Sohail A. Mateen

o Gratitude
o Context of the theme
o Not an expert opinion

Life is 30% as to how you make it;
And 70% as to how you take it.

 Enhanced self awareness and improved self
confidence
control – Less victimized, frustrated,
 In
depressed, etc. etc.
 Inspired living
 Sense of being connected with the nature

 Learn with the eyes for the heart.
 Share with others.
 Liveit - make it a part of your day to day
activities

Controlling, guiding, motivating, directing, co
nducting, chairing, managing, influencing,
etc, etc, etc.

Doing right things

Organizing, controlling, act of handling the
affairs, or the use of something such as
resources, etc, etc, etc.

Doing the things right

Leadership - Management

The more quickly you can get every single
person in the company demonstrating
leadership behavior – regardless of their
position – the more quickly you will lead
the field.

FORMAL AUTHORITY MORAL AUTHORITY
Formal authority can be Moral authority is having the
thought of as the right to personal credibility with
command or compel your target group that
another person to perform makes your words
a certain act. persuasive to them.

Lead by Inspiration

Who we are

HUMAN
BEING
BODY /
FORM SPIRIT

BODY /
FORM SPIRIT
STRIVING ARRIVING

BODY / SPIRIT
FORM
STRIVING ARRIVING
EGO UNITY

Ego is that state of awareness which thinks
of you as separate from the others.

I
my, me

I am right, he is wrong.
I made a mistake.
I am afraid that I will fail.

Ego always intent on conflict instead of
harmony.
SEPARATENESS

BODY / SPIRIT
FORM
STRIVING ARRIVING
Doing
Doing Doing
Doing
the right
things
things the right
things
right
right things

BODY / SPIRIT
FORM
STRIVING ARRIVING
Doing Doing
things the right
things INSPIRING
right
IN FORM IN SPIRIT

I am In-charge, he is executor.
I am boss, you are subordinate.
I am senior, he is junior.
I am responsible for the project.

He is not performing well.
He is not doing his work.
He is not well prepared.
He is not committed.
He is not fit for the job.
He made the entire situation a mess.
He jeopardized the entire team.

Tension, Frustration, Conflicts, Depression,
Disputes, Resentment, Dissatisfaction,
Unpleasant conditions, etc. etc. etc.

We are not performing well.
We are not committed.
We are not well prepared.
We are not working well.
We have won.
We are responsible for the project.
We are responsible for the results.
We are successful.

In spirit
Inspiring
Egoless

We are not human beings
on spiritual journey,
we are spiritual beings
on human journey

He who has never learnt to obey, can not be
a commander.
Aristotle

We see the world
not as it is but as we are.
Paradigms

When we are not independent;
we are dependent on others.
We are controlled / managed
by others not by ourselves.

Is someone else’s opinion of me is more
important than my opinion of me?

We have control on our thoughts, but we
have no control on the thoughts of
others, and should not try to.

Love and respect yourself first and the love
and respect of others will follow.

When you are on purpose
you are independent
of the good opinion of the others.

I do care and respect
the opinion of a good number of people,
it is just the case that
I do not run my life
to seek their approval.

The people who receive the most approval
in life are the ones who care the least
about it.

If we remain dependent on external factors
to feel approved of, then we will always be
emotionally vulnerable.
Our self-esteem would be in the hands of
things that we have very little control over.
This kind of situation fosters a needy,
helpless, dependent mindset.

To feel truly good about ourselves as a
person, we must eliminate internal conflict.

If we are not living in harmony with what we
believe to be right and just, we will not be
at peace with ourselves.
No matter how hard our conscious mind
tries to justify things, on a deep emotional
level there will be conflict.

Be willing

Detachment is not indifference. It is about
acting with a commitment to the future
while focusing on the present.

Let Go Let God

Empower the outside

Attach with the higher value

I am detached

When you are inspired by some great
purpose, some extraordinary project,
all your thoughts break their bonds;

Your mind transcends limitations,
your consciousness expands in every
direction, and you find yourself in a
new, great and wonderful world.

Dormant forces, faculties and talents
become alive, and you discover yourself to
be a great person by are than you ever
dreamed yourself to be.

Inspire
Others

The practice of being or
the capability to be sympathetic and
compassionate.

To be kind to understand what we have in
common and that we are the seeds of
same loving universe.

If you have to choose between being right or
being kind, always choose kind.

"Do you know what is better than charity and
fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace
and good relations between people, as
quarrels and bad feelings destroy
mankind."
(Muslims & Bukhari)

Act of Kindness.

The state of being grateful;
warm and friendly feeling toward a
benefactor.

Gratitude is more than a feeling of
thankfulness in response to receiving a
tangible gift or a gesture of kindness.

It is a conscious choice to focus on life’s
blessings rather than on its shortcomings.

Every event in life, both good and bad,
becomes an opportunity to learn, to
grown and to expand our capacity to love.

Balancing Act
to reduce depression, tension, fear

Live in the life full of gratitude

The habit of giving freely without expecting
anything in return.

Partake of a big consciousness that admits
prosperity, abundance and wealth to all.

Generosity comes from internal discipline
and not by any external force.

Sometimes it may be easier to suffer with a
friend, to help someone who is less
fortunate, than to share their happiness.

Generosity of spirit

Most people do not listen with the intent to
understand, they listen with the intent to
reply. They’re either speaking or preparing
to speak. They’re filtering everything
through their own paradigms, reading with
autobiography into other people’s lives.
Evaluation, Probing, Advising, Interpreting.

Fully, deeply, understand the person,
emotionally as well as intellectually.
Listen with the eyes for feeling.
10% of our communication is represented by
the words we say. Another 30% is
represented by our sounds, and 60% by our
body language.

Shut down internal dialogues.
Reduce turmoil in the life.

Forget the past and work to create the
happy future.
Identify your strengths.
Overcome your weaknesses.
Discipline yourself.

Live a life of passion

Talk from your heart authentically and be
enthusiastic.
Passionate, truthful communication is
always inspiring.

Be Truthful

Forgiveness is letting go of the need for
revenge and releasing negative thoughts
of bitterness and resentment

Forgiveness is the act of unchaining yourself
from thoughts and feelings that bid you to
an offense, imagined or real, committed
against you.

Forgiveness is unchaining from the past as
there is no future in the past.

When we forgive, we release the control and
power of the offending person and stop
playing the victim.

Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness
forces you to grow beyond what you were.
Cherie Carter-Scott

Life either expands or contracts in direct
proportion to your courage to forgive.

Forgiveness is not a gift we give to others.
Forgiveness is a gift we give to ourselves.

Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves.

THANKYOU VERY MUCH
FOR LISTENING AND BEING HERE.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL