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THE STORY OF THE 3 SECRETS
(You may have already read this on our website)
I was once like you, searching the internet to get the best lines to use in my
Best Manspeech. I filled it with what I thought were some of the best, most
funny lines. It was a disaster.
My speech was all over the place. It was clear I didn’t know what I was doing
and had just found material online.
Fast forward one year and another of my friends asked me to be his Best Man.
This time I did my research. I got books. I got public speaking consultants. I
got videos of Best Man’s speeches. However, no matter what, nothing really
clicked – it didn’t make sense to me.
Then, watching the videos, I had my ‘ah-ha’ moment. There were several
unique things that the best speeches were doing. I watched several more of
the better ones and I saw the same pattern.
My speech was a huge success. Everybody was beaming (especially me) and I
heard the words that I now help people around the world to hear “that was the
best Best Man’s speech I’ve ever heard.”
After helping out several of my friends (who all had very successful speeches),
someone said to me “why don’t you write a book about this?” So I did.
Eventually Unique Best Man Speeches was born and here I now am helping
Best Men across the world.
Now, the introduction to the 3 Secrets To An Amazing Best Man Speech…
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INTRODUCTION
At our Best Man Speech site I already gave away for free the first secret to an
amazing, unique Best Man’s speech: don’t give a speech full of old, used
material from the internet.
My site and the guides I sell were designed to enable you to give your own,
unique and funny speech. I passionately believe in helping Best Men
everywhere, which is why I am giving this short guide away for free.
There are 3 other key secrets that will ensure that you give a unique, amazing
and funny Best Man’s speech. You will find more details on these throughout
our main Best Man Speech Pack product, including step-by-step instructions as
well as a speech template to ensure that you apply them to your speech –
meaning all you have to do is fill the template out and your speech will be
ready! If, after reading this, you can see the value that our service offers then
please visit: http://www.uniquebestmanspeeches.co.uk/guide
In the meantime, this guide is meant to be short, simple and concise. Much
like your speech should be. So, like any good speech introduction, having
explained what we are going to do now let us explain: what are these 3
secrets?
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THE 3 SECRETS TO AN AMAZING BEST MAN SPEECH
1. Sincere-Funny-Sincere Structure
A lot of best men fail in their speeches because they don’t know when to be
funny and when to be sincere. They are funny at the wrong times. Or they
are not sincere enough.
Getting the timing of this correct is crucial to giving a top Best Man speech.
There are several parts that go into each sectionthat all amazing speeches
must have – I outline each in detail as well as providing a sample template for
this in the main guide.
This structure is the first and most important step to giving a successful
speech. Without the correct structure, you risk blowing your speech. It could
contain the funniest material known to man but without the correct sincere
parts to balance this out it might not go over so well – this is after all a speech
at a wedding, not a stand-up comedy show.
On the counter side, even if you don’t give the funniest speech ever, the
correct sincere parts to a speech will more than make up for it.
The ultimate goal is having both the correct sincere parts and the best funny
parts. I will explain this in detail how you get this balance correct in the main
guide. If you master all 3 parts in your speech then you’ll have just given a
top-notch unique Best Man’s speech that will be the toast of the day.
2. Mention The Bride Throughout Your Speech
This might sound pretty straight forward and obvious but it’s not quite that
easy. I don’t mean mention her once or twice. You need to mention the bride
throughout your speech – in all the 3 sections detailed in Secret 1 above.
ABest Man’s speech should be around 5-10 minutes long (more than 8 minutes
is stretching it but you might need time for Secret 3 below!). Can you imagine
listening to someone speaking for 5-10 minutes about the history of a person
you’ve barely met before? It probably wouldn’t be very entertaining or
interesting right? Yet this is what many Best Men do – focus entirely on the
groom, whilst completely ignoring the bride.
I will repeat this many times in the main guide: remember that around 50% of
the audience are there for the bride, not the groom. If you ignore them, the
best you can possibly do is give an entertaining speech to 50% of the
audience.
You must frequently mention the bride in your speech – it is not just a roast of
the groom. In the main guide I will outline the best times and ways to do this
and the best stories to tell to succeed in this. It is not particularly easy but
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giving a great speech is not an easy task (otherwise every Best Man’s speech
would be amazing!).
3. Don’t Talk For The Entire Speech (The Twist)
This secret sounds a little strange. Why would you spend some time in a
speech not talking – after all it wouldn’t be a speech if you weren’t talking?
However, this is one secret that the top Best Man speeches use over and over
again – they interrupt the speech so that they aren’t spending the full 5-10
minutes talking.
How should you do this? You are basically going to introduce a twist into the
proceedings. We will explain how in the main guide.Again, this is not
particularly easy and that’s why I will elaborate more on this in the main guide.
However, once more, if you master the timing and placement of this you will
have given a top notch speech.
HOW TO USE THIS INFORMATION
This short guide was intended to demonstrate that at Unique Best Man
Speeches my guides are not just producing the same old over-used lines you
will find all over the place. I have genuinely researched Best Man Speeches
and I know the exact formula you can use to give an amazing one.
You can learn more at our Best Man Speech site.
Our main Best Man Speech Pack includes the following:
A step-by-step guide outlining the formula to writing a speech using the
3 secrets above
A template that you can fill out and have all the necessary items for your
speech in the right order and structure
Full coverage of all the Best Man Duties you should fulfil
Sample material and examples to guide you along the way
The 6 Golden Rules – what you can and can’t say in a speech
A speech preparation and public speaking guide
We have a full money back guarantee. So you have literally nothing to lose.
If this is not for you, no hard feelings at all – I hope you enjoyed this guide
and are able to incorporate it into your speech. Good luck on the wedding day.
If you enjoyed reading this and would like to learn the next steps to applying
these to your speech then please purchase my main guide at
http://www.uniquebestmanspeeches.co.uk/guide
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I hope to help you hear these words: “that was the best Best Man
speech I’ve ever heard.”