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!      DO !




                         BE
   N K
 HI
T




                          !
               SI TIVE
             PO
%90 Self-esteem
     Issue
%90 Self-esteem
            Issue
Stop that, quit it, you're          fat,
you're ugly, you're ...

Brutal to yourself...

W o r d s l e av e s   no   p hy s i cal
bruises !

The scars are on the inside :(

Intangible     thing    called   self-
esteem
The most important thing when
         achieving ?
TARGET
TARGET

Recurring Success

The strenght to
overrun
unsuccessfullnes...
Just with the power of
      positivity...
Am I Positive ?
To b e a p o s i t i v e
challanger, must be a
positive thinker !
Am I Positive ?
To b e a p o s i t i v e
challanger, must be a
positive thinker !

Build a new positive
tought pattern
A long & very though
Journey .............
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?



                       "Most of us hide behind
                       eg ocentr ic biase s t hat
                       generate s t he illu sio n
                       that we are special."
                                     P. Zimbardo
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?



                       "Most of us hide behind
                       eg ocentr ic biase s t hat
                       generate s t he illu sio n
                       that we are special."
                                     P. Zimbardo
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?



                       "Most of us hide behind
                       eg ocentr ic biase s t hat
                       generate s t he illu sio n
                       that we are special."
                                     P. Zimbardo
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?
Am I Positive ?

Don't ask yourself !
Who is the most
convincable person ?




Must be more tangible
Be More Tangible
Be More Tangible

" The kno wle dg e of t he
difference between what we can
change and what we must accept
in ourselves is the beginning of
real change."

                    M. Seligman
“You can be anything you want to be, if you
          just try hard enough.”
“You can be anything you want to be, if you
          just try hard enough.”




"You cannot be anything you want to be -
  but you can be a lot more of who you
              already are."
                                 Tom Rath
😉   Write yourself a positive commercial
😉   Write yourself a positive commercial
😄   Avoid violence on TV and in movies
😉   Write yourself a positive commercial
😄   Avoid violence on TV and in movies
😊   Give yourself 15 minutes to be positive
😉   Write yourself a positive commercial
😄   Avoid violence on TV and in movies
😊   Give yourself 15 minutes to be positive
😁   Create your own positive enviroment
😉   Write yourself a positive commercial
 😄   Avoid violence on TV and in movies
 😊   Give yourself 15 minutes to be positive
 😁   Create your own positive enviroment
 😃   Use mantras to relax & give away the
stress
IV  E
  OS IT       E
P         N G
     L LA
C HA
           Versus
 Co g
        n i t iv
                e Di
                     s tor
                           t io n
                                 s
Diminishing the Positives
Overgeneralization
ON



Filtering out the Positives
Making everything a
    Catastrophe
Jumping to Conclusions
All -or-Nothing Thinking
Labeling
Personalization
What we've done?
What we've done?
What we've done?
What we've done?
What we've done?

          Learned Optimism
          (adapted from Dr. Martin Seligman's
              book, "Learned Optimism")




             Strenghts Finder
           (adapted from SF2.0 Gallup - Tim
                     Rath's book)
What we've done?

          Learned Optimism
          (adapted from Dr. Martin Seligman's
              book, "Learned Optimism")




             Strenghts Finder
           (adapted from SF2.0 Gallup - Tim
                     Rath's book)
Positivity
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Positivity

  • 1. ! DO ! BE N K HI T ! SI TIVE PO
  • 3. %90 Self-esteem Issue Stop that, quit it, you're fat, you're ugly, you're ... Brutal to yourself... W o r d s l e av e s no p hy s i cal bruises ! The scars are on the inside :( Intangible thing called self- esteem
  • 4.
  • 5. The most important thing when achieving ?
  • 6.
  • 8. TARGET Recurring Success The strenght to overrun unsuccessfullnes...
  • 9.
  • 10. Just with the power of positivity...
  • 11. Am I Positive ? To b e a p o s i t i v e challanger, must be a positive thinker !
  • 12. Am I Positive ? To b e a p o s i t i v e challanger, must be a positive thinker ! Build a new positive tought pattern A long & very though Journey .............
  • 13. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ?
  • 14. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ?
  • 15. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ? "Most of us hide behind eg ocentr ic biase s t hat generate s t he illu sio n that we are special." P. Zimbardo
  • 16. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ? "Most of us hide behind eg ocentr ic biase s t hat generate s t he illu sio n that we are special." P. Zimbardo
  • 17. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ? "Most of us hide behind eg ocentr ic biase s t hat generate s t he illu sio n that we are special." P. Zimbardo
  • 18. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ?
  • 19. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ?
  • 20. Am I Positive ? Don't ask yourself ! Who is the most convincable person ? Must be more tangible
  • 22. Be More Tangible " The kno wle dg e of t he difference between what we can change and what we must accept in ourselves is the beginning of real change." M. Seligman
  • 23.
  • 24. “You can be anything you want to be, if you just try hard enough.”
  • 25. “You can be anything you want to be, if you just try hard enough.” "You cannot be anything you want to be - but you can be a lot more of who you already are." Tom Rath
  • 26.
  • 27.
  • 28.
  • 29.
  • 30.
  • 31.
  • 32. 😉 Write yourself a positive commercial
  • 33. 😉 Write yourself a positive commercial 😄 Avoid violence on TV and in movies
  • 34. 😉 Write yourself a positive commercial 😄 Avoid violence on TV and in movies 😊 Give yourself 15 minutes to be positive
  • 35. 😉 Write yourself a positive commercial 😄 Avoid violence on TV and in movies 😊 Give yourself 15 minutes to be positive 😁 Create your own positive enviroment
  • 36. 😉 Write yourself a positive commercial 😄 Avoid violence on TV and in movies 😊 Give yourself 15 minutes to be positive 😁 Create your own positive enviroment 😃 Use mantras to relax & give away the stress
  • 37.
  • 38.
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  • 40. IV E OS IT E P N G L LA C HA Versus Co g n i t iv e Di s tor t io n s
  • 41.
  • 43.
  • 45.
  • 46. ON Filtering out the Positives
  • 47.
  • 48. Making everything a Catastrophe
  • 49.
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  • 61. What we've done? Learned Optimism (adapted from Dr. Martin Seligman's book, "Learned Optimism") Strenghts Finder (adapted from SF2.0 Gallup - Tim Rath's book)
  • 62. What we've done? Learned Optimism (adapted from Dr. Martin Seligman's book, "Learned Optimism") Strenghts Finder (adapted from SF2.0 Gallup - Tim Rath's book)

Editor's Notes

  1. \n\n
  2. %90 of the population has low self-esteem issue\n\nThink back to when you were a child. How many times did you hear the words: stop that, quit it, you're slow, you're fat, you're ugly, you're….fill in blank with your own experience. Kids can be pretty brutal. We always face with negative challange in life, beginning from childhood. These things lowers our self-esteem and a part us from achivements.\n\nStart from yourself ; discover brutal things saying to yourself and think that you're saying these to someone else. You'll understand how brutal to yourself. (Kaizen) \n\nWhen someone verbally attacks you may help you get through the moment. However, nothing could be further from the truth. Sticks and stones leave physical bruising and marks that for the most part, in time heal. Words on the other hand, while they do not leave outward sign of damage still cause hurt and pain. The scars are on the inside and cripple that intangible thing called our self esteem.\n
  3. Because of these, positive thinking (challange, feed forward, ...) is the most important think when achieving, especially with team !\n
  4. Because of these, positive thinking (challange, feed forward, ...) is the most important think when achieving, especially with team !\n
  5. Because of these, positive thinking (challange, feed forward, ...) is the most important think when achieving, especially with team !\n
  6. I actually think that our real aim is recurring success: Success with a lot of unsuccessfullnes \n
  7. I actually think that our real aim is recurring success: Success with a lot of unsuccessfullnes \n
  8. I actually think that our real aim is recurring success: Success with a lot of unsuccessfullnes \n
  9. How can it be possible?\n
  10. \n\n
  11. If you're going to be a positive challanger, before that you must be a positive thinker. But that is a long and very though journey !\n\nIt will take at least a year to build a new thought pattern, a positive pattern.\n\nWe said that being positive challanger starts with being positive. \nThan lets look deeply to how can we start being positive.\n
  12. If you're going to be a positive challanger, before that you must be a positive thinker. But that is a long and very though journey !\n\nIt will take at least a year to build a new thought pattern, a positive pattern.\n\nWe said that being positive challanger starts with being positive. \nThan lets look deeply to how can we start being positive.\n
  13. If you're going to be a positive challanger, before that you must be a positive thinker. But that is a long and very though journey !\n\nIt will take at least a year to build a new thought pattern, a positive pattern.\n\nWe said that being positive challanger starts with being positive. \nThan lets look deeply to how can we start being positive.\n
  14. We can start with the question "Am i positive?"\n\nDon't ask yourself that if you're a positive human beeing or not...\nBecause in life, the most convincable person is yourself !\n
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  20. With this knowledge, we can use our precious time to make the many rewarding changes that are possible. We can live with less self-reproach and less remorse. We can live with greater confidence. This knowledge is a new understanding of who we are and where we are going. \n
  21. With this knowledge, we can use our precious time to make the many rewarding changes that are possible. We can live with less self-reproach and less remorse. We can live with greater confidence. This knowledge is a new understanding of who we are and where we are going. \n
  22. A Misguided Maxim?\n“You can be anything you want to be, if you just try hard enough.”\n \nLike most people, I embraced this maxim at a young age. \nEmbracing the “You-can-be-anything-you-want to-be” maxim isn’t something we outgrow. Similar scenarios play out in the workplace every day. A star salesperson thinks she can be a great sales manager with enough effort. She interviews other managers to gain insight, reads every book on management she can find, and stays late every night trying to get the job done—at the expense of her family and even her health. Then, a few years into the job, she realizes that she doesn’t have the natural talent to develop other people. Not only is this a waste of her time, but chances are, she could have increased her contribution even more if she had stayed in the sales role—a role in which she naturally excelled. Yet if we want additional income, status, or responsibility, most organizational hierarchies force us into a very different role—instead of allowing for an entire career of progression within a specific role that fits our talents.\n\nThis might sound like a heretical point of view, especially for those of us who grew up believing the essential American myth that we could become anything we wanted.\n\nWhen we’re able to put most of our energy into developing our natural talents, extraordinary room for growth exists. So, a revision to the “You-can-be-anything-you-want-to-be” maxim might be more accurate:\n
  23. A Misguided Maxim?\n“You can be anything you want to be, if you just try hard enough.”\n \nLike most people, I embraced this maxim at a young age. \nEmbracing the “You-can-be-anything-you-want to-be” maxim isn’t something we outgrow. Similar scenarios play out in the workplace every day. A star salesperson thinks she can be a great sales manager with enough effort. She interviews other managers to gain insight, reads every book on management she can find, and stays late every night trying to get the job done—at the expense of her family and even her health. Then, a few years into the job, she realizes that she doesn’t have the natural talent to develop other people. Not only is this a waste of her time, but chances are, she could have increased her contribution even more if she had stayed in the sales role—a role in which she naturally excelled. Yet if we want additional income, status, or responsibility, most organizational hierarchies force us into a very different role—instead of allowing for an entire career of progression within a specific role that fits our talents.\n\nThis might sound like a heretical point of view, especially for those of us who grew up believing the essential American myth that we could become anything we wanted.\n\nWhen we’re able to put most of our energy into developing our natural talents, extraordinary room for growth exists. So, a revision to the “You-can-be-anything-you-want-to-be” maxim might be more accurate:\n
  24. A Misguided Maxim?\n“You can be anything you want to be, if you just try hard enough.”\n \nLike most people, I embraced this maxim at a young age. \nEmbracing the “You-can-be-anything-you-want to-be” maxim isn’t something we outgrow. Similar scenarios play out in the workplace every day. A star salesperson thinks she can be a great sales manager with enough effort. She interviews other managers to gain insight, reads every book on management she can find, and stays late every night trying to get the job done—at the expense of her family and even her health. Then, a few years into the job, she realizes that she doesn’t have the natural talent to develop other people. Not only is this a waste of her time, but chances are, she could have increased her contribution even more if she had stayed in the sales role—a role in which she naturally excelled. Yet if we want additional income, status, or responsibility, most organizational hierarchies force us into a very different role—instead of allowing for an entire career of progression within a specific role that fits our talents.\n\nThis might sound like a heretical point of view, especially for those of us who grew up believing the essential American myth that we could become anything we wanted.\n\nWhen we’re able to put most of our energy into developing our natural talents, extraordinary room for growth exists. So, a revision to the “You-can-be-anything-you-want-to-be” maxim might be more accurate:\n
  25. A Misguided Maxim?\n“You can be anything you want to be, if you just try hard enough.”\n \nLike most people, I embraced this maxim at a young age. \nEmbracing the “You-can-be-anything-you-want to-be” maxim isn’t something we outgrow. Similar scenarios play out in the workplace every day. A star salesperson thinks she can be a great sales manager with enough effort. She interviews other managers to gain insight, reads every book on management she can find, and stays late every night trying to get the job done—at the expense of her family and even her health. Then, a few years into the job, she realizes that she doesn’t have the natural talent to develop other people. Not only is this a waste of her time, but chances are, she could have increased her contribution even more if she had stayed in the sales role—a role in which she naturally excelled. Yet if we want additional income, status, or responsibility, most organizational hierarchies force us into a very different role—instead of allowing for an entire career of progression within a specific role that fits our talents.\n\nThis might sound like a heretical point of view, especially for those of us who grew up believing the essential American myth that we could become anything we wanted.\n\nWhen we’re able to put most of our energy into developing our natural talents, extraordinary room for growth exists. So, a revision to the “You-can-be-anything-you-want-to-be” maxim might be more accurate:\n
  26. \n\n
  27. To stay positive do small things in every day life.\nStart each morning with some positive exposure, wisdom or mantras...\n
  28. # Think of introducing yourself to someone. “I would like to introduce (your name) to you. He/she is a wonderful friend, a great husband and father of 2 super kids. He is a strong manager, leader and an expert in (your field). Think of the positives you want to attract into your life and write a commercial about yourself possessing those qualities.\n\n# Violence generates negative and nervous energy. Violence wastes all your positive energy. Turn off the TV, especially the local news. Turn off the weather. Remember, as a child, looking up and opening your mouth to catch raindrops? I used to be amazed by rain droplets as a kid, then grew up and got bummed out when it rained.\n\n# Even if you dont feel like dedicating yourself to positive\n\n# Smile all the time. Lead with a smile, and the words and emotions will follow. Earn a smile from everyone you talk to. One note of caution. Respond to everything that happens to you in the positive. But explaining in deep. Because sometimes people dont understand what you are doing. Express yourself very Will, especially to supervisor.\n\n# Almost every successful person uses mantras. Mantras may give you focus and strength. “sometimes you just gotta say what the f...”! \n\nTake small but effective steps to building the life you deserve.\n
  29. # Think of introducing yourself to someone. “I would like to introduce (your name) to you. He/she is a wonderful friend, a great husband and father of 2 super kids. He is a strong manager, leader and an expert in (your field). Think of the positives you want to attract into your life and write a commercial about yourself possessing those qualities.\n\n# Violence generates negative and nervous energy. Violence wastes all your positive energy. Turn off the TV, especially the local news. Turn off the weather. Remember, as a child, looking up and opening your mouth to catch raindrops? I used to be amazed by rain droplets as a kid, then grew up and got bummed out when it rained.\n\n# Even if you dont feel like dedicating yourself to positive\n\n# Smile all the time. Lead with a smile, and the words and emotions will follow. Earn a smile from everyone you talk to. One note of caution. Respond to everything that happens to you in the positive. But explaining in deep. Because sometimes people dont understand what you are doing. Express yourself very Will, especially to supervisor.\n\n# Almost every successful person uses mantras. Mantras may give you focus and strength. “sometimes you just gotta say what the f...”! \n\nTake small but effective steps to building the life you deserve.\n
  30. # Think of introducing yourself to someone. “I would like to introduce (your name) to you. He/she is a wonderful friend, a great husband and father of 2 super kids. He is a strong manager, leader and an expert in (your field). Think of the positives you want to attract into your life and write a commercial about yourself possessing those qualities.\n\n# Violence generates negative and nervous energy. Violence wastes all your positive energy. Turn off the TV, especially the local news. Turn off the weather. Remember, as a child, looking up and opening your mouth to catch raindrops? I used to be amazed by rain droplets as a kid, then grew up and got bummed out when it rained.\n\n# Even if you dont feel like dedicating yourself to positive\n\n# Smile all the time. Lead with a smile, and the words and emotions will follow. Earn a smile from everyone you talk to. One note of caution. Respond to everything that happens to you in the positive. But explaining in deep. Because sometimes people dont understand what you are doing. Express yourself very Will, especially to supervisor.\n\n# Almost every successful person uses mantras. Mantras may give you focus and strength. “sometimes you just gotta say what the f...”! \n\nTake small but effective steps to building the life you deserve.\n
  31. # Think of introducing yourself to someone. “I would like to introduce (your name) to you. He/she is a wonderful friend, a great husband and father of 2 super kids. He is a strong manager, leader and an expert in (your field). Think of the positives you want to attract into your life and write a commercial about yourself possessing those qualities.\n\n# Violence generates negative and nervous energy. Violence wastes all your positive energy. Turn off the TV, especially the local news. Turn off the weather. Remember, as a child, looking up and opening your mouth to catch raindrops? I used to be amazed by rain droplets as a kid, then grew up and got bummed out when it rained.\n\n# Even if you dont feel like dedicating yourself to positive\n\n# Smile all the time. Lead with a smile, and the words and emotions will follow. Earn a smile from everyone you talk to. One note of caution. Respond to everything that happens to you in the positive. But explaining in deep. Because sometimes people dont understand what you are doing. Express yourself very Will, especially to supervisor.\n\n# Almost every successful person uses mantras. Mantras may give you focus and strength. “sometimes you just gotta say what the f...”! \n\nTake small but effective steps to building the life you deserve.\n
  32. # Think of introducing yourself to someone. “I would like to introduce (your name) to you. He/she is a wonderful friend, a great husband and father of 2 super kids. He is a strong manager, leader and an expert in (your field). Think of the positives you want to attract into your life and write a commercial about yourself possessing those qualities.\n\n# Violence generates negative and nervous energy. Violence wastes all your positive energy. Turn off the TV, especially the local news. Turn off the weather. Remember, as a child, looking up and opening your mouth to catch raindrops? I used to be amazed by rain droplets as a kid, then grew up and got bummed out when it rained.\n\n# Even if you dont feel like dedicating yourself to positive\n\n# Smile all the time. Lead with a smile, and the words and emotions will follow. Earn a smile from everyone you talk to. One note of caution. Respond to everything that happens to you in the positive. But explaining in deep. Because sometimes people dont understand what you are doing. Express yourself very Will, especially to supervisor.\n\n# Almost every successful person uses mantras. Mantras may give you focus and strength. “sometimes you just gotta say what the f...”! \n\nTake small but effective steps to building the life you deserve.\n
  33. # Think of introducing yourself to someone. “I would like to introduce (your name) to you. He/she is a wonderful friend, a great husband and father of 2 super kids. He is a strong manager, leader and an expert in (your field). Think of the positives you want to attract into your life and write a commercial about yourself possessing those qualities.\n\n# Violence generates negative and nervous energy. Violence wastes all your positive energy. Turn off the TV, especially the local news. Turn off the weather. Remember, as a child, looking up and opening your mouth to catch raindrops? I used to be amazed by rain droplets as a kid, then grew up and got bummed out when it rained.\n\n# Even if you dont feel like dedicating yourself to positive\n\n# Smile all the time. Lead with a smile, and the words and emotions will follow. Earn a smile from everyone you talk to. One note of caution. Respond to everything that happens to you in the positive. But explaining in deep. Because sometimes people dont understand what you are doing. Express yourself very Will, especially to supervisor.\n\n# Almost every successful person uses mantras. Mantras may give you focus and strength. “sometimes you just gotta say what the f...”! \n\nTake small but effective steps to building the life you deserve.\n
  34. In this time of mounting economic issues, financial burdens, and the stress of everyday life many of us find ourselves in a state of constant worry. Worrying is not a solution to problems, but rather a non-productive way of thinking. These toughts takes away your positive point of view from your life. By finding ways to challenge these thoughts, we often can decrease worrying.\n\n“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy”\n Leo Buscaglia\n\n\n
  35. In this time of mounting economic issues, financial burdens, and the stress of everyday life many of us find ourselves in a state of constant worry. Worrying is not a solution to problems, but rather a non-productive way of thinking. These toughts takes away your positive point of view from your life. By finding ways to challenge these thoughts, we often can decrease worrying.\n\n“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy”\n Leo Buscaglia\n\n\n
  36. In this time of mounting economic issues, financial burdens, and the stress of everyday life many of us find ourselves in a state of constant worry. Worrying is not a solution to problems, but rather a non-productive way of thinking. These toughts takes away your positive point of view from your life. By finding ways to challenge these thoughts, we often can decrease worrying.\n\n“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy”\n Leo Buscaglia\n\n\n
  37. If we want less worries that negatively challange our lifes we must find encourage ways to create a more positive outlook and lifestyle.\n\n\n•RASYONEL OLMAYANI\n•GEÇERLİ KANITLARI BULUNMAYANI\n•KENDİMİZLE VE ÇEVREMİZLE İLİŞKİN GELİŞTİRDİĞİMİZ KALIP DÜŞÜNCELERİ\n•DÜŞÜNÜRKEN YAPTIGIMIZ SİSTEMATİK HATALARI\n•OLAYLARI OLDUĞUNDAN DAHA FARKLI ALGILAMA, DEĞERLENDİRME VE YORUMLAMAYI İFADE EDER.\n\n\n
  38. If we want less worries that negatively challange our lifes we must find encourage ways to create a more positive outlook and lifestyle.\n\n\n•RASYONEL OLMAYANI\n•GEÇERLİ KANITLARI BULUNMAYANI\n•KENDİMİZLE VE ÇEVREMİZLE İLİŞKİN GELİŞTİRDİĞİMİZ KALIP DÜŞÜNCELERİ\n•DÜŞÜNÜRKEN YAPTIGIMIZ SİSTEMATİK HATALARI\n•OLAYLARI OLDUĞUNDAN DAHA FARKLI ALGILAMA, DEĞERLENDİRME VE YORUMLAMAYI İFADE EDER.\n\n\n
  39. If we want less worries that negatively challange our lifes we must find encourage ways to create a more positive outlook and lifestyle.\n\n\n•RASYONEL OLMAYANI\n•GEÇERLİ KANITLARI BULUNMAYANI\n•KENDİMİZLE VE ÇEVREMİZLE İLİŞKİN GELİŞTİRDİĞİMİZ KALIP DÜŞÜNCELERİ\n•DÜŞÜNÜRKEN YAPTIGIMIZ SİSTEMATİK HATALARI\n•OLAYLARI OLDUĞUNDAN DAHA FARKLI ALGILAMA, DEĞERLENDİRME VE YORUMLAMAYI İFADE EDER.\n\n\n
  40. THE CHALLENGE: Embrace the positives and take pride in accomplishments. Evaluate the thoughts and take away the negativity. Instead of terms such as “I got lucky”, believe “I was prepared” or “I worked really hard”. Increasing the positives will create a positive outlook and increase self-esteem.\n
  41. THE CHALLENGE: Embrace the positives and take pride in accomplishments. Evaluate the thoughts and take away the negativity. Instead of terms such as “I got lucky”, believe “I was prepared” or “I worked really hard”. Increasing the positives will create a positive outlook and increase self-esteem.\n
  42. THE CHALLENGE: We all have negative events that have taken place in our lives. Some of those events stay and hurt more than others. The challenge is to take those negative events and believe that we can create different outcomes in the future. Remember that a single negative experience doesn’t hold true forever.\n
  43. THE CHALLENGE: We all have negative events that have taken place in our lives. Some of those events stay and hurt more than others. The challenge is to take those negative events and believe that we can create different outcomes in the future. Remember that a single negative experience doesn’t hold true forever.\n
  44. THE CHALLENGE: FOCUS… FOCUS… FOCUS!!! Focus on all of the positives that happen. Review the events of the day or the moment, creating a game of positive vs. negative. If it is helpful you may want to write a list. Fold a piece of paper in half and write down all of the good things that have happened and a list of all of the bad things.\n
  45. THE CHALLENGE: FOCUS… FOCUS… FOCUS!!! Focus on all of the positives that happen. Review the events of the day or the moment, creating a game of positive vs. negative. If it is helpful you may want to write a list. Fold a piece of paper in half and write down all of the good things that have happened and a list of all of the bad things.\n
  46. THE CHALLENGE: FOCUS… FOCUS… FOCUS!!! Focus on all of the positives that happen. Review the events of the day or the moment, creating a game of positive vs. negative. If it is helpful you may want to write a list. Fold a piece of paper in half and write down all of the good things that have happened and a list of all of the bad things.\n
  47. THE CHALLENGE: FOCUS… FOCUS… FOCUS!!! Focus on all of the positives that happen. Review the events of the day or the moment, creating a game of positive vs. negative. If it is helpful you may want to write a list. Fold a piece of paper in half and write down all of the good things that have happened and a list of all of the bad things.\n
  48. THE CHALLENGE: Think positive! Take the event for what it is and don’t make it anything other than that. If there is a delay in traffic, think rationally. Instead of thinking “I’m never going to get there”, think “I may be late, but I will get there”. In the meantime, focus on positive things you can do such as enjoying the scenery or listening to your favorite music.\n
  49. THE CHALLENGE: Think positive! Take the event for what it is and don’t make it anything other than that. If there is a delay in traffic, think rationally. Instead of thinking “I’m never going to get there”, think “I may be late, but I will get there”. In the meantime, focus on positive things you can do such as enjoying the scenery or listening to your favorite music.\n
  50. THE CHALLENGE: Think before you leap… to a conclusion that is. If you find yourself engaging in this type of thinking, take a step back and ask yourself “do I really know this to be true?” If the answer is “no”, then focus on the things that you know to be true. It is also important to remember not to negatively predict your future. If you are going to predict it, give it a positive ending.\n
  51. THE CHALLENGE: Think before you leap… to a conclusion that is. If you find yourself engaging in this type of thinking, take a step back and ask yourself “do I really know this to be true?” If the answer is “no”, then focus on the things that you know to be true. It is also important to remember not to negatively predict your future. If you are going to predict it, give it a positive ending.\n
  52. THE CHALLENGE: Don’t put yourself in the “never-always-every” box. These words are not only negative when used in this type of thinking, but can also be damaging to your self-esteem. Challenge yourself to think of times when these words were not true. \n
  53. THE CHALLENGE: Don’t put yourself in the “never-always-every” box. These words are not only negative when used in this type of thinking, but can also be damaging to your self-esteem. Challenge yourself to think of times when these words were not true. \n
  54. THE CHALLENGE: For every negative, there is a positive. Many times after a disappointing moment or a failed attempt at something we label ourselves as “failures” or “stupid”. Challenge these negative thoughts by replacing them with positives. You may have failed at one attempt (or maybe even several), but it doesn’t make you a failure. Sometimes you may make a not-so-great decision, but it doesn’t make you stupid.\n
  55. THE CHALLENGE: For every negative, there is a positive. Many times after a disappointing moment or a failed attempt at something we label ourselves as “failures” or “stupid”. Challenge these negative thoughts by replacing them with positives. You may have failed at one attempt (or maybe even several), but it doesn’t make you a failure. Sometimes you may make a not-so-great decision, but it doesn’t make you stupid.\n
  56. THE CHALLENGE: Think logically! When we personalize things we take on the full responsibility. Carefully evaluate situations to really determine whether or not you have any responsibility for the outcome. Don’t place unnecessary blame on yourself for the actions and responsibilities of others.\n\n\n\n
  57. THE CHALLENGE: Think logically! When we personalize things we take on the full responsibility. Carefully evaluate situations to really determine whether or not you have any responsibility for the outcome. Don’t place unnecessary blame on yourself for the actions and responsibilities of others.\n\n\n\n
  58. First of all, everyone in my team must be sharing same vision and volunteered.\n\nThen everyone must take a proved test to analyze themselves in tangible ways.\n\nAfter analyzing ourselves deeply, we talked about which things each of us are going to do or not to do, according to positivity level and strenghts.\n\nThen we start to use simple everyday to do's, to be more positive on the short run. In addition to simple everday to do's, we are trying to improve our positivity using challanges i talked about.\n\nWe are doing all these to build a new and positive thought pattern for ourselves, for our family..... \n\n\n
  59. First of all, everyone in my team must be sharing same vision and volunteered.\n\nThen everyone must take a proved test to analyze themselves in tangible ways.\n\nAfter analyzing ourselves deeply, we talked about which things each of us are going to do or not to do, according to positivity level and strenghts.\n\nThen we start to use simple everyday to do's, to be more positive on the short run. In addition to simple everday to do's, we are trying to improve our positivity using challanges i talked about.\n\nWe are doing all these to build a new and positive thought pattern for ourselves, for our family..... \n\n\n
  60. First of all, everyone in my team must be sharing same vision and volunteered.\n\nThen everyone must take a proved test to analyze themselves in tangible ways.\n\nAfter analyzing ourselves deeply, we talked about which things each of us are going to do or not to do, according to positivity level and strenghts.\n\nThen we start to use simple everyday to do's, to be more positive on the short run. In addition to simple everday to do's, we are trying to improve our positivity using challanges i talked about.\n\nWe are doing all these to build a new and positive thought pattern for ourselves, for our family..... \n\n\n
  61. First of all, everyone in my team must be sharing same vision and volunteered.\n\nThen everyone must take a proved test to analyze themselves in tangible ways.\n\nAfter analyzing ourselves deeply, we talked about which things each of us are going to do or not to do, according to positivity level and strenghts.\n\nThen we start to use simple everyday to do's, to be more positive on the short run. In addition to simple everday to do's, we are trying to improve our positivity using challanges i talked about.\n\nWe are doing all these to build a new and positive thought pattern for ourselves, for our family..... \n\n\n
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  65. Unfortunately i can not say anything about results right now, because building a new pattern - changing habbits - takes a lot time more than 2 months. \n\nBut i can say that we just started to see a lot of differences around us. \n