Help, I'm a Parent of a Tech Savvy Teen
Sunday, March 30, 2014, 2:00 PM - 5:00 PM
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Adult Attendance Only
GATHER with us as Scott Burnett, owner of Integrity Computer Concepts, gives a seminar on how quickly a child online can be tossed into an unsafe situation. Scott has spent years giving Cyber Technology and Internet Safety Seminars, and his work with schools, law enforcement and parents gives him a unique perspective. There will be a question and answer session following the seminar.
4. Proverbs 22:6
“Train up a child in the way he
should go, and when he is old
he will not depart from it”
5. What are we going to learn today?
Session 1 “WHAT”
• What kids are doing online
• Where technology is going
• What to look for
Session 2 “HOW”
• Practical filters
• Monitoring applications
• Commonsence rules to put into place at home
Q & A
6. Current Statistics
• Teens spend about 5 hours a day online
• 15% have met up in person somebody they met online
• 17% have hacked into a friends social media account or email
• 25% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone
• 32% have accessed pornography online (purposely)
• Only 50% of kids have parental controls on their computers
• 70% of teens hide their online behavior from parents
• Parents MUST stay in the know. We can not give up!
14. Social Networking
Vine
• 6 seconds of looping video
• Owned by Twitter
• Easy to post & find porn on Vine
15. Social Networking
Social Media Clean up!
•Talk to your child
•Google their name
•Review all their profiles
•Help them remove unused profiles
•Don’t forget the blogs…
16. Pornography
• 1 in 9 websites online are pornographic
• Put a filter program on ANY computer that
your child will use.
17. Pornography
• Family Computer
• Laptop
• Cell phone
• iPad / Tablet
• Game console
• Friends house
• Put a filter program on ANY device that your
child will use, especially when they are
young.
18. Pornography
• The average child accidentally stumbles
onto pornographic website by age 12
• The time for the “new” pornography talk is
BEFORE this happens, not after..
22. Yik Yak
• 4 months old (March 2014)
• Mostly east coast & Southern CA
• 400,000 users
• Cross / Twitter and SnapChat
• Designed for college students
• Completely anonymous
• Share with 100 up to 10,000
• a VIRTUAL bathroom wall
26. Online Predators
Catfishing
someone who pretends to be someone they're not using Facebook or
other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue
deceptive online romances.
Sextortion
When a person uses guilt, power, or knowledge of certain secrecy, to
force another person into having sex or performing sexual favors.
31. Cyber Bullying
1) Ask the tough uncomfortable questions!
Ask “What if…” questions.
2) Keep the laptop and cell phone out of the
bedroom for as long as possible.
3) Look for the signs of bullying.
Depression, excessive sleeping, complains
of headaches / stomach aches.
4) Remove apps that are commonly used for
bullying.
5) Look at your kids texts. Monitor their apps.
37. We are the first
generation of
parents that
have had to deal
with the new
phenomenon!
Colleges and
employers are
looking!
38.
39. “Follow all of your favorite stores and
people in one place to get a feed of
products customized just for you!”
• Think Instagram and Pinterest meets EBay
• Particularly popular among young women
• Mostly used on mobile phones
• Encourages a very materialistic mentality
I want, I want, I want!!!!
40. Now there is great gain in godliness with
contentment, for we brought nothing into the
world, and we cannot take anything out of the world.
But if we have food and clothing, with these we will
be content.
1 Timothy 6:6-8
41. Session 2
How do I keep my kids
safe from the ever
changing world of
technology!?!
64. CellPhoneparentalControl
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
• Set internet usage rules
• Disable ALL internet on phone
• See list of currently installed apps
• See internet usage per app
• Weekly reports, emailed
• http://curbi.com/c/iccguru
70. Scott’s Final Tips
1)Educate yourselves on social media
whenever possible
2)Know the log-ins of all your children's
accounts
3) Remove technology at bedtime
4)Talk about consequences of social media
5)Consider some monitoring software
71. Connect with your KIDS
• Facebook / Instagram
• Texting
• Face-Time / Skype
• iPad games
• Game consoles WITH your kids