3. Good Manners and Etiquette
Difference:
Good manners are rules for common actions of
courtesy and politeness.
Etiquette describes the use of proper customs
in social and business life; these may change
over time
4. General Manners
Be considerate of
others
show respect
use “excuse me”
listen to people
before making
suggestions
be patient
Offer assistance
compliment good
work
learn, remember and
use people’s names
be courteous, kind,
polite, and fair
5. General Etiquette
Personal Manners When Meeting New
Friends
Telephone Courtesy
Personal Relations
Table Manners
6. Personal Manners When Meeting
New Friends
DO
Smile
Firm handshake
stand for a lady
repeat a new name
use “you” more than “I”
introduce new friends to
others
DO NOT
use “knuckle-buster”
handshakes
do all the talking
use foul language
try to always be funny
and the center of
attention
say bad things about
others
9. Proper Handshake
Firm, but not bone-
crushing
Lasts about 3 seconds
May be "pumped" once
or twice from the elbow
Is released after the
shake, even if the
introduction continues
Includes good eye
contact with the other
person
10. Telephone Courtesy
“Hello, this is ________ speaking. May I help
you?”
Stay away from negative comments.
“May I ask who’s calling?”
When taking a message, include the date and
time of call, caller’s name and telephone
number.
11. Personal Relations
Important to the success of anything.
First look at yourself
Attitude is one’s outlook on life, may be
positive or negative.
Should try to maintain a positive attitude
12. Reasons to have a positive
attitude
The future depends largely on the opinion of
others.
More motivating and makes one more
energetic, productive, and alert.
More pleasant to be around.
Effect co-workers
Builds self-confidence