What exactly are social skills
Core skills required for getting along well with others.
For working together & living together .
We use social skills everyday to let people know how we feel
To understand how other people feel .
Bad Social Skills
Grab something without asking
Push someone out of the way
To interrupt others' conversations
Throw a tantrum when you don’t get your way
Cutting in line
Telling a lie
Saying mean things to others
Not caring about how your actions impact the other people
Good Social Skills
•Waiting for your turn
•Asking before you take
use something that belongs to someone else
•Saying please and thank you
•Waiting in line
•Noticing how someone is feeling
•Showing kindness when someone is having a bad day
•Being excited with someone when they are having a
•Using words instead of hitting
•Telling the truth
•Respecting people’s differences
•Considering how your actions impact other people
Anger is from Satan.
Anger spoils Eemaan.
He is mighty and powerful,
who control himself in anger.
Sayings of Prophet S.A.W.
What Allah Has said about momineen
When they get angry they forgive . Surah Al-Shurah
And restrain rage and pardon men
and Allah loves the good doers.[Surah Al.Imran: 134]
The Holy Messenger (peace be upon him) has said
“Anger comes from the devil,
the devil was created of fire,
and fire is extinguished only by water;
so when one of you becomes angry
, he should perform ablution.”
The Holy Messenger (peace be upon him) has said,
after seeing two people angry at one another:
“I know a word which, if he were to say it,
what he feels would go away;
he needs to say
‘I seek refuge with Allah from the shaytaan,’
and all his anger would go away.”
(Sahih Bukhaari: Volume 6, 337)
A prayer for all of us
May Allah make us all successful in both the worlds
& may we always follow the right path