Knowing that your partner was affair an affair outside the marriage and has given birth to a child out of wedlock can be heartbreaking for anyone. However, if you want the marriage to work, you need to forgive the cheating, move past the social stigma and accept the innocent child.

1. When a Child
IS Born As A
Result Of
Having an
Affair

2. When a Child IS Born As A Result O
When you marry someone, you in all
your faith and trust in that person. You
spend every second of your life trying to
make things better and life easier for
both of you, and then one day you come
to know that your partner has been
cheating on you and also has a child out
of that affair. This news or knowledge is
enough to shatter even the strongest of
persons. Life after this realization can
become unbearable, but if you want to
forgive your partner and give your
marriage a second chance, then taking
these difficult steps can be a little
easier, if you keep the following points
in mind.
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3. When a Child IS Born As A Result O
Concentrate On Your Marriage And
Not The Society
There is a lot of social stigma that is
attached to an extramarital affair and to
the birth of a child born out of wedlock.
If you keep thinking about what the
society will say about your partner, your
relationship with your partner and the
child who has been born out of the
affair, you will never be able to move
ahead in life and forget the past. You
need to block out the voices of the
society and only concentrate on what
your heart says. If you are able to find
the strength in your heart to forgive your
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4. When a Child IS Born As A Result O
partner and accept his or her baby, then
you would be able to make the marriage
work, or else, it would be better that you
parted ways with your partner.
Always Remember The Child Is
Innocent
The circumstances in which the child is
born may be wrong, the people who
gave birth to the child may also be
wrong in having the relationship, but the
child itself, is not wrong. The child is as
pure and innocent as any child born to
any other parent. He or she has made
no mistake and therefore, you should …
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5. When a Child IS Born As A Result O
be able to feel kindness towards the
child at least. Even The Bible says that
even the children who are born out of
sin, they too are a gift of God and hence
need to be loved and cared for. This
baby can in fact become the thread
which can keep you tied to your partner,
in spite of the fact that you no longer
feel any love or trust towards him or
her.
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6. When a Child IS Born As A Result
Of Having an Affair
Reconcile With The Truth
Many people feel that the best way to
deal with such a situation to not face it
at all. They start to live their life in a
denial mode, where they refuse to
acknowledge the fact that they are
aware of the fact that their partner was
having an affair and now has a child
born out of that affair. This is the worst
thing that one can do for his or her own
self and for his or her family as well.
You need to face the truth and learn to
live with it. You can decide to either
forgive your partner or leave them for
good, no matter what your decision, it is
important that you accept the truth.
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