There are 3 Stages you must go through if you want to
attract a woman over text and get her to agree to go out
with you.
Above, I give you examples of what to text a girl
throughout each of these 3 stages of your "text pickup"
I give you examples of cute, clever, and sweet texts to
send a girl... conversations starters... and ways to ask
a girl out over text.
If you're ready to start getting more dates with the women you text... you'll want to scroll up and learn these texting techniques.
Examples of What to Text a Girl in Different Stages of the Text "Pickup"
1. Examples of What to Text a Girl
In Different Stages of the
Text “Pickup”
By: Frankie Cola
championsofmen.com
The 3 Stages of the Text Pickup and Word-for-Word
Texts to Make Women Want You
2. Whenever I see men struggle with texting, I
notice that the “big-picture” problem they have
is not knowing what to do or say in specific KEY
situations when they're texting a girl...
3. Because they feel STUCK in what to text her…
they end up texting her unattractive texts that
don't move things forward... or WORSE, they
send texts that turn the girl OFF.
4. Instead of wandering around the blind alley of
“what to text her”... it's very important to know
the SEQUENCE of texts to send a girl depending
on the situation and the “stage” that you're at.
5. You see, there are different stages that make up
a text "pickup"
Text Pickup: The process of getting a girl to feel
attraction for you over text and PERSUADING
her to take the action of meeting up with you for
a fun date.
6. Knowing these stages and the type of texts to
send heavily influences the response a girl gives
you and whether you're successful or not.
7. If you DON'T know these stages, it becomes
very easy to fall into the TRAP of texting
without a PURPOSE.
8. You see, one of the biggest mistakes I see
guys make is to get into these marathon text
conversations that go nowhere.
The guy thinks that the girl responding is
getting him closer to making her like him.
10. If you get into long, purposeless text
conversations with a woman... without at
least hinting of getting together with her…
or escalating in some way…
Then you will inevitably get to the point
where she starts getting bored and stops
responding to you like she did before.
11. (By the way, if a girl isn't texting you back,
check out my Free Report that reveals the
3 "hook" texts that get her to text back)
12. I will now give you examples of what to text
a girl in different stages of your text "pickup"
13. You don't have to use them word for word,
use them as a GUIDE.
Remember: The most important thing I want
you to "get" is to be aware of the stages of
the text pickup.
14. I will give you texts to use in the following
“Stages”...
● Stage 1: the beginning of the text
conversation
● Stage 2: raising her “buying temperature”
● Stage 3: when closing the deal
15. ● “Let's run away together”
● “Hey [her name]… [your name] here…
Save this number, it's the most important you'll
ever get. :)”
● “Just ate a pancake that must have been crafted
by the hand of ZEUS… delicious… hope you had
a divine morning as well ;)”
● “it's shark week… made me think of you ;]”
● “Is it too soon for casual texting? I mean I just
met you, maybe we should wait!”
First Stage: Texts to Send a Girl at
the Beginning of the Text Interaction...
16. The second stage of texts consist of what's
called raising a girl's “buying temperature”
When you raise a girl's buying temperature, it
means you pump up her state into a state
that is more emotional.
17. AVOID Being Too LOGICAL...
This is precisely why you need to avoid
sending boring logical texts to a girl.
Texts like “what's up?” ”how was your day?”
or any logical “interview-style” questions don't
get her feeling the emotions and the
attraction that set you up to close the deal in
the later stages.
18. Instead, You Want to Trigger a BURST
of EMOTIONS in Her…
When you get a girl more emotional… and you
pump up her buying temperature... you will notice
her reacting more emotional, and more receptive to
you.
20. Her responses become longer, her texts get
more emotional... and she sends you more
"haha"s, "lol"s, and smiley emoticons...
21. But Here's the Best Part…
If you can get a girl more emotional and
pump her state into a higher buying
temperature...
then it gets EASIER to propose a
meetup and get her out.
Which is what you want, isn't it?
22. Hence, when the girl is in that "excited"
state of higher buying temperature... it
is much easier to close the deal and get
her out.
23. So let's go over texts you can send a girl
to raise her buying temperature…
24. As an example, let's assume I sent out
one of the texts I gave you for the first
page:
“let's run away together”
And now the girl responded to it… with
something like “where are we going?”
25. Since stage 2 is to raise her buying
temperature and make her a bit more
emotional… I “bounce” from her
response and escalate the interaction
even further...
Frankie: let's run away together
Girl: Haha ok. Where we going?
Frankie: Switzerland. After
spending long days running a
swiss cheese factory, we'll
spend our nights robbing swiss
banks in skintight catburglar
suits.
26. I have now escalated the interaction even
further and have taken it into more
“emotional” and “fun” territory.
If she follows along, she is giving me
compliance and the texts I'm sending are
working!
Girl: Haha! I've never robbed a
bank… only trains so you'll have to
lead the way.
27. I have now escalated the interaction even
further and have taken it into more
“emotional” and “fun” territory.
If she follows along, she is giving me
compliance and the texts I'm sending are
working!
Girl: Haha! I've never robbed a
bank… only trains so you'll have to
lead the way.
28. Frankie: Awesome! But let's at least get
together beforehand, you know… to
make sure you've get the necessary
training
And here… I already commence the
third stage: Pulling the trigger and
getting her out
29. Third Stage: Texts That Get Her Out
This is the third stage… the call to action…
the close...
Always Be Closing!
30.
31. The close is the most important stage because it
aligns with your purpose of getting her out and
spending time with her.
Because that's what you want, isn't it?
32. There are different ways to send the “close text”
so I'll give you some ideas.
33. Text #1: Know Any?
I need a cute, [quality about her] girl
to go on a fun beach adventure with…
know any? ;)
34. Text #2: Over a Glass of Wine…
Here's a smooth way to “spin” a conversation into
a “stage 3” text:
Girl: blah blah blah (says something about her
day)
You: Sounds like a good conversation to have
over a glass of wine
35. You can probably apply the “over a glass
of wine” trick in the conversation you are
having right now...
36. But let's generalize it even MORE.
“Sounds like a good (discussion/conversation) to
have over (a glass of wine/ a walk at the park/ a
cup of coffee… [insert date idea])”
Sound good?
Ok, onward to Idea #3...
37. Text #3: ___ nights are ___ nights
One of the coolest ways to imply you have an
awesome life is to pair whatever activity you plan
on doing that night with the day and designating it
[day of the week] nights is [date activity] nights
So if you want to take her out for sushi on a
Wednesday,
you can say:
“Wednesday nights are sushi nights… let's go
grab a bite”
Catch my drift?
38. Now I have shown you the 3 different stages of
a “text” pickup: 1. Initial spark of emotions… 2.
raising her buying temperature… and 3.
closing the deal by getting her out.
If a girl isn't even texting you back at all, then
I've got something for you...
39. How to Make a Girl Text
You Back
Here's a PDF “cheat sheet” with word-for-word
examples on how to get a girl to text you back.
It's called:
3 Types of Hook Texts to Get Her to Text Back…
40. 3 Types of Hook Texts That Get Her to
Text Back
It’s a Free PDF report, and you can
click here to get it.
Go ahead and read it… I know you’ll
get something useful from it.
Specifically, the texts on page 4 of
the report have proven to be very
effective in getting a girl to text you
back.