Procrastination buster! 5 questions to get you unstuck and moving forward towards your goal.
Some questions to help you to get unstuck, get clarity about your goal/purpose, find your inner blocks and move forward towards your goal.
4. Do you have a BIG goal?
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5. If you want to achieve a specific goal, for
example starting your own business or
moving to a new city or country, asking these
questions will also help you to…
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6. * Get clarity on why you want to
achieve the goal.
* What your life will be like after you
achieve the goal
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7. and perhaps most importantly…
* What are the hidden inner blocks that are
stopping you from reaching the goal (in other
words, your limiting beliefs and past
emotional trauma and experiences).
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8. Here are 5 Questions to help you to figure
out why you are stuck or what the next step
needs to be to get closer to your goal.
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9. Q1: What would have to change to
make your life perfect?
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10. To get you started, this question is the basis of everything
that YOU feel is currently wrong with your life. So everything
that you list in this answer needs to be dealt with carefully.
Is it a limiting belief (I am not confident enough/I don’t have
enough money) OR is it something that you genuinely want
to change such as your job or a specific relationship?
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11. All of these things can be addressed (and reframed) by using
EFT or Visualisation techniques.
This is the time to decide what is a limiting belief and what is
or should be a true goal.
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12. Q2: What are you
tolerating/putting up with?
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13. Following on from question 1, this is an interesting
question because it will bring up some of the areas
in your life where you are ‘settling’.
Address anything that comes up with the usual
techniques (journaling, EFT, Visualisations etc).
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14. Q3: What would you try now if you
knew you could not fail?
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15. A great question to bring up your true goals, your life’s
purpose or the thing that is most important to you - but that
you are terrified to try in case you fail.
Once you have put a voice to your goal, it is easier to work
on the hidden blocks that are standing in your way of
achieving it.
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16. Q4: Who should you be hanging out
with – so that achieving this goal
becomes natural
(ie. who’s already doing it?)
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17. So now we have some clarity about your goals, and some
ideas of the hidden blocks that are stopping you from
achieving them, we are now moving on to the motivational
questions, the things that will really move you forward
towards them.
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18. It should be obvious why this question has been included
and yet this step is so often overlooked.
Lets get real here – you are never going to achieve a goal of
becoming a world class surfer if the only people you ever
hang out with are sitting on the sofa watching TV!
The same goes for ANY type of goal.
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19. Find the people who are already doing what you want to do
and ‘hang out’ with them, either in real life, at events or
even online.
You can get great insights from people just by being on their
mailing list or on their Twitter/Facebook. If they make
videos, you can also subscribe to their YouTube account.
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20. Q5: What will happen (what is the
cost) of you NOT doing anything
about this?
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21. Quite often when we feel stuck and can’t move forward and
take a leap towards our goal, it’s because we are worried
what will happen when we act (we fear failure or just
embarrassing ourselves) but this question is a great one for
helping our subconscious mind to realise that there is a cost
to NOT acting on our dreams.
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22. If we do nothing, we achieve nothing so what is the
real cost of you not taking action and moving
towards your goal?
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23. So there you have 5 questions and 5 different angles
to get you to think outside of the box and get you
unstuck.
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24. WHAT TO DO NOW;
Grab a pen and a journal and replay this video so that you
can write them down.
You can either try doing one question per day .
Ask yourself the question just before you go to bed and then
write in your journal the next day with anything that pops up
into your mind.
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25. Journaling can be a great way to get in touch with your
subconscious mind and it will throw back an answer at you
the next day or a couple of days later. Usually when you
have stopped thinking about it.
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26. Or try meditating on a question to see what answers
come up for you.
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27. Another way to do this is to write the question in
the middle of the page and write down ANY phrases
(reasons or excuses) that come into your head.
These are your inner blocks – use EFT, NLP or
Visualisation techniques to clear them.
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28. Changing the questions….
Another way to do this would be to ask; WHY is my life not
perfect right now?
And write down all of your answers.
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29. Have a look at those answers and then ask yourself the
original question –
What would have to change to make your life perfect?
Work on the answers with EFT
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30. Then change the question AGAIN to something like…
What would it take for my life to feel perfect right now?
Write down all of the answers and clear any inner blocks
(such as ‘I would have more money’ or ‘I would be thinner’)
with EFT.
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31. THAT’S ALL FOLKS.
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