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1. UNIVERS ITY OF CAGAYAN VALLEY
School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
DETAILED LESSON PLAN
IN MAPEH 8
HEALTH
I. OBJECTIVES
At the end of the lesson, the students should be able to:
A. Explain the importance of dating and courtship in choosing a lifelong partner,
B. Describe the factors that contribute to a successful marriage;
C. Analyze behaviors that promote healthy relationship in a marriage and family life
II. SUBJECT MATTER
a. TOPIC – Dating, Courtship and Marriage
b. REFERENCES - MAPEH BOOK 8 (pages 431-438)
c. MATERIALS - Books, PowerPoint and mobile phones
III. PROCEDURE
TEACHER’S ACTIVITY STUDENT’S ACTIVITY
Preliminary Activities
Good morning Class!
It's good to start our day with a prayer. So may I ask one from
the group to come in front and lead us the prayer.
Okay, once again good morning class! Before you take your
seat, kindly pick up the pieces of papers under your chairs and
make sure that you're on your proper seats so that I can easily
check your attendance.
Good morning Sir!
(Prayer)
A. MOTIVATION
Before we start in our discussion, let's have an activity first. Are
you familiar with the game, 4 Pics in 1 Word?
Okay, so I have pictures here, and I want you to identify what
word best describes the pictures.
Lets begin.
Who wants to guess the 1st
picture?
Yes sir.
COURTSHIP

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
Next, who wants to guess the 2nd
picture?
Anyone else, who wants to guess the 3rd,
picture?
Last one, who wants to guess the 4th picture?
TRADITIONAL
COURTSHIP
DATING
MARRIAGE
B. PRESENTATION
Class based on those pictures that I presented, did you have any
idea of what is our topic today?
Yes, (student name).
Yes, Very Good. What else?
Okay, brilliant. How about the second picture?
Okay. Excellent class.
Those words class is connected to our topic. I think all of you
will be very interested in our lesson for today.
Sir, Marriage.
Courtship and Dating sir.
Sir, Traditional courtship..
C. LESSON PROPER
Our lesson for today is all about Dating, Courtship and
Marriage.
1. DATING
So class what is all about Dating? Anybody who wants to read?
Yes, (student name).
Okay, Thank you.
Dating contributes to the
person's emotional growth
and identity formation.

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
This an exploratory stage where two persons meet socially on
one or several occasions to assess if they are suitable for each
other in a long-term relationship.
Dating can enhance one's relational skills, socialization with
people, and coping with infatuations. Dating makes the teens
learn more about intimacy, expressing their emotions with the
opposite sex, and dealing with rejection and pain.
As they spend more great deal of time in dating they could learn
to think, understand other person, communicate, behave
accordingly, and express different positive and negative
emotions.
2. COURTSHIP
Next, what is Courtship? Kindly read (student name) ?
Okay. Thank you so much.
Why is it important for couples to undergo courtship?
What else?
Very Good!
Courtship is also a test of compatibility between the two
persons.
Courtship plays a significance role in particular couple because
it is the stage wherein they started getting to know each other
and they started to build more genuine relationship.
What are the different traditional practices of courtship in the
Philippines that you know?
Yes, Exactly! Isn't it sweet if a man sings a song for you in front
of your house?
What else do you know?
Courtship implies deeper
sense of commitment. This
is the period when two
persons develop romantic
and intimate relationship
that could lead to marriage.
Sir, it gives a person time
to know better the character
and background of
someone.
It reveals one's interest,
likes and dislikes, sir.
Sir, we have "harana". It is
serenading the woman
through singing tagalog
love song which are
accompanied by the
playing of a guitar.
I is so sweet Sir. It's so
nakakakilig.
Sir, another traditional
practice is men serve the
family and relatives of the
women being courted by
doing household chores.

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
That's true! The Tagalogs of Luzon also refers to this courtship
custom as paninilbihan meaning "being of service", but is also
referred to as subok meaning a trial or test period for the serving
suitor.
Another thing that these Tagalogs do is the Balagtasan. Are you
familiar with it?
Yes, ( student name).
Yes! That's right! Another traditional courtship is that bringing
gifts or pasalubong .
After a long courtship, if the couple decides to get married, there
is the Filipino tradition called pamamanhikan where the man
and his family visit the woman's family and ask blessings from
the parents to marry their daughter. The two families involved
get to know one another.
That’s all about courtship. Now lets move on to the next stage.
3. MARRIAGE
Ms. (student name) can you read the meaning of marriage?
Thank you.
The Family Code of the 1987 Philippine Constitution states that:
"The marriage is a special contract of permanent union between
a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the
establishment of conjugal and family life. A marriage is usually
formalized at a wedding or marriage ceremony. The ceremony
may be officiated either by a religious official, by a government
official, or by a state-approved celebrant. If the civil element of
the religious ceremony is omitted, the marriage ceremony is not
recognized as a marriage by government under the law."
There are factors that are necessary to consider in choosing a
lifetime partner for a successful married life.
Anybody who wants to read the first one.
Okay, Mr. (student name).
Yes sir. The suitor sing a
song and the courted lady
responds by singing, too,
Marriage is a lifelong
partnership and bond
between a man and a
woman who understand,
accept, trust, and love each
other. Filipinos view
marriage as a sacrament
and a lifelong commitment
between the husband and
the wife.
1. Maturity - The one who
can make wise decisions;
responsible in handling
relationships.

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
Okay, thank you.
Maturity is a key factor to successful marriage. Marrying at the
age of maturity saves a lot of pain and problems. Researches
have sa revealed a number of factors that have led to
unsuccessful marriages among teenage couples.
How about fidelity, who wants to read?
Okay, Ms. (student name)
Thank you!
Here, fidelity, the decisions and actions of the parents are
beyond the control of the children. But the children can learn
from their successes and failures. If the parents are happily
married, then the good qualities can be emulated while the
mistakes should not be repeated.
Who else who want to read?
Yes, Ms. (student name).
Thank you so much.
If you have commitment to your marriage you are willing to do
whatever it takes just to make that marriage work or to make
your relationship successful. For example, be available to chat
with your spouse when they have had a rough day. Support your
partner by listening to and encouraging their dreams. Make
room for quality time with your spouse.
Lets move to number 4, who wants to read ?
Couples who truly love each other can trust one another to keep
personal matters confidential. Love chooses to focus on the
positive and the good. Loving couples talk about resolving the
negative happenings and unfavorable characteristics of one
another so that they make know how to overcome them
together.
2 Fidelity- The one who is
sincere and true to his/her
promise; faithful to his or
her partner.
3. Commitment-The one
who is dedicated to his/her
responsibilities, and stands
for what is right and good
for the relationship and the
family. Married couples by
all means should protect the
sanctity of their marriage
and must be true to their
vows.
4. Love - The one who
understands and accepts
his/her partner, endures and
makes the relationship last.

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
5. Economic Stability - The one who provides the needs of the
family; financially stable.
Money is not the main priority in a marriage, but financial
problems can have disastrous consequences. Poverty is a major
risk factor in marriages. Young couples should work hard, be
responsible, and plan their finances wisely before getting
married.
Kindly read, Mr. (student name) the last one.
Thank you.
One significant feature of a successful Christian marriage is
clear to us: the character of each spouse. Couples have any
religious affiliation of any kind have lesser marital problems
and/or divorce risk (about 14%) than the general population.
Greater participation in religious activities is associated with
lower risks versus those who are casually affiliated.
At this moment,, lets proceed to fixed marriages.
It says here that fixed or arranged marriages is a union between
a groom and bride who are selected by other parties rather than
by each other. The marriages are usually fixed by the parents,
grandparents, or other older and respected relatives or members
of the community.
The following are some kinds of fixed marriages in the
Philippines:
1. Pikot- This is a forced marriage or shotgun marriage wherein
one gets married against his or her free will. This is usually
upon the command of the parents.
2. Buya - This is the parents' prearranged or preplanned future
marriage of their child. The marrying couple do not go through
the usual dating and courting stages of a relationship. The
parents or the family sets the standards and guidelines of who
marries their child. Wealthier families arrange for their children
to marry into a friend's family of similar status even as early as
childhood.
3. Elope - This is when someone runs away secretly with a
lover, especially with the intention of getting married. This is
done without the consent or knowledge of the parents.
4. Dowry - This is a process wherein the property of the parent
is distributed to a daughter at her marriage rather than at the
holder's death (mortis causa). This process establishes and
ensures conjugal fund and assures support (endowment) in
widowhood and eventually used to provide for the needs of her
sons and daughters.
Did you understand our lesson for today class?
6. Character - The one who
is God-fearing: honest and
sincere; respectful and
compassionate.
Yes sir.

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
Okay, Very Good.
D. GENERALIZATION
Okay class, let's have a short review on what we discuss a while
a ago. So class what are the factors to consider in choosing a
lifelong partner?
Yes, Mr. (student name).
Okay, excellent Mr. (student name).
How the about the traditional courtship, Ms. (student name) can
you please state one?
Very good.
Sir the different factors to
consider in choosing a
lifetime partner are
Maturity, Fidelity,
Commitment, Love,
Economic stability and
Character.
Sir, one of the example of
traditional courtship is
Harana wherein the man
serenading the woman
through singing tagalog
love song and accompanied
by the playing of a guitar.
E. APLLICATION
Class, let's have a group activity.
You will present a role play. So, I will group you into 3 and
group one will perform dating and the group 2 will execute
courtship. While the group 3 will do the marriage.
Is that clear class?
Your role play will be evaluate using this rubric.
CATEGORY 25 20 15
CONTENT Great job!
You offered
creative
new
insights on
the topic!
Your role-
play is on
topic, but it
is missing
some
creativity
and insight.
The role-
play is
somewhat
off-topic.
Pay more
attention to
the
directions
next time!
ROLES Excellent
work!
Every
member of
your group
stayed in
character,
and it was
Everyone in
your group
stayed in
character,
but some
members
didn't seem
to really be
For the
most part,
your group
stayed in
character.
Next time,
spend more
time
Yes, sir

8. UNIVERS ITY OF CAGAYAN VALLEY
School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
clear you
took your
roles
seriously.
"into" what
they were
doing.
preparing
for how the
characters
might think
or act
PREPERATION Your group
did an
excellent
job
preparing
and
rehearsing
your role-
play, and it
shows -
everything
went very
smoothly.
Your group
obviously
spent some
time
preparing
for the role-
play, but
some
rehearsal
might have
helped
things run
more
smoothly.
Your group
needs to
spend more
time role-
preparing
for the role
play.
Reading
lines from a
script is a
sure sign
you're not
prepared.
OVERALL
IMPRESSION
Excellent!
Your
presentation
was
entertaining
and
informative!
Good! Your
presentation,
while it was
fun to
watch, could
have been
more
informative.
Keep
working!
Don't forget
that, though
the process
is
entertaining,
you're more
also
supposed to
learn
something
from it
TOTAL
(The students will do the
activity)
IV. EVALUATION
Draw a heart before the number if the behavior promotes healthy relationship,
otherwise, leave it blank.
____1. Listening respectfully
____2. Shouting at one another
____3. Having constant dialogues
____4. Taking separate vacation
____5. Sharing a meal together
V. ASSIGNMENT
Using illustration board and pictures from magazines, create a collage of behaviors that
promote healthy relationship in marriage and family life. Group the pictures in three

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School of Liberal Arts and Teacher Education
1st Semester
SY 2022-2023
categories, togetherness, communication and conflict resolution. Take a picture and sent
to my MSTEAM account
Your collage will be assessed using this rubric.
RUBRIC FOR
THE COLLAGE
0-3 4-7 8-10
ACCURACY OF
THE
BEHAVIORS
Many
pictures
show
incorrect
behavior
on
fostering
healthy
relationship
Some
pictures are
vogue in
terms of
fostering
healthy
relationship
All pictures
show
correct
behavior on
fostering
healthy
relationship
COMPLETENESS
AND GROUPING
Grouping
is not clear
or not less
than three
groups
All three
group of
pictures are
presented
All three
group of
pictures are
arranged in
ala-Africa
art
QUALITY OF
THE PICTURES
Less than
half of the
are pictures
are clear,
colored,
and bright.
More than
half of the
pictures are
clear,
colored,
and bright.
All pictures
are clear,
colored and
bright.
ARTISTRY The collage
is poorly
crafted.
The collage
The is well
made and
artistic.
The collage
is well
made,
artistic and
original.
VISUAL IMPACT The collage
is not
informative
at all.
The collage
is
informative.
The collage
is
informative,
alive and
exciting.
TOTAL
PRESENTED BY: ALFRACE C. TASI