Um artigo simples e muito interessante sobre comportamentos que os homens com potencial de agressividade podem fazer, para controlar os seus impulsos.

1. 1 TO
0 PREVENT
THINGS MEN CAN DO
GENDER VIOLENCE
1 Approach gender violence as a MEN'S issue
involving men of all ages and socioeconomic,
community-based rape crisis centers and battered
women's shelters. If you belong to a team or fraternity,
racial and ethnic backgrounds. View men not only as per- or another student group, organize a fundraiser.
petrators or possible offenders, but as empowered
bystanders who can confront abusive peers.
7 Recognize and speak out against homophobia and
gay-bashing. Discrimination and violence against
2 If a brother, friend, classmate, or teammate is
abusing his female partner -- or is disrespectful or
lesbians and gays are wrong in and of themselves. This
abuse also has direct links to sexism (e.g. the sexual
abusive to girls and women in general -- don't look the orientation of men who speak out against sexism is
other way. If you feel comfortable doing so, try to talk often questioned, a conscious or unconscious strategy
to him about it. Urge him to seek help. Or if you don't intended to silence them. This is a key reason few men
know what to do, consult a friend, a parent, a professor, do speak out).
or a counselor. DON'T REMAIN SILENT.
8 Attend programs, take courses, watch films, and
3 Have the courage to look inward. Question your
own attitudes. Don't be defensive when something
read articles and books about multicultural
masculinities, gender inequality, and the root causes of
you do or say ends up hurting someone else. Try hard to gender violence. Educate yourself and others about how
understand how your own attitudes and actions might larger social forces affect the conflicts between individual
inadvertently perpetuate sexism and violence, and work men and women.
toward changing them.
9 Don't fund sexism. Refuse to purchase any
4 If you suspect that a woman close to you is being
abused or has been sexually assaulted, gently ask
magazine, rent any video, subscribe to any Web
site, or buy any music that portrays girls or women in a
if you can help. sexually degrading or abusive manner. Protest sexism in
the media.
5 If you are emotionally, psychologically, physically,
or sexually abusive to women, or have been in the
0 Mentor and teach young boys about how to be
past, seek professional help NOW. men in ways that don't involve degrading or abus-
ing girls and women. Volunteer to work with gender vio-
6 Be an ally to women who are working to end all
forms of gender violence. Support the work of
lence prevention programs, including anti-sexist men's
programs. Lead by example.
campus-based women's centers. Attend "Take Back the
Night" rallies and other public events. Raise money for
This poster was produced by MVP Strategies, a gender violence prevention, education and training organization.
Email: MVPStrategies@aol.com
Reprint freely with credit Copyright © 1999, Jackson Katz

2. 1 TO
0 PREVENT
THINGS MEN CAN DO
GENDER VIOLENCE
1 Approach gender violence as a MEN'S issue
involving men of all ages and socioeconomic,
money for community-based rape crisis centers and
battered women's shelters. If you belong to a team or
racial and ethnic backgrounds. View men not only as fraternity, or another student group, organize a
perpetrators or possible offenders, but as empowered fundraiser.
bystanders who can confront abusive peers.
7 Recognize and speak out against homophobia
2 If a brother, friend, classmate, or teammate is
abusing his female partner -- or is disrespectful
and gay-bashing. Discrimination and violence
against lesbians and gays are wrong in and of them-
or abusive to girls and women in general -- don't look selves. This abuse also has direct links to sexism (e.g.
the other way. If you feel comfortable doing so, try the sexual orientation of men who speak out against
to talk to him about it. Urge him to seek help. Or if sexism is often questioned, a conscious or uncon-
you don't know what to do, consult a friend, a parent, scious strategy intended to silence them. This is a
a professor, or a counselor. DON'T REMAIN SILENT. key reason few men do speak out).
3 Have the courage to look inward. Question your
own attitudes. Don't be defensive when some-
8 Attend programs, take courses, watch films,
and read articles and books about multicultural
thing you do or say ends up hurting someone else. Try masculinities, gender inequality, and the root causes
hard to understand how your own attitudes and of gender violence. Educate yourself and others
actions might inadvertently perpetuate sexism and about how larger social forces affect the conflicts
violence, and work toward changing them. between individual men and women.
4 If you suspect that a woman close to you is
being abused or has been sexually assaulted,
9 Don't fund sexism. Refuse to purchase any
magazine, rent any video, subscribe to any Web
gently ask if you can help. site, or buy any music that portrays girls or women in
a sexually degrading or abusive manner. Protest sex-
5 If you are emotionally, psychologically, physi-
cally, or sexually abusive to women, or have
ism in the media.
been in the past, seek professional help NOW.
0 Mentor and teach young boys about how to be
men in ways that don't involve degrading or
6 Be an ally to women who are working to end all
forms of gender violence. Support the work of
abusing girls and women. Volunteer to work with
gender violence prevention programs, including anti-
campus-based women's centers. Attend "Take Back sexist men's programs. Lead by example.
the Night" rallies and other public events. Raise
This poster was produced by MVP Strategies, a gender violence prevention, education and training organization.
Email: MVPStrategies@aol.com
Reprint freely with credit Copyright © 1999, Jackson Katz