How To Start And Keep Conversations Going With Girls

What do you say to a girl after you've
introduced yourself?

That's a question most guys think they
need to answer BEFORE they walk
over there.

But that's kind of putting the cart
before the horse.

It assumes that you want to talk to her
after you introduce yourself.

It assumes she wants to talk to YOU
after you introduce yourself.

Believe it or not, neither of these are a
given.

So there's really no point in trying to
come up with a million and one
conversational topics before you go
over there.

However, if you need some rules to
keep handy, here's a few.

The first thing you should do is simply
pace the environment, and your
activity.

If you made eye contact with her a
couple times before you approach
(which is a good idea), just mention
that when you walk over.

"Hi, I noticed you from over there, and
I was interested in meeting you. My
name's George."

Then see how she responds. If she
looks likes you're intruding, or she's
shocked, or she looks scared, don't
worry.

However if she smiles (which is pretty
likely if you were trading EC before you
walked over) just say something else
about the environment.

This can be anything neutral that is
absolutely true.

The drinks here are delicious.

(This is called an ice breaker, BTW, it's
only designed to make you and her
feel more comfortable).

Then, see how she responds to that.

If she smiling and looking at you with
her face AND her body, keep going.

If not, bail, and go somewhere else.

After that, just use your imagination.

Here's the best way to think of things.

Just start approaching girls. Start
today.

Then, later on, keep a journal of what
happened.

Just write down things you COULD
have said or done that might have
made things go better.

If you did this once a day, in a few
weeks you'd have ZERO PROBLEMS
coming up with what to say.

The problem with most guys is they
treat talking to girls like it's some kind
of intellectual exercise.

It's not. It's just like sports.

You've got to practice, fall on your
face, gain some experience, and then
learn from experience.

That's really the only way to get better.

If you are committed to doing this,
you'll soon have ZERO anxieties when
it comes to talking to girls.

You'll not only have plenty of say, but
you'll have lots of experience talking to
girls that turn out to be not so
interesting.

Which means you can simply refine
your criteria for your dream girl, and
keep looking for her.

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