Memphis Biz Journal.Constructive Approach To Workplace Conflicts. 5.15.09
1. Memphis Business Journal - May 18, 2009
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Friday, May 15, 2009
Tips for developing a constructive
approach to workplace conflicts
Memphis Business Journal - by Barbara Richman
The ability to develop a constructive approach to workplace conflicts is a key to positive
interpersonal relationships. This especially holds true for those in leadership positions who
serve as role models and establish expectations for others. However, conflict prevention and
resolution are also essential skills for employees at every level of the organization.
Conflicts range on a continuum from minor differences of opinion to angry confrontations
and the potential for workplace violence. As long as the behaviors remain at the lower end of
the spectrum and are healthy expressions of varying viewpoints, they can contribute to an
exchange of ideas and enhance a cooperative teamwork setting. However, behaviors that
reflect a win-lose or you versus me perspective can strain relationships, damage morale, and
adversely impact employees, customers and the overall organization.
It is productive to focus on developing strategies to express differences in a respectful
manner and work toward reaching mutual goals and solutions. However, efforts to
eliminate all workplace conflicts will not prove to be realistic, achievable or desirable.
The following are tips for a constructive approach to workplace conflicts:
1. Identify personal triggers, both inside and outside of the workplace, such as doing more
with less, sleep deprivation, technology breakdowns, and financial setbacks. Reflect on how
these triggers create stress and consider ways to minimize their potentially negative
influence on your actions.
2. Recognize that you have responsibility for your actions, regardless of the situation.
Although you will not be able to control another person’s behaviors, you can control your
own.
3. Guard against the negative consequences of acting on assumptions, generalizations, or
stereotypes. Instead, assess specific facts that are relevant to the situation.
4. Adopt a solution-driven, positive, and realistic frame of reference. This perspective will
influence your ability to explore what is working well, areas of conflict, and potential options
for resolution.