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2. Every morning I go for a walk, very
early.

3. There's a park a pass through, and it's
always filled with "dog people."

4. These are also people that walk early
with their dogs.

5. They meet up in the park and socialize
in the wee morning hours.

6. It's funny how the dogs interact when
they meet each other, especially if it's
the first time.

7. They approach carefully, sniff each
other, walk around each other in
careful circles.

8. There's a common phrase called "The
Pecking Order," which refers to
somebody's place in their social group.

9. It comes from chickens.

10. These scientists noticed that a group
of chickens would always eat in the
same order whenever they dumped a
bunch food in their cage.

11. Other animals would fight every single
time, but these chickens would always
eat in the same order.

12. This is why they called it the "Pecking
Order."

13. Whenever they did introduce
somebody into the mix, they would
mix it up a bit, to find where that new
member fit into the pecking order.

14. But once they had it figured out, it was
business as usual.

15. Food would come, and they would eat
in their own self-determined order.

16. I'm sure you've noticed that humans
behave in EXACTLY the same way.

17. This makes perfect sense since we are
social creatures.

18. And as social creatures, we will
ALWAYS organize ourselves into
hierarchies.

19. Funny thing is we do this quickly, and
pretty much subconsciously.

20. Anytime you walk into a room, you
add yourself to the mix.

21. Everybody quickly senses where they
stand, and it's back to work.

22. Any time there's a change in group
structure, this happens, whether we
like it or not.

23. And if you're NOT projecting strong
confidence and social presence, you
ARE going to get discounted.

24. People will check you out, assume
you're not a threat, and then see you
as another faceless member of the
group.

25. This is what they mean by "First
Impressions."

26. They often happen quickly,
subconsciously, and before anybody
ever says a word.

27. If you are in any kind of business
where you need to approach people,
or if you're ever in situations where
you'd like to approach strangers and
build good relationships, it's crucial
that you get a handle on this skill.

28. The harsh truth about being humans is
that because we ARE social animals,
no matter where you go, there will be
followers, and there will be a leader.

29. Now if you are content to be a
follower, that's fine.

30. Most people are.

31. Most people are terrified to step up
and claim the leadership position.

32. It's scary, and there's a lot of pressure.

33. But there are also ENORMOUS
benefits.

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