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Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch- Life Game
Transactional Analysis
Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant Professor
Ilahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
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Life Games
• All games have an
important and probably
decisive influence on the
destinies of the players
under ordinary social
conditions.
• But some offer more
opportunities than others
for life long careers and
are more likely to involve
relatively innocent
bystanders.
• This group may be
conveniently called Life
Games.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• NIGYSOB is a two
handed game in which
the aim is justification.
• It must be distinguished
from the game “ Ain’t it
Awful?” (AIA).
• NIGYSOB is
commercialized in a
three handed
professional form as the
badger game.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• NIGYSOB is also played as
a two handed marital
game in more or less
subtle forms.
• The best antithesis is
correct behavior.
• The contractual structure
of relationship with a
NIGYSOB player should be
explicitly stated in detail
at the first opportunity,
and the rules strictly
adhered to.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• In clinical practices, the
question of payment for
missed appointments or
cancellations must be
settled clearly at once,
and extra precautions
must be taken to avoid
mistakes in book
keeping.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• If an unforeseen
contretemps arises, the
antithesis is to yield
gracefully without
dispute, until such time
as the therapist is
prepared to deal with
the game.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• In everyday life,
business dealings with
NIGYSOB players are
always calculated risks.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• The wife of such a
person should be
treated with polite
correctness and even
the mildest flirtation,
gallantries or slights
should be avoided,
especially if the
husband himself seems
to encourage them.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Thesis – Now I have got
you, you son of the bitch.
• Aim – Justification.
• Roles – Victim, Aggressor.
• Dynamics – Jealous rage.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Examples.
– I caught you this time
– Jealous husband.
• Social paradigm – Adult –
Adult.
– Adult – See you have done
wrong.
– Adult – Now that you draw it to
my attention, I guess I have.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Psychological paradigm –
Parent - Child.
– Parent – I have been
watching you, hoping you
did make a slip.
– Child – You caught me this
time.
– Parent – Yes and I am going
to let you feel the full force
of my fury.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Moves.
– Provocation – Accusation.
– Defense – Accusation.
– Defense – Punishment.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Internal psychological
advantages – Justification
for rage.
• External psychological
advantages – avoids
confrontation of own
deficiencies.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Internal social advantages
– NIGYSOB.
• External social advantages
– They have always out to
get you.
Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch
• Biological advantages –
belligerent exchanges,
usually ipsisexual.
• Existential advantages –
People can’t be trusted.
References
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NIGYSOB - Now i have got you ,you son of a bitch

  • 1. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch- Life Game Transactional Analysis
  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Assistant Professor Ilahia School of Management Studies Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. Life Games • All games have an important and probably decisive influence on the destinies of the players under ordinary social conditions. • But some offer more opportunities than others for life long careers and are more likely to involve relatively innocent bystanders. • This group may be conveniently called Life Games.
  • 4. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • NIGYSOB is a two handed game in which the aim is justification. • It must be distinguished from the game “ Ain’t it Awful?” (AIA). • NIGYSOB is commercialized in a three handed professional form as the badger game.
  • 5. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • NIGYSOB is also played as a two handed marital game in more or less subtle forms. • The best antithesis is correct behavior. • The contractual structure of relationship with a NIGYSOB player should be explicitly stated in detail at the first opportunity, and the rules strictly adhered to.
  • 6. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • In clinical practices, the question of payment for missed appointments or cancellations must be settled clearly at once, and extra precautions must be taken to avoid mistakes in book keeping.
  • 7. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • If an unforeseen contretemps arises, the antithesis is to yield gracefully without dispute, until such time as the therapist is prepared to deal with the game.
  • 8. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • In everyday life, business dealings with NIGYSOB players are always calculated risks.
  • 9. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • The wife of such a person should be treated with polite correctness and even the mildest flirtation, gallantries or slights should be avoided, especially if the husband himself seems to encourage them.
  • 10. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Thesis – Now I have got you, you son of the bitch. • Aim – Justification. • Roles – Victim, Aggressor. • Dynamics – Jealous rage.
  • 11. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Examples. – I caught you this time – Jealous husband. • Social paradigm – Adult – Adult. – Adult – See you have done wrong. – Adult – Now that you draw it to my attention, I guess I have.
  • 12. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Psychological paradigm – Parent - Child. – Parent – I have been watching you, hoping you did make a slip. – Child – You caught me this time. – Parent – Yes and I am going to let you feel the full force of my fury.
  • 13. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Moves. – Provocation – Accusation. – Defense – Accusation. – Defense – Punishment.
  • 14. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Internal psychological advantages – Justification for rage. • External psychological advantages – avoids confrontation of own deficiencies.
  • 15. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Internal social advantages – NIGYSOB. • External social advantages – They have always out to get you.
  • 16. Now I Have Got You ,You Son Of A Bitch • Biological advantages – belligerent exchanges, usually ipsisexual. • Existential advantages – People can’t be trusted.