was missing him.
“She slept all night for the first time since
I’ve been in jail.”
This had the inevitable result that her behaviour
deteriorated, causing added stress to his heavily pregnant
wife. The receipt of the story CD helped to change this, as
his young daughter went to bed and listened to her daddy
telling her a story. In Mark’s words: “She slept all night
for the first time since I’ve been in jail.”
For more information visit www.storybookdads.co.uk
21Prison
Reading dads at
HMP Blantyre House
A year ago I found myself facing a
class of eight dads determined to
get involved in their kids’ education.
The dads in question were prisoners
at HMP Blantyre House – a
resettlement prison in rural Kent.
Many of these men were worried
about their children’s progress at
school – and these fears were not
unfounded. Research shows that
children with a prisoner in the family
are at risk of bullying, low self-esteem
and educational failure.
As I was new to family learning,
and relatively new to prisons, I started
trawling the internet for ideas and
resources. I quickly discovered that
many suggestions for engaging dads
in kids’ literacy were next to useless
in a prison setting. The dads could
not, for example, encourage their
kids to read road signs or labels in
supermarkets. Nor could they visit
libraries, bookshops and newsagents
together. Popping into school for
parents’ evenings or to admire
wall displays was similarly out of
the question.
A little lateral thinking was
required. Over the next year, with
tremendous support from Head of
Learning and Skills Debbie Leach, the
learners and I worked hard to develop
different ways of helping them help
their kids. Family learning sessions
were spent choosing and recording
bedtime stories for their children
through the Storybook Dads scheme.
The dads also made personalised story
sacks for their kids, complete with
hand-made educational games.
Some learners created
Daddy’s Day books. These books
– the brainchild of Blantyre prisoner
Clinton Sproul – are photo journals
of a dad’s day in prison and consist
of pictures, poems, letters and
certificates. They also include photos
of the dads as reading role models
– flicking through papers or reading
books in the library. Several of the
men have been nominated for Reading
Champion awards due to their efforts
(see page 14).
These courses have culminated
in special themed family learning
days, in which children are invited
into the prison. Themes have included
the Wild West, Halloween, Animals
and Food, and Growing. These days
are meticulously prepared by the dads
and involve treasure hunts, games,
gym activities, word searches and
craft activities. On one occasion, both
the kids and dads planted a sunflower
seed and were encouraged to have a
‘sunflower race’ – each recording their
flower’s growth on a special chart and
exchanging pictures and letters about
its progress.
The librarian runs storytime
sessions and a local bookshop has
kindly agreed to lend us a large
selection of books so that the
children and dads can choose a
book together. Our next project is to
make the visiting hall a literacy-rich
environment by encouraging the
children to produce poems, stories
and pictures to go on the wall. Being
a ‘reading dad’ in prison isn’t easy
– but the learners at Blantyre have
proved it is certainly possible.
“Being a ‘reading dad’
in prison isn’t easy – but
the learners at Blantyre
have proved it is certainly
possible.”
Family	learning	tutor	Sam Hart	describes	some	ingenious	
ways	in	which	dads	in	prison	can	be	reading	role	models	
and	support	their	children’s	education.
Prison22
Many aspects of prison life can
complicate efforts to encourage
prisoners to read for pleasure and
support their children’s reading.
Sue Wilkinson, librarian at HMP
Birmingham, describes how they
overcame some of the obstacles,
using The Reading Agency’s
project, Got kids? Get reading!
Exploring new
territory
When HMP Birmingham was
selected to be part of a pilot family
reading project in 2005, this was
new territory for us. Although we
were keen on the idea, the logistics
of delivering a family-based project
in a large, busy local prison were
daunting. The prison is not geared
to family visits, with no comfortable
seating or area where parents and
children can read together.
However, the success of the
story area at the prison’s first ever
family day a few months previously
got us thinking about how we could
get the men engaged with reading to
their children. When the opportunity
came to take part in the Got kids?
Get reading! pilot, testing the
effectiveness of new family reading
resources and book collections, it
seemed almost too good to be true.
“I realise now that reading
is a good way for children
and parents to spend time
together. I’m going to
take an interest in my kids’
reading.”
Making the prison family
reading-friendly
One of the most important aspects
of the project was to link the various
agencies involved in family reading.
With support from Birmingham
Libraries’ Children’s Team, we
devised an ambitious programme
involving the prison library, the
prison education department, the
visitors’ centre and Words on Wheels
(a mobile library catering specifically
for under-fives). The aim was to
link families through reading and
help adults to improve their basic
skills. We organised five visits to the
visitors’ centre from Words on Wheels
and arranged sessions with groups
of dads in the prison library, using
the Got kids? Get reading! collection
of adults’ and children’s books. We
advertised the sessions at the visitors’
centre in the prison library, hoping
that library users could arrange their
visits on these days, so that their
children and partners could use the
same books.
As with any project in a prison,
security was paramount. Our first
problem was where to park a very
large mobile library so that it was
close enough to the visitors’ centre.
After much delicate negotiation, we
were given permission to park at the
entrance to the car park, where people
could drop in either before or after
their visit to look at the range of stock
available in the library, as well as titles
in the Got kids? Get reading! collection.
During a one-off session with
a group of regular library users, we
focused on reading with their children.
The men came up with lots of ideas
for ways to share books with their
children during their time inside. One
man is writing a story for his child and
sending an instalment in each of his
letters; another is making time during
phone calls to ask his children about
what they are reading; a third now
asks the library to get him the same
books as his children are reading,
so that he can talk to them about
the content.
Building confidence
Library sessions were also run as
part of the Family Man course being
delivered by the education department
at the same time. In the first session
we talked about books, reading and
libraries. Out of the 12 men taking
2Prison
never did very well at school, but all my
cousins went on to get really good jobs.”
For more information on Got kids?
Get reading! visit www.literacytrust.
org.uk/vitallink/gotkids.html
A version of this article originally appeared
in the winter 2005 edition of Read On,
the magazine of the National Reading
Campaign. Visit www.readon.org.uk
was reading it to a group of children,
which initially caused embarrassment
among the men. However, they soon
joined in and two of them volunteered
to give very entertaining renditions of
What’s the Time, Mr Wolf? and There’s
a Monster Under My Bed.
A third session was planned to
pull everything together. However,
things in prison rarely go to plan and
operational difficulties meant this
session had to be cancelled. This is
something that you get used to in
prisons. Fortunately, the prisoners
are aware of this and usually take
these things in their stride.
Despite the setbacks, all the men
felt it was a very positive experience
and several have become regular
library users. They each said they
intend to read with their children
when they get out.
Overall, the feedback was
very positive, as this participant’s
comments shows:
“We never had books at home – my
mum kept the house so neat and tidy,
she wouldn’t have anything lying about.
I used to love going to my aunt’s. She
had books everywhere – on shelves, piled
up on the floor, even in the toilet. I
“I found the library staff much
more approachable for
someone like me who can’t
read very well. They don’t
judge you, and it’s much
less stressful – I don’t feel
threatened in the library.”
part, only one had used a library
before coming to prison. We helped
them choose a suitable book to take
away to read and the tutor very
helpfully built some reading time
into the course.
The second session focused
on reading to children and sharing
books. Only one of the men
remembered having books at home
when he was a child – the same man
who had used libraries before coming
to prison. Most of the men could
remember being read to at school,
but none had ever read to their own
children. We asked them to think
about the benefits to children of being
read to and talked about what makes
a good story for a child. One of the
library staff read a story as if she
Image courtesy of Safe Ground’s Fathers Inside programme.
Photographer: Warwick Sweeney
Brentford ‘Til I DieBrentford ‘Til I DieBrentford ‘Til I DieBrentford ‘Til I Die
24
FootballFootball	is	a	great	way	of	encouraging	many	men	and	children	
to	get	reading,	as	it	has	huge	motivational	power.	Of	course,	
it’s	not	the	only	sport	to	have	this	effect:	anything	that	dads	
are	really	interested	in	can	play	a	key	role	in	engaging	them.	
Nevertheless,	activities	that	combine	football	and	reading,	
reports	of	top	players	talking	about	their	favourite	books	and	
incentives	such	as	match	tickets	or	skills	training	can	work	
wonders.	Many	sports	grounds	now	have	study	support	centres	
and	are	doing	great	things	to	improve	the	skills	of	children	and	
adults	in	their	local	communities,	both	on	and	off	the	pitch.
Offer to help a football fan with
their literacy skills and they’ll
most likely tell you where to go;
give them an opportunity to tell
their stories and they’ll jump at the
chance. Jo Emmerson, education
manager for Hounslow Study
Support Service and the Griffin Park
Learning Zone at Brentford Football
Club, reports.
Raising the literacy levels of
our fan base was the challenge posed
for Brentford FC by Jim Sells of the
National Literacy Trust’s Reading
The Game project, and the BBC’s RaW
(Reading and Writing) campaign.
Griffin Park Learning Zone is a
new learning resource in the centre
of Brentford FC, and I am ‘that
teacher woman’.
Brentford FC has a fan base
that is hugely diverse professionally
and academically, and I certainly
didn’t want to attempt to suggest
that we should all pick up books in
half-time to help career prospects.
Fortunately, at this time Bees United,
the Brentford Supporters’ Trust, was
running a number of fundraising
activities and wanted to write a book.
Hence the birth of Brentford ‘Til I Die,
a collection of fans’ stories about why
the club is important to them. These
were produced by the fans themselves
in the Learning Zone, supported by
ourselves, and in particular by two
well-known and respected Brentford
fans, who drove the project forward
and ensured that fans bought into
the idea.
There were a number of
successes related to undertaking a
project with fans. It was a risk, but it
led to positive kudos for the Learning
Zone itself and the staff. We have
since run an adult learning computer
course as a result of fans coming into
the room for the first time during the
book work.
The Brentford ‘Til I Die approach
is being undertaken by other clubs,
which raises our profile within the
industry. Moreover, the book virtually
sold out within a few weeks of
publication and there is a call on us
to produce Volume 2.
We wouldn’t claim that our book
attracted only ‘dads and lads’ – my
fellow mum and daughter fans would
not be impressed. However, we know
we produced a book about football
that was attractive to men. We have
met reluctant male readers and
witnessed dads working with their
sons and daughters to create their
own stories.
There is no doubt that this
project was a real winner, and it
certainly had an impact: only last
week I met a reluctant reader who
has read it five times and could tell
us his favourite story.
For more information on
Reading The Game visit
www.readingthegame.org.uk
“I’m hooked on the Bees;
that’s what I’m looking
forward to Joshua
enjoying, and for him it
began the moment he
met my friends at an
away game.”
Image and quote: Brentford ‘Til I Die
25Football
GET CAUGHT
READING
Make reading your goal Kick
into
Reading
Kick into Reading (KiR) is a
programme in which Football in
the Community coaches, and in
some cases academy students
and first-team players, are
trained in how to perform and
tell stories for children. Once
trained, they are posted into
libraries where they perform
the tales for children, while
showing them how a love of
books, reading and telling
stories is an important and fun
part of their lives. In addition,
clubs often run ‘Family Days’,
where children and a parent
or carer are invited to the club
itself and KiR takes place in the
stands or in a club classroom.
KiR is a Reading The Game
programme funded by Arts
Council England and supported
by the Professional Footballers’
Association.
For more information visit
www.literacytrust.org.uk/
Football/RTGProjects/kir.html
– driving on average 1,000 miles a
week – so as you can imagine I’m not
often around to read bedtime stories.
Luckily, though, my son and I have
come up with an ingenious solution,
which seems to do the trick.
When we get the chance, I
take my kids along to a bookshop
(although this would work just as
well with a trip to the library). I
encourage them to choose something
that appeals to them – I don’t mind
whether that’s fiction, cars, computers
or even football as long as they want
to read it. The youngest of my kids is
still keen on a bedtime story, so we get
two copies of his book choice – one for
me and one for him. Then, even if I’m
on the road, we can still read together
at his bedtime. Sometimes this means
I end up pulling into a lay-by and
reading with him over the phone,
each taking it in turn to read a page.
That way I can help if he stumbles on
a word, he can ask me questions and
we both get to chat about things he’s
interested in. It’s a really nice thing
to share and I’m certain both of us
benefit from the experience – even
when it’s long distance.
David James is a Reading Champion
for Portsmouth FC and has played
as goalkeeper for both Manchester
City and England. It was his mum
who helped him to become a reader,
and now that he is a dad, he is
passing the legacy on.
As a Reading Champion, I know
how important it is for children to
get into reading; as a father, I know
just how much influence parents can
have in helping this happen. When
I was a child my mother would read
to me, and I remember reading The
Hobbit together. However, we did not
continue and my reading suffered.
I got back into it after school by
reading car magazines and IQ books.
I was lucky to have a mum who
encouraged me to read. I wasn’t a
strong reader, but being introduced to
books at home helped encourage me
to keep reading and find things that
interested me.
Being separated from my
children means it can be difficult for
us to read together as much as I’d like
to – but we get round it as best we
can. I have a pretty hectic schedule
READ
WITH CARE
READ
WITH CARE
2
Visiting one residential care home
with a box of books, I was reading
out loud to a group of boys, when
one of them called enthusiastically
to a care worker, “We should get this
book!”. The care worker said: “You
already have it. Look on the shelf.”
And indeed there it was, on the
pristine, untouched shelves. The boy
looked puzzled, as if the book on the
shelf was different from the one I was
reading from.
Even when the books are there
it requires enthusiasm and knowledge
to promote them. Not every care
worker is an enthusiastic reader. And
even if they were, they might not see
potential readers in the young people
– “You just read magazines, don’t
you?”. It often seems that female care
workers find it easier to adopt the
role of reader in residential homes,
or perhaps it’s just expected of them.
But male care workers get just as
much affection and respect from the
young people: it’s just that reading
is not the first thing they think of to
talk about with them.
Joke books have gone down
well with both male care workers and
children. In one home they seized on
a collection of particularly dreadful
jokes, saying, “Steve will love these”.
Indeed, when Steve was presented
with them, he laughed just as much
as the children – or more – as he read
the jokes out loud. Care workers
often read to the younger children
at bedtime. “It really helps to calm
them down,” says Mike. He also told
me that a book on bereavement they’d
read with the children had helped
them with a recent loss.
What young people in care need,
though, is for their care workers
to have a passion and interest in
their own reading, so that they can
see the point in supporting and
encouraging others.
“They were fantastic.
I never would have
thought I’d enjoy
books so much.”
Tim told me that he didn’t really
read anything beyond the sports
pages. Sometimes he would talk about
those with the boys, but that was it.
However, he’d really enjoyed the film
Sleepers, so I gave him the novel to
try. Mind you, he was just about to go
on his honeymoon, so it might have
been wishful thinking that he would
pick it up.
I saw him three weeks later.
“I still haven’t read that book.”
I nodded. “It was your –,” I began.
“– But I’ve read three others,”
he exclaimed. Genuinely excited, he
told me how he’d been at the airport
thinking he really should read that
novel, but then his eye had gone to a
bookshop and he’d seen a biography
of Mohammed Ali, one of his all-time
heroes. “I read that and then two
others while I was away. They were
fantastic. I never would have thought
I’d enjoy books so much.”
Tim is now a dedicated reader
and happily shares what he is reading
with the young people. A lot of effort
goes into projects that promote
reading to young people in care;
perhaps more effort should be targeted
at the care workers themselves.
Children in care need more than just access to
books. Reading promoter David Kendall explains
that it is also important for the men they respect to
demonstrate that they are readers too.
2
John Bird,	founder	and	editor-in-chief	of	The
Big Issue,	argues	that	dads	should	not	leave	
their	children’s	reading	to	chance.
My mother was always too exhausted
for anything other than housework.
She was too tired bringing up six
boys and placating an angry husband.
She could read: she learned to read
in a country school in Ireland. But
she never picked up a book and read
to us. She felt it was something you
did at school, and all that school stuff
had nothing to do with bringing up
children.
I finally learned to read
reasonably well at Ashford boys’
prison, just before my 16th
birthday.
Once I started, you could not stop
me. I was off like a wild horse let out
of a stable. History, poetry, novels
– from Herman Melville’s Moby Dick
to Dostoevsky’s The Idiot. I picked up
obscure reads that are still with me,
like The Vicar of Wakefield by Oliver
Goldsmith, or Specimen Days by
Walt Whitman.
My reading life suggests we
should not read to our children.
Maybe that’s school stuff and it should
be left to teachers. After all, am I not
a good example of doing it yourself?
I wish it was that simple.
First of all, if I had not met in
a boot camp at the age of 14 a prison
officer who was inspired by reading,
I may never have got anywhere. He
made me love reading, even though
I was still the slowest reader in the
class. He would always talk about
how his life was richer because he
read whenever he got the chance.
If at Ashford I had not met another
prison officer who gave me books
then, at the time I was ready, the
moment may have passed and I would
have returned to being a non-reader.
Yes, you can leave it to luck
that your child will get the right
inspiration. You can leave it to
hope. But you could also take out
an insurance policy: read to them
yourself.
When it came to my own
children, I took chance out of their
learning to enjoy reading. I did not
leave it just to teachers and my wife.
I read to my babies, and got their
little lives full of the surprise of books.
I surrounded them with words and
pictures so that their imaginations
could develop. And I enjoyed every
moment of it. In fact, I got as much
out of it as the children did.
I went one stage further. I
wrote stories with my children and
illustrated them with their pictures.
I made books out of scraps of paper
and got them storytelling.
I have many children. I have
godchildren. For decades now I have
been involved in the reading world
of the child. It always reminds me
that you should not leave your child’s
development to chance. So I say get
in there and see yourself and your
children flower through the power
of word and picture.
And prepare them for a
bigger life.
“When it came to
my own children,
I took chance out
of their learning
to enjoy reading.
I did not leave it
just to teachers
and my wife. I read
to my babies, and
got their little lives
full of the surprise
of books.”
Make men the
issue
28
Patrick Augustus:
what reading
means for me
Patrick Augustus is director of the BabyFather Alliance and an author
whose books include Weekend Fathers and Don’t Make Me Laugh.
He talks to us about his experience of reading.
Why do you think it’s important for parents to
read with their children?
Reading	opens	up	a	whole	new	world	that	takes	
you	out	of	yourself	and	helps	you	think	outside	
the	box.	And	there’s	no	substitute	for	education.
What was your experience of reading as a child?
My	mother	used	to	read	the	Bible	to	me:	most	
of	my	favourite	stories	were	about	Jesus,	and	
also	the	story	of	Samson	and	Delilah.
Did you have any male reading role models as a child?
My	brother	was	a	role	model	–	he	used	to	read	a	lot	of	books	
and	I	knew	reading	was	important	because	I	saw	him	doing	it.	
Martin	Luther	King	and	Angela	Davis	are	people	whose	books	
I	can	remember	him	with.
It	reinforces	to	them	how	important	reading	is.	If	you	take	time	
out	of	your	busy	life	to	read	with	them,	it	sends	a	positive	mes-
sage.	Hopefully	then	they’ll	see	the	value	in	reading	too,	and	
pass	it	on	to	their	own	children.
Why do you think it’s important for fathers to
get involved with their children’s reading?
What do you like to read with your own children?
I	enjoy	reading	the	Bible	with	my	children	too.	Anything	
that	happens	to	you	in	life	–	someone	in	there	has	al-
ready	been	through	it,	so	you	know	they	felt	the	same.	
Then	the	way	that	they	dealt	with	it	gives	you	wisdom.
2
Make talk,
not war
Museums are not only for exhibitions: they have many
other activities going on, and some of these will attract
dads and their children – or could do, if there is a
little encouragement to get involved. These provide an
opportunity for dads to have fun with their children,
and to get talking and perhaps even reading and
writing with their families. Daniell Phillips, head of
corporate education at London’s Imperial War Museum,
explains how a project at his museum brought the
generations together, giving fathers and grandfathers
the chance to share their memories with their families
and the wider community.
“I knew my dad had been to Italy during the
war, but it was only when I saw his reaction
to a town that he had last seen in ruins that
I began to understand what it had meant to
him … we talked for hours that night.”
Their Past – Your Future was an educational
programme led by the Imperial War Museum and
supported by the Big Lottery Fund. At the core of the
programme were intergenerational learning experiences:
essentially, encouraging veterans and eyewitnesses of
the conflict to share their experiences with younger
generations, and especially school-age pupils.
For many groups, this intergenerational contact
happened during visits to areas where key events of the
conflict took place, such as the Normandy beaches (or
in many cases much further afield). Large numbers of
veterans visited the places they had served, many for the
first time in 60 years. It is telling that many veterans felt
that their individual story was insignificant, and certainly
of no interest to young people today. Even those who had
kept diaries during the war, or charted how the war had
impacted on their lives in letters and journals, did not
feel inclined to share their records. This was before the
realisation, generated through the interaction with young
people, that in fact these accounts were the very things
that the students valued in bringing history to life and
giving it relevance to their own lives.
Many of the veterans remarked that they had
not felt able to talk to their own offspring about these
events, but could speak more easily to grandchildren
and great-grandchildren, or indeed total strangers from
a younger generation. One of the unforeseen benefits
of the programme was that, by promoting contact and
shared experiences between young people and veterans,
we were actually able to bring veterans together with
the generation who benefited most directly from their
sacrifices – their own children. Many family members
accompanied veterans on their Heroes Return visits to
their areas of service, and were able to share, for the first
time, a true understanding of how involvement in the
conflict had shaped their relatives’ lives, attitudes,
values and memories.
For more information visit
www.theirpast-yourfuture.org.uk
30
Resources
Some useful organisations, websites and resources. This list is
not exhaustive but is a place to start.
Initiatives supporting dads
with their children’s literacy
Putting Dads in the Picture aims to increase the numbers of men engaging in family
learning. The two-year project, based in Solihull and run by the Campaign for Learning,
champions fathers as role models and mentors. At its first family fun day dads could have
a free professional photograph taken with their children, and all the families stayed to
enjoy a range of free activities put on by local providers. The project will create a generic
engagement tool that can be used by organisations throughout the country looking to
recruit dads. Contact Kerry Flynn on 0121 773 3133 or kflynn@cflearning.org.uk
The Big Book Share A project run by The
Reading Agency, through which children’s librarians help
prisoners choose books to read on tape for their children.
www.readingagency.org.uk/projects/children/book_
share.html
Dads  Lads A project running through Lancashire
schools, linking literacy with sport in order to encourage
dads to become more involved in their children’s
education.
www.lancsngfl.ac.uk/projects/dadsnlads/
index.php
Engaging fathers – involving parents,
raising achievement A booklet produced by the
Department for Education and Skills to help schools take
action to include both parents in the life of the school.
www.teachernet.gov.uk/wholeschool/
familyandcommunity/workingwithparents/
engagingfathers
Family Man/Fathers Inside Run in prisons
by educational charity Safe Ground, these courses use
drama and storytelling to improve family relationship and
parenting skills.
www.safeground.org.uk
Family Reading Campaign Tips for engaging
dads and tips for dads themselves, case studies and
overviews of research.
www.literacytrust.org.uk/familyreading/dads.html
Five Minutes A Reading Agency promotion aimed at
dads with low literacy, showcasing the library as the place
for dads to discover books they’ll enjoy sharing with their
children and for themselves.
www.literacytrust.org.uk/vitallink/fiveminutes.html
Got kids? Get reading! Family reading library
promotion created by The Reading Agency through its
Vital Link partnership with the National Literacy Trust.
www.readingagency.org.uk/projects/children/kids_
reading.html
It’s a Man Thing A father and child reading project
run by the education charity ContinYou, which primary
schools can buy in to. It encourages fathers to become
more active participants in their children’s learning.
www.continyou.org.uk/content.php?CategoryID=261
Keeping up with the Children A family
programme created by the Basic Skills Agency and used
in the community and in prisons to introduce parents to
what their children are learning in English and maths.
www.basic-skills.co.uk/site/page.php?p=263cms=3
Reading Champion Dads Part of the National
Reading Campaign’s Reading Champions initiative,
Reading Champion Dads works to help schools utilise
the great reservoir of untapped manpower and raise
the involvement of men in their children’s education.
www.literacytrust.org.uk/campaign/champions/
dads.html
Putting Dads in the Picture
3Resources
Ideas for men’s reading matter
www.literacytrust.org.uk/vitallink/fcb.html
www.quickreads.org.uk
The Babyfather Initiative Run by Barnardos and
the BabyFather Alliance, the project aims to encourage
responsible parenting amongst black males in the UK, in
particular those who are separated from their children.
www.barnardos.org.uk/babyfather
Boys2MEN A programme of music, arts, life-
experience and sports for boys, young men, and fathers/
parents, which aims to help males at risk of social
exclusion to make the transition from childhood to
adulthood. Run by Coram Family.
www.coram.org.uk/sfvcyp/boys2men.htm
Children North East Fatherhood Centre
and Fathers Plus An ‘online knowledge bank’ to
enable workers, managers and carers to share information
and work together to include men in all local services.
www.fathers-plus.co.uk and www.includingmen.com
Dads  Lads A YMCA project helping fathers and
children deepen their relationships through sharing an
activity together. Grants, training, support and a range of
resources are available to those wanting to start their own
project.
www.ymca.org.uk/bfora/systems/xmlviewer/default.
asp?arg=DS_YMCA_WEBART_111/_page.xsl/149
Fathers Direct The national information centre
on fatherhood. Its website includes news, examples of
practice and summaries of research, and the organisation
offers training and a variety of resources, including:
• Working with Fathers: Six Steps Guide
• Engaging Fathers in their Children’s Learning:
tips for practitioners
• A resource for Muslim fathers: Connecting With God
and Your Child: A Fathers’ Guide to Prayer and Praise
(An-Nisa Society with Fathers Direct)
www.fathersdirect.com
Initiatives supporting
dads in general
Fatherskills A small company based in Wales that
trains professionals to engage and work with fathers.
Resources include a book, An Introduction to Working
With Fathers, and two short films. Contact Nick Clements,
95 New Road, Ynysmeudwy, Pontardawe, Swansea SA8
4PP. Tel: 01792 830799
Kick Start Offers an eight-month package of training,
support, reflection and practical action for organisations
looking to engage with fathers in Northern Ireland.
http://mensproject.org/kickstart.html
The Pre-school Learning Alliance Has a
downloadable leaflet for early years settings called Fathers
Matter: Ideas and practical tips for involving fathers in
your setting.
www.pre-school.org.uk/services/family-learning
Sowing Seeds Works with African and Caribbean
men and fathers to support children and families.
www.sowingseeds.co.uk
Top Dads Run by the education charity ContinYou,
Top Dads uses sport as an incentive for vulnerable young
fathers to take part in mentoring on positive parenting
and signposting to support agencies.
www.continyou.org.uk/content.php?CategoryID=271
Young Fathers Initiative A Working With Men
project providing advice services, courses for expectant
fathers and website materials for the support of fathers
aged 25 or under.
www.workingwithmen.org/youngfathers
National Literacy Trust is a registered charity, no.1116260, and a company limited by guarantee, no.5836486.
Registered in England and Wales.
Registered address: Swire House, 59 Buckingham Gate, London SW1E 6AJ.
For more copies of this magazine contact the National Literacy Trust
on 020 7828 2435 or contact@literacytrust.org.uk.
Literacy changes
lives
Literacy enables people to achieve their full potential. The National Literacy Trust is a charity
dedicated to ensuring everyone has the reading, writing, speaking and listening skills they need.
Our projects reach people in some of the most disadvantaged communities, where the
need is greatest.
This magazine was brought to you by the National Literacy
Trust. To find out more, or make a donation, visit our website at
www.literacytrust.org.uk, email contact@literacytrust.org.uk,
or call us on 020 7828 2435.
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Getting the Blokes on Board

  • 1. 7714771720199 Getting the Blokes on Board Involving fathers and male carers in reading with their children Real life stories Schools that get dads reading Prison: books behind bars TOP TIPS for engaging dads How to read a bedtime story Patrick Augustus: what reading means for me Dads have pester power too
  • 2. Foreword As a father myself, I have seen how important it is to read to my son – both for his development and for our relationship. Education happens not just in school, but in the home too, and the Government understands that parents are their child’s fi rst and most important educators. It is therefore vital that schools work together with families – and that means dads as well as mums. Fathers, grandfathers, uncles, brothers and other male carers are role models for children and young people, particularly boys. As we seek to close the gap between boys’ and girls’ educational attainment, these men and older boys have an even more important role in demonstrating that they value reading. And as we seek to reach out to families, particularly those most in need, it is not only schools that can take the reading message to fathers. Every Child Matters is helping different agencies work together to ensure that all children enjoy and achieve so that they make a positive contribution and attain economic well-being, as well as staying safe and being healthy. This magazine shows how libraries, museums, children’s centres, sports clubs and prisons, as well as schools, have engaged dads in reading to and with their children. I hope it will inspire you to do the same. Parmjit Dhanda Parliamentary Under -Secretary of State for Children, Young People and Families Thanks The title of this magazine was inspired by Blokes on Board, a partnership project of the Derbyshire community literacy initiative Read On – Write Away! (ROWA!) and the National Reading Campaign. The project works in primary schools to encourage dads and men to help children with their reading, using the ROWA! double-decker bus and the Reading Champions framework from the National Reading Campaign. To find out more about ROWA! visit www.rowa.org.uk Christina Clark (National Literacy Trust), Janet Cooper (Stoke Speaks Out), Tom Palmer, Claire Glenn (Sure Start North Huyton), Eilis Field (St Edward’s Catholic Primary School), Tonia Pancucci and Steve Davies (Coopers Lane Primary School), Rob Kemp and Fathers Quarterly magazine, Glynis Wiles (Holne Chase Primary School), Derek Grimley (Coventry City Council), Beryl Bateson (Birmingham City Council), Beverley Taylor (Reading School), Kerry Baker (East Cowes Family Learning Centre), Sonia Knight (Croydon Libraries), Lis Ricketts, Vicky Fisher and Jane Selby (Hampshire Library Service), Sharon Berry (Storybook Dads), Sam Hart (HMP Blantyre House), Sue Wilkinson (HMP Birmingham), Jo Emmerson and Chris Barrett (Hounslow Study Support Service), David James, David Kendall, John Bird, Patrick Augustus, Daniell Phillips (Imperial War Museum), Sharon Hawkins (ROWA!) and Alexandra Strick. Thanks also to Peter Silva of PEEP and Kathy Jones of Fathers Direct for their advice, and to Eliza Buckley, Maura Canavan, Katy Mahood and Julia Strong at the National Literacy Trust. Editor: Rodie Akerman First published by the National Literacy Trust in 2007. Many thanks to all who contributed to this magazine: This magazine has been produced with support from The terms ‘fathers’ and ‘dads’ are used in this magazine to signify fathers, stepfathers, grandfathers, uncles, brothers, male carers and any male who plays a significant role in a child or young person’s life.
  • 3. Contents Image: Alexandra Strick Introduction The National Literacy Trust’s vision is of a society where all are empowered to fulfil their potential by being equipped with the literacy skills they need. Our focus is therefore on those who are at risk of exclusion because of their low levels of literacy. Concerns about boys’ reading have been the focus of much media attention. Government initiatives have been launched to support schools in closing the gap between boys’ and girls’ literacy levels and there is speculation that the wider attainment gap between boys and girls is underpinned by the literacy gap. This magazine focuses on a key strategy to promote literacy to boys: the promotion of fathers as positive reading role models. This is a huge challenge. Fathers are spending more time with their children – the average time a dad spends with his children has increased by 800 per cent since the 1970s. However, the Reading Connects survey by the National Literacy Trust in 2005 suggests that 25 per cent of children have never seen their dad reading. No one agency can address this challenge on its own. Extended schools need to work with libraries, workplaces and a range of organisations at community level to analyse and meet the reading needs of dads locally. This magazine is a resource for all professionals who want to address this challenge. We believe that the case studies will inspire a wealth of new initiatives to get fathers into reading. The ideas featured here are a starting point – we know there’s lots more happening. Programmes like the National Literacy Trust’s Reading Champions and Reading The Game initiatives are providing diverse ways of promoting activity and gathering examples of approaches that work. We want to spread these approaches. The best way of doing this is through networks and clusters. Engaging with initiatives such as Reading Connects, Reading Champions and the Family Reading Campaign locks an organisation into a community of practice that inspires and informs. Our hope is that this magazine, backed up by networks and groups of organisations committed to promoting dads’ reading, will stimulate a real cultural change in families and homes across the nation. Jonathan Douglas, Director, National Literacy Trust 4 What’s the point? Evidence from research 6 Top tips for engaging dads 8 Early years Dads speak out in Stoke Creepy-crawlies for crawlers Don’t let go 12 Primary schools Holne Chase dads’ club Fathers go wild The difference a day makes Dads Matter Count men in How to read a bedtime story... 16 Secondary schools ‘Dads and Lads, Mums and Sons’ reading club Fathers, football and fun 18 Libraries Dads in the library Dads have pester power too 20 Prisons Dads on disc Reading dads at HMP Blantyre House Exploring new territory 24 Football Brentford ‘Til I Die Make reading your goal Kick into Reading 26 Features Read with care Make men the issue Patrick Augustus: what reading means for me Make talk, not war 30 Resources
  • 4. 4 Does it really matter whether or not dads read with their children? Research says that it does. Christina Clark from the National Literacy Trust sets out the evidence. What’s the point ?of the possible causes for the declining rates of school achievement for boys. So, what is known about fathers’ level of engagement with their children’s literacy activities? Surveys have shown that there are high social expectations for fathers to spend time with their children, as evidenced by recent provisions of paternal leave and flexitime in the workplace. Not only are there greater expectations on men to become involved fathers who are active in their child’s upbringing, but young men today also endorse less traditional gender roles and wish to participate more fully in family life. This shift in perceptions of fatherhood is borne out by time-use surveys, which indicate that although mothers continue to devote more time to caring for children, fathers’ involvement in child-related activities has increased substantially in the past few decades. As part of these activities, fathers are involved with their children’s literacy. Research shows that fathers who share in childcare duties, such as feeding and bathing the child, tend to be more involved in their children’s reading and writing than fathers who do not participate in childcare duties. When asked who read most with their children in a UK study, 37 per cent of fathers reported that they and their partners both read to their children in equal amounts, while 40 per cent conceded that their partners were more likely to read with their children than they were. Interviewing 26 fathers regarding their literacy involvement with their children, a US study found that the majority of fathers reported engaging in weekly school-related literacy practices with their children, Research in the last three decades has established a clear link between parental involvement and children’s educational attainment. Although most of this research has taken ‘parental involvement’ to be the same as mother’s involvement, increasing attention has been paid to the specific influences fathers and other male carers have on their children’s development. Much of the research on father involvement and child outcomes, both in the UK and internationally, has focused on educational achievement. This research has shown that when fathers take an active role in their children’s education by volunteering at school, helping children with their homework or attending school meetings, children are more likely to do better academically, to participate in extra-curricular activities and to enjoy school. Children also benefit in numerous other ways from having involved fathers, including increased cognitive abilities, higher self-esteem and greater social competence. Overall, children are more likely to reap these benefits the earlier fathers become involved with their children’s learning. However, with the exception of studies into the facilitators of or barriers to father involvement in family literacy programmes, the relationship between fathers’ engagement and children’s literacy outcomes has rarely been explored in detail. This is surprising since fathers’ reading habits can have a substantial influence on their children’s ability to read, their levels of interest and their reading choices. Shared literacy activities can also strengthen the bond between fathers and their children. Indeed, it has been suggested that the lack of male role models involved in reading and other literacy- related activities during children’s early years is one
  • 5. 5 involvement. In a separate study, this research also highlighted that engagement by both the father and the mother contributed significantly and independently to children’s attitudes towards school. The literature reviewed here indicates that fathers have an important role to play in their children’s literacy development. However, involving fathers in their children’s literacy activities not only benefits their children. There are also numerous benefits that have been reported for the fathers themselves, including greater skill acquisition, greater confidence and self-esteem, a better father-child relationship, and increased engagement with learning. Finally, a finding by US researchers is worth keeping in mind when studying father involvement. They found that actual changes in the quality of paternal behaviour are necessary for significant outcomes to come about, suggesting that an emphasis on increased father involvement alone may not be sufficient for bringing about change or beneficial impact. Reading, if it can be seen as something that is fun, can be one way of ensuring that quality time together. You can read a version of this article with full research references at www.literacytrust.org.uk/Research/ Fatherindex.html while almost two-thirds of fathers also read with their children for recreational purposes. Common to these studies is the finding that fathers view reading as a way to maintain a relationship with their children, and believe that having books in the home and being seen reading by their children are important. “37 per cent of fathers reported that they and their partners both read to their children in equal amounts, while 40 per cent conceded that their partners were more likely to read with their children.” While fathers might want to increase the amount of time spent with their children, there are family, personal, structural and cultural barriers that may hinder increased involvement in family life. Fathers may also not see that they have a role to play: one study found that they tended to give the child’s mother the main responsibility for reading with children, usually because they viewed her as the main teacher and caregiver. This perception might be accurate. Children in a National Literacy Trust survey reported that their mothers were more engaged with their reading than their fathers were. Not only were fathers less likely than mothers to encourage children to read more, but fathers were also seen to be reading less than mothers. Similarly, when asked who had taught them to read, children reported that it had been their mother, followed by their teacher, and then their father who had taught them. Overall, studies show that fathers are generally less likely to take part in traditional reading and writing activities than mothers. Several researchers have argued that the current emphasis on literacy has included a narrow view of book-based literacy practices, thereby neglecting media with which fathers are more comfortable – for example, using technology, activities involving pop culture or, in some cases, languages other than English. A US study lists various activities in which fathers report they have participated, including: reading environmental print such as road signs, logos, billboards and television adverts; reading newspapers, magazines, dictionaries, maps, telephone directories, manuals and bedtime stories; spelling and defining words; spelling names; colouring and tracing letters, and making use of the computer for spelling or writing activities. UK researchers have explored the extent to which mothers’ and fathers’ involvement independently affected their children’s schooling, and whether levels of father involvement were dependent on the degree to which mothers are involved. This research was based on longitudinal data from the National Child Development Study, a study of 17,000 children born in one week in March 1958. It was found that both father’s and mother’s involvement at age seven predicted the child’s educational attainment by age 20, irrespective of the other parent’s involvement. It was also found that the impact of father involvement on children’s later educational outcomes did not depend significantly on the degree of mother Image: Alexandra Strick
  • 6. If dads don’t believe that they can have an influence over their child’s education and how well they perform, they’re unlikely to get involved, especially if they’re not confident with their own skills. Try these ideas when working with families to show how easy it can be for dads to offer support to children and how much of a difference they can make. Children are often the biggest motivator – give dads the opportunity to do something with or for their children. It can help to spell out what the benefits will be for their children, such as boosting their brainpower. Use the mums – many mums act as gatekeepers for their child’s education, so involve them in encouraging the dads to get on board. Separated mums may still be happy for dads to be contacted, if you just ask. Timing – as dads may be more likely to be at work during the day, think about when they might be available – early mornings, evenings or weekends perhaps. Know your background – be persistent, creative, patient and sensitive in the recruitment of fathers, as it can be challenging and time-consuming. They like to do something, not talk about it – use activities as part of the sessions: quizzes, interactive games, workshops, the internet, puzzles, and visits from celebrity authors, poets, dramatists and storytellers – anything that mixes reading with doing something. Look at the whole organisation’s attitude – there may be mistrust on both sides of the fence and any good work you do can be undone in a moment if you do not have everybody on board or at least aware of what you are doing. Allow time for staff training and discussion of the issues. Plan for long-term commitment – don’t get hung up on numbers: word of mouth will help if you are successful. Speak to them directly – events labelled for ‘parents’ tend to attract mothers. Address letters to fathers, and try other media too: text messages, emails or a website. Are there other organisations that can help you reach dads – libraries, schools, sports clubs, community groups or even a local employer? Consult them – ask fathers for their advice on factors such as content, design, publicity, recruitment, themes, timing and venue. Use a dad-friendly hook – sport is a great place to start, particularly (although not exclusively) football, and even more so if there is a reward like a ground tour at the end of it. Your local club may be able to help. ICT is also very popular. Not all dads are the same – their life histories, experiences, situations and expectations will be varied so try not to lump them all under the same label. Value the reading that is part of different families’ cultures. It’s not just books – consider what reading materials fathers will enjoy, including subjects such as sports, travel and sci-fi, as well as other non-fiction, magazines, manuals, websites and newspapers. Find some that feature dads in a positive light. TOP TIPS for engaging dads
  • 7. Activities Turn one of your events into a longer course, giving dads a clear purpose and offering them the chance to walk away with something. Practical courses – organise a healthy food campaign where dads prepare food and sell it to parents and staff or learn to cook a special dinner with the help of sons for Mothers’ Day. Storytelling workshops – offer advice on how to read with children at home. Ambassador dads – nurture one or two enthusiastic dads and build up their confidence so they can help develop a larger group. Have a dad monitor: someone alert to regional or national opportunities for reaching out to male parents, such as Fathers’ Day or sporting tournaments. Radiowaves – involve dads through making radio programmes that can be podcasted in and between organisations. www.radiowaves.co.uk Digital-Blues – lend out Digital-Blues cameras and get children to make videos with their dads. Have an award evening for the videos. www.digiblue.com Building something – provide practical sessions, be it a robot, a computer, a remote-controlled car or a go-kart. These tips are adapted from those devised by a range of professionals with expertise in engaging fathers in reading. They first appeared in the Reading Champions Toolkit. Visit www.readingchampions.org.uk Events Holding a one-off event to grab attention can work well, but you need to have a retention strategy in place or numbers will fall off dramatically. Use the event to give dads the opportunity to spend some time with their children, have some fun and feel useful, and to show them that they can get more involved. Have an informal chat as part of the session to find out what they would like to do in the future. Most of the suggestions below will involve some form of reading. Dads into school day – if you work in a school, ask dads to come in and find out about what their children are up to all day. See page 13. Beer and books – organise a reading group in the local pub for dads. See page 14. Business breakfasts – provide a resident speaker and networking opportunities. Weekend clubs – organise clubs and trips so dads can play a nurturing role that empowers them and offers support beyond mum. Football match evenings – have a quick session of quizzes etc before settling down to watch a game. See pages 24-25. An auction of promises – ask dads to donate time such as five hours of bedtime reading; offer them free classes or taster sessions in return for jobs done. A man who can – ask dads for help around your organisation: BBQs at a book fair, or providing help with a building or maintenance project. Skill swap – offer dads the services of their children to design business cards, posters, flyers on the computer etc, in return for time in school. The surveys said… Dads want to spend more time with their families, and many are spending more time with their children than in years gone by. What they may not know is that when they do manage to grab time together, reading is a great thing to do. It is estimated that on average only of family literacy, language and numeracy provision reaches fathers. 8% 82% 74% 25% of men working full time said they would like to spend more time with their family. of fathers said that spending time with the family or finding time for key relationships is their biggest concern in daily life. of children surveyed said their father never spends time reading.
  • 8. Early years Fathers can make a great contribution to their children’s development from the earliest age by talking, singing and reading with them. Children’s centres and other early years settings have a vital role to play in getting this message to both mums and dads. In fact, reaching and engaging fathers is part of the core aims of a children’s centre, and the Sure Start Children’s Centres Practice Guidance Toolkit for Reaching Priority and Excluded Families a partnership between parents and professionals – all aims of the Early Years Foundation Stage. Ultimately, involving the dads is a great way to help children meet the outcomes aspired to by Every Child Matters: be healthy, stay safe, enjoy and achieve, make a positive contribution and attain economic well-being.
  • 9. Early years In Stoke-on-Trent, a city-wide project is helping parents, including many fathers, to understand their important role in developing their children’s early communication skills. Janet Cooper, the project leader, and Jo Hobbins Diana Hemmings, community play workers, offer an explanation for the popularity of the project’s toddler groups among dads. The role of fathers is increasingly being recognised as important in children’s development. In Stoke- on-Trent, the Stoke Speaks Out project is highlighting the crucial role of parents and their influence on children’s communication and learning development through positive secure attachments and positive parenting. Stoke Speaks Out is a city-wide, multi-agency project aimed at tackling the high incidence of speech and language difficulties identified in the area. Part of its remit is to support toddler groups across the city, in order for parents to have access to good quality stimulation and receive crucial messages about children’s development. Most of the groups are already in existence but have inconsistent quality, so they are offered support to develop a structure that will maximise children’s language learning. In some areas no groups are available and Stoke Speaks Out has identified practitioners and parents to establish new groups in these areas. Groups receive mentoring over a 12-week period, in which a structure is demonstrated and implemented. The group leaders spend time with the mentors planning the next sessions, and before the mentor leaves they will make long-term plans. A typical session includes: a welcome song, a ‘time line’ to introduce the idea of sequences, rhymes (choosing the rhyme is a key part of this activity), a ‘treasure basket’ to introduce vocabulary, puzzles, snack time, a craft activity, bubbles, ‘large action’ rhymes, a story and a goodbye song. Each session is topic-based, and parents take home an activity pack to reinforce the topic at home. their children in the daytime. Dads locally seem to be accepting the role of child carer and do not seem to feel any stigma attached to attending groups. The structure and format certainly help. The good news is that once they have attended they generally keep coming back. For more information visit www.stokespeaksout.org The groups have been successful at recruiting fathers in what has previously been seen as a ‘mother and toddler’ arena. One dad said that the structure of the groups has provided a common ground, encouraging the mums in the group to include him more in conversation and activities. Another dad reported that he felt the structure and format of the groups helped his child to learn and that he much prefers the group to how it was before. When asked about reading, the majority of dads said that they read regularly with their children and that their children have ‘favourite’ stories that they like to repeat over and over again. One dad admitted that he could not read but that hadn’t stopped him sharing books with his son and has made him more determined that his son will read. Books are an integral part of the sessions and the mentors observe that often the book demonstrated in the session is the book the parents choose to take home as they feel more confident about how to share the story. Recruitment to the groups is generally by word of mouth, although some groups have advertised via their home-school link workers. Average attendance at a group is between 18 and 20 children with 15 parents, and one group has a granddad attending. There has been no specific marketing at dads – so why are we successful at recruiting them? Our theory is that in many of our areas there are more employment opportunities for the mothers, so more fathers are carrying out the childcare or are working shift patterns that allow them to be with Dads speak out in Stoke Talk To Your Baby, the National Literacy Trust’s early language campaign, provides information, advice and downloadable resources on communication and sharing books to support early years professionals and inform parents. Visit www.talktoyourbaby.org.uk
  • 10. 10 Early years “ Family literacy coordinator Claire Glenn The aim of this scheme was to encourage dads and male carers to make use of the local library and share books with their children. North Huyton Sure Start’s fathers’ worker Jason McTigue and I coordinated the scheme, which saw dads working hard to boost children’s literacy skills through the Reading Champions initiative (see ‘Dads Matter’ on page 14). A creepy-crawly promotion event launched the scheme, when male carers could come along to the library with their children and see real live owls, spiders, lizards and snakes brought in by local park ranger Kevin Bushall. Both Liverpool and Everton Football Clubs donated signed photographs for any dads who signed up. A weekly drop-in session was then arranged in the library for dads and male carers to come in with their children and choose books to share together. Jason and I were also available each week to offer support and advice to the dads. Bookstart’s ‘Baby Book Crawl’ was used as the format for the sessions, and money was provided by North Huyton Sure Start to purchase books to give to the children. The books decided on were My Dad by Anthony Browne and My Mum and Dad Make Me Laugh by Nick Sharratt. When the dads had shared four books with their children they received a certificate and soft toy, and after eight books, another certificate and one of the book titles. It was hoped that this would instil an early love of books in children, developing their literacy skills as preparation for their lifelong learning. To read interviews with two of the dads involved in this project visit www.literacytrust.org.uk/campaign/ Champions/knowsleycasestudy.html. For more information on Book Crawl visit www.bookstart co.uk/Parents- and-carers/Parents-Book-Crawl It was hoped that this would instil an early love of books in children. ” Creepy-crawlies for crawlers Image courtesy of Pen Green Children’s Centre
  • 11. 11Early years For dads who don’t see the point in reading with their very young children, or don’t have the time, author Tom Palmer Sometimes I am too tired to read with my three-year- old daughter at bedtime. Sometimes I am too busy. Sometimes I am simply not at home. But sometimes I make the effort and do the most rewarding thing of the day: I read with her. I wish I did it every night. But I don’t. In theory, the best way to make myself overcome work pressures and general exhaustion is to remind myself that reading to my daughter will help make her a stronger reader herself; that she’ll do better at school; be happier and more interested in the world. But the thing that really motivates me is when I remember that reading with her is one of the foundation stones of our relationship, one I must not let go of. When she was a year old, we were sitting in the front room together. She was playing with some plastic animals and she saw that I wasn’t doing anything, just watching her play. So she picked up a book off the floor, brought it over, put it on my knee, then sat expectantly next to me. I knew what she wanted. Me. It remains one of my happiest memories. There are lots of statistics and suggestions about why dads should read with their children. If all dads read to their kids the country would be happier, have greater national wealth, have fewer suicides, murders, heart attacks and less mental illness. That might be true of the UK as a whole, but I can only really tell you what happens in my front room. One thing that annoys me about children’s books is that dads are often absent. It’s mummy this and mummy that: granny, aunty, sister, teacher. And sometimes books or TV portray dads as buffoons or lazy – take Homer Simpson, or Peppa Pig’s dad. But there are some good books out there if you look. My top tip is Don’t Let Go by Jeanne Willis and Tony Ross, where a dad teaches his daughter to ride a bike. A dad letting go of his daughter, so she can go off on her own – to fall or not to fall. The Angelina Ballerina books are also good: the dad is a solid character who does loving things for his daughter. Tonight I am writing this on a train, so I can’t be with my daughter to read stories. There are millions of dads doing the same right now. And mums. And tomorrow, because I’ve been out today, I will be under pressure to catch up with work, not read with my daughter. But I will try to do the thing I love most. I will make time to read with her. I can work later. I’ll never have this time with her again. Tom Palmer is the author of Shaking Hands with Michael Rooney, a football story for six to nine-year-olds. For more information visit www.tompalmer.co.uk This is what I’d suggest to a new father wanting to read with his child: • Read from day one – make it a habit, even if it seems your child is just a pair of eyes peering at you • Start with plastic bath books or cloth books and just point to and talk about things like faces or animals • Read in a regular place that is secure, warm and quiet without the distractions of lots of toys – and maybe under a cosy blanket • Read at a regular time – bedtime is ideal, but over breakfast also works well in our house • Use silly voices – ham it up • Once she’s older, let her choose the books • Find books about things he likes; or about things coming up like a beach holiday or a trip to the dentist • Ask him questions about the cover, the story, the pictures; what he thinks might happen next • Be comfortable to laugh (or even cry) if the book is funny (or sad) • If you’re away, try taping or videoing yourself reading a favourite book – apparently, in my absence, my daughter talks back to my face on the screen, telling me about her day and then reading along with me Don’t let go
  • 12. 12 Primary schools Schools now receive a lot of encouragement to work with families, but in reality this often means working with mums and female carers, unless a specific effort is made to involve dads. The following pages contain some successful examples of this, both through targeting fathers exclusively and through making sure that they are included. Since dads in schools are still something of a rarity, some of the examples have appeared in previous National Literacy Trust publications. Under Every Child Matters, all schools will need to provide access to a ‘core offer’ of services that include parenting and family support, adult and family learning, and extra clubs.The Five Year Strategy for Children and Learners aims for a closer relationship between parents and schools, and we know that involvement by parents, including fathers, is key to children’s success. Aiming High: Raising the Achievement of Minority Ethnic Pupils identified parental involvement as a characteristic of schools that are successful in helping ethnic minority pupils achieve. Reading and writing need to be a part of that involvement.The Primary National Strategy recognises this, providing a rich curriculum based on literacy and numeracy, and setting out a wider approach to education, in which families and communities support children to get the best out of learning.This includes support for parenting skills and family learning projects, providing more opportunities to bring the dads in. Top ten kids’ books from Holne Chase dads’ club We’re Going on a Bear Hunt – Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury Holes – Louis Sachar The Amazing Story of Adolphus Tips – Michael Morpurgo and Michael Foreman The Captain Underpants books – Dav Pilkey The Series of Unfortunate Events books – Lemony Snicket The Rainbow Magic books – Daisy Meadows and Georgie Ripper Stormbreaker – Anthony Horowitz Wolf Brother – Michelle Paver Groosham Grange – Anthony Horowitz The Cat in the Hat – Dr. Seuss Top dads’ books from Holne Chase dads’ club Sunset at Blandings – PG Wodehouse His Dark Materials trilogy – Philip Pullman Deception Point – Dan Brown Angels and Demons – Dan Brown The Da Vinci Code – Dan Brown Digital Fortress – Dan Brown Anything by Dick Francis The Sharpe books – Bernard Cornwell Holne Chase dads’ club Glynis Wiles, literacy coordinator at Holne Chase Primary School in Milton Keynes, describes a simple way of getting dads involved in reading at school. The idea for our dads’ club came from the headteacher, who wanted to encourage men to be seen reading. The club was launched at a parents’ literacy workshop. To keep things inclusive, it is advertised as a “Dads’ club, but mums are welcome”, and, as it is still in the fledgling stages,we are always looking for ways to encourage more parents to come along. “It’s good for the children to see us reading.” The dads, and a few mums, meet together in our library first thing on Friday mornings to read for 20 minutes. We provide tea, coffee, water and fruit, as well as newspapers to read – although most dads bring along their own book, and some prefer to read to or with their child. One of our regular dads is also a school governor, so the club is a good way for him to be in the school on a weekly basis. And as the headteacher is also a dad, he attends every week and shows that he is a reader too. “My son looks forward to coming now on Fridays.”
  • 13. 1Primary “This is the third Fun for Fathers I have attended and they get better and more involved every time. When I get home, my wife feels left out and wonders why there isn’t a mums’ one.” Events targeted at fathers need to be held at a time that is convenient for them. Derek Grimley from Coventry City Council’s Children and Family Education Service describes an after-school programme especially for dads. We have been running a programme called Fun for Fathers in primary schools around Coventry for five years. Its aims are to encourage fathers, and any other male carers, to come into school and take part in some fun activities with their children, and to promote the value of reading and sharing books and stories with their children. The sessions take place in the school hall from 5 to 7pm, making them accessible to working dads, and are on a drop-in basis, although we stress that if you want to hear the story and do all the activities, you have to be early. We base the sessions around a well-known children’s story or book, such as Where the Wild Things Are, Jim and the Beanstalk, The Gruffalo, Harry and His Bucket Full of Dinosaurs, and The Three Billy Goats Gruff. Dads at a Where the Wild Things Are session can make a Wild Thing mask, a boat out of balsa wood for Max to sail in, a jigsaw, and other characters from the story. They end up with enough props to retell the story when they get home. They also hear me (usually) read or tell the story, because part of our idea was that it would be good to have a man modelling reading. The other sessions follow a similar pattern, always with a storytime and some craft activities that are a bit unusual: the woodwork and clay are always popular. We chose Where the Wild Things Are because we happened to have (like you do) a full-sized Wild Thing figure, which had previously been made for a children’s festival. He has proved to be a tremendous asset, because we take him into school a week before the event and he spends a day in each class. The children are urged to ‘come and meet the Wild Thing’ – and pester power usually does the rest. When we return to a school, we advertise with a picture of the Wild Thing, saying: “Do you remember me? Now come and meet my friend the giant/the Gruffalo/Harry…” Fathers go wild Image: Alexandra Strick The difference a day makes World Book Day is an ideal excuse for dads to spend the day having fun at St Edward’s Catholic Primary School in Swadlincote, Derbyshire. Headteacher Eilis Field explains how one day can make a big difference. Each year we invite dads only to spend the day with us at school on World Book Day (the first Thursday in March). They can come for the whole day or just for part – whatever suits. Throughout the day dads can spend time in the classrooms and in the playground; naturally they visit their own child’s class first, but we encourage them to visit all the classes. They can even book a school dinner. The day’s activities vary, but are always on a book theme. We usually start with an assembly to launch the day. The first time we ran the day, I read a Big Book and involved the dads in the questions, but since then our literacy coordinator has taken on the role and gets them involved in drama. After that, the teachers organise activities around books in such a way that dads can join in as and when they please. At the end of the day we come together and share some of what we have done. We first tried running the day two years ago and did not expect a big response, but to our surprise it was very popular. We now get dads asking us to confirm that we are still running it so that they can book a day off work. Many of our children have parents who are separated, and this day seems to be very special to these dads. We publicise it in our newsletter, which also appears on our website. I stress to separated dads to check the website, which is run by a kind dad and has proved a real bonus to separated families. We also encourage dads to donate a book if they can, but make it clear that it is not obligatory. Many welcome the chance to do something positive for their child’s school, and they like being able to see the school from an inside perspective, which most of them do not get a chance to do in the normal run of things.
  • 14. 14 Primary The Dads Matter project at Coopers Lane Primary School in Lewisham was born out of a concern in the school about the lack of positive male role models in the lives of many children, especially boys. Headteacher Steve Davies and family learning coordinator Tonia Pancucci describe some of the project’s current activities, integrating the motivational framework designed by Reading Champions, an initiative that uses the power of male reading role models to encourage boys and men to become lifelong readers. Dads Matter The Dads Matter project at Coopers Lane Primary School in Lewisham has now been running for just over two years. We felt we needed to target dads specifically as some excellent family learning groups had been running for some time in school, but inevitably it was the mums who were attending. The presence of dads and other significant males in the playground at dropping-off times was minimal and there was a real lack of male input on homework tasks. A significant number of children in school had no positive male role models at home and there were only two male teachers in a staff of 24. The Dads Matter group is crucial in engaging dads in their children’s lives and learning and in the life of the school. We have a core group of dads who meet once a month in the upstairs room of the local pub to discuss relevant issues, plan events, and feedback on homework activities. This year has seen the introduction of special workshop evenings for all dads, which have focused on specific areas of the curriculum, how we teach in school and how this work can be supported at home by dads and other male carers. The impact of our work can be seen around school, where dads and male carers are now more visible dropping off and picking up their children. Dads have also been actively involved in regular weekly football training and running PE sessions. Displays of Dads Matter work and events are regular features around school, including a recent display in our new library where the dads have written about their favourite books. Some members of the Dads Matter group were fortunate enough to visit the De Levensboom school in Belgium, where dads play a huge role in the life of the school. This trip proved a great stimulus to our work, and our early years unit has benefited in the shape of a wooden playhouse designed and built by our dads and modelled on those structures seen in the classrooms in Belgium. This play area offers a rich resource for our Reception children’s language development: a great foundation for future literacy attainment. It has not always been easy to link the Dads Matter group with our Reading Champions in school due to inevitable work commitments and time constraints; however, we have navigated our way around this problem with our ‘Bring a Dad to School Week’. This very special week is currently an annual event where dads come and spend as much time as they can spare in school. Some dads opt to give special presentations based on their jobs and their hobbies – we have had interactive talks on printing, graphic design, cooking and diving to name but a few. Other dads, uncles and granddads opt to come and spend time with us in the classroom, to work with teachers and support the children’s learning. This has given many children the opportunity to read and write with some very positive male role models who were keen to talk about their own experiences at school and what they have gone on to achieve in their lives since. The Dads Matter group has developed beyond all our expectations; yet we know there is still so much more to do. The group continues to evolve and grow and we are sure that the years to come will prove fascinating. This article is an update to the case study that appeared in the Reading Champions Toolkit, and the Reading Connects Family Engagement Toolkit. These publications both feature sections on involving fathers in school. For more information and to download the publications visit www.readingchampions.org.uk and www.readingconnects.org.uk ImagecourtesyofAdrianPancucci, JohnsonPancucciLimited
  • 15. 15Primary How to read a bedtime story… Bedtime stories aren’t just for tiny tots: older children enjoy them too. Rob Kemp, journalist, passes on some tips for dads. Want to perfect your storytelling skills? Well, if you’re sitting comfortably, then we’ll begin… Research shows that when dads read bedtime stories their kids do better at school. Bedtime stories encourage speech and language development and help children learn literacy skills in an enjoyable way. If nothing else, a story at snooze time helps set down healthy sleep patterns. Time then to tell some tall tales. Get into character… Bedtime stories should be told in a relaxed atmosphere – so let’s begin by switching off the TV. And, where possible, add some dramatisation to the stories. Try reading in different voices or carry out some of the actions being performed by the characters in the book. Anything that makes it a more stimulating story will make storytime more fun. Have a regular read… When your child’s just learning to talk, regularly read the same story. This will help their language development and enhance their memory. The first time a child hears a story they won’t catch everything – but hearing it over and over again helps them to become familiar with words and to establish speech patterns. Don’t test, do tell… Avoid turning storytime into an academic exercise by using it to test your child’s reading skills. Instead, just ask open questions about the stories that help them build a link between the story and their everyday life. For example: “What would you do?” or “Do you know any other black cats?” or “This was due back at the library last August – I hope they take credit card payments for fines!” Book a boys’ night in… It’s even more important for dads to actively encourage their sons to read. Reading is often thought of by boys as a ‘girly’ thing to do – which may explain why lads do so badly in literacy tests – but if young boys see their main role model enjoying reading it’ll encourage them too. In fact, it doesn’t always have to be the Mr Men stories. Reeling off your favourite line or two from a newspaper story, magazine, comic or match day football programme will help them build an association between reading and fun. Find the age level… Spend some quality time with your children at the library. Look for books aimed at their age level and stories you enjoyed as a child. Let them choose books too – even if they pick one that’s too complex for them but they like the pictures. Encourage them to browse and find stories they like the look of. Children who have favourite books when they are young tend to do better in school. This article is reproduced by kind permission of Fathers Quarterly magazine. For more information visit www.fqmagazine.co.uk Beryl Bateson, head of family learning at Birmingham City Council, considers why there are so many men involved in family learning in the city, despite the fact that there is no provision just for dads. Family literacy provision in Birmingham local authority ranges from an approach in most primary schools called INSPiRE (Involving School Parents in Reading), with a family workshop in each class run by the child’s teacher, to Learning and Skills Council-funded family literacy and numeracy, with 85 long courses and over 150 introductory courses. Twenty per cent of participants are men, although there are no discrete programmes for dads. This is a high proportion when compared with the national average, which seems to be around eight per cent. A few elements inherent in our inclusive approach might help to explain why. These are factors that are frequently discussed when trying to engage non- traditional learners. Other providers will recognise them, and they are not rocket science, but they are regularly and effectively applied. A very personal approach is taken to engaging parents in these programmes, with an emphasis on the need for a parent’s support for the child. This initial emphasis on the child, and the gradual increase in expectation for greater equality of input from the male parent, gives ‘permission’ for the dad’s involvement. It also creates special time for the child and father without the other parent present. These programmes are part of a framework of activities that all reflect this basic value of building and establishing dad as an equal parent. The second essential element of our approach that appeals to men is the application of an active, fun, fast-paced curriculum, with learning activities based in real life and materials that bridge home-school learning – such as newspapers, comics, quizzes, timetables, maps and catalogues. There is also a strong emphasis on interesting outside visits. Men here seem to respond more to shorter programmes, rather than the longer, intensive courses. Finally, a characteristic of Birmingham that influences the number of fathers involved is the high percentage of Pakistani and Somali families, who make up 34 and 10 per cent, respectively, of learners. This reflects a culture of male involvement in both these communities. At the core of this success is the important principle of flexible thinking, based on the real lives and interests of the learners, and a commitment to adapt the provision in whatever ways are necessary to suit the learners rather than the organisation. Count men in
  • 16. 1 Secondary schools Parents’ involvement in their children’s education has a significant effect throughout school – but it tends to decline as children get older, and many secondary schools find it particularly difficult to engage with fathers. Nevertheless, dads need to know that they can make a difference to the achievement of their older children. If schools can help them see what they can do at home to work with the school, including basic things like talking to young people about their day and their homework, they will be helping fulfil the aims of Every Child Matters. Dads can also play a role in raising children’s expectations about what they can achieve. As schools seek to develop personalised learning and to capture the interests of 14 to 19-year-olds, fathers can help young people formulate their aspirations and begin to work out how to reach them. Becoming an avid reader is key to fulfilling potential, and dads can both demonstrate by example that they value the skill of reading, and encourage their children to read widely: not just books, but newspapers, magazines and the internet too. Finally, the extended schools agenda provides new opportunities to engage with parents, and practical activities can provide a way of making contact with dads who might be wary of educational settings.
  • 17. Team prize fun session at Harcourt sands Families Learning in Island Partnerships Have you ever thought?....... For all Dads, Grandads, Uncles, Male Carers, Friends and their Middle School children Saturday 19 th June At Smallbrook Stadium Ryde 1.30 pm. - 4.00pm. If you wish to book a place then please contact Andy McEwan You can only attend if you have booked your place! I want to practice my football skills at home. I could commentate better than that! I could answer those football questions 1Secondary Involving dads doesn’t necessarily mean they have to come into the school. Beverley Taylor, learning resource centre manager at Reading School, Berkshire, recounts how a ‘Dads and Lads, Mums and Sons’ reading club has motivated pupils at this boys’ school to read more at home. ‘Dads and Lads, Mums and Sons’ was set up to encourage our boys to widen their choice of reading materials. Getting the parents on board was an essential element of the project, as encouraging reading at home is the key to sustaining pupil interest in the books and the scheme. The club is open to students in any year and the idea is that the pupil and their parent agree to read six books a year together. They agree on a title, read the book and then both email a book review to the school. By taking the time to write the review together, families have the opportunity to discuss their opinions on the chosen title, even if they read the book at different times. Initial family recruitment was made via a letter home, in which the importance of a role model, particularly a male, to encourage boys to read for pleasure was emphasised. It was also very important to stress in this letter that families had the freedom to choose titles and materials that they felt comfortable with. The club has been a great success, with 68 families taking part in the first year. To raise the profile of the great work that we received, we made a display of every book review, together with illustrations of the book cover. We also created a new ‘library’ of recommended reads and a booklet of the reviews. The next step is to hold an event for all those who took part to discuss their chosen books. One way of encouraging men to get involved is to find a ‘hook’ that really interests both them and their children, and to tailor activities around it. Kerry Baker, family learning development officer at East Cowes Family Learning Centre in the Isle of Wight, describes how the centre has used football to target men and boys, giving them the incentive of improving their practical skills alongside fun literacy-related activities. While some of the activities described below were aimed at boys in Years 3 and 4, others were aimed at older middle-school children. The Isle of Wight family learning service offers a wide range of engagement activities. Many of these activities have had men in attendance in the past but never in large numbers. It was decided that introducing activities aimed specifically at men and boys would be a good first step to engaging them Fathers, football and fun in family learning activities, and so we devised Football Days, open to men and boys only. To recruit the men we sent letters out via schools, inviting them to a football session with their child. All children needed to be accompanied by a dad, granddad, uncle or male carer, and we also expected a teacher from each school to be in attendance. The morning session was led by a local author who writes football books. There was a series of fun ‘warm-up’ activities, including readings from the author’s books. The men and boys then practised interview techniques using recording equipment. They would pretend to be either an interviewer or a footballer who had perhaps scored the winning goal, or let in the penalty. Then in either pairs or small groups they watched a video of a football match with the sound muted and made up their own commentary. The afternoon session was taken by a qualified football coach who taught a variety of football skills, followed by a men and boys’ football match. These sessions were very successful and men took time off work to attend. All received a certificate and a signed copy of the local author’s football book. Since then we have developed several different themed sessions, such as robotic dinosaur building. We have also developed men and children’s sessions that take place fortnightly, running from 6 to 7.30pm to allow men who are working to attend. These are aimed at supporting the children’s literacy and numeracy through creative activities based around a theme, with each theme lasting for a term. Again these have been popular and many of the men have attended all the themed sessions. ‘Dads and Lads, Mums and Sons’ reading club The families’ feedback is testament to the achievements of the project. “This is a really good way for my son and his father, who doesn’t live with him, to take part in a joint project and to share something.” “I was pleasantly surprised by the range of titles and the quality of writing available to teenage boys.” In addition, the scheme’s success can be demonstrated by the number of requests for new titles, which has increased by 100 per cent on the previous year. This article has also appeared in the Reading Connects Family Engagement Toolkit. For more information and to download the toolkit visit www.readingconnects.org.uk
  • 18. 18 LibrariesLibraries provide a welcoming space for dads to share books with their children, look at websites and find music and films, as well as additional family activities. Libraries also run promotions highlighting good books that are suitable for new or reluctant adult readers, including those ideal for sharing with children. ‘Five Minutes’ books are especially for dads, and ‘First Choice Books’ (www.firstchoicebooks.org.uk) and ‘Got kids? Get reading!’ (see page 30) both have collections for parents. Public libraries support families to develop children’s language and reading skills through national initiatives such as Bookstart, the book-gifting programme that works in conjunction with health services. Framework for the Future DOsfor Dads Speak to dads coming into the library with their children Ask children, mums and other carers to bring dad to the activity Lots of dads are out with their children on a Saturday, so it’s the ideal day for an activity Promote events as widely as possible at other dads’ groups and places dads visit Avoid clashing with major sporting events Pictures taken to show dad- focused activities happening in the library are evidence that dads attend and, in time, will attract other dads Image: Alexandra Strick
  • 19. 19Libraries Dads in the library out whole families including older children who had previously attended pre-school activities at the library, such as Rhyme Time and Arty Crafty. The flier to advertise our most recent Saturday event, Wiggle and Jiggle, specifically invited dads to attend. It was put up everywhere including local shops, schools, nurseries, doctors’ surgeries and the pub and betting shop opposite the library. The Saturday was also promoted at all the weekday sessions and to anyone coming into the library with children. Dads can be a bit of a sensitive area as not every child has one at home. However, when dad is sandwiched between big brothers, grandparents and mum’s special friend, the message gets through. There is a ‘Dads’ Time’ every Saturday at the nearby Soft Play Zone in Croydon. Dads’ Time is run by men, If you’re reaching out to dads, it helps to be able to step back and consider what else is going on in their lives and in the local area. Timing is everything, as Sonia Knight, Sure Start literacy development officer at Broad Green Library in Croydon, explains. England is playing in the World Cup final; it’s the last day of the Ashes; it’s the Six Nations rugby tournament; there is shopping to be done; the stairs need vacuuming; and then there is the library. It’s a tough choice for a dad. Make it easy. Domesticity will wait but a major sporting event will always take precedence over what’s happening at the library. At Broad Green Library there are two children’s activities a week, plus additional after-school and Saturday activities. It is the Saturdays that attract the most dads and bring Hampshire Library Service was trying to increase its audience of teenage readers and, interestingly, found that involving the dads was a successful way of getting to the boys. Lis Ricketts, Vicky Fisher and Jane Selby report. Persuading teenage boys to use libraries and to read for pleasure can be something of a challenge. To try to meet this, Hampshire libraries developed ‘dads and lads’ reading groups for teenage boys and their fathers. ‘B:male’ at Winchester Library is one of four such groups, and meets for one evening every month, with an average membership of 20, including an honorary mum. The group has been meeting since 2001 and is still growing. At each session library staff are there to help both fathers and sons find books that might interest them. The two-hour sessions involve a wide range of activities, often suggested by the group themselves, including discussions on different genres of books, talks, storytellers, poets and drumming workshops. There is also the occasional outing to places as diverse as the Theatre Royal, Winchester and the Hampshire Record Office. One recent evening resulted in some lively short stories, written as part of a consequences game by fathers and sons together. However, the activity that the group enjoys most is simply sharing what they have been reading, and this often results in enthusiastic discussion and an eager swapping of books. One young member recently said: “Since starting B:male I have read so many more books than I would normally read, and also different kinds of books. I now really enjoy reading and my reading speed has increased. Going to the group once a month means I have met new people and it is interesting to hear other views on books from a similar age group. Without B:male I would only read about four books a year, instead of four books a month.” A dad commented: “There is a really good, easy atmosphere between the lads and dads. I enjoy hearing about the sorts of books I’d never normally think of reading.” We are now entering our sixth year and considering whether B:male has met the challenge of getting boys reading. This dad might have the answer: “My son had a very low interest in reading books, which is why I was particularly pleased to find out that B: male existed. Getting him to go to his first session was difficult but the fact that one of his friends, who is not a ‘bookie’ person, already attended, plus a lot of parental pressure, resulted in our first meeting. “Since then, he has looked forward to every session and reminds me early in the week to be home in time from work so that we can both go. His interest in books hasn’t noticeably improved – the motivation for him is the social side and access to multimedia items on long-term loan! However, B:male has undoubtedly resulted in him reading more, reading books that he wouldn’t otherwise have discovered and maturing to listen to others’ views of the books that they have read, and contributing his own.” Dads have pester power too for men with children up to the age of seven years. Obviously this is the perfect place to target dads: ideally, a week before the event at the library and then again on the day. Just as dads are loyal to their sport, they are loyal to Dads’ Time, and so anything that goes on at the library has to be at a different time. In this way we complement what Dads’ Time and any other children’s organisations are doing locally, rather than trying to compete. Since Dads’ Time meets on a Saturday morning, Wiggle and Jiggle took place in the afternoon. The last Saturday Wiggle and Jiggle attracted 17 families, four of those with dad. Four dads. Out of seventeen families there must be more than four dads – but perhaps they were watching Johnny Wilkinson in the Six Nations rugby. Next time…
  • 20. 20 Prisons Many offenders have had a very poor experience of education, but there are inspiring projects going on in prisons to help turn that around. The informal approach of helping prisoners to help their children is used to engage their interest in learning. Reading with or for their children can both increase prisoners’ skills and deepen family relationships – leading not only to a transformation in the prisoner’s life, but also in the lives of their family. This approach fi ts two of the National Offender Management Service (NOMS)’s ‘pathways’ to reducing re-offending: education, training and employment; and children and families. NOMS is also concerned with providing life skills for offenders, including parenting and relationship skills, and with ensuring that the needs of their children are met as Every Child Matters is implemented. Becoming a reader has incalculable benefi ts for any child, and being ‘inside’ need not be a complete barrier to a dad’s involvement in the process, as these stories show. Storybook Dads is a groundbreaking scheme that allows prisoners to be recorded reading a story especially for their children. This can be a story that they have written themselves, or one from a book. The story is downloaded onto a computer where staff and trained prisoners edit and enhance the story by deleting mistakes and adding sound effects and music. These very special stories are then burnt onto a CD and sent to children, allowing them to hear their parent’s voice whenever they want to. Not only does this maintain the bond between parent and child, but many imprisoned dads who have not read to their children before are committed to doing so upon release. Participation in the project supports literacy among prisoners and their children, and at the heart of the experience is the shared time between parent and child through the magic of storytelling. Storybook Dads became a registered charity in 2004 and has disseminated the project into 50 other prisons (and growing), now including women’s jails and Young Offender Institutions. Over 3,000 imprisoned parents have participated. Dads on disc Storybook Dads is a registered charity based at HMP Dartmoor, which maintains family ties between imprisoned parents and their children through the production of story CDs. Project manager Sharon Berry explains how the scheme works. The value of Storybook Dads is illustrated by Mark’s situation: a married man with a five-year-old daughter and a second child on the way, Mark was finding imprisonment very difficult. This was not helped by the knowledge that his family was finding his absence very hard to cope with, in particular his young daughter, who was having trouble getting to sleep at night because she was missing him. “She slept all night for the first time since I’ve been in jail.” This had the inevitable result that her behaviour deteriorated, causing added stress to his heavily pregnant wife. The receipt of the story CD helped to change this, as his young daughter went to bed and listened to her daddy telling her a story. In Mark’s words: “She slept all night for the first time since I’ve been in jail.” For more information visit www.storybookdads.co.uk
  • 21. 21Prison Reading dads at HMP Blantyre House A year ago I found myself facing a class of eight dads determined to get involved in their kids’ education. The dads in question were prisoners at HMP Blantyre House – a resettlement prison in rural Kent. Many of these men were worried about their children’s progress at school – and these fears were not unfounded. Research shows that children with a prisoner in the family are at risk of bullying, low self-esteem and educational failure. As I was new to family learning, and relatively new to prisons, I started trawling the internet for ideas and resources. I quickly discovered that many suggestions for engaging dads in kids’ literacy were next to useless in a prison setting. The dads could not, for example, encourage their kids to read road signs or labels in supermarkets. Nor could they visit libraries, bookshops and newsagents together. Popping into school for parents’ evenings or to admire wall displays was similarly out of the question. A little lateral thinking was required. Over the next year, with tremendous support from Head of Learning and Skills Debbie Leach, the learners and I worked hard to develop different ways of helping them help their kids. Family learning sessions were spent choosing and recording bedtime stories for their children through the Storybook Dads scheme. The dads also made personalised story sacks for their kids, complete with hand-made educational games. Some learners created Daddy’s Day books. These books – the brainchild of Blantyre prisoner Clinton Sproul – are photo journals of a dad’s day in prison and consist of pictures, poems, letters and certificates. They also include photos of the dads as reading role models – flicking through papers or reading books in the library. Several of the men have been nominated for Reading Champion awards due to their efforts (see page 14). These courses have culminated in special themed family learning days, in which children are invited into the prison. Themes have included the Wild West, Halloween, Animals and Food, and Growing. These days are meticulously prepared by the dads and involve treasure hunts, games, gym activities, word searches and craft activities. On one occasion, both the kids and dads planted a sunflower seed and were encouraged to have a ‘sunflower race’ – each recording their flower’s growth on a special chart and exchanging pictures and letters about its progress. The librarian runs storytime sessions and a local bookshop has kindly agreed to lend us a large selection of books so that the children and dads can choose a book together. Our next project is to make the visiting hall a literacy-rich environment by encouraging the children to produce poems, stories and pictures to go on the wall. Being a ‘reading dad’ in prison isn’t easy – but the learners at Blantyre have proved it is certainly possible. “Being a ‘reading dad’ in prison isn’t easy – but the learners at Blantyre have proved it is certainly possible.” Family learning tutor Sam Hart describes some ingenious ways in which dads in prison can be reading role models and support their children’s education.
  • 22. Prison22 Many aspects of prison life can complicate efforts to encourage prisoners to read for pleasure and support their children’s reading. Sue Wilkinson, librarian at HMP Birmingham, describes how they overcame some of the obstacles, using The Reading Agency’s project, Got kids? Get reading! Exploring new territory When HMP Birmingham was selected to be part of a pilot family reading project in 2005, this was new territory for us. Although we were keen on the idea, the logistics of delivering a family-based project in a large, busy local prison were daunting. The prison is not geared to family visits, with no comfortable seating or area where parents and children can read together. However, the success of the story area at the prison’s first ever family day a few months previously got us thinking about how we could get the men engaged with reading to their children. When the opportunity came to take part in the Got kids? Get reading! pilot, testing the effectiveness of new family reading resources and book collections, it seemed almost too good to be true. “I realise now that reading is a good way for children and parents to spend time together. I’m going to take an interest in my kids’ reading.” Making the prison family reading-friendly One of the most important aspects of the project was to link the various agencies involved in family reading. With support from Birmingham Libraries’ Children’s Team, we devised an ambitious programme involving the prison library, the prison education department, the visitors’ centre and Words on Wheels (a mobile library catering specifically for under-fives). The aim was to link families through reading and help adults to improve their basic skills. We organised five visits to the visitors’ centre from Words on Wheels and arranged sessions with groups of dads in the prison library, using the Got kids? Get reading! collection of adults’ and children’s books. We advertised the sessions at the visitors’ centre in the prison library, hoping that library users could arrange their visits on these days, so that their children and partners could use the same books. As with any project in a prison, security was paramount. Our first problem was where to park a very large mobile library so that it was close enough to the visitors’ centre. After much delicate negotiation, we were given permission to park at the entrance to the car park, where people could drop in either before or after their visit to look at the range of stock available in the library, as well as titles in the Got kids? Get reading! collection. During a one-off session with a group of regular library users, we focused on reading with their children. The men came up with lots of ideas for ways to share books with their children during their time inside. One man is writing a story for his child and sending an instalment in each of his letters; another is making time during phone calls to ask his children about what they are reading; a third now asks the library to get him the same books as his children are reading, so that he can talk to them about the content. Building confidence Library sessions were also run as part of the Family Man course being delivered by the education department at the same time. In the first session we talked about books, reading and libraries. Out of the 12 men taking
  • 23. 2Prison never did very well at school, but all my cousins went on to get really good jobs.” For more information on Got kids? Get reading! visit www.literacytrust. org.uk/vitallink/gotkids.html A version of this article originally appeared in the winter 2005 edition of Read On, the magazine of the National Reading Campaign. Visit www.readon.org.uk was reading it to a group of children, which initially caused embarrassment among the men. However, they soon joined in and two of them volunteered to give very entertaining renditions of What’s the Time, Mr Wolf? and There’s a Monster Under My Bed. A third session was planned to pull everything together. However, things in prison rarely go to plan and operational difficulties meant this session had to be cancelled. This is something that you get used to in prisons. Fortunately, the prisoners are aware of this and usually take these things in their stride. Despite the setbacks, all the men felt it was a very positive experience and several have become regular library users. They each said they intend to read with their children when they get out. Overall, the feedback was very positive, as this participant’s comments shows: “We never had books at home – my mum kept the house so neat and tidy, she wouldn’t have anything lying about. I used to love going to my aunt’s. She had books everywhere – on shelves, piled up on the floor, even in the toilet. I “I found the library staff much more approachable for someone like me who can’t read very well. They don’t judge you, and it’s much less stressful – I don’t feel threatened in the library.” part, only one had used a library before coming to prison. We helped them choose a suitable book to take away to read and the tutor very helpfully built some reading time into the course. The second session focused on reading to children and sharing books. Only one of the men remembered having books at home when he was a child – the same man who had used libraries before coming to prison. Most of the men could remember being read to at school, but none had ever read to their own children. We asked them to think about the benefits to children of being read to and talked about what makes a good story for a child. One of the library staff read a story as if she Image courtesy of Safe Ground’s Fathers Inside programme. Photographer: Warwick Sweeney
  • 24. Brentford ‘Til I DieBrentford ‘Til I DieBrentford ‘Til I DieBrentford ‘Til I Die 24 FootballFootball is a great way of encouraging many men and children to get reading, as it has huge motivational power. Of course, it’s not the only sport to have this effect: anything that dads are really interested in can play a key role in engaging them. Nevertheless, activities that combine football and reading, reports of top players talking about their favourite books and incentives such as match tickets or skills training can work wonders. Many sports grounds now have study support centres and are doing great things to improve the skills of children and adults in their local communities, both on and off the pitch. Offer to help a football fan with their literacy skills and they’ll most likely tell you where to go; give them an opportunity to tell their stories and they’ll jump at the chance. Jo Emmerson, education manager for Hounslow Study Support Service and the Griffin Park Learning Zone at Brentford Football Club, reports. Raising the literacy levels of our fan base was the challenge posed for Brentford FC by Jim Sells of the National Literacy Trust’s Reading The Game project, and the BBC’s RaW (Reading and Writing) campaign. Griffin Park Learning Zone is a new learning resource in the centre of Brentford FC, and I am ‘that teacher woman’. Brentford FC has a fan base that is hugely diverse professionally and academically, and I certainly didn’t want to attempt to suggest that we should all pick up books in half-time to help career prospects. Fortunately, at this time Bees United, the Brentford Supporters’ Trust, was running a number of fundraising activities and wanted to write a book. Hence the birth of Brentford ‘Til I Die, a collection of fans’ stories about why the club is important to them. These were produced by the fans themselves in the Learning Zone, supported by ourselves, and in particular by two well-known and respected Brentford fans, who drove the project forward and ensured that fans bought into the idea. There were a number of successes related to undertaking a project with fans. It was a risk, but it led to positive kudos for the Learning Zone itself and the staff. We have since run an adult learning computer course as a result of fans coming into the room for the first time during the book work. The Brentford ‘Til I Die approach is being undertaken by other clubs, which raises our profile within the industry. Moreover, the book virtually sold out within a few weeks of publication and there is a call on us to produce Volume 2. We wouldn’t claim that our book attracted only ‘dads and lads’ – my fellow mum and daughter fans would not be impressed. However, we know we produced a book about football that was attractive to men. We have met reluctant male readers and witnessed dads working with their sons and daughters to create their own stories. There is no doubt that this project was a real winner, and it certainly had an impact: only last week I met a reluctant reader who has read it five times and could tell us his favourite story. For more information on Reading The Game visit www.readingthegame.org.uk “I’m hooked on the Bees; that’s what I’m looking forward to Joshua enjoying, and for him it began the moment he met my friends at an away game.” Image and quote: Brentford ‘Til I Die
  • 25. 25Football GET CAUGHT READING Make reading your goal Kick into Reading Kick into Reading (KiR) is a programme in which Football in the Community coaches, and in some cases academy students and first-team players, are trained in how to perform and tell stories for children. Once trained, they are posted into libraries where they perform the tales for children, while showing them how a love of books, reading and telling stories is an important and fun part of their lives. In addition, clubs often run ‘Family Days’, where children and a parent or carer are invited to the club itself and KiR takes place in the stands or in a club classroom. KiR is a Reading The Game programme funded by Arts Council England and supported by the Professional Footballers’ Association. For more information visit www.literacytrust.org.uk/ Football/RTGProjects/kir.html – driving on average 1,000 miles a week – so as you can imagine I’m not often around to read bedtime stories. Luckily, though, my son and I have come up with an ingenious solution, which seems to do the trick. When we get the chance, I take my kids along to a bookshop (although this would work just as well with a trip to the library). I encourage them to choose something that appeals to them – I don’t mind whether that’s fiction, cars, computers or even football as long as they want to read it. The youngest of my kids is still keen on a bedtime story, so we get two copies of his book choice – one for me and one for him. Then, even if I’m on the road, we can still read together at his bedtime. Sometimes this means I end up pulling into a lay-by and reading with him over the phone, each taking it in turn to read a page. That way I can help if he stumbles on a word, he can ask me questions and we both get to chat about things he’s interested in. It’s a really nice thing to share and I’m certain both of us benefit from the experience – even when it’s long distance. David James is a Reading Champion for Portsmouth FC and has played as goalkeeper for both Manchester City and England. It was his mum who helped him to become a reader, and now that he is a dad, he is passing the legacy on. As a Reading Champion, I know how important it is for children to get into reading; as a father, I know just how much influence parents can have in helping this happen. When I was a child my mother would read to me, and I remember reading The Hobbit together. However, we did not continue and my reading suffered. I got back into it after school by reading car magazines and IQ books. I was lucky to have a mum who encouraged me to read. I wasn’t a strong reader, but being introduced to books at home helped encourage me to keep reading and find things that interested me. Being separated from my children means it can be difficult for us to read together as much as I’d like to – but we get round it as best we can. I have a pretty hectic schedule
  • 26. READ WITH CARE READ WITH CARE 2 Visiting one residential care home with a box of books, I was reading out loud to a group of boys, when one of them called enthusiastically to a care worker, “We should get this book!”. The care worker said: “You already have it. Look on the shelf.” And indeed there it was, on the pristine, untouched shelves. The boy looked puzzled, as if the book on the shelf was different from the one I was reading from. Even when the books are there it requires enthusiasm and knowledge to promote them. Not every care worker is an enthusiastic reader. And even if they were, they might not see potential readers in the young people – “You just read magazines, don’t you?”. It often seems that female care workers find it easier to adopt the role of reader in residential homes, or perhaps it’s just expected of them. But male care workers get just as much affection and respect from the young people: it’s just that reading is not the first thing they think of to talk about with them. Joke books have gone down well with both male care workers and children. In one home they seized on a collection of particularly dreadful jokes, saying, “Steve will love these”. Indeed, when Steve was presented with them, he laughed just as much as the children – or more – as he read the jokes out loud. Care workers often read to the younger children at bedtime. “It really helps to calm them down,” says Mike. He also told me that a book on bereavement they’d read with the children had helped them with a recent loss. What young people in care need, though, is for their care workers to have a passion and interest in their own reading, so that they can see the point in supporting and encouraging others. “They were fantastic. I never would have thought I’d enjoy books so much.” Tim told me that he didn’t really read anything beyond the sports pages. Sometimes he would talk about those with the boys, but that was it. However, he’d really enjoyed the film Sleepers, so I gave him the novel to try. Mind you, he was just about to go on his honeymoon, so it might have been wishful thinking that he would pick it up. I saw him three weeks later. “I still haven’t read that book.” I nodded. “It was your –,” I began. “– But I’ve read three others,” he exclaimed. Genuinely excited, he told me how he’d been at the airport thinking he really should read that novel, but then his eye had gone to a bookshop and he’d seen a biography of Mohammed Ali, one of his all-time heroes. “I read that and then two others while I was away. They were fantastic. I never would have thought I’d enjoy books so much.” Tim is now a dedicated reader and happily shares what he is reading with the young people. A lot of effort goes into projects that promote reading to young people in care; perhaps more effort should be targeted at the care workers themselves. Children in care need more than just access to books. Reading promoter David Kendall explains that it is also important for the men they respect to demonstrate that they are readers too.
  • 27. 2 John Bird, founder and editor-in-chief of The Big Issue, argues that dads should not leave their children’s reading to chance. My mother was always too exhausted for anything other than housework. She was too tired bringing up six boys and placating an angry husband. She could read: she learned to read in a country school in Ireland. But she never picked up a book and read to us. She felt it was something you did at school, and all that school stuff had nothing to do with bringing up children. I finally learned to read reasonably well at Ashford boys’ prison, just before my 16th birthday. Once I started, you could not stop me. I was off like a wild horse let out of a stable. History, poetry, novels – from Herman Melville’s Moby Dick to Dostoevsky’s The Idiot. I picked up obscure reads that are still with me, like The Vicar of Wakefield by Oliver Goldsmith, or Specimen Days by Walt Whitman. My reading life suggests we should not read to our children. Maybe that’s school stuff and it should be left to teachers. After all, am I not a good example of doing it yourself? I wish it was that simple. First of all, if I had not met in a boot camp at the age of 14 a prison officer who was inspired by reading, I may never have got anywhere. He made me love reading, even though I was still the slowest reader in the class. He would always talk about how his life was richer because he read whenever he got the chance. If at Ashford I had not met another prison officer who gave me books then, at the time I was ready, the moment may have passed and I would have returned to being a non-reader. Yes, you can leave it to luck that your child will get the right inspiration. You can leave it to hope. But you could also take out an insurance policy: read to them yourself. When it came to my own children, I took chance out of their learning to enjoy reading. I did not leave it just to teachers and my wife. I read to my babies, and got their little lives full of the surprise of books. I surrounded them with words and pictures so that their imaginations could develop. And I enjoyed every moment of it. In fact, I got as much out of it as the children did. I went one stage further. I wrote stories with my children and illustrated them with their pictures. I made books out of scraps of paper and got them storytelling. I have many children. I have godchildren. For decades now I have been involved in the reading world of the child. It always reminds me that you should not leave your child’s development to chance. So I say get in there and see yourself and your children flower through the power of word and picture. And prepare them for a bigger life. “When it came to my own children, I took chance out of their learning to enjoy reading. I did not leave it just to teachers and my wife. I read to my babies, and got their little lives full of the surprise of books.” Make men the issue
  • 28. 28 Patrick Augustus: what reading means for me Patrick Augustus is director of the BabyFather Alliance and an author whose books include Weekend Fathers and Don’t Make Me Laugh. He talks to us about his experience of reading. Why do you think it’s important for parents to read with their children? Reading opens up a whole new world that takes you out of yourself and helps you think outside the box. And there’s no substitute for education. What was your experience of reading as a child? My mother used to read the Bible to me: most of my favourite stories were about Jesus, and also the story of Samson and Delilah. Did you have any male reading role models as a child? My brother was a role model – he used to read a lot of books and I knew reading was important because I saw him doing it. Martin Luther King and Angela Davis are people whose books I can remember him with. It reinforces to them how important reading is. If you take time out of your busy life to read with them, it sends a positive mes- sage. Hopefully then they’ll see the value in reading too, and pass it on to their own children. Why do you think it’s important for fathers to get involved with their children’s reading? What do you like to read with your own children? I enjoy reading the Bible with my children too. Anything that happens to you in life – someone in there has al- ready been through it, so you know they felt the same. Then the way that they dealt with it gives you wisdom.
  • 29. 2 Make talk, not war Museums are not only for exhibitions: they have many other activities going on, and some of these will attract dads and their children – or could do, if there is a little encouragement to get involved. These provide an opportunity for dads to have fun with their children, and to get talking and perhaps even reading and writing with their families. Daniell Phillips, head of corporate education at London’s Imperial War Museum, explains how a project at his museum brought the generations together, giving fathers and grandfathers the chance to share their memories with their families and the wider community. “I knew my dad had been to Italy during the war, but it was only when I saw his reaction to a town that he had last seen in ruins that I began to understand what it had meant to him … we talked for hours that night.” Their Past – Your Future was an educational programme led by the Imperial War Museum and supported by the Big Lottery Fund. At the core of the programme were intergenerational learning experiences: essentially, encouraging veterans and eyewitnesses of the conflict to share their experiences with younger generations, and especially school-age pupils. For many groups, this intergenerational contact happened during visits to areas where key events of the conflict took place, such as the Normandy beaches (or in many cases much further afield). Large numbers of veterans visited the places they had served, many for the first time in 60 years. It is telling that many veterans felt that their individual story was insignificant, and certainly of no interest to young people today. Even those who had kept diaries during the war, or charted how the war had impacted on their lives in letters and journals, did not feel inclined to share their records. This was before the realisation, generated through the interaction with young people, that in fact these accounts were the very things that the students valued in bringing history to life and giving it relevance to their own lives. Many of the veterans remarked that they had not felt able to talk to their own offspring about these events, but could speak more easily to grandchildren and great-grandchildren, or indeed total strangers from a younger generation. One of the unforeseen benefits of the programme was that, by promoting contact and shared experiences between young people and veterans, we were actually able to bring veterans together with the generation who benefited most directly from their sacrifices – their own children. Many family members accompanied veterans on their Heroes Return visits to their areas of service, and were able to share, for the first time, a true understanding of how involvement in the conflict had shaped their relatives’ lives, attitudes, values and memories. For more information visit www.theirpast-yourfuture.org.uk
  • 30. 30 Resources Some useful organisations, websites and resources. This list is not exhaustive but is a place to start. Initiatives supporting dads with their children’s literacy Putting Dads in the Picture aims to increase the numbers of men engaging in family learning. The two-year project, based in Solihull and run by the Campaign for Learning, champions fathers as role models and mentors. At its first family fun day dads could have a free professional photograph taken with their children, and all the families stayed to enjoy a range of free activities put on by local providers. The project will create a generic engagement tool that can be used by organisations throughout the country looking to recruit dads. Contact Kerry Flynn on 0121 773 3133 or kflynn@cflearning.org.uk The Big Book Share A project run by The Reading Agency, through which children’s librarians help prisoners choose books to read on tape for their children. www.readingagency.org.uk/projects/children/book_ share.html Dads Lads A project running through Lancashire schools, linking literacy with sport in order to encourage dads to become more involved in their children’s education. www.lancsngfl.ac.uk/projects/dadsnlads/ index.php Engaging fathers – involving parents, raising achievement A booklet produced by the Department for Education and Skills to help schools take action to include both parents in the life of the school. www.teachernet.gov.uk/wholeschool/ familyandcommunity/workingwithparents/ engagingfathers Family Man/Fathers Inside Run in prisons by educational charity Safe Ground, these courses use drama and storytelling to improve family relationship and parenting skills. www.safeground.org.uk Family Reading Campaign Tips for engaging dads and tips for dads themselves, case studies and overviews of research. www.literacytrust.org.uk/familyreading/dads.html Five Minutes A Reading Agency promotion aimed at dads with low literacy, showcasing the library as the place for dads to discover books they’ll enjoy sharing with their children and for themselves. www.literacytrust.org.uk/vitallink/fiveminutes.html Got kids? Get reading! Family reading library promotion created by The Reading Agency through its Vital Link partnership with the National Literacy Trust. www.readingagency.org.uk/projects/children/kids_ reading.html It’s a Man Thing A father and child reading project run by the education charity ContinYou, which primary schools can buy in to. It encourages fathers to become more active participants in their children’s learning. www.continyou.org.uk/content.php?CategoryID=261 Keeping up with the Children A family programme created by the Basic Skills Agency and used in the community and in prisons to introduce parents to what their children are learning in English and maths. www.basic-skills.co.uk/site/page.php?p=263cms=3 Reading Champion Dads Part of the National Reading Campaign’s Reading Champions initiative, Reading Champion Dads works to help schools utilise the great reservoir of untapped manpower and raise the involvement of men in their children’s education. www.literacytrust.org.uk/campaign/champions/ dads.html Putting Dads in the Picture
  • 31. 3Resources Ideas for men’s reading matter www.literacytrust.org.uk/vitallink/fcb.html www.quickreads.org.uk The Babyfather Initiative Run by Barnardos and the BabyFather Alliance, the project aims to encourage responsible parenting amongst black males in the UK, in particular those who are separated from their children. www.barnardos.org.uk/babyfather Boys2MEN A programme of music, arts, life- experience and sports for boys, young men, and fathers/ parents, which aims to help males at risk of social exclusion to make the transition from childhood to adulthood. Run by Coram Family. www.coram.org.uk/sfvcyp/boys2men.htm Children North East Fatherhood Centre and Fathers Plus An ‘online knowledge bank’ to enable workers, managers and carers to share information and work together to include men in all local services. www.fathers-plus.co.uk and www.includingmen.com Dads Lads A YMCA project helping fathers and children deepen their relationships through sharing an activity together. Grants, training, support and a range of resources are available to those wanting to start their own project. www.ymca.org.uk/bfora/systems/xmlviewer/default. asp?arg=DS_YMCA_WEBART_111/_page.xsl/149 Fathers Direct The national information centre on fatherhood. Its website includes news, examples of practice and summaries of research, and the organisation offers training and a variety of resources, including: • Working with Fathers: Six Steps Guide • Engaging Fathers in their Children’s Learning: tips for practitioners • A resource for Muslim fathers: Connecting With God and Your Child: A Fathers’ Guide to Prayer and Praise (An-Nisa Society with Fathers Direct) www.fathersdirect.com Initiatives supporting dads in general Fatherskills A small company based in Wales that trains professionals to engage and work with fathers. Resources include a book, An Introduction to Working With Fathers, and two short films. Contact Nick Clements, 95 New Road, Ynysmeudwy, Pontardawe, Swansea SA8 4PP. Tel: 01792 830799 Kick Start Offers an eight-month package of training, support, reflection and practical action for organisations looking to engage with fathers in Northern Ireland. http://mensproject.org/kickstart.html The Pre-school Learning Alliance Has a downloadable leaflet for early years settings called Fathers Matter: Ideas and practical tips for involving fathers in your setting. www.pre-school.org.uk/services/family-learning Sowing Seeds Works with African and Caribbean men and fathers to support children and families. www.sowingseeds.co.uk Top Dads Run by the education charity ContinYou, Top Dads uses sport as an incentive for vulnerable young fathers to take part in mentoring on positive parenting and signposting to support agencies. www.continyou.org.uk/content.php?CategoryID=271 Young Fathers Initiative A Working With Men project providing advice services, courses for expectant fathers and website materials for the support of fathers aged 25 or under. www.workingwithmen.org/youngfathers
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